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Let's admit most people look at the photos and don't read the bio. I keep changing that anyway. Feel free to give advise on that too. Thanks and behave! | |||
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"Defo Ego Boost "Not at all. If I get laid, because someone gave me good advice, then that will be an ego boost. | |||
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"That current top one with the smoothness of the filter over that area and the I think charger cable hanging off the bed made my brain jump straight to giant tampon before it processed what it was seeing. I'm not sure that is quite the right vibe for most people." Maybe blur the background? Thanks! | |||
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"Defo Ego Boost
Not at all. If I get laid, because someone gave me good advice, then that will be an ego boost."I'm only messing....just in the forum's for shits and gigs  | |||
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"That current top one with the smoothness of the filter over that area and the I think charger cable hanging off the bed made my brain jump straight to giant tampon before it processed what it was seeing. I'm not sure that is quite the right vibe for most people." | |||
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"The blurs and black lines kind of looks like something you'd see in the newspaper, police most wanted section. " I used to crop my head off, and that wasn't good enough either. At some point I showed my face, still not. Didn't cover my penis,still not. If you can't see my eyes, then you won't recognise me, but still see most of my face. Different color of covers on eyes? | |||
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"I don’t like the one with the tongue out. I don’t like tongues out and those biting lips ones. I think they look daft. " I pretend I play the guitar with my tongue. It's meant to be cool. Biting lips? I actually never do that. | |||
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"I don’t like the one with the tongue out. I don’t like tongues out and those biting lips ones. I think they look daft. I pretend I play the guitar with my tongue. It's meant to be cool. Biting lips? I actually never do that." Oh I didn’t see the guitar bit. I just quickly skimmed through. Sorry  | |||
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"I would not rate them to be honest "I didn't ask, if I'm your type. Nothing I can do with my basic features and my face. | |||
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"I would not rate them to be honest
I didn't ask, if I'm your type. Nothing I can do with my basic features and my face."I think it's more that the style is not particularly aesthetically pleasing. Take a look at some of the more successful men on here and see how they do photos. | |||
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"I'm in two minds about it. I don't think some bland, low level mass appeal of photos is the way forward - a homogenised profile advice thread kind of means... you end up losing your personality. Your youness. OP, take a critical look at your photos. Would you meet you if you were a woman? Take a look at the profiles of "successful" men, borrow ideas for photos if wanted but make them your own. Think about what you're wanting to say. And check your backgrounds. " I won't do massive changes, but as some mentioned there are things I didn't even noticed. Can't think like a woman. Most successful male profiles have something in appearance I don't have. So I need to work the best out of what I have. | |||
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"I'll be honest as that's what you've asked for. The tongue out, messy background image puts me off. The blanked out cock picture would be 10 times better with a nice pair of boxers on and all the work photos scream playing away so no images from home. I don't understand your bio about being Bi-friendly as you say you are straight so it wouldn't matter anyway. Sorry OP." I was always told my legs are good. Can't see much in boxers. Also, I'm not hairy everywhere. | |||
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"Most successful male profiles have something in appearance I don't have. So I need to work the best out of what I have. " Angles, lighting, torsos (or whatever your favourite non genital feature is) and a black and white filter are fairly achievable and commonly utilised to make a good photo. | |||
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"It's a shame that you didn't want to ask the 'males' for any input. "You can, but only males fabbed my photos. Males and females don't like the same things. I mean you can, but it might not help me to attract more women. | |||
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"Reading this thread intently. Some good advise here I am willing to take up myself." That was my point. I'm not the only 1 here with not much success, and photos fabbed by guys only. I want to know what women want on a photo. I mean within reason... | |||
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"I would not rate them to be honest
I didn't ask, if I'm your type. Nothing I can do with my basic features and my face.
I think it's more that the style is not particularly aesthetically pleasing.
Take a look at some of the more successful men on here and see how they do photos."I agree | |||
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" Males and females don't like the same things" Not true I’m all cases. What about gay guys? Tvs? Etc | |||
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"I would not rate them to be honest
I didn't ask, if I'm your type. Nothing I can do with my basic features and my face.
