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By *r_Pink OP   Man
over a year ago

london stratford

I have been reading post in the last week and seen so much moaning and negativity.

Why do people reach out on here? this is not a place for that! get professional help!

Why use the forums to ask for advice concerning mental health issues?

Why are there soooooooooooo many gay guys on here?

Why are there so many bi guys on here?

Why are there so many single guys on here?

All I can say is. Who (The Feck) are you to say who can and can not use these forums?

If you do not like a post, either make a comment on the post why you disagree with it, complain to the mods if it is offensive or better still, JUST FUCKING IGNORE THE POST!

Its as simple as that!

Personally, I love the forums as it gives me a feeling I belong to a sub culture that on the whole, understands me as a person. Also, sometimes, makes me laugh and sometimes makes me have more of an understanding of things I knew very little about.

So can we have some positive comments on this post please! i.e Tell me/us what YOU like/LOVE/adore about the forums.

Lets have a nice happy post.

Thanks

x

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I like the forum because of all the different threads on subjects and replies, it is comedy gold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love that I can ask for boobs and vag pic’s to my inbox. And I sometimes get them too.

It’s fuckin awesome!

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

Well OP I like the fact that I can twirl and throw glitter with abandon and most people tolorate my silly antic

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By *r_Pink OP   Man
over a year ago

london stratford


"I like the forum because of all the different threads on subjects and replies, it is comedy gold "

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By *r_Pink OP   Man
over a year ago

london stratford


"I love that I can ask for boobs and vag pic’s to my inbox. And I sometimes get them too.

It’s fuckin awesome!"

I am gonna have to try that one out myself, coz lets face it, what red blooded straight or bi guy don't like a bitta boobs n flange in their inbox!

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By *r_Pink OP   Man
over a year ago

london stratford


"Well OP I like the fact that I can twirl and throw glitter with abandon and most people tolorate my silly antic "

feel free to glitter me up any time sweety xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Irony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forums are like life. All different opinions. Some of them I like to read and partake in. Others act as great filters

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By *r_Pink OP   Man
over a year ago

london stratford


"Irony "

???

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By *r_Pink OP   Man
over a year ago

london stratford


"Forums are like life. All different opinions. Some of them I like to read and partake in. Others act as great filters "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know if I can muster any positivity right now......

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Oh yea I can!!! I like that there are caring considerate people

Nice smile OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the people. Some of them I have met, some I would like to.

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By *r_Pink OP   Man
over a year ago

london stratford


"I don't know if I can muster any positivity right now......

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Oh yea I can!!! I like that there are caring considerate people

Nice smile OP "

Sorry to hear that.

((((((sending you cyber hugs)))))

and its people like you who make me smile x

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By *r_Pink OP   Man
over a year ago

london stratford


"I like the people. Some of them I have met, some I would like to. "

and I am sure LOADS a people wanna meet you as you are a lovely person too

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the forum because of all the different threads on subjects and replies, it is comedy gold "

Hehe.. Comedy classic better than a carry on matron movie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just love the post where people moan about people moaning. And then people will moan about the people moaning and then there will be more moaning….

I prefer the other kind of moaning the naughty kind haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the forum because of all the different threads on subjects and replies, it is comedy gold

Hehe.. Comedy classic better than a carry on matron movie. "

Ooooooo Matron

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By *r_Pink OP   Man
over a year ago

london stratford


"I like the forum because of all the different threads on subjects and replies, it is comedy gold

Hehe.. Comedy classic better than a carry on matron movie. "

exactomudo baby!

ohhhhhhhhhhhhh er mrs!

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By *eliciouslyFilthyGentMan
over a year ago

York


"I love that I can ask for boobs and vag pic’s to my inbox. And I sometimes get them too.

It’s fuckin awesome!"

Does that work??

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By *r_Pink OP   Man
over a year ago

london stratford


"I just love the post where people moan about people moaning. And then people will moan about the people moaning and then there will be more moaning….

I prefer the other kind of moaning the naughty kind haha"

excactly!

what do we want? we want positive moans!

when do we want it?

OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA baby. ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

NOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I stay on this site for the forums and feel at home in the lounge. Some threads annoy me and some thread starters do my head in with their inanity. So I skip ALL of his. I skip sports related threads as I have no interest in them. But there are always enough threads that interest me. I have learnt a lot from this forum. I have had glimpses into the struggles people face from disability gender or race issues. I think this has made me a slightly better person.

