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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

What was the longest time you didn't have sex? Masturbation doesn't count, but oral does. The winner gets nothing!

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

About a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 months and counting

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

4 years

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"4 years "

4 years + ?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

Just under two months I think.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

3 years during my marriage, 6 ish years in a 7 year relationship.

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By *orset.JMan
over a year ago

Weymouth

3 years but making up for it now

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

Nineteen years. Mind you, I was very young at the time.

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By *cottish jockMan
over a year ago

london


"What was the longest time you didn't have sex? Masturbation doesn't count, but oral does. The winner gets nothing!"
over a year and still havent

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Currently at 18 months with a likely 6 month plus to add… by the time I’m fixed I think this will be my record.

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By *abrielle43Woman
over a year ago

Kildare

13 years

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Nineteen years. Mind you, I was very young at the time."

I didn't specify it, did I? Meant after you lost your virginity.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I am on it now, it was 7 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around a month is the longest, I think.

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By *hickinthewarmMan
over a year ago

Fife

Probably about 8 months on deployment. If I’m honest, it wasn’t all that hard at the time, but I was being kept busy I guess

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By * WillisMan
over a year ago

London

Well I joined fab in 2008 so I win?

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Thirteen and a half years, give or take a month or two.

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By *ackson1989Man
over a year ago

London

I would say possibly 6 months is my longest… let’s say it was a struggle haha

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"13 years "

God, you're definitely the winner. Can I ask the reason? Were you a nun? I mean in my opinion you look good, and most sexless marriages fall apart after 5 years.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Round 15 days

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

5 years

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

About 6 months

Mrs

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Around a month is the longest, I think. "

Really??? Aw,poor you.

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By *4funXXXMan
over a year ago

cheshire

Last 18 months. Talk bout ready to burst.

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Round 15 days "

In your entire life since lost virginity? That's sounds like you're bending the truth. The most beautiful people have some dry spell. Sometimes life gets in the way for everyone.

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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago

land of make believe

I didn't have sex or even masturbate for about 6 years,to concentrate on being a parent when my son was little.

It wasn't intentional,it just happened organically after I had decided not to date.

When my son went to uni ,he and some others had an intervention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Around a month is the longest, I think.

Really??? Aw,poor you."

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"I would say possibly 6 months is my longest… let’s say it was a struggle haha"

That was my longest until I got married.

Then after divorce didn't get much better with lock down and a ton of work.

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Well I joined fab in 2008 so I win? "

Obvious joke, but as a single male on Fab I get it.

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"I didn't have sex or even masturbate for about 6 years,to concentrate on being a parent when my son was little.

It wasn't intentional,it just happened organically after I had decided not to date.

When my son went to uni ,he and some others had an intervention.

"

I understand the reason for not having anybody. Why not masturbate?

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By *hoebeWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

About 3.5 yrs

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Thirteen and a half years, give or take a month or two."

Did you masturbate or not even that?

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

3 years, 11 months, 19 days for me.

I'm on Fab over a year and changed everything possible. Even new profile, but I'm kind of giving up.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

Since I was 17, maybe five weeks

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

Six months between My second partner and My third.1998

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Since I was 17, maybe five weeks "

I guess Mrs there. No surprise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A year give or take

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By *sxboy69Man
over a year ago

Rayleigh

17 years, until I was 17

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The entirety of my 40s so a full decade.

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Over a decade when I was married

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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago

land of make believe


"I didn't have sex or even masturbate for about 6 years,to concentrate on being a parent when my son was little.

It wasn't intentional,it just happened organically after I had decided not to date.

When my son went to uni ,he and some others had an intervention.

I understand the reason for not having anybody. Why not masturbate? "

It wasn't a decision, it just happened organically.

If you have children you may understand that you don't have a moment of privacy.

I worked long hours too.

I suppose I had desexualised myself without knowing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 3 years

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By *KTim61Man
over a year ago

Tipton

Over 20 years . . . .

