FabSwingers.com forum: Slated for meeting a TS

By *eliquiae OP Man
over a year ago

Prestatyn

Recently started chatting to a female on here and arranged to meet , at the last second she messaged "just looked at your profile and I see you have met a TS "

Do you meet TS?

When I replied that I had I was told that I was disgusting and immoral and this kind of thing is totally wrong !!!

Thought this site was about meeting people to explore and about giving and taking sexual pleasure and been non judgemental !!opinions please ?

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Meet who you want. Do you judge her for her meets?

Don’t overthink it and just move on

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

Just block and move on OP its her problem not yours, meet who you want when you want don't let anyone elses opinions stop you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are entitled to their views, whether we agree with them or not. Move on.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

There's nothing you can do about people's predelictions or prejudices. One man's meat is another man's poison, and all that. Personally, I don't bareback, or do WS - that's my preference. I wouldn't judge someone who does, but others can be judgemental. That's people.

You've been up front, and that's good. Plenty of women won't mind you meeting a TS - don't give up.

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By *ackson1989Man
over a year ago

London

"Recently started chatting to a female on here and arranged to meet , at the last second she messaged "just looked at your profile and I see you have met a TS "

Do you meet TS?

When I replied that I had I was told that I was disgusting and immoral and this kind of thing is totally wrong !!!

Thought this site was about meeting people to explore and about giving and taking sexual pleasure and been non judgemental !!opinions please ?"

Love your best life mate don’t let the haters in

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By *ackson1989Man
over a year ago

London

Live!

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

Seems like an over reaction, but ultimately her choice. Also the fact you have straight on your profile, if the person you met had a cock it could be viewed that you're not being honest on your profile.

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By *alico_KittyWoman
over a year ago

Kittys Lane

It may have helped if you stated in the Looking for option tv/ts but like others said just block and move on

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Her view is her view, which doesn't have to align with yours.

But to be fair you didn't do yourself any favours by not displaying looking for TV's either.

So I guess it's 6 of one half a dozen of thr other...maybe it's onky suggestion change what your looking for to include TV's as well..

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By *eliquiae OP Man
over a year ago

Prestatyn

Thanks , changed it

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

"Recently started chatting to a female on here and arranged to meet , at the last second she messaged "just looked at your profile and I see you have met a TS "

Do you meet TS?

When I replied that I had I was told that I was disgusting and immoral and this kind of thing is totally wrong !!!

Thought this site was about meeting people to explore and about giving and taking sexual pleasure and been non judgemental !!opinions please ?"

You obvuously haven't been in the virus section of the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is everyone as a option it's with in her right not to want to meet once she new she should have done better checks before arranging

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
over a year ago

peterborough

Oh that old chestnut cock = man....lol, ffs some people on fab......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you dodged the bullet on that one

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
over a year ago

peterborough

Offcourse everyone has the right etc but us girls feel great though doesn't it. Just block the bi***.

And well done for posting it !!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"...chatting to a female on here and arranged to meet, at the last second she messaged "just looked at your profile and I see you have met a TS ""

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So she engaged in conversation loooong before she even perused your profile. Do women ever read profiles?

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

"Oh that old chestnut cock = man....lol, ffs some people on fab......"

The fact is, straight men don't play with people who have cocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Non judgemental on Fab? You're having a laugh.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Non judgemental on Fab? You're having a laugh."

I was about to say the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Recently started chatting to a female on here and arranged to meet , at the last second she messaged "just looked at your profile and I see you have met a TS "

Do you meet TS?

When I replied that I had I was told that I was disgusting and immoral and this kind of thing is totally wrong !!!

Thought this site was about meeting people to explore and about giving and taking sexual pleasure and been non judgemental !!opinions please ?"

Meet who you want to meet and don't let other people tell you different

However it's worth noting that your profile says 'straight' and some women who have a preference on sexuality - which is 100% fine, so when a woman prefers a straight man they usually want a straight man.

That being said she has no need to be disrespectful or rude about it towards you

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Why are you asking for opinions when you don't like the first one you were given.

YOU decide what YOU think about it and then act accordingly.