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By *r_Pink OP   Man
over a year ago

london stratford


"I stay on this site for the forums and feel at home in the lounge. Some threads annoy me and some thread starters do my head in with their inanity. So I skip ALL of his. I skip sports related threads as I have no interest in them. But there are always enough threads that interest me. I have learnt a lot from this forum. I have had glimpses into the struggles people face from disability gender or race issues. I think this has made me a slightly better person."

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn


"Well OP I like the fact that I can twirl and throw glitter with abandon and most people tolorate my silly antic

feel free to glitter me up any time sweety xxx"

**twirls in, throws glitter, twirls out**

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the fact that The Forums™ have taught me that there is a hell of a lot more acceptance out there than I had ever dared to hope.

I am grateful that through the kindness of contacts on The Forums™ I am still here to talk about it. A dark time in my life was made slightly less dark by the kindness of internet strangers.

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

Some people like to use the forum to reach out to friends, others ask questions, some want to debate the mysteries of the universe.

Some want cake, and others throw glitter everywhere like we’re expected to clean up afterwards.

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By *r_Pink OP   Man
over a year ago

london stratford


"I love the fact that The Forums™ have taught me that there is a hell of a lot more acceptance out there than I had ever dared to hope.

I am grateful that through the kindness of contacts on The Forums™ I am still here to talk about it. A dark time in my life was made slightly less dark by the kindness of internet strangers.

"

you are my No 1 fab trannie my dear x

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By *r_Pink OP   Man
over a year ago

london stratford


"Some people like to use the forum to reach out to friends, others ask questions, some want to debate the mysteries of the universe.

Some want cake, and others throw glitter everywhere like we’re expected to clean up afterwards. "

Now now Morgybaby! that last bit seemed a tad negative.

now gissa cuddle and be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you do not like a post, either make a comment on the post why you disagree with it, complain to the mods if it is offensive or better still, JUST FUCKING IGNORE THE POST"

Follow your own advice OP?

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone get the OP a kitkat

Mrs C

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"I have been reading post in the last week and seen so much moaning and negativity.

Why do people reach out on here? this is not a place for that! get professional help!

Why use the forums to ask for advice concerning mental health issues?

Why are there soooooooooooo many gay guys on here?

Why are there so many bi guys on here?

Why are there so many single guys on here?

All I can say is. Who (The Feck) are you to say who can and can not use these forums?

If you do not like a post, either make a comment on the post why you disagree with it, complain to the mods if it is offensive or better still, JUST FUCKING IGNORE THE POST!

Its as simple as that!

Personally, I love the forums as it gives me a feeling I belong to a sub culture that on the whole, understands me as a person. Also, sometimes, makes me laugh and sometimes makes me have more of an understanding of things I knew very little about.

So can we have some positive comments on this post please! i.e Tell me/us what YOU like/LOVE/adore about the forums.

Lets have a nice happy post.

Thanks

x"

Yo Garryyyyy you moaning

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

What other forum platforms can you perv on their tits and arse whilst debating whether greyhound racing should be banned?

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley


"Well OP I like the fact that I can twirl and throw glitter with abandon and most people tolorate my silly antic "

Twirls and glitter are smile inspiring

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

What would life be without any opinions positive or negative some Will agree some disagree but can act as a filter

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn


"Well OP I like the fact that I can twirl and throw glitter with abandon and most people tolorate my silly antic

Twirls and glitter are smile inspiring "

My job here is complete

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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As much as I understand what you're saying OP, I like the negativity. I'm not talking about the abuse, the dirty laundry airing, the name-calling etc. I'm talking about the different ways people express themselves.

I don't want a saccharine circle jerk of a fora. I like that people challenge things, discuss a myriad of things and can express how they really feel. Respond to things. Sometimes when someone says something that doesn’t agree, it's seen as a negative. That's not how it works.

Whilst I don't agree with certain aforementioned negativity, I like the balance. That's what keeps the fora ticking over.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

We are English, would love a good moan!

So bloody cold today isn’t it , I literally can’t get warm !

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

I mainly ignore threads and posts by people who like to spoil it for others. And ley's face it there are a few sad ones about. Especially when they highjack other people's threads for their own agendas, or become very personal and abusive. On the other hand I enjoy the forums, including opinions and civilised debate and of course some of the lighter threads on food, holidays and so many more that lift one's spirit, inform and entertain. It is just that a platform for people to share, some will agree, some not but that is not a bad thing as long as it is within the realms of respect for one another.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Away for Christmas


"As much as I understand what you're saying OP, I like the negativity. I'm not talking about the abuse, the dirty laundry airing, the name-calling etc. I'm talking about the different ways people express themselves.

I don't want a saccharine circle jerk of a fora. I like that people challenge things, discuss a myriad of things and can express how they really feel. Respond to things. Sometimes when someone says something that doesn’t agree, it's seen as a negative. That's not how it works.

