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"4 years " 4 years + ? | |||
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"What was the longest time you didn't have sex? Masturbation doesn't count, but oral does. The winner gets nothing!" over a year and still havent | |||
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"Nineteen years. Mind you, I was very young at the time." I didn't specify it, did I? Meant after you lost your virginity. | |||
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"13 years " God, you're definitely the winner. Can I ask the reason? Were you a nun? I mean in my opinion you look good, and most sexless marriages fall apart after 5 years. | |||
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"Around a month is the longest, I think. " Really??? Aw,poor you. | |||
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"Round 15 days " In your entire life since lost virginity? That's sounds like you're bending the truth. The most beautiful people have some dry spell. Sometimes life gets in the way for everyone. | |||
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"Around a month is the longest, I think. Really??? Aw,poor you." | |||
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"I would say possibly 6 months is my longest… let’s say it was a struggle haha" That was my longest until I got married. Then after divorce didn't get much better with lock down and a ton of work. | |||
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"Well I joined fab in 2008 so I win? " Obvious joke, but as a single male on Fab I get it. | |||
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"I didn't have sex or even masturbate for about 6 years,to concentrate on being a parent when my son was little. It wasn't intentional,it just happened organically after I had decided not to date. When my son went to uni ,he and some others had an intervention. " I understand the reason for not having anybody. Why not masturbate? | |||
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"Thirteen and a half years, give or take a month or two." Did you masturbate or not even that? | |||
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"Since I was 17, maybe five weeks " I guess Mrs there. No surprise. | |||
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"I didn't have sex or even masturbate for about 6 years,to concentrate on being a parent when my son was little. It wasn't intentional,it just happened organically after I had decided not to date. When my son went to uni ,he and some others had an intervention. I understand the reason for not having anybody. Why not masturbate? " It wasn't a decision, it just happened organically. If you have children you may understand that you don't have a moment of privacy. I worked long hours too. I suppose I had desexualised myself without knowing. | |||
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"17 years, until I was 17 " If you are counting from birth I'd say 30 years then I was a very late starter | |||
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"I didn't have sex or even masturbate for about 6 years,to concentrate on being a parent when my son was little. It wasn't intentional,it just happened organically after I had decided not to date. When my son went to uni ,he and some others had an intervention. I understand the reason for not having anybody. Why not masturbate? It wasn't a decision, it just happened organically. If you have children you may understand that you don't have a moment of privacy. I worked long hours too. I suppose I had desexualised myself without knowing. " Of course I know that, but not even masturbating. | |||
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"Over 20 years . . . . " Are you being serious? | |||
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"I didn't have sex or even masturbate for about 6 years,to concentrate on being a parent when my son was little. It wasn't intentional,it just happened organically after I had decided not to date. When my son went to uni ,he and some others had an intervention. I understand the reason for not having anybody. Why not masturbate? It wasn't a decision, it just happened organically. If you have children you may understand that you don't have a moment of privacy. I worked long hours too. I suppose I had desexualised myself without knowing. Of course I know that, but not even masturbating. " That is what it means,it doesn't just relate to others,it is how you feel/view yourself. | |||
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"17 years, until I was 17 If you are counting from birth I'd say 30 years then I was a very late starter " Damn bro | |||
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"What was the longest time you didn't have sex? Masturbation doesn't count, but oral does. The winner gets nothing!" From birth to 18 1/2. | |||
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"I didn't have sex or even masturbate for about 6 years,to concentrate on being a parent when my son was little. It wasn't intentional,it just happened organically after I had decided not to date. When my son went to uni ,he and some others had an intervention. I understand the reason for not having anybody. Why not masturbate? It wasn't a decision, it just happened organically. If you have children you may understand that you don't have a moment of privacy. I worked long hours too. I suppose I had desexualised myself without knowing. Of course I know that, but not even masturbating. That is what it means,it doesn't just relate to others,it is how you feel/view yourself. " Based on your pics I'm sure you get a lot of attention from men. That's why it's surprising it didn't get you horny even to masturbate. I understand the reasons though. | |||
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"Over 20 years . . . . Are you being serious?" Yes fraid So . . . . . I've been very unlucky with the opposite sex | |||
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"8 years when I was married " Surprised so many women didn't have sex for years in marriage. | |||
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"8 years when I was married Surprised so many women didn't have sex for years in marriage. " Depends who you marry I guess? | |||
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"Can't actually remember but probably about 2 years " Was it your choice or just life got in the way? | |||
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"8 years when I was married Surprised so many women didn't have sex for years in marriage. Depends who you marry I guess? " I didn't have a bad marriage. Simply we were house mates,then FWB, then mum and dad. Didn't work out, but actually we are good friends without benefits. | |||
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"6-7 months. F" I would say that's acceptable/normal between relationships. | |||
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"6-7 months. F I would say that's acceptable/normal between relationships. " Is that a presumption or general relationship gap? F | |||
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"6-7 months. F I would say that's acceptable/normal between relationships. Is that a presumption or general relationship gap? F" In general that was the longest gap until mid 30's. Obviously sometimes a day, a week. Before I wanted to build a relationship, have a family...etc. Now I'm not in a rush anymore. Well, kind of a rush with sex, because it's affecting me physically and a bit mentally too. | |||
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"13 years God, you're definitely the winner. Can I ask the reason? Were you a nun? I mean in my opinion you look good, and most sexless marriages fall apart after 5 years. " Just busy, new job, new house, lots of holidays/travelling, no interest in dating. Joined fab as it suits me. | |||