I think it's more that the style is not particularly aesthetically pleasing.
Take a look at some of the more successful men on here and see how they do photos.
I agree "I answered that. Most successful men here have something in appearance I don't have. I need to work with what I have within reason. | |||
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"I would not rate them to be honest
I didn't ask, if I'm your type. Nothing I can do with my basic features and my face.
I think it's more that the style is not particularly aesthetically pleasing.
Take a look at some of the more successful men on here and see how they do photos.
I agree
I answered that. Most successful men here have something in appearance I don't have. I need to work with what I have within reason."And then ignored the things they actually do because you don't have their body. | |||
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" Males and females don't like the same things Not true I’m all cases. What about gay guys? Tvs? Etc " Not many women into really masculine/mannish guys, unless there's something else in appearance. Trans people probably the closest thinking like a woman. Most gay/bi/tv likes masculine/mannish guys. I chat with everybody with every background. So that's why I know that. Not getting any female attention, so I want to work on that. | |||
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"I would not rate them to be honest
I didn't ask, if I'm your type. Nothing I can do with my basic features and my face.
I think it's more that the style is not particularly aesthetically pleasing.
Take a look at some of the more successful men on here and see how they do photos.
I agree
I answered that. Most successful men here have something in appearance I don't have. I need to work with what I have within reason.
And then ignored the things they actually do because you don't have their body. "I'm not saying that's all they have. I can be the nicest guy and the best in bed ever. Well, here you need to message to get a meet and know more. It's hard when I'm invisible for most women here. I don't want pity, I want to make the best out of my photos to attract some women. | |||
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"Dunno lad made me hard" That's what I want to change. I wan to make women wet. | |||
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"It's a shame that you didn't want to ask the 'males' for any input.
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You can, but only males fabbed my photos.
Males and females don't like the same things. I mean you can, but it might not help me to attract more women."• Fair enough. In that case I wish you all the best, OP.  | |||
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"It's a shame that you didn't want to ask the 'males' for any input.
You can, but only males fabbed my photos.
Males and females don't like the same things. I mean you can, but it might not help me to attract more women."No but they know which of their photos receive the most Fabs. And many things are easy to spot regardless of gender. | |||
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"I think just tidying up would give a better effect than cutting out the background entirely. And still, angles, focus, balance, filters." It's not untidy. I have a small flat, so can't put everything under the bed or the wardrobe. | |||
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"It's a shame that you didn't want to ask the 'males' for any input.
You can, but only males fabbed my photos.
Males and females don't like the same things. I mean you can, but it might not help me to attract more women.
No but they know which of their photos receive the most Fabs. And many things are easy to spot regardless of gender. "I've never ever got a fab from a woman, so how should I know. Only guys fabbing my photos, so I know what they like. so kind of obvious women don't like the same. I'm not new, just new profile. Old profile was doing more harm than good not without verifications for so long. | |||
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"I love that you took a penis pic then blurred it out So you took a groin pic. Very alluring " I'm showing my legs. All my exes liked that, so I assume that's one of my good features. | |||
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. Perhaps get someone else to take some.
I prefer to see physique shots, so I can determine if a man is my kind of man and the attraction level.
The more others can appreciate how you look overall, the better, so it's not left to guesswork. If in doubt, people move on to the next profile | |||
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"Smiling photos really help. If you're relaxing, it's best too, it brings out the connection between people better . Perhaps get someone else to take some.
I prefer to see physique shots, so I can determine if a man is my kind of man and the attraction level.