Whilst I don't agree with certain aforementioned negativity, I like the balance. That's what keeps the fora ticking over."

What she said!

Bring on the balance. Negativity is not negative... kind of, you know what I mean!

Too much positivity is nauseating and more often than not forced and fake anyway. #Bekind has a lot to answer for and it's the epitome of hypocrisy more often than not.

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"I have been reading post in the last week and seen so much moaning and negativity.

Why do people reach out on here? this is not a place for that! get professional help!

Why use the forums to ask for advice concerning mental health issues?

Why are there soooooooooooo many gay guys on here?

Why are there so many bi guys on here?

Why are there so many single guys on here?

All I can say is. Who (The Feck) are you to say who can and can not use these forums?

If you do not like a post, either make a comment on the post why you disagree with it, complain to the mods if it is offensive or better still, JUST FUCKING IGNORE THE POST!

Its as simple as that!

Personally, I love the forums as it gives me a feeling I belong to a sub culture that on the whole, understands me as a person. Also, sometimes, makes me laugh and sometimes makes me have more of an understanding of things I knew very little about.

So can we have some positive comments on this post please! i.e Tell me/us what YOU like/LOVE/adore about the forums.

Lets have a nice happy post.

Thanks

x"

But if you don't like the negative posts why don't you follow your own advice "JUST FUCKING IGNORE THE POST!" This seems like quite a moaning and negative post

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

Hence the comment above by somebody about irony

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn


"I have been reading post in the last week and seen so much moaning and negativity.

Why do people reach out on here? this is not a place for that! get professional help!

Why use the forums to ask for advice concerning mental health issues?

Why are there soooooooooooo many gay guys on here?

Why are there so many bi guys on here?

Why are there so many single guys on here?

All I can say is. Who (The Feck) are you to say who can and can not use these forums?

If you do not like a post, either make a comment on the post why you disagree with it, complain to the mods if it is offensive or better still, JUST FUCKING IGNORE THE POST!

Its as simple as that!

Personally, I love the forums as it gives me a feeling I belong to a sub culture that on the whole, understands me as a person. Also, sometimes, makes me laugh and sometimes makes me have more of an understanding of things I knew very little about.

So can we have some positive comments on this post please! i.e Tell me/us what YOU like/LOVE/adore about the forums.

Lets have a nice happy post.

Thanks

x

But if you don't like the negative posts why don't you follow your own advice "JUST FUCKING IGNORE THE POST!" This seems like quite a moaning and negative post "

Is there an echo in here?

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow


"I have been reading post in the last week and seen so much moaning and negativity.

Why do people reach out on here? this is not a place for that! get professional help!

Why use the forums to ask for advice concerning mental health issues?

Why are there soooooooooooo many gay guys on here?

Why are there so many bi guys on here?

Why are there so many single guys on here?

All I can say is. Who (The Feck) are you to say who can and can not use these forums?

If you do not like a post, either make a comment on the post why you disagree with it, complain to the mods if it is offensive or better still, JUST FUCKING IGNORE THE POST!

Its as simple as that!

Personally, I love the forums as it gives me a feeling I belong to a sub culture that on the whole, understands me as a person. Also, sometimes, makes me laugh and sometimes makes me have more of an understanding of things I knew very little about.

So can we have some positive comments on this post please! i.e Tell me/us what YOU like/LOVE/adore about the forums.

Lets have a nice happy post.

Thanks

x

But if you don't like the negative posts why don't you follow your own advice "JUST FUCKING IGNORE THE POST!" This seems like quite a moaning and negative post

Is there an echo in here?"

Are you moaning? Apologies if I was repetitive - life is too short to read every reply to a thread before commenting.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Hold on minute.

Just let me get this correct.

You’re moaning about moaning.

Why is your moaning different?

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums taught me to read in a North Korean prison. Who knew ‘cumdump’was also the secret password to freedom in North Korean? Marvellous.

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By *r_Pink OP   Man
over a year ago

london stratford


""If you do not like a post, either make a comment on the post why you disagree with it, complain to the mods if it is offensive or better still, JUST FUCKING IGNORE THE POST"

Follow your own advice OP?"

Thanks for the positivity!!!

I don't think I have ever complained about a post! but I have on many occations made a comment if I didnt agree and most times I just skip past it,

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By *r_Pink OP   Man
over a year ago

london stratford


"Someone get the OP a kitkat

Mrs C "

again. thanks for the positivity!!!!