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By *KTim61Man
over a year ago

Tipton


"17 years, until I was 17 "

If you are counting from birth I'd say 30 years then I was a very late starter

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"I didn't have sex or even masturbate for about 6 years,to concentrate on being a parent when my son was little.

It wasn't intentional,it just happened organically after I had decided not to date.

When my son went to uni ,he and some others had an intervention.

I understand the reason for not having anybody. Why not masturbate?

It wasn't a decision, it just happened organically.

If you have children you may understand that you don't have a moment of privacy.

I worked long hours too.

I suppose I had desexualised myself without knowing. "

Of course I know that, but not even masturbating.

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Over 20 years . . . . "

Are you being serious?

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
over a year ago

IPSWICH

About 5 years was the longest

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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago

land of make believe


"I didn't have sex or even masturbate for about 6 years,to concentrate on being a parent when my son was little.

It wasn't intentional,it just happened organically after I had decided not to date.

When my son went to uni ,he and some others had an intervention.

I understand the reason for not having anybody. Why not masturbate?

It wasn't a decision, it just happened organically.

If you have children you may understand that you don't have a moment of privacy.

I worked long hours too.

I suppose I had desexualised myself without knowing.

Of course I know that, but not even masturbating. "

That is what it means,it doesn't just relate to others,it is how you feel/view yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

17 years once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"17 years, until I was 17

If you are counting from birth I'd say 30 years then I was a very late starter "

Damn bro

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By *iz78Woman
over a year ago

wirral

Just over 4 years and stll counting

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By *oecutterMan
over a year ago

Clonakilty


"What was the longest time you didn't have sex? Masturbation doesn't count, but oral does. The winner gets nothing!"

From birth to 18 1/2.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

8 months , not nice at all

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"I didn't have sex or even masturbate for about 6 years,to concentrate on being a parent when my son was little.

It wasn't intentional,it just happened organically after I had decided not to date.

When my son went to uni ,he and some others had an intervention.

I understand the reason for not having anybody. Why not masturbate?

It wasn't a decision, it just happened organically.

If you have children you may understand that you don't have a moment of privacy.

I worked long hours too.

I suppose I had desexualised myself without knowing.

Of course I know that, but not even masturbating.

That is what it means,it doesn't just relate to others,it is how you feel/view yourself.

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Based on your pics I'm sure you get a lot of attention from men. That's why it's surprising it didn't get you horny even to masturbate. I understand the reasons though.

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By *KTim61Man
over a year ago

Tipton


"Over 20 years . . . .

Are you being serious?"

Yes fraid So . . . . . I've been very unlucky with the opposite sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 years, currently trying to beat that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4mths at a time.

That time is over...

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Around 22 months in the lead up to the end of my marriage in 2016

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

5 years. Many years ago...

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By *ackandJill1Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

15 years

Single mum raising my son, not dating etc, then my brain kicked in and I realised sex didn't have to be dependent on monogamous relationships.

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By *oll_Face_xxWoman
over a year ago

Dollywood

Currently 2 and a half years I have not had sex ...returning to fab after a 5 year break.

Was in unhappy rship so no sex.

Hoping to remedy this soon

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

8 years when I was married

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Nearly 3 years, in my late 30s

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"8 years when I was married

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Surprised so many women didn't have sex for years in marriage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just over a year, 2 years ago x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 7 years, after my son was born, was single and never went out had no confidence etc... made up for it lol now its been a good few months

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Can't actually remember but probably about 2 years

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Hmm! Not even in the top ten with less than 4 years. Obviously 2 years complete write down because of covid.

Winner is the guy with 20 years.

If I ever participate in a gang bang, then I will invite you. I'm sure they can squeeze you in somewhere.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"8 years when I was married

Surprised so many women didn't have sex for years in marriage. "

Depends who you marry I guess?

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Can't actually remember but probably about 2 years "

Was it your choice or just life got in the way?

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"8 years when I was married

Surprised so many women didn't have sex for years in marriage.

Depends who you marry I guess? "

I didn't have a bad marriage. Simply we were house mates,then FWB, then mum and dad. Didn't work out, but actually we are good friends without benefits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6-7 months.

