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By *R.MandMRS.T OP   Couple
over a year ago

lurgan

So we alwase see on profiles say messaged like hey how you doing or things like that are an instant block, so we're curious what does everyone consider a good appropriate first message that dosent consist of asking how they are or anything about there profile, no hate just curios to see what people think is good, sorry about bad spelling (mrs.t)

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

When they're opener is wanting to give me the KnobSlobber9000 while K eats her pussy from the back

LvM

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island


"When they're opener is wanting to give me the KnobSlobber9000 while K eats her pussy from the back

LvM"

Please tell me you did not genuinely receive an opener like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me a good first message is something o may have said or they may have said in the forums. Reference to mine or their profile.

Not war and peace written

Cut and paste definitely not

I don’t mind a hey how are you as well. Sometimes you script a good message and get nothing back. So short and sweet works as well

Lastly people who ask for face pics and don’t have any or make “demands” for things on a first message when they don’t have face pics etc are a no from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send a basic intro, name locality a sentence or two... attAch a picture or two and the balls in their court.

If there's no attraction no words I'd type would change the response/lack of response

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"When they're opener is wanting to give me the KnobSlobber9000 while K eats her pussy from the back

LvM

Please tell me you did not genuinely receive an opener like that "

Not yet but for the right lady, it might work

LvM

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By *inkedKuntsCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

For us it doesn't matter one bit what you put in a first message. We would rather get a 'Hi' than someone trying to be funny or making relevant lines to our profile in a message as it always appears so forced.

Before we even open it we look at the profile, if that doesn't suit what we are looking for then it's not going to happen. Even if its the greatest first message ever it will still get deleted.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Find something we have in common. My profile makes this easy.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Does a person know enough about the person to be asking how they're doing (nope) being creative, thinking outside the box even sense of humour or even something that was found interesting about their profile which caught your attention, similar interests, distance

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It needs to show some personality; the ability to hold a conversation and not just about sex; and it needs to show some interest in us rather than something that could be said to half the population of the UK.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Doesn’t really matter what they put if I like the person/ profile. But, it’s really nice when they make an effort to introduce themselves properly and tell me why I they are messaging me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Struggled with this for a while, any tips of first messages and what should be in profile

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Struggled with this for a while, any tips of first messages and what should be in profile"

Something about their profile and what you have in common.

Probably better to start your own thread to ask for profile advice, or look at the many others. The advice is pretty generic most of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Thank you "

Hi buddy

Plenty of helpful advice among the pile of previous posts over the years. If you care to do a forum

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Thank you

Hi buddy

Plenty of helpful advice among the pile of previous posts over the years. If you care to do a forum "

Search

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