The more others can appreciate how you look overall, the better, so it's not left to guesswork. If in doubt, people move on to the next profile "My face is like that. It's my poker/normal face. Not grumpy at all. I look stupid with an unnatural smile. You can see all my physics on my pics except dick pics. Apparently they shouldn't be public pictures. Honestly women look at my profile only when I spend time on forums. So how could you say of my current profile photo, that I'm smiling or not without checking out my profile? | |||
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I mean the above in a pleasant friendly interaction way. I realise it sounds grumpy, sorry. | |||
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"Women tend to not Fab pics because men tend to assume a Fab automatically means a fuck. I can't see what the profile pic is on my phone. So it will be unrecognisable and not memorable in my inbox. Less easy to find in a sea of shite. Why the pic in your undies with fists clenched like someone is taking your pic against your will? I haven't read the text sorry. Busy eating.
I mean the above in a pleasant friendly interaction way. I realise it sounds grumpy, sorry. "I'll zoom the profile pic. Not sure about the sea of shite. Rest of my pics? I was flexing chest and lats on boxer photo. My hands are either in fist or straight army style. The next one was a fat joke I guess. Apparently I don't even qualify as chubby. I was told I'm average built. I had the belly with 17% body fat too. I've never had more than 4 pack, and I used to do extreme workouts with no steroids ever. Lower body is still okay I guess from the biking. | |||
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"Women tend to not Fab pics because men tend to assume a Fab automatically means a fuck. I can't see what the profile pic is on my phone. So it will be unrecognisable and not memorable in my inbox. Less easy to find in a sea of shite. Why the pic in your undies with fists clenched like someone is taking your pic against your will? I haven't read the text sorry. Busy eating.
I mean the above in a pleasant friendly interaction way. I realise it sounds grumpy, sorry.
I'll zoom the profile pic.
Not sure about the sea of shite. Rest of my pics?
I was flexing chest and lats on boxer photo. My hands are either in fist or straight army style. The next one was a fat joke I guess. Apparently I don't even qualify as chubby. I was told I'm average built. I had the belly with 17% body fat too. I've never had more than 4 pack, and I used to do extreme workouts with no steroids ever. Lower body is still okay I guess from the biking.
"Noooo sorry... sea of shite means all the shitty emails from crappy people. If I think you are awesome but your profile pic is bland I can't find your message in my sea of shite inbox.
Your body looks fine to me. | |||
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"Why’s it not realistic to wax your whole body? I’ll help "You do know it would grow faster? Now it's more or less like this since my 20's. I spend a lot of time with clipping my hair(head), shaving face and genital area ,taking eyebrows, cutting nose/ear hair. | |||
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"Women tend to not Fab pics because men tend to assume a Fab automatically means a fuck. I can't see what the profile pic is on my phone. So it will be unrecognisable and not memorable in my inbox. Less easy to find in a sea of shite. Why the pic in your undies with fists clenched like someone is taking your pic against your will? I haven't read the text sorry. Busy eating.
I mean the above in a pleasant friendly interaction way. I realise it sounds grumpy, sorry.
I'll zoom the profile pic.
Not sure about the sea of shite. Rest of my pics?
I was flexing chest and lats on boxer photo. My hands are either in fist or straight army style. The next one was a fat joke I guess. Apparently I don't even qualify as chubby. I was told I'm average built. I had the belly with 17% body fat too. I've never had more than 4 pack, and I used to do extreme workouts with no steroids ever. Lower body is still okay I guess from the biking.
Noooo sorry... sea of shite means all the shitty emails from crappy people. If I think you are awesome but your profile pic is bland I can't find your message in my sea of shite inbox.
Your body looks fine to me. "I see. I'll try to zoom in hopefully won't ruin the quality. Don't have much chance to take photos at work. Quite sure I'm not allowed to, but bosses on Fab won't tell me off. | |||
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You can't please all, no one can,
If the pictures show you in a light that pleases you thats about it, trying to please everyone is a fruitless folly. | |||
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"They're all a bit "firing squad". Relax" Some was handy, but some just simply don't like my face/body. I can't change my look, but can try to make the best out of it. I think Going from 0 to 5% chance is realistic with any look. | |||
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"Ask a 100 women and you'll get a 1000 different answers.
