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Your go-to first message

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is your go-to first message and what would you say is your success rate?

I tend towards being nice and my success rate for a reply is like 10%

Got further than that. Success rate for an actual meet is 0% lol

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

‘FAF?’ - 100% (failure rate)

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Oops I read that as your go to first massage - best get my eyes tested

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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago

land of make believe

I don't really send first messages unless it is part of a forum game or task.

I do appreciate a couple of sentences at least that are equal parts nice,funny,exciting & intriguing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"‘FAF?’ - 100% (failure rate) "

OMG. XD

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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago

land of make believe


"Oops I read that as your go to first massage - best get my eyes tested "

You can still tell us

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I aim for a 500 word essay on different points in their profile with a sprinkle of personality and a little humour - success rate 0%

I don't care about 1st messages as long as it's not 1 word and something I can reply to, if I like the profile I'll reply if not I won't regardless of the message.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never sent a first message. Need to fix that.

Anticipated success rate 1%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FAF?

Success rate is 100%. No one turns me down. Ever.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never sent a first message. Need to fix that.

Anticipated success rate 1%"

Edit : 30% success rate. You got this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t tend to send first messages but if I did I’d spam them with nudes until they replied.

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By *eeling0880Man
over a year ago

Pennines

Do you come here often? Can I buy you a drink? Then scuttle back into my virtual corner of rejection and sob into beer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you come here often? Can I buy you a drink? Then scuttle back into my virtual corner of rejection and sob into beer"

We went to a club last night and after 'Hi', 3 out the 9 single guys to approach used this as an opener

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I use an AI bot.

You know how you can play multiple games of chess without thinking by mirroring opponents moves against each other

It works on the same principle.

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By *enk15Man
over a year ago

Evesham

I tried a new approach and started my messages with awesome jokes...

... 0 responses.

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By *eeling0880Man
over a year ago

Pennines


"Do you come here often? Can I buy you a drink? Then scuttle back into my virtual corner of rejection and sob into beer

We went to a club last night and after 'Hi', 3 out the 9 single guys to approach used this as an opener "

Ah the old ones are the best!

Actually probably not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tried a new approach and started my messages with awesome jokes...

... 0 responses.

"

Now you MUST give us an example XD

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By *enk15Man
over a year ago

Evesham


"I tried a new approach and started my messages with awesome jokes...

... 0 responses.

Now you MUST give us an example XD"

My cock was in the Guinness book of world records...

...Then the librarian told me to take it out.

What reasonable person wouldn't respond to that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hit em with the pure filth, my success rate is 99%.. there's always one guy that wants to be wined and dined instead.

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth


"Oops I read that as your go to first massage - best get my eyes tested

You can still tell us "

Usually hello my name is xxxx I particularly like (x) in your profile

About a 30% response rate with 2% leading on to more conversation

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