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"5 years for me. No man ever looked twice at me, hence the reason im here " Most definitely looking twice! | |||
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"What was the longest time you didn't have sex? Masturbation doesn't count, but oral does. The winner gets nothing!" 3 years | |||
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"I can only assume that a good many on here have not yet grasped the benefit of having a 'little black book/phone'." I have that,only issue is..majority of contacts are either in relationships or no longer interested.... | |||
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"About 13 years ago we had a 9 month dry spell durring a tough spell in our marriage. Both of us were to stressed and emotionally drained. We still slept together in our bed, but no sex, just cuddles. I find in long term relationships there are often spells where sex is not priority. Life brings struggles. Stress, over worked, children and just general shit that brings you down. Desire for sex can often be the 1st thing to go. They pass after time and sex life recovers. Same apples to singles too. If you have so much on your plate, of your feeling low. For whatever reason. Your desire for sex will drop off for a while. Focus on yourself. Heal what's bringing you down and your desires will return. N" spot on | |||
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"I can only assume that a good many on here have not yet grasped the benefit of having a 'little black book/phone'." I don’t think it’s that. It’s just real life coming first and taking priority, parenting, work, mental health struggles. | |||
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"I can only assume that a good many on here have not yet grasped the benefit of having a 'little black book/phone'." I think some of us just don't operate that way... | |||
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"I can only assume that a good many on here have not yet grasped the benefit of having a 'little black book/phone'." What is that? | |||
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"I can only assume that a good many on here have not yet grasped the benefit of having a 'little black book/phone'. What is that? " Do you mean what is the benefit or what is the book/phone? | |||
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"I can only assume that a good many on here have not yet grasped the benefit of having a 'little black book/phone'. What is that? Do you mean what is the benefit or what is the book/phone?" Book/phone. | |||
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"I can only assume that a good many on here have not yet grasped the benefit of having a 'little black book/phone'. What is that? Do you mean what is the benefit or what is the book/phone?" It'd be alright they handed them out, from yours if it was loaded lol Not fair being whisked by | |||
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"Over 3 and a half years. Felt like 84. " I now have that Titanic meme in my head | |||
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"Over 3 and a half years. Felt like 84. I now have that Titanic meme in my head " So did I as I typed | |||
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"When my gf was pregnant. 3/4 months. But other than that I think a month is the longest. " My ex was having more sex with me during her pregnancy, than the following 5 years in total. I was starting to feel a little bit of a weirdo fucking a pregnant woman. | |||
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"From birth until I lost my virginity " What an original joke on this thread for the 50th time. | |||
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"4 years 4 years + ?" Nope, no + she was a regular | |||
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"4 years 4 years + ? Nope, no + she was a regular " I meant over 4 years. I still thought my 4 years was extreme on the beginning of the thread. | |||
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"4 years 4 years + ? Nope, no + she was a regular I meant over 4 years. I still thought my 4 years was extreme on the beginning of the thread. " 6 years | |||
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"4 years 4 years + ? Nope, no + she was a regular I meant over 4 years. I still thought my 4 years was extreme on the beginning of the thread. " It's only extreme if constantly thinking about it are more important things than fanny | |||
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"4 years 4 years + ? Nope, no + she was a regular I meant over 4 years. I still thought my 4 years was extreme on the beginning of the thread. It's only extreme if constantly thinking about it are more important things than fanny " Ass and boobs? | |||
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"4 years 4 years + ? Nope, no + she was a regular I meant over 4 years. I still thought my 4 years was extreme on the beginning of the thread. It's only extreme if constantly thinking about it are more important things than fanny Ass and boobs? " | |||
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"15 years, 10 months and 7 days. And then I lost my virginity I once went 14 days without cumming seeing if I could do the whole 40 days and 40 nights thing" Virgin joke #51 | |||
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"19 and a half years" Let me guess. Then you lost your virginity? | |||
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"Round 15 days In your entire life since lost virginity? That's sounds like you're bending the truth. The most beautiful people have some dry spell. Sometimes life gets in the way for everyone. " Why say this, if it's 15 days don't be jealous of him, if you can't deal with what people comment don't start a thread | |||
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"Since I had sex the longest I've gone without it is roughly a year probably, mid 20s as well! I was heartbroken! And then I decided I would raise my standards while having the chat of a sad donkey which probably wasn't arousing " Sad donkey might turn on some. After all donkeys are almost as big as horses. | |||
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"Round 15 days In your entire life since lost virginity? That's sounds like you're bending the truth. The most beautiful people have some dry spell. Sometimes life gets in the way for everyone. Why say this, if it's 15 days don't be jealous of him, if you can't deal with what people comment don't start a thread " Fair enough! I'll hide my jealousy. | |||
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"6 months and counting it’s so sad " Why not Jon Bones Jovi? | |||
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"19 and a half years Let me guess. Then you lost your virginity?" I wish. Then my wife died. | |||
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"36 minutes. " Are you doing it for a living? (Porn industry...etc.) | |||
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"16-17 yrs. It was a relief. Loosing my cherry." Virgin joke #52 | |||
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"19 and a half years Let me guess. Then you lost your virginity? I wish. Then my wife died." God, sorry! | |||
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"36 minutes. Are you doing it for a living? (Porn industry...etc.)" Not gonna lie. I have thought about it. Used to be a stripper and that’s where the money is nowadays lol | |||
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"6 months and counting it’s so sad Why not Jon Bones Jovi?" . Never mind, I took it. | |||
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"19 and a half years Let me guess. Then you lost your virginity? I wish. Then my wife died. God, sorry! " Don't sweat it. Part of life. | |||
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