You can't please all, no one can,
If the pictures show you in a light that pleases you thats about it, trying to please everyone is a fruitless folly."I can filter the good criticism and the ones for whatever other reasons. | |||
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in this technological age, most pics have some sort of filter on so a lot of people may assume you do too. If you're looking for quick hook ups I wouldn't give too much thought into what pics you have, but if you're looking for more of a connection with someone then just be yourself in a message and see where it goes... good luck OP | |||
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"Personally, I'm not that arsed about pics, I just want to see if you have a nice face in this technological age, most pics have some sort of filter on so a lot of people may assume you do too. If you're looking for quick hook ups I wouldn't give too much thought into what pics you have, but if you're looking for more of a connection with someone then just be yourself in a message and see where it goes... good luck OP "I had my face pics on for a while. Wasn't any better, and I work in a really public place. Lot's of families too, and some mum and dad looks at me sometimes like they know it. Anyway, you don't want to show too much for customers. At this stage I'd take ONS or FWB with minimal attraction. Not really my choice to be honest. | |||
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"Ask a 100 women and you'll get a 1000 different answers.
You can't please all, no one can,
If the pictures show you in a light that pleases you thats about it, trying to please everyone is a fruitless folly.
I can filter the good criticism and the ones for whatever other reasons. "Changing to something that pleases another might put off the very person you're trying to attract.. Only you can decide everything else is just 1's and 0's on a screen Have fun | |||
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"Personally, I'm not that arsed about pics, I just want to see if you have a nice face in this technological age, most pics have some sort of filter on so a lot of people may assume you do too. If you're looking for quick hook ups I wouldn't give too much thought into what pics you have, but if you're looking for more of a connection with someone then just be yourself in a message and see where it goes... good luck OP
I had my face pics on for a while. Wasn't any better, and I work in a really public place. Lot's of families too, and some mum and dad looks at me sometimes like they know it. Anyway, you don't want to show too much for customers. At this stage I'd take ONS or FWB with minimal attraction. Not really my choice to be honest. "Private face pics lol.... I have zero pics on my profile, I send what I want once I've made a connection with someone | |||
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"I think 4 October looks like your penis is in an oven glove" It sure does. Is it funny or lame for you? | |||
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"Personally, I'm not that arsed about pics, I just want to see if you have a nice face in this technological age, most pics have some sort of filter on so a lot of people may assume you do too. If you're looking for quick hook ups I wouldn't give too much thought into what pics you have, but if you're looking for more of a connection with someone then just be yourself in a message and see where it goes... good luck OP
I had my face pics on for a while. Wasn't any better, and I work in a really public place. Lot's of families too, and some mum and dad looks at me sometimes like they know it. Anyway, you don't want to show too much for customers. At this stage I'd take ONS or FWB with minimal attraction. Not really my choice to be honest.
Private face pics lol.... I have zero pics on my profile, I send what I want once I've made a connection with someone "I have them private, but at that time I tried everything dick pics and face pics. Guess what? I actually got messages from couples when I had dick pics, but also 5 times more guys attention. | |||
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"Ask a 100 women and you'll get a 1000 different answers.
You can't please all, no one can,
If the pictures show you in a light that pleases you thats about it, trying to please everyone is a fruitless folly.
I can filter the good criticism and the ones for whatever other reasons.
Changing to something that pleases another might put off the very person you're trying to attract..
