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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So personally I find myself in messages that I try to be as polite as possible as I believe it is the best way to be as in real life friendly and approachable

What do you think? Or is the fancy a fuck the social norm here lol

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

Manners cost nothing.

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn


"Manners cost nothing. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So personally I find myself in messages that I try to be as polite as possible as I believe it is the best way to be as in real life friendly and approachable

What do you think? Or is the fancy a fuck the social norm here lol "

If your hot enough, it doesn’t matter

If your not, better to lean towards polite

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Just be as you are, it saves having to explain later if is one

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Impolite/too direct would be an instant block for me

Polite I'd consider.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Just make sure you put "m'lady" after FAF, and you'll be fine Bitches love it when you go medieval on them...

LvM

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire


"So personally I find myself in messages that I try to be as polite as possible as I believe it is the best way to be as in real life friendly and approachable

What do you think? Or is the fancy a fuck the social norm here lol

If your hot enough, it doesn’t matter

If your not, better to lean towards polite "

I'd rather be with someone that wasn't a super model but treated me kindly than a super model that treated myself and other like they're below them!!

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By *oomerangbobMan
over a year ago

stanhope

I am always polite, as I am in life.

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By *apperleymanMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Likewise - always polite.

Sometimes I wonder if couples/ single fems think that by you being polite also means that you’re a bit boring too?? It is a swingers site after all..

I’d be interested in seeing what couples/ fems think..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just make sure you put "m'lady" after FAF, and you'll be fine Bitches love it when you go medieval on them...

LvM"

This gave me a chuckle lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Likewise - always polite.

Sometimes I wonder if couples/ single fems think that by you being polite also means that you’re a bit boring too?? It is a swingers site after all..

I’d be interested in seeing what couples/ fems think.. "

Oh yes I agree would be interesting to hear what people think on that

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Just make sure you put "m'lady" after FAF, and you'll be fine Bitches love it when you go medieval on them...

LvM"

Dearest Sir, I would like to enquire about the possibility of you taking your fine hand and placing it just above my occipital ridge, then using aforementioned hand to direct my countenance towards the base of your delightful member. I believe some call it face fucking, but I am far too delicate for such profane language.

With kind regards,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just make sure you put "m'lady" after FAF, and you'll be fine Bitches love it when you go medieval on them...

LvM

Dearest Sir, I would like to enquire about the possibility of you taking your fine hand and placing it just above my occipital ridge, then using aforementioned hand to direct my countenance towards the base of your delightful member. I believe some call it face fucking, but I am far too delicate for such profane language.

With kind regards,"

M,lady would thou accompany thee for a light beverage then a duel at dawn with the possibly of archery aha maybe we need a medieval thread hmmm

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Just make sure you put "m'lady" after FAF, and you'll be fine Bitches love it when you go medieval on them...

LvM

Dearest Sir, I would like to enquire about the possibility of you taking your fine hand and placing it just above my occipital ridge, then using aforementioned hand to direct my countenance towards the base of your delightful member. I believe some call it face fucking, but I am far too delicate for such profane language.

With kind regards,

M,lady would thou accompany thee for a light beverage then a duel at dawn with the possibly of archery aha maybe we need a medieval thread hmmm"

Nah. Just you can pretty up even some pretty graphic shit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just make sure you put "m'lady" after FAF, and you'll be fine Bitches love it when you go medieval on them...

LvM

Dearest Sir, I would like to enquire about the possibility of you taking your fine hand and placing it just above my occipital ridge, then using aforementioned hand to direct my countenance towards the base of your delightful member. I believe some call it face fucking, but I am far too delicate for such profane language.

With kind regards,

M,lady would thou accompany thee for a light beverage then a duel at dawn with the possibly of archery aha maybe we need a medieval thread hmmm

Nah. Just you can pretty up even some pretty graphic shit "

I am taking notes right now with my quill :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean, being polite is great as long as it’s sincere and not forced because they think if they are nice and polite for long enough they’ll get what they want.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

How would you be if you approached someone in a bar/club?

I don’t quite understand why people try to overthink things…be yourself - that way you don’t have to overthink anything - you are you and people can decide whether you are for them.

K

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I mean, being polite is great as long as it’s sincere and not forced because they think if they are nice and polite for long enough they’ll get what they want. "

Yes. I think there's people who think "right, if I pretend to give a shit about this other person/ couple, I'll get laid".

It's pretty transparent.

There's other humans on the other end of the message. Start from that position, not "if I insert X tokens of polite/ direct, sex will fall from the machine".

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Polite can be inauthentic.

At those moments it can make my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manners cost nothing. "

Manners maketh the man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean, being polite is great as long as it’s sincere and not forced because they think if they are nice and polite for long enough they’ll get what they want.

Yes. I think there's people who think "right, if I pretend to give a shit about this other person/ couple, I'll get laid".

It's pretty transparent.

There's other humans on the other end of the message. Start from that position, not "if I insert X tokens of polite/ direct, sex will fall from the machine"."

It’s easy enough to spot and becomes boring real quick.

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"So personally I find myself in messages that I try to be as polite as possible as I believe it is the best way to be as in real life friendly and approachable

What do you think? Or is the fancy a fuck the social norm here lol "

First thing she'll look at is your face pic and if she's not attracted to you she'll move on and not even read your message but on the other hand if she does find you attractive you could write just a sentence and she'll reply. Don't be a white Knight and don't come off at a dick. Woman have messaged me with "hi" "hiya" "how's fab treating you?" If I did that it's a straight block, delete or unread going off a bit here

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I only like polite messages

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I like polite

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Like I said polite is the best way to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So personally I find myself in messages that I try to be as polite as possible as I believe it is the best way to be as in real life friendly and approachable

What do you think? Or is the fancy a fuck the social norm here lol "

Polite is great in a message but some people go to far and try and white knight it!

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON


"So personally I find myself in messages that I try to be as polite as possible as I believe it is the best way to be as in real life friendly and approachable

What do you think? Or is the fancy a fuck the social norm here lol

Polite is great in a message but some people go to far and try and white knight it!"

Thank you !

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Polite is always the best approach

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What's too polite?

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

I’m always polite costs nothing and goes a long way

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I absolutely detest a lack of manners, there's no such thing as too polite.

Mrs

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

If people don't like the polite manner and approach I'd rather pass them buy. Plenty of time to be direct and naughty when the time is right.

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