FabSwingers.com forum: Dating

By *ereagainlol OP Man
over a year ago

Lerwick

Does anyone on this site use it to try and find a swinger to have a relationship with, because they can't find another site that gives them the chance to find people of this life style?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I like it for finding fellow ENM people

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Some people do, stating it on their profiles that that's what they're after. For us, and plenty of others, it just kinda happened

LvM

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I'm here for the traditional, old fashioned 'of a bygone era' dating and courtship. There is much chivalric romance to be found on Fab's mediaeval round table.

It serves me well.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I'm here for the traditional, old fashioned 'of a bygone era' dating and courtship. There is much chivalric romance to be found on Fab's mediaeval round table.

It serves me well."

Is the Fab round table like a bigger lazy Susan with a fair maiden tied to it, while a bunch of noble knights have their chivalric way with her? Asking for a friend

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not intentionally but it has worked out that way for me in the past

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"I'm here for the traditional, old fashioned 'of a bygone era' dating and courtship. There is much chivalric romance to be found on Fab's mediaeval round table.

It serves me well.

Is the Fab round table like a bigger lazy Susan with a fair maiden tied to it, while a bunch of noble knights have their chivalric way with her? Asking for a friend

LvM"

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I have a mental picture of this germinating in my head. I like it!

Now I know why you both are my ³rd most favourite couple.

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By *ereagainlol OP Man
over a year ago

Lerwick

All I'm trying to say, is that there must be men and women on here that would like to meet someone that enjoys this kind of life style. It's not something they can put down on Match.com or any other dating site. Why can't the site add a section for people that want to date and not just want to meet up for a night of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All I'm trying to say, is that there must be men and women on here that would like to meet someone that enjoys this kind of life style. It's not something they can put down on Match.com or any other dating site. Why can't the site add a section for people that want to date and not just want to meet up for a night of fun."

People state it on here. But also use ‘code words’ on other dating apps. Kink friendly, ENM, non vanilla.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm here for the traditional, old fashioned 'of a bygone era' dating and courtship. There is much chivalric romance to be found on Fab's mediaeval round table.

It serves me well.

Is the Fab round table like a bigger lazy Susan with a fair maiden tied to it, while a bunch of noble knights have their chivalric way with her? Asking for a friend

LvM"

I love this image

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By *dinson1983Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

Came close a couple of times but that was accidentally and things got weird so left that well alone

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I was not looking for a relationship at all and somehow ended up in one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but I found my a boo thing recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make no secret I'm looking for a lady, I'm on other dating sites as well..I use fab as well as others as its another potential avenue

If I interest ladies you know what to do

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Nope we were totally not looking to date and fall in love on here. However it happened anyway and here we still are.

In hindsight its actually a good place if you want to stay sexually non-monogamous or in the lifestyle when in a relationship. Chances are the people you meet on here are likewise open to the idea going forward into a relationship.

When you're looking to date someone who you know swings you can both put the sex worries on the back burner. Simply because later on you both already know that elephant in the room doesn't exist. So you can both happily work on getting to know each other, building rapport and chemistry without fear of being rejected down the line for being a swinger or wanting to share that with their partner. After all don't we all want to be truly accepted for who we are by our partners and ideally want our partners to share that with us?

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

There are quite often dating threads in here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Difficult one that. I met someone on here who was only looking for FWB but as I got to know her I knew that for me I could only envision a relationship because of the spark between us. She acknowledged this but could only have FWB in her life due to other commitments. I called the entire thing off because in my mind I saw myself getting hurt.

Take the forum for what it is but if you find someone you have a great commitment with then go for it.

In a way this site is a dating site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've decided to become a nun and not anymore men.

Because they want to date and I don't

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"I've decided to become a nun and not anymore men.

Because they want to date and I don't "

She's a playaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should think its slim pickings given your location, whatever site you use? How do you find it up there.

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Chorley, Eng

"Does anyone on this site use it to try and find a swinger to have a relationship with, because they can't find another site that gives them the chance to find people of this life style?"

I came to fab for sex. I got...

A fuck tonne of dick pics.

But then I found...

The filters and the forum.

This helped me find a community, friends, some great sex, and currently the beginnings of some real feels.

I am still not on here specifically looking for for a relationship but if another great ENM relationship came along then score.

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By *appyhippoWoman
over a year ago

coventry

"Does anyone on this site use it to try and find a swinger to have a relationship with, because they can't find another site that gives them the chance to find people of this life style?"

Lots of people probably do use this site to try and find that elusive swinging/open relationship they are looking for. But I think you will find that you can find it’s on other platforms as well.

I think sometimes it’s just in vanilla world dating people sometimes find it difficult to speak about this world and what they want and then in this world people can also find it difficult to talk about what they want as to the aspects of a relationship and not just the sex!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Plenty to OP. Some have found it. Some are looking for it. Not me though. I’m here for friendships only. Not a relationship at all.

The only ring I want in the future is going to be attached to a collar

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral

Struggling like hell . I do ok on vanilla sites but i want a non vanilla gf, ideally one who would like to play stag / vixen / hotwife. Am happy to travel for the right person

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