Only you can decide everything else is just 1's and 0's on a screen
Have fun "I asked them, so might as well change some things. If it still doesn't work, then I might just go to sit in coffee shops or wherever public. Less depressing disappointment, than not able to get laid on a hook up site. In 16 years I've never had a British gf/fwb and 90% of people I mixing with daily are British. | |||
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"Reading this thread intently. Some good advise here I am willing to take up myself. That was my point. I'm not the only 1 here with not much success, and photos fabbed by guys only. I want to know what women want on a photo. I mean within reason..." The thing with asking for advice is you get a lot of different advice. I would say post pictures YOU are happy with. You will never please everyone. Whatever you decide to do, I wish you success | |||
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"Reading this thread intently. Some good advise here I am willing to take up myself. That was my point. I'm not the only 1 here with not much success, and photos fabbed by guys only. I want to know what women want on a photo. I mean within reason... The thing with asking for advice is you get a lot of different advice. I would say post pictures YOU are happy with. You will never please everyone. Whatever you decide to do, I wish you success "I'd be happy to please one local after years of nothing. | |||
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"It’s horses for courses OP. What one person likes someone else might not. Make your profile you. What you like "What I've done until now it didn't work. So I guess I need some changes. Not going to extreme lengths though. | |||
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"It’s horses for courses OP. What one person likes someone else might not. Make your profile you. What you like
What I've done until now it didn't work. So I guess I need some changes. Not going to extreme lengths though. "There’s some good advice above then. My only advice is to be friendly with no expectations. Swinging is about making friends first and foremost  | |||
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"It’s horses for courses OP. What one person likes someone else might not. Make your profile you. What you like
What I've done until now it didn't work. So I guess I need some changes. Not going to extreme lengths though.
There’s some good advice above then. My only advice is to be friendly with no expectations. Swinging is about making friends first and foremost "That's what I try to do on forums. Well, also I'm bored . Unfortunately most people from forums are far away from me, so won't lead anywhere. Some I actually find interesting and wouldn't mind to chat in private too. Sending nice message, which is completely ignored after opened. Errrm... | |||
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"Welcome to fab. " Thanks, but I'm here longer than you probably. | |||
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"Welcome to fab. Thanks, but I'm here longer than you probably. "Been here over 10 years on and off | |||
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"Welcome to fab. Thanks, but I'm here longer than you probably.
Been here over 10 years on and off "That's impressive | |||
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"It’s horses for courses OP. What one person likes someone else might not. Make your profile you. What you like
What I've done until now it didn't work. So I guess I need some changes. Not going to extreme lengths though.
There’s some good advice above then. My only advice is to be friendly with no expectations. Swinging is about making friends first and foremost "Hi friend | |||
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"Reading this thread intently. Some good advise here I am willing to take up myself. That was my point. I'm not the only 1 here with not much success, and photos fabbed by guys only. I want to know what women want on a photo. I mean within reason... The thing with asking for advice is you get a lot of different advice. I would say post pictures YOU are happy with. You will never please everyone. Whatever you decide to do, I wish you success
I'd be happy to please one local after years of nothing. "This might hurt the oven glove's feelings. | |||
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"Why’s it not realistic to wax your whole body? I’ll help
You do know it would grow faster? Now it's more or less like this since my 20's. I spend a lot of time with clipping my hair(head), shaving face and genital area ,taking eyebrows, cutting nose/ear hair.
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"I'm not looking for an ego boost! I want honest opinion of women about my photos. Which should be profile pic,what's missing...etc. I have only fabs from men, so that's the reason I ask women. Suggest realistic changes, not like wax my whole body. I want to increase my chances from 0% to at least 5%.
Let's admit most people look at the photos and don't read the bio. I keep changing that anyway. Feel free to give advise on that too. Thanks and behave! "Pics with your dick next to a lynx can are a must, Africa preferable Out holding fish you've caught wearing shades....definitely raise it to the 5% chances...thank ke later... | |||
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"I'm not looking for an ego boost! I want honest opinion of women about my photos. Which should be profile pic,what's missing...etc. I have only fabs from men, so that's the reason I ask women. Suggest realistic changes, not like wax my whole body. I want to increase my chances from 0% to at least 5%.
Let's admit most people look at the photos and don't read the bio. I keep changing that anyway. Feel free to give advise on that too. Thanks and behave!
Pics with your dick next to a lynx can are a must, Africa preferable
Out holding fish you've caught wearing shades....definitely raise it to the 5% chances...thank ke later..."Females only! Men drool! | |||
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"I'm not looking for an ego boost! I want honest opinion of women about my photos. Which should be profile pic,what's missing...etc. I have only fabs from men, so that's the reason I ask women. Suggest realistic changes, not like wax my whole body. I want to increase my chances from 0% to at least 5%.
