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"Crazy thing you've done that goes against your boundaries or limits or principles or morals? Could you fall in love with someone who told you they cheated on their spouse more than once? Could you utterly throw yourself at someone you really fancied? So could you break your principles, morals, boundaries, limits and so on and have you??? Can you tell us what it was and why? " Had sex with a married man fully knowing that he was married. I was young,stupid and naive, and he was a lot older. I didn't plan for it to happen, but I did not say no when it happened. 10/10 would not do it again. Fall in love? Maybe. Stay with said person and expect them to be honest and loyal? Never. If they already cheated multiple times they will most likely cheat again. Yes, I could and I did. It paid out as now I'm married to him K | |||
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"Curious to see how this one develops. Call me cynical, but morals and principles don’t appear to exist very much in the world today. People talk about them, but they are easily negotiated when they become inconvenient. " I'm expecting it to nosedive. Because I think people will lack the honesty it takes to admit it and won't want to paint themselves in a bad light to others. But I think it says more about the person if they can be honest and admit it than what they did that was against their own principles etc. | |||
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"Crazy thing you've done that goes against your boundaries or limits or principles or morals? Could you fall in love with someone who told you they cheated on their spouse more than once? Could you utterly throw yourself at someone you really fancied? So could you break your principles, morals, boundaries, limits and so on and have you??? Can you tell us what it was and why? " I had sex with someone without a social first. Without sounding like a wet rag here but I do feel as though I need to know the person first and build trust. Second question is difficult. I don't judge people who have cheated. I think it's unfair to label people for having an affair. There is much more to it than that. No. I couldn't do that. I am always too scared of rejection. For the last look at my first answer for the reason why, I was caught up in the fantasy. | |||
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"I believe my morals to be questionable to others but I'm comfortable with my choices " This for me too. And I think I’ll keep my immoral activities to myself | |||
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"I believe my morals to be questionable to others but I'm comfortable with my choices This for me too. And I think I’ll keep my immoral activities to myself " Mores the pity | |||
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"Curious to see how this one develops. Call me cynical, but morals and principles don’t appear to exist very much in the world today. People talk about them, but they are easily negotiated when they become inconvenient. I'm expecting it to nosedive. Because I think people will lack the honesty it takes to admit it and won't want to paint themselves in a bad light to others. But I think it says more about the person if they can be honest and admit it than what they did that was against their own principles etc. " Maybe so. Morals and principals require steadfast understanding and commitment to a specific point of view. That was fine, perhaps, decades ago. But the world, and all of us in it, are shades of grey now. Complex, flexible, flawed. It’s hard to maintain a black and white perspective in a world that is consistently changing. All those lines in the sand are washed away by the tides. | |||
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"I had sex with my left hand once, my right hand was NOT happy." The grass isn't always greener | |||
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"Crazy thing you've done that goes against your boundaries or limits or principles or morals? Could you fall in love with someone who told you they cheated on their spouse more than once? Could you utterly throw yourself at someone you really fancied? So could you break your principles, morals, boundaries, limits and so on and have you??? Can you tell us what it was and why? " In this lifestyle, there would be no need for them to be dishonest | |||
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"Crazy thing you've done that goes against your boundaries or limits or principles or morals? Could you fall in love with someone who told you they cheated on their spouse more than once? Could you utterly throw yourself at someone you really fancied? So could you break your principles, morals, boundaries, limits and so on and have you??? Can you tell us what it was and why? " I cheated on my wife when we were married prior to having an open relationship. She was the only person I had sex with. It opened my mind so much she wondered how I became a better lover afterwards. | |||
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