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A week.

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"6-7 months.

F"

I would say that's acceptable/normal between relationships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"6-7 months.

F

I would say that's acceptable/normal between relationships. "

Is that a presumption or general relationship gap?

F

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"6-7 months.

F

I would say that's acceptable/normal between relationships.

Is that a presumption or general relationship gap?

F"

In general that was the longest gap until mid 30's. Obviously sometimes a day, a week. Before I wanted to build a relationship, have a family...etc. Now I'm not in a rush anymore. Well, kind of a rush with sex, because it's affecting me physically and a bit mentally too.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

6 weeks and if I’m honest felt more like6 years

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

About eighteen months I think.

LvM

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By *abrielle43Woman
over a year ago

Kildare


"13 years

God, you're definitely the winner. Can I ask the reason? Were you a nun? I mean in my opinion you look good, and most sexless marriages fall apart after 5 years. "

Just busy, new job, new house, lots of holidays/travelling, no interest in dating. Joined fab as it suits me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

11.5 years. I didn't date or have any kind of sexual/romantic relationship a couple of months before my kid was born and that lasted until they were 11. I've never been good in relationships and didn't want any drama in our lives.

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By *atnayCouple
over a year ago

STEVENAGE

About 13 years ago we had a 9 month dry spell durring a tough spell in our marriage. Both of us were to stressed and emotionally drained. We still slept together in our bed, but no sex, just cuddles.

I find in long term relationships there are often spells where sex is not priority. Life brings struggles. Stress, over worked, children and just general shit that brings you down. Desire for sex can often be the 1st thing to go. They pass after time and sex life recovers.

Same apples to singles too. If you have so much on your plate, of your feeling low. For whatever reason. Your desire for sex will drop off for a while. Focus on yourself. Heal what's bringing you down and your desires will return. N

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By *orny salesmanMan
over a year ago

Preston

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
over a year ago

London or Bedford

A year

You don’t wanna know the depths I eventually sunk to just to get some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 2 years last time I had sex with a female.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Probably 5-6 years during my divorce and after that.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

2.5yrs currently …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still in that ‘period’ of 8.5 years and counting!

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

4 weeks

I just sort of stop working as a human after 3 And look for solutions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh having a bit of a dry spell at the moment so honestly about 2 months

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By *akedMMan
over a year ago

Witney

5 Years now

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By *overeliteWoman
over a year ago

stirling

5 years for me. No man ever looked twice at me, hence the reason im here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Longest was 7 months but it’s now been 4 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around 5 months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 months and counting

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By * MailMan
over a year ago

Poole


"5 years for me. No man ever looked twice at me, hence the reason im here "

Most definitely looking twice!

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By *abuma65Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

about 4yrs I recall...clearly wanked a lot

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By *erseykevMan
over a year ago

St Helier

10 years with the wife 7 since I had sex with someone else

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

17 years when my kids were growing up.

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

6 years.....

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By *alico_KittyWoman
over a year ago

Kittys Lane

Over 10 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Holy fuck, I'm not that far off a month at the moment.

I think my longest was a month.

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By *bw44DDWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"What was the longest time you didn't have sex? Masturbation doesn't count, but oral does. The winner gets nothing!"

3 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 years

Went 17 yrs - 23yo

Area I lived could've been harmed outside the gate from lads @13 & entire place, they were very difficult

Paid for it in the end

She gave me 69 & shot me real quick,

Need a friend like her - Not just an Ogle-point

Telling that I hate male company when they're sex beggars

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

In the last 10 years. 6 months. Stern words were had

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By *urious couple22Couple
over a year ago

Derby

2 years.

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By *ony MannMan
over a year ago

New York City New York USA

This week about 5 hours.

The longest was years, but I was young at the time

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

I can only assume that a good many on here have not yet grasped the benefit of having a 'little black book/phone'.

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I can only assume that a good many on here have not yet grasped the benefit of having a 'little black book/phone'."

I have that,only issue is..majority of contacts are either in relationships or no longer interested....