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By *r_Pink OP   Man
over a year ago

london stratford


"As much as I understand what you're saying OP, I like the negativity. I'm not talking about the abuse, the dirty laundry airing, the name-calling etc. I'm talking about the different ways people express themselves.

I don't want a saccharine circle jerk of a fora. I like that people challenge things, discuss a myriad of things and can express how they really feel. Respond to things. Sometimes when someone says something that doesn’t agree, it's seen as a negative. That's not how it works.

Whilst I don't agree with certain aforementioned negativity, I like the balance. That's what keeps the fora ticking over."

All I am asking for )in this post ) is some happy positive vibes! its something I have noticed recently and just want to be uplifting!

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By *r_Pink OP   Man
over a year ago

london stratford


"We are English, would love a good moan!

So bloody cold today isn’t it , I literally can’t get warm ! "

(((hands MrHotNotts a warm blanket)))

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By *r_Pink OP   Man
over a year ago

london stratford


"I have been reading post in the last week and seen so much moaning and negativity.

Why do people reach out on here? this is not a place for that! get professional help!

Why use the forums to ask for advice concerning mental health issues?

Why are there soooooooooooo many gay guys on here?

Why are there so many bi guys on here?

Why are there so many single guys on here?

All I can say is. Who (The Feck) are you to say who can and can not use these forums?

If you do not like a post, either make a comment on the post why you disagree with it, complain to the mods if it is offensive or better still, JUST FUCKING IGNORE THE POST!

Its as simple as that!

Personally, I love the forums as it gives me a feeling I belong to a sub culture that on the whole, understands me as a person. Also, sometimes, makes me laugh and sometimes makes me have more of an understanding of things I knew very little about.

So can we have some positive comments on this post please! i.e Tell me/us what YOU like/LOVE/adore about the forums.

Lets have a nice happy post.

Thanks

x

But if you don't like the negative posts why don't you follow your own advice "JUST FUCKING IGNORE THE POST!" This seems like quite a moaning and negative post "

Wow. I feel like people are trying to make this negative!

have a great day

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham


"I have been reading post in the last week and seen so much moaning and negativity.

Why do people reach out on here? this is not a place for that! get professional help!

Why use the forums to ask for advice concerning mental health issues?

Why are there soooooooooooo many gay guys on here?

Why are there so many bi guys on here?

Why are there so many single guys on here?

All I can say is. Who (The Feck) are you to say who can and can not use these forums?

If you do not like a post, either make a comment on the post why you disagree with it, complain to the mods if it is offensive or better still, JUST FUCKING IGNORE THE POST!

Its as simple as that!

Personally, I love the forums as it gives me a feeling I belong to a sub culture that on the whole, understands me as a person. Also, sometimes, makes me laugh and sometimes makes me have more of an understanding of things I knew very little about.

So can we have some positive comments on this post please! i.e Tell me/us what YOU like/LOVE/adore about the forums.

Lets have a nice happy post.

Thanks

x"

Because some people won't get help, but will put stuff on here.

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I just love the post where people moan about people moaning. And then people will moan about the people moaning and then there will be more moaning….

I prefer the other kind of moaning the naughty kind haha"

Exactly this. Moaning about moaners.

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By *r_Pink OP   Man
over a year ago

london stratford

is there any chance what so ever that this post can be where people actually have good things to say about the forums?

if not! please pass this post by! I gave examples (without using anyones names or specific posts) but I am seeing the negativity that I did not want on this post!

sorry for trying!!!!!!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I stay on this site for the forums and feel at home in the lounge. Some threads annoy me and some thread starters do my head in with their inanity. So I skip ALL of his. I skip sports related threads as I have no interest in them. But there are always enough threads that interest me. I have learnt a lot from this forum. I have had glimpses into the struggles people face from disability gender or race issues. I think this has made me a slightly better person."

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By *ell I WonderMan
29 weeks ago

Staines

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By *ell I WonderMan
29 weeks ago

Staines


"I love that I can ask for boobs and vag pic’s to my inbox. And I sometimes get them too.

It’s fuckin awesome!"

I'd be happy to receive also!

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By *erry bull1Man
29 weeks ago

doncaster

Variety makes a good thread

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
29 weeks ago

Leeds

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By *allandathleticMan
29 weeks ago

Asgard


"sometimes makes me have more of an understanding of things I knew very little about.

x"

Such as, freedom of speech and expression?

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
29 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

Reading all that had me questioning my reason of existing!!

Nah I am lying I got bored halfway through

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By *ansoffateMan
29 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

He's right, so much negativity on here, it's repugnant.

Why can't you all just be nice - that's what's wrong with humanity.

If we got rid of all the negative people it would be paradise.

Hold on a minute. Am I the bad guy?

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