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
over a year ago

peterborough

Oh that's a fact, lol.....you have no idea what you talking about. That's your view and it's old fashioned !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh that's a fact, lol.....you have no idea what you talking about. That's your view and it's old fashioned !! "

Try quoting the person then we'll know who you're replying to.

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

This site is anything but non-judgemental unfortunately OP, there are many judgy people on here but also (thankfully) many who aren’t. Try not to let it get you down, for me it feels like you had a lucky escape. As others have said, block and move on.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"Recently started chatting to a female on here and arranged to meet , at the last second she messaged "just looked at your profile and I see you have met a TS "

Do you meet TS?

When I replied that I had I was told that I was disgusting and immoral and this kind of thing is totally wrong !!!

Thought this site was about meeting people to explore and about giving and taking sexual pleasure and been non judgemental !!opinions please ?"

Some people don’t want to meet people who are bi and guess she found your description as “straight” misleading - you can debate the wrongs and rights of that but her preference. I see you’ve added about meeting a TS so problem should be avoided in the future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dude keep your profile as straight. Whilst I have been on fab I have seen some incredibly sexy trans women on here. If I saw a transferable on here who I was attracted to and had bottom surgery I would go on that date and still consider myself straight.

As others have said though, you cannot control what other people do. Just move on and keep enjoying yourself and the people you meet on here.

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By *inkedKuntsCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Sounds like you have dodged a bullet tbf!

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

"This site is anything but non-judgemental unfortunately OP, there are many judgy people on here but also (thankfully) many who aren’t. Try not to let it get you down, for me it feels like you had a lucky escape. As others have said, block and move on.

There's two sides to this. Not wanting to meet someone who plays with a person who has a cock and is arguably not straight, is not judging and is perfectly acceptable.

The only thing wrong in this scenario is that the OP got abuse for it, not that she didn't want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a strange reaction. She doesn't know what she's missing

Blockkkkkkk

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By *inkedKuntsCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

This!! For a site that is satisfying a kink for many it can be the most boring vanilla place and so full of prudes, never thought I'd say that when we are discussing what amounts to group sex.

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

"Dude keep your profile as straight. Whilst I have been on fab I have seen some incredibly sexy trans women on here. If I saw a transferable on here who I was attracted to and had bottom surgery I would go on that date and still consider myself straight.

As others have said though, you cannot control what other people do. Just move on and keep enjoying yourself and the people you meet on here."

Definitely agree, but if they'd not had bottom surgery? Would you consider yourself straight?

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"What a strange reaction. She doesn't know what she's missing

Blockkkkkkk"

That is also a strange reaction. She can find plenty of other men that meet with her preferences so not missing anything.

Agree that no need for abuse though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would still consider myself straight for finding them attractive but I wouldn't want sex with them as I only like my own penis.

That is a really good question though.

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By *ilfCrumpet9Man
over a year ago

Wirral

Take no notice mate each to their own. Go forth and have fun

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
over a year ago

peterborough

"Take no notice mate each to their own. Go forth and have fun "

Afreed

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Your profile says straight when clearly you are not so you may has deserved some stick lol.

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By *oll_Face_xxWoman
over a year ago

Dollywood

You do your thing ...people don't like it just move along

.. Next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds like you have dodged a bullet tbf! "

How? They just aren't compatible.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The dicks are the ignorant and judgemental

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By *impcuckMan
over a year ago

edge of taunton

if she said that then she was not worth meeting anyway im all for preference but that was just cunty

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By *dinson1983Man
over a year ago

Wakefield

Go enjoy being your best self and fuck the attitudes of those that aim to disrespect.

Put it behind you and keep fabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Recently started chatting to a female on here and arranged to meet , at the last second she messaged "just looked at your profile and I see you have met a TS "

Do you meet TS?

When I replied that I had I was told that I was disgusting and immoral and this kind of thing is totally wrong !!!

Thought this site was about meeting people to explore and about giving and taking sexual pleasure and been non judgemental !!opinions please ?"
Shocking behaviour

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By *issalignedTV/TS
over a year ago

London

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I wouldn’t worry about it, OP. Life is too short to dwell on bell ends

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