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

16 years pre losing virginity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 years in my 20s

A year in my LTR

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By *uietguy689Man
over a year ago

Abingdon

15 years following the birth of my daughter. There are other things more important while I can still work my right hand

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By *ornxMan
over a year ago

Thornton Heath


"About 13 years ago we had a 9 month dry spell durring a tough spell in our marriage. Both of us were to stressed and emotionally drained. We still slept together in our bed, but no sex, just cuddles.

I find in long term relationships there are often spells where sex is not priority. Life brings struggles. Stress, over worked, children and just general shit that brings you down. Desire for sex can often be the 1st thing to go. They pass after time and sex life recovers.

Same apples to singles too. If you have so much on your plate, of your feeling low. For whatever reason. Your desire for sex will drop off for a while. Focus on yourself. Heal what's bringing you down and your desires will return.

N"

spot on

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I can only assume that a good many on here have not yet grasped the benefit of having a 'little black book/phone'."

I don’t think it’s that. It’s just real life coming first and taking priority, parenting, work, mental health struggles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can only assume that a good many on here have not yet grasped the benefit of having a 'little black book/phone'."

I think some of us just don't operate that way...

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"I can only assume that a good many on here have not yet grasped the benefit of having a 'little black book/phone'."

What is that?

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By *angerouslemaisonsMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

3 years after a false accusation I couldn’t bare to be near anyone

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 months and counting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 Yrs by choice, I'm fussy, I like to be friends first and I have more important things in life

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley


"I can only assume that a good many on here have not yet grasped the benefit of having a 'little black book/phone'.

What is that? "

Do you mean what is the benefit or what is the book/phone?

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"I can only assume that a good many on here have not yet grasped the benefit of having a 'little black book/phone'.

What is that?

Do you mean what is the benefit or what is the book/phone?"

Book/phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can only assume that a good many on here have not yet grasped the benefit of having a 'little black book/phone'.

What is that?

Do you mean what is the benefit or what is the book/phone?"

It'd be alright they handed them out, from yours if it was loaded lol

Not fair being whisked by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 3 and a half years.

Felt like 84.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"Over 3 and a half years.

Felt like 84. "

I now have that Titanic meme in my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Over 3 and a half years.

Felt like 84.

I now have that Titanic meme in my head "

So did I as I typed

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

2 years after separating from the kids dad. I was gloriously happy with no romantic feels/needs in my life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my gf was pregnant. 3/4 months. But other than that I think a month is the longest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From birth until I lost my virginity

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By *inkyycurvyyWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

About 3 years

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"When my gf was pregnant. 3/4 months. But other than that I think a month is the longest. "

My ex was having more sex with me during her pregnancy, than the following 5 years in total.

I was starting to feel a little bit of a weirdo fucking a pregnant woman.

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"From birth until I lost my virginity "

What an original joke on this thread for the 50th time.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

About 4 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 years when I was married

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

More than ten years

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"4 years

4 years + ?"

Nope, no + she was a regular

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By *an de LyonMan
over a year ago

welling

It’s been 7 hours and 16 days…

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"4 years

4 years + ?

Nope, no + she was a regular "

I meant over 4 years.

I still thought my 4 years was extreme on the beginning of the thread.

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By *an de LyonMan
over a year ago

welling


"4 years

4 years + ?

Nope, no + she was a regular

I meant over 4 years.

I still thought my 4 years was extreme on the beginning of the thread. "

6 years

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"4 years

4 years + ?

Nope, no + she was a regular

I meant over 4 years.

I still thought my 4 years was extreme on the beginning of the thread. "

It's only extreme if constantly thinking about it are more important things than fanny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 5 years between the ending of my marriage to first joining fab

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"4 years

4 years + ?

Nope, no + she was a regular

I meant over 4 years.

I still thought my 4 years was extreme on the beginning of the thread.

It's only extreme if constantly thinking about it are more important things than fanny "

Ass and boobs?

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By *an de LyonMan
over a year ago

welling


"4 years

4 years + ?