Let's admit most people look at the photos and don't read the bio. I keep changing that anyway. Feel free to give advise on that too. Thanks and behave! "Im from Norwich! Haven't been there in a while, hows it holding up?! | |||
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"I'm not looking for an ego boost! I want honest opinion of women about my photos. Which should be profile pic,what's missing...etc. I have only fabs from men, so that's the reason I ask women. Suggest realistic changes, not like wax my whole body. I want to increase my chances from 0% to at least 5%.
Let's admit most people look at the photos and don't read the bio. I keep changing that anyway. Feel free to give advise on that too. Thanks and behave!
Pics with your dick next to a lynx can are a must, Africa preferable
Out holding fish you've caught wearing shades....definitely raise it to the 5% chances...thank ke later..."But I don't like fishing. Can I hold a Big Mouth Billy Bass instead? | |||
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"I'm not looking for an ego boost! I want honest opinion of women about my photos. Which should be profile pic,what's missing...etc. I have only fabs from men, so that's the reason I ask women. Suggest realistic changes, not like wax my whole body. I want to increase my chances from 0% to at least 5%.
Let's admit most people look at the photos and don't read the bio. I keep changing that anyway. Feel free to give advise on that too. Thanks and behave!
Pics with your dick next to a lynx can are a must, Africa preferable
Out holding fish you've caught wearing shades....definitely raise it to the 5% chances...thank ke later...
Females only! Men drool!"I just like to be a part of..... | |||
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"No offence OP you have only been here 2 weeks....its not #instashag "Too funny | |||
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"I'm not looking for an ego boost! I want honest opinion of women about my photos. Which should be profile pic,what's missing...etc. I have only fabs from men, so that's the reason I ask women. Suggest realistic changes, not like wax my whole body. I want to increase my chances from 0% to at least 5%.
Let's admit most people look at the photos and don't read the bio. I keep changing that anyway. Feel free to give advise on that too. Thanks and behave!
Pics with your dick next to a lynx can are a must, Africa preferable
Out holding fish you've caught wearing shades....definitely raise it to the 5% chances...thank ke later..."I have 1 with Lynx Tobacco & Amber, just to compare girth. Deleted the one with shades and I'm fishing here only. | |||
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"I'm not looking for an ego boost! I want honest opinion of women about my photos. Which should be profile pic,what's missing...etc. I have only fabs from men, so that's the reason I ask women. Suggest realistic changes, not like wax my whole body. I want to increase my chances from 0% to at least 5%.
Let's admit most people look at the photos and don't read the bio. I keep changing that anyway. Feel free to give advise on that too. Thanks and behave!
Im from Norwich! Haven't been there in a while, hows it holding up?!"I'm just biking to UEA and back mostly, so not sure. What kind of accent do you have now? | |||
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"No offence OP you have only been here 2 weeks....its not #instashag "Actually longer than that. Deleted old profile. | |||
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"Slippery slope here OP gonna end up trying to please everyone when the only person you need to please is yourself. If you are happy and comfy in your own skin and your own personality it will attract other people. If you try and change to please everyone you'll please no one and end up wanking into a sock for eternity" ^he knows | |||
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"Slippery slope here OP gonna end up trying to please everyone when the only person you need to please is yourself. If you are happy and comfy in your own skin and your own personality it will attract other people. If you try and change to please everyone you'll please no one and end up wanking into a sock for eternity ^he knows "You should see my sock draw | |||
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"Slippery slope here OP gonna end up trying to please everyone when the only person you need to please is yourself. If you are happy and comfy in your own skin and your own personality it will attract other people. If you try and change to please everyone you'll please no one and end up wanking into a sock for eternity ^he knows
You should see my sock draw"Do they walk on their own? | |||
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"Slippery slope here OP gonna end up trying to please everyone when the only person you need to please is yourself. If you are happy and comfy in your own skin and your own personality it will attract other people. If you try and change to please everyone you'll please no one and end up wanking into a sock for eternity" Actually I've never wanked in a sock. 
