FabSwingers.com forum: Leaving you disappointed

By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Travelling

Have you ever gone to somebody for advice?

Somebody you thought could truely give you the word of God on what you should do, somebody you thought you could trust to point you in the right direction and have everything be alright?

Only to then have them fail, produce nothing of any kind of help or substance toward your dilemma and then not be able to see them as anything but a big let down and disappointment in your eyes forever changed by their lack of advice?

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but in all fairness, the birds and the bees chat is awkward.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I'm not sure that's something that's fair to be annoyed at someone for. Unless they're a professional, and you've paid them. Then get your money back

LvM

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Yes I have OP. It is a massive disappointment.

But maybe they just couldn’t help with your dilemma?

Or maybe they just don’t possess enough empathy to help?

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

Yes and they were my superior at work

needless to say I am no longer employed at that establishment

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Have you ever gone to somebody for advice?

Somebody you thought could truely give you the word of God on what you should do, somebody you thought you could trust to point you in the right direction and have everything be alright?

Not in the last 6.5 years, im very fortunate who I take my stuff to, amd that their all very solution focused

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Travelling

"I'm not sure that's something that's fair to be annoyed at someone for. Unless they're a professional, and you've paid them. Then get your money back

LvM"

I asked somebody who claims they love all things horror to provide me with their favourite horror movie as I wanted something to watch. They could not.

I then asked them to provide me with a decent horror movie to watch. They could not.

They then proceeded to tell me of something that starts good, but ends shit.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Depends on the the thing I needed help with really.

Matters of the heart? No

Work? Yes

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I'm not sure that's something that's fair to be annoyed at someone for. Unless they're a professional, and you've paid them. Then get your money back

LvM

I asked somebody who claims they love all things horror to provide me with their favourite horror movie as I wanted something to watch. They could not.

I then asked them to provide me with a decent horror movie to watch. They could not.

They then proceeded to tell me of something that starts good, but ends shit. "

Arsenal every season ?

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I'm not sure that's something that's fair to be annoyed at someone for. Unless they're a professional, and you've paid them. Then get your money back

LvM

I asked somebody who claims they love all things horror to provide me with their favourite horror movie as I wanted something to watch. They could not.

I then asked them to provide me with a decent horror movie to watch. They could not.

They then proceeded to tell me of something that starts good, but ends shit. "

Oh. Well that's different

I would recommend Sinister

LvM

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

"I'm not sure that's something that's fair to be annoyed at someone for. Unless they're a professional, and you've paid them. Then get your money back

LvM

I asked somebody who claims they love all things horror to provide me with their favourite horror movie as I wanted something to watch. They could not.

I then asked them to provide me with a decent horror movie to watch. They could not.

They then proceeded to tell me of something that starts good, but ends shit. "

Not sure if it's a horror but Fall on Netflix is good

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

"I'm not sure that's something that's fair to be annoyed at someone for. Unless they're a professional, and you've paid them. Then get your money back

LvM

I asked somebody who claims they love all things horror to provide me with their favourite horror movie as I wanted something to watch. They could not.

I then asked them to provide me with a decent horror movie to watch. They could not.

They then proceeded to tell me of something that starts good, but ends shit. "

It wasn't Megan was it? Someone told me to watch that which I did the other day, I am never speaking to them again!

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"I asked somebody who claims they love all things horror to provide me with their favourite horror movie as I wanted something to watch. They could not.

I then asked them to provide me with a decent horror movie to watch. They could not.

They then proceeded to tell me of something that starts good, but ends shit. "

Maybe they were worried that their favourite wouldn't live up to your expectations and they didn't want to disappoint you. And then forever be a failure in your eyes.

But at least you didn't do a thread about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not sure that's something that's fair to be annoyed at someone for. Unless they're a professional, and you've paid them. Then get your money back

LvM

I asked somebody who claims they love all things horror to provide me with their favourite horror movie as I wanted something to watch. They could not.

I then asked them to provide me with a decent horror movie to watch. They could not.

They then proceeded to tell me of something that starts good, but ends shit. "

They sound utterly disappointing

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Once yes. But as time went by I realised why, this was something only I could fix. He knew it , I knew it eventually. I remember all the times when we go running together and he gave me advice, he was / is still a good friend

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Phew. Not me, then.

This time, anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a really tough 18 months in life…

Death of a parent

Breakdown of an engagement and end of relationship

It’s in moments like that you find out who really has your back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a really tough 18 months in life…

Death of a parent

Breakdown of an engagement and end of relationship

It’s in moments like that you find out who really has your back."

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"I'm not sure that's something that's fair to be annoyed at someone for. Unless they're a professional, and you've paid them. Then get your money back

LvM

I asked somebody who claims they love all things horror to provide me with their favourite horror movie as I wanted something to watch. They could not.

I then asked them to provide me with a decent horror movie to watch. They could not.

They then proceeded to tell me of something that starts good, but ends shit. "

I'd question if they really loves horror as much as they said they did... if they really did they'd know a fair bit about it...

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"I had a really tough 18 months in life…

Death of a parent

Breakdown of an engagement and end of relationship

It’s in moments like that you find out who really has your back."

Oh that's a really rough time, sorry to hear that.. in the words of Shinedown

It's amazing what the hard times can reveal (have faith that you're not alone)

Like who shows up, who walks away, and who's for real (have faith that you're not on your own) xx

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
over a year ago

London or Bedford

Ask yourself this...Do you REALLY want advice? A lot of the time when we’re looking for advice from a third party, we’re looking for someone to reaffirm what we already know

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes. It takes a lot for me to ask for help or advice as I don't usually like to admit I need it. I had something important that I needed help on though and asked advice from family. One family member helped but the other fobbed me off and I felt very let down. I shouldn't have been surprised as it follows a pattern that's been going on for several years now but what I was asking was similar to what they do for a job and they go on about how they are there for me and I can ask for help so thought this time may have been different.

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