Nope, no + she was a regular

I meant over 4 years.

I still thought my 4 years was extreme on the beginning of the thread.

It's only extreme if constantly thinking about it are more important things than fanny

Ass and boobs? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15 years, 10 months and 7 days.

And then I lost my virginity

I once went 14 days without cumming seeing if I could do the whole 40 days and 40 nights thing

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"15 years, 10 months and 7 days.

And then I lost my virginity

I once went 14 days without cumming seeing if I could do the whole 40 days and 40 nights thing"

Virgin joke #51

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney

19 and a half years

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"19 and a half years"

Let me guess. Then you lost your virginity?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Round 15 days

In your entire life since lost virginity? That's sounds like you're bending the truth. The most beautiful people have some dry spell. Sometimes life gets in the way for everyone. "

Why say this, if it's 15 days don't be jealous of him, if you can't deal with what people comment don't start a thread

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Since I had sex the longest I've gone without it is roughly a year probably, mid 20s as well! I was heartbroken! And then I decided I would raise my standards while having the chat of a sad donkey which probably wasn't arousing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last 6 years of my marriage. More recently? Almost a year due to medical reasons (nothing sinister but still has impact) and undergoing some treatment.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

2015 to 2019

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By *ockerbeckMan
over a year ago

Northallerton

Just over 3 years

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By *andy CanesWoman
over a year ago

south

5 months

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By *ighlander81Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

Currently a year as it stands

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

Maybe 4 months. Might have been longer.

When life is on top of you sex doesn't seem as important and days bleed into weeks and weeks into months

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Around 8 months

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Since I had sex the longest I've gone without it is roughly a year probably, mid 20s as well! I was heartbroken! And then I decided I would raise my standards while having the chat of a sad donkey which probably wasn't arousing "

Sad donkey might turn on some.

After all donkeys are almost as big as horses.

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"Round 15 days

In your entire life since lost virginity? That's sounds like you're bending the truth. The most beautiful people have some dry spell. Sometimes life gets in the way for everyone.

Why say this, if it's 15 days don't be jealous of him, if you can't deal with what people comment don't start a thread "

Fair enough! I'll hide my jealousy.

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By *onBonesJonesMan
over a year ago

london

6 months and counting it’s so sad

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"6 months and counting it’s so sad "

Why not Jon Bones Jovi?

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney


"19 and a half years

Let me guess. Then you lost your virginity?"

I wish.

Then my wife died.

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By *andA250Couple
over a year ago

London

36 minutes.

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

16-17 yrs.

It was a relief. Loosing my cherry.

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"36 minutes. "

Are you doing it for a living?

(Porn industry...etc.)

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"16-17 yrs.

It was a relief. Loosing my cherry."

Virgin joke #52

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"19 and a half years

Let me guess. Then you lost your virginity?

I wish.

Then my wife died."

God, sorry!

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By *andA250Couple
over a year ago

London


"36 minutes.

Are you doing it for a living?

(Porn industry...etc.)"

Not gonna lie. I have thought about it. Used to be a stripper and that’s where the money is nowadays lol

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By *ord500Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Since I've joined fabswingers,not doing well x

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By *inky Chef OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich


"6 months and counting it’s so sad

Why not Jon Bones Jovi?"

.

Never mind, I took it.

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By *espacito56Man
over a year ago

Orkney


"19 and a half years

Let me guess. Then you lost your virginity?

I wish.

Then my wife died.

God, sorry! "

Don't sweat it. Part of life.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Probably 3 months when I left my ex husband before I returned to the scene.

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By * WillisMan
52 weeks ago

London

16 years 4 months so from when I was born

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
52 weeks ago

Motherwell

When I was seeing women I was 2 years celibate out of 27 years.As a TV of 12 years it was 9 months with no sex due to lockdown and then I waited for a while before meeting guys again. Mx

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By *fnmdudeMan
52 weeks ago

St.Helier

8 years and counting

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By *ustamanMan
52 weeks ago

weymouth

21 years, I was a late starter. Lost virginity at 21

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