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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Being aware that swinging seems more about sharing sexual experiences and no emotional attachments are really in order.

I'm curious to find out which is of greater value, for both Ladies and Gents, I ask you which do you want more, Loving passion, sensual & caring and loyalty to an emotion that is shared (like being in love)

Or

Lustful dirty & erotic sex with no strings attached or domestic issues, no emotional engagement but some really good, hard sex

One could say well you can have both?

I'm curious as to which one would you not be able to live without if given a choice 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One can say you can have both.

Never limit yourself my son. That way only leads to the dark side x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One can say you can have both.

Never limit yourself my son. That way only leads to the dark side x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex side. Don't need the first bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To make is easier its probs just best to say:-

"Sex"

Or

"Romance"

If one had to be chosen from the other, heartless physical orgasms or sensual lovemaking, by definition

Personally I choose Romance

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"

Lustful dirty & erotic sex with no strings attached or domestic issues, no emotional engagement but some really good, hard sex

"

Works for me - had the other. No longer interested in it.

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

Just the sex, no playing games or messing about. It works for me.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

sex for gentleman callers. romance with my beloved. best of both worlds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Being aware that swinging seems more about sharing sexual experiences and no emotional attachments are really in order.

I'm curious to find out which is of greater value, for both Ladies and Gents, I ask you which do you want more, Loving passion, sensual & caring and loyalty to an emotion that is shared (like being in love)

Or

Lustful dirty & erotic sex with no strings attached or domestic issues, no emotional engagement but some really good, hard sex

One could say well you can have both?

I'm curious as to which one would you not be able to live without if given a choice 3

"

For me I have M for loving passion and emotional connection, no man can have sex with me like he can, swinging is just pure erotic casual sex.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

A bit of both... I am a greedy bitch!!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Can't you have lustful dirty erotic sex with your partner then?

I can

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Can't you have lustful dirty erotic sex with your partner then?

I can "

Show off,...

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"

Being aware that swinging seems more about sharing sexual experiences and no emotional attachments are really in order.

I'm curious to find out which is of greater value, for both Ladies and Gents, I ask you which do you want more, Loving passion, sensual & caring and loyalty to an emotion that is shared (like being in love)

Or

Lustful dirty & erotic sex with no strings attached or domestic issues, no emotional engagement but some really good, hard sex

One could say well you can have both?

I'm curious as to which one would you not be able to live without if given a choice 3

For me I have M for loving passion and emotional connection, no man can have sex with me like he can, swinging is just pure erotic casual sex."

Julie, there is someone looking for you in the older woman thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple for us its romance four us as a couple and sex with meets. It must be different for singles though and know a few who have merged things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Being aware that swinging seems more about sharing sexual experiences and no emotional attachments are really in order.

I'm curious to find out which is of greater value, for both Ladies and Gents, I ask you which do you want more, Loving passion, sensual & caring and loyalty to an emotion that is shared (like being in love)

Or

Lustful dirty & erotic sex with no strings attached or domestic issues, no emotional engagement but some really good, hard sex

One could say well you can have both?

I'm curious as to which one would you not be able to live without if given a choice 3

For me I have M for loving passion and emotional connection, no man can have sex with me like he can, swinging is just pure erotic casual sex.

Julie, there is someone looking for you in the older woman thread "

Oi you are the near OAP, not me

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I have only really gone for the sex side in the past 7 years but the love side hit me awhile back and it made me the happiest I had ever been. Luckily we both shared the lustful side too so it was best if both worlds.

I never expected to find that and do not expect I will ever find it again.

So would love the romance again but accept it would be the lustful side for me now x

Fruit x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have said romance a week ago, now I'm looking for nothing more than the reason I joined here years ago.....fun!!.....of the dirty, filthy, dominating variety of course.

My wee black books filling up nicely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't you have lustful dirty erotic sex with your partner then?

I can "

Was thinking that myself.. I just am not interested in the romance side of things now with anyone..