It seems like an eternity already. 2 physiotherapy with my left shoulder in the last 4 years. | |||
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"Slippery slope here OP gonna end up trying to please everyone when the only person you need to please is yourself. If you are happy and comfy in your own skin and your own personality it will attract other people. If you try and change to please everyone you'll please no one and end up wanking into a sock for eternity ^he knows
You should see my sock draw
Do they walk on their own?"They walk themselves to the washing machine holding toes | |||
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"Slippery slope here OP gonna end up trying to please everyone when the only person you need to please is yourself. If you are happy and comfy in your own skin and your own personality it will attract other people. If you try and change to please everyone you'll please no one and end up wanking into a sock for eternity Actually I've never wanked in a sock.
It seems like an eternity already. 2 physiotherapy with my left shoulder in the last 4 years."Hahahahah see that's the sort of personality that will get you laid. If you're not careful I'll be in them DMs | |||
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"Slippery slope here OP gonna end up trying to please everyone when the only person you need to please is yourself. If you are happy and comfy in your own skin and your own personality it will attract other people. If you try and change to please everyone you'll please no one and end up wanking into a sock for eternity ^he knows
You should see my sock draw
Do they walk on their own?
They walk themselves to the washing machine holding toes "Can you fold them, or just put a 3-4 in the machine at a time? Making a banging noise when the program starts? | |||
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"Slippery slope here OP gonna end up trying to please everyone when the only person you need to please is yourself. If you are happy and comfy in your own skin and your own personality it will attract other people. If you try and change to please everyone you'll please no one and end up wanking into a sock for eternity ^he knows
You should see my sock draw
Do they walk on their own?
They walk themselves to the washing machine holding toes
Can you fold them, or just put a 3-4 in the machine at a time? Making a banging noise when the program starts?
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"Slippery slope here OP gonna end up trying to please everyone when the only person you need to please is yourself. If you are happy and comfy in your own skin and your own personality it will attract other people. If you try and change to please everyone you'll please no one and end up wanking into a sock for eternity ^he knows
You should see my sock draw
Do they walk on their own?
They walk themselves to the washing machine holding toes
Can you fold them, or just put a 3-4 in the machine at a time? Making a banging noise when the program starts?
Probably could use them to bang nails in "I don't need a sock or a hammer for that. | |||
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I can’t make it out at all… 
I’m being harsh as you said whatever you done was not working.
The thing with your profile is it should reflect you, so set it up so it accurately shows you off - you’ll be continually changing it if you listened to different opinions of what a good profile looks like.
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"Your profile wording needs work. It’s got a ‘I’m just average’ vein running through it - like you’re apologetic about things and willing to change to whatever suits the woman. Yes, women have an element of control on FAB but they don’t control how you sell yourself. Your pics are just standard pics…some good ones of showing off your body but the kitchen one of you looking down in the camera is a bit intimidating. Are you curling your arm in a suitcase on the second pic? I can’t make it out at all…
I’m being harsh as you said whatever you done was not working.
The thing with your profile is it should reflect you, so set it up so it accurately shows you off - you’ll be continually changing it if you listened to different opinions of what a good profile looks like.
K
"Average vibe is good, so they'll be pleasantly surprised, not disappointed. That's a sex positioning mattress on the second pic with a thumbs up. I couldn't position my phone higher in the kitchen without getting caught. Even peaceful chefs are quite intimidating, until you work with them once. To be fair I have kind of intimidating basic face expression. When I look in the mirror angry, kind of scary even for me. I will upload a smiley photo. | |||
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"It’s horses for courses OP. What one person likes someone else might not. Make your profile you. What you like
What I've done until now it didn't work. So I guess I need some changes. Not going to extreme lengths though.
There’s some good advice above then. My only advice is to be friendly with no expectations. Swinging is about making friends first and foremost
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