FabSwingers.com forum: Can of worms need to be opened :)

By *ackson1989 OP Man
over a year ago

London

So it’s time…. I love the site but I would say very hit or miss for me to get much attention on here,

I would like to say I get a decent amount of attention IRL!!! So what am I doing wrong.

FYI it’s my birthday so keep it constructive haha

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Happy birthday

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By *ackson1989 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Happy birthday

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy birthday.

Do more of what suits you. If it’s finding attention away from here. Do that.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Happy Birthday

All I’m willing to say is don’t give up. I’m not offering advice as it’s not always welcomed.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You're probably not doing anything wrong but this is very different to real life and it's probably more difficult to meet people rather than easier

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"So it’s time…. I love the site but I would say very hit or miss for me to get much attention on here,

I would like to say I get a decent amount of attention IRL!!! So what am I doing wrong.

FYI it’s my birthday so keep it constructive haha"

If yoyr getting loads of attention IRL, then why do you need to be on fab searching for more.

Happy birfday

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

"So it’s time…. I love the site but I would say very hit or miss for me to get much attention on here,

I would like to say I get a decent amount of attention IRL!!! So what am I doing wrong.

FYI it’s my birthday so keep it constructive haha"

Happy birthday fellow Libra mines tomorrow. Keep going and just have fun not taking anything to seriously x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attention doesn’t equate to meets, it’s just attention.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Happy Birthday!! X

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By *ackson1989 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"So it’s time…. I love the site but I would say very hit or miss for me to get much attention on here,

I would like to say I get a decent amount of attention IRL!!! So what am I doing wrong.

FYI it’s my birthday so keep it constructive haha

If yoyr getting loads of attention IRL, then why do you need to be on fab searching for more.

Happy birfday "

Good question…. I guess something exciting about meeting people online, also you can meet a lot of new people that so guess you wouldn’t meet on the usual day to day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And happy birthday OP

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By *alico_KittyWoman
over a year ago

Kittys Lane

Happy Birthday x

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By *ackson1989 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"So it’s time…. I love the site but I would say very hit or miss for me to get much attention on here,

I would like to say I get a decent amount of attention IRL!!! So what am I doing wrong.

FYI it’s my birthday so keep it constructive haha

Happy birthday fellow Libra mines tomorrow. Keep going and just have fun not taking anything to seriously x"

Haha I’m cool as a cucumber, Libra is the best sign ??

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Happy birthday.

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

When you were referred to this site by your mate how did he sell it to you?

Good luck and happy birthday

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"So it’s time…. I love the site but I would say very hit or miss for me to get much attention on here,

I would like to say I get a decent amount of attention IRL!!! So what am I doing wrong.

FYI it’s my birthday so keep it constructive haha

If yoyr getting loads of attention IRL, then why do you need to be on fab searching for more.

Happy birfday

Good question…. I guess something exciting about meeting people online, also you can meet a lot of new people that so guess you wouldn’t meet on the usual day to day"

Don't be greedy and stick to RL. Most here walk the streets too

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By *ackson1989 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"When you were referred to this site by your mate how did he sell it to you?

Good luck and happy birthday

Hmm he sold it as a place to meet people, but he is gay so he gets lots of attention on here ( same here) but not for me

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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago

land of make believe

Wishing you the most fantastical of Birthdays.

Being in receipt of many messages means nothing, it is the substance that counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

HBD

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"So it’s time…. I love the site but I would say very hit or miss for me to get much attention on here,

I would like to say I get a decent amount of attention IRL!!! So what am I doing wrong.

FYI it’s my birthday so keep it constructive haha"

Happy Birthday! If you're more than 6 inch, then put it in your bio. They say it's not important, but... Otherwise nothing wrong with your profile. Actually I'm surprised in London it's still a struggle.

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By *ackson1989 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Wishing you the most fantastical of Birthdays.

Being in receipt of many messages means nothing, it is the substance that counts.

You speak the truth

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By *ackson1989 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"So it’s time…. I love the site but I would say very hit or miss for me to get much attention on here,

I would like to say I get a decent amount of attention IRL!!! So what am I doing wrong.

FYI it’s my birthday so keep it constructive haha

Imagine it was that easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of it like birthday candles. In real life you just simply blow them out. On here you get the trick candles that need patience, determination and a sense of humour.

Don't overthink it and hope you get the birthday sex.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Firstly, happy birthday.

Secondly, this isn't real life, you have to approach sex and women in a different way.

You can catch a woman's eye from the other side of the bar and go sauntering over, with a pleasant smile on your face.

Well, maybe you could do a short video of that, as something different.

Your profile is your shop window, and you know what women are like when they shop.

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By *ackson1989 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Think of it like birthday candles. In real life you just simply blow them out. On here you get the trick candles that need patience, determination and a sense of humour.

Don't overthink it and hope you get the birthday sex."

Appreciated haha, I’ll do a couple hours on here as it’s addictive… then go out

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By *ackson1989 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Firstly, happy birthday.

Secondly, this isn't real life, you have to approach sex and women in a different way.

You can catch a woman's eye from the other side of the bar and go sauntering over, with a pleasant smile on your face.

Well, maybe you could do a short video of that, as something different.

Your profile is your shop window, and you know what women are like when they shop.

True true

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By *hunky ChefMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"Firstly, happy birthday.

Secondly, this isn't real life, you have to approach sex and women in a different way.

You can catch a woman's eye from the other side of the bar and go sauntering over, with a pleasant smile on your face.

Well, maybe you could do a short video of that, as something different.

Your profile is your shop window, and you know what women are like when they shop.

You can't upload a video, if you're not verified.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Happy birthday. Be careful what you wish for!

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

Happy birthday OP

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By *ackson1989 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Happy birthday. Be careful what you wish for! "

Haha cheers I’ll keep that in mind

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Ma y happy returns to you OP sir

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

*many

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"So it’s time…. I love the site but I would say very hit or miss for me to get much attention on here,

I would like to say I get a decent amount of attention IRL!!! So what am I doing wrong.

FYI it’s my birthday so keep it constructive haha"

If it's "hit or miss" then you should probably focus on what you are doing right. For many single men it's only misses. You are getting hits, so you are clearly doing something right. It would be unrealistic to to think you could only ever get hits.

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By *ackson1989 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"So it’s time…. I love the site but I would say very hit or miss for me to get much attention on here,

I would like to say I get a decent amount of attention IRL!!! So what am I doing wrong.

FYI it’s my birthday so keep it constructive haha

You are right, was just wondering haha I mean in no gods gift and do not doubt I’m not for everyone

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Happy birthday, OP. Maybe relook at your age range? I guess not that many women on here below 40.

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Happy birthday

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By *ackson1989 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Happy birthday, OP. Maybe relook at your age range? I guess not that many women on here below 40. "

Good shout, just from my experience older women like older men

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By *ackson1989 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Happy birthday

Thanks;)

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

Happy Birthday! Hope it's a good one

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By *ackson1989 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Happy Birthday! Hope it's a good one

Thanks I’m sure I will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy birthday

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By *ackson1989 OP Man
over a year ago

London

Thank you

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Bumping this for the handsome Birthdåy Bôy!

I hope (and expect) the OP has been spoiling himself with lashings of ginger beer and sherbet.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Happy day of birth

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