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"

Being aware that swinging seems more about sharing sexual experiences and no emotional attachments are really in order.

I'm curious to find out which is of greater value, for both Ladies and Gents, I ask you which do you want more, Loving passion, sensual & caring and loyalty to an emotion that is shared (like being in love)

Or

Lustful dirty & erotic sex with no strings attached or domestic issues, no emotional engagement but some really good, hard sex

One could say well you can have both?

I'm curious as to which one would you not be able to live without if given a choice 3

For me I have M for loving passion and emotional connection, no man can have sex with me like he can, swinging is just pure erotic casual sex.

Julie, there is someone looking for you in the older woman thread

Oi you are the near OAP, not me "

You have the strap on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Being aware that swinging seems more about sharing sexual experiences and no emotional attachments are really in order.

I'm curious to find out which is of greater value, for both Ladies and Gents, I ask you which do you want more, Loving passion, sensual & caring and loyalty to an emotion that is shared (like being in love)

Or

Lustful dirty & erotic sex with no strings attached or domestic issues, no emotional engagement but some really good, hard sex

One could say well you can have both?

I'm curious as to which one would you not be able to live without if given a choice 3

For me I have M for loving passion and emotional connection, no man can have sex with me like he can, swinging is just pure erotic casual sex.

Julie, there is someone looking for you in the older woman thread

Oi you are the near OAP, not me

You have the strap on "

You can borrow it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like passion and sensual sex but without the caring and loyalty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Loving passion, sensual & caring and loyalty to an emotion that is shared (like being in love)

"

This is what I need. Doesn't mean I can't have random sex too, but that just scratches an itch, and I'd give it up anytime.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Can't you have lustful dirty erotic sex with your partner then?

I can

Show off,... "

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I get sensual and caring with my 'buddy' and we leave it at that. No other emotions, other than making each other happy. Perfect

With anyone else, I like there to be some sensuality, or sometimes wild and rampant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when you give so much of yourself to sex ... and have feeling it can hurt when not a two way thing .....it hurts,

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"when you give so much of yourself to sex ... and have feeling it can hurt when not a two way thing .....it hurts,"
i dont understand what that means Jo?

Oh and OP i like both...but you cant beat a good hard fuck...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me both when in a relationship, but as I'm not wanting that right now, its sexy fun with no commitments or emotions all the way..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me both when in a relationship, but as I'm not wanting that right now, its sexy fun with no commitments or emotions all the way.."

This is a very good answer xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One can say you can have both.

Never limit yourself my son. That way only leads to the dark side x"

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Both.

...and both can have their place in swinging quite happily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say that it's possible for the 1st to develop from the 2nd!

But of course that would mean letting your emotions go.........!!

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"One can say you can have both.

Never limit yourself my son. That way only leads to the dark side x"

I agree with master yoda

but also want to join the dark side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex and a sammich is just fine for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One can say you can have both.

Never limit yourself my son. That way only leads to the dark side x

I agree with master yoda

but also want to join the dark side "

Fab is the Darkside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Being aware that swinging seems more about sharing sexual experiences and no emotional attachments are really in order.

I'm curious to find out which is of greater value, for both Ladies and Gents, I ask you which do you want more, Loving passion, sensual & caring and loyalty to an emotion that is shared (like being in love)

Or

Lustful dirty & erotic sex with no strings attached or domestic issues, no emotional engagement but some really good, hard sex

One could say well you can have both?

I'm curious as to which one would you not be able to live without if given a choice 3

"

i think everyone wants to be in love and be loved,the ones tht say they dont are just kidding themselves!i luv dirty no strings sex but i think if im really honest id prefer making love to sumone i care for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex and a sammich is just fine for me "

...... a sex sammich is even finer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make love to my wife I have sex with all the others

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"One can say you can have both.

Never limit yourself my son. That way only leads to the dark side x

I agree with master yoda

but also want to join the dark side

Fab is the Darkside "

No it isnt, everyone's sweet and innocent here with no naughty kinky evil intentions, that's why i joined the site

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