FabSwingers.com forum: Woe is me

By *oofy321 OP Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

Woe is me..I had a non fabswingers date with someone on Friday, met in a bar,soft drinks only, lasted 6hrs with lots of talking and a lot of cheeky kisses and hand holding..3 days later only 2 messages from her...woe is me

But on the bright side im available to anyone now...jump on ladies dont be shy lol

Oh well some you win some she lose x

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

How many messages did you send her after the date?

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By *oofy321 OP Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

"How many messages did you send her after the date?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Woe is me..I had a non fabswingers date with someone on Friday, met in a bar,soft drinks only, lasted 6hrs with lots of talking and a lot of cheeky kisses and hand holding..3 days later only 2 messages from her...woe is me

But on the bright side im available to anyone now...jump on ladies dont be shy lol

Oh well some you win some she lose x"

The power of carbonated soft drink.

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

"How many messages did you send her after the date?

6 messages in 2 days?

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By *oofy321 OP Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

But on the bright side im available to anyone now...jump on ladies dont be shy lol

Oh well some you win some she lose x

The power of carbonated soft drink. "

Diet soft drinks aswell...so no calories...or 2nd date lol

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

I once got ghosted after she rode my face. I was appalled I tell you! Is my face just a toy to you?!

Despicable!

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

"How many messages did you send her after the date?

6 messages in 2 days? "

OP, perhaps after 6 messages, she thought you were getting "needy".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many messages did you send her after the date?

6 messages in 2 days?

OP, perhaps after 6 messages, she thought you were getting "needy"."

Yeah 6 message without a reply would be a red flag

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

But on the bright side im available to anyone now...jump on ladies dont be shy lol

Oh well some you win some she lose x"

Two messages in three days doesn't seem bad. I'm sure that means you have lost. Unless they were address, "Dear Sir..." I have to assume she has some kind of life to lead too.

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

"How many messages did you send her after the date?

6 messages in 2 days? "

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

"How many messages did you send her after the date?

6 messages in 2 days?

OP, perhaps after 6 messages, she thought you were getting "needy".

Yeah 6 message without a reply would be a red flag "

6 does seem like quite a lots. Unless you proposed, of course, I can why you need to write about the plans you have made for your life together.

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By *oofy321 OP Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

Before we met we sent endless messages to each other

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

I think people just change their minds. It's not like when I was a young girl we went instantly into a boyfriend girlfriend situation, and we ended up marrying them !!!

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Did you 'go Dutch' OP, or did you cover the entire bill?

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By *oofy321 OP Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

"Did you 'go Dutch' OP, or did you cover the entire bill?

Dutch...im a modern man lol

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"I once got ghosted after she rode my face. I was appalled I tell you! Is my face just a toy to you?!

Despicable!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Play it cool Rodney!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woe is me! That was the title of the third book I wrote. It’s unpublished right now, but if it ever does get published, you can think of me x

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

"Did you 'go Dutch' OP, or did you cover the entire bill?

Dutch...im a modern man lol"

On a first date?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Did you 'go Dutch' OP, or did you cover the entire bill?

Dutch...im a modern man lol

On a first date?"

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Who instigated the 'Dutch manoeuvre'? You or her?

I am yet to master this technique because I only seem to attract the freeloaders.

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By *oofy321 OP Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

"Did you 'go Dutch' OP, or did you cover the entire bill?

Dutch...im a modern man lol

On a first date?

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Who instigated the 'Dutch

manoeuvre'? You or her?

I am yet to master this technique because I only seem to attract the freeloaders.

She got the 1st round because she was there waiting for me

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By *oofy321 OP Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

So I've messaged her thanking her for a nice time on our date and that im sorry she's not interested in a 2nd...truthfully I am a bit sad because she was really nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I've messaged her thanking her for a nice time on our date and that im sorry she's not interested in a 2nd...truthfully I am a bit sad because she was really nice

Here’s some advice, never send that message again

It’s simp behaviour. She told you everything you needed to know with her actions. You don’t need to grovel and say you’re sorry she’s not interested. Sorry for what?

Buck up lad

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"So I've messaged her thanking her for a nice time on our date and that im sorry she's not interested in a 2nd...truthfully I am a bit sad because she was really nice

If it's any consolation, youre prob one of a handful of dates shes juggling. Women dont do monogamous dating anymore so count yourself fortunate you didn't get stung for large dinner bill

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

"So I've messaged her thanking her for a nice time on our date and that im sorry she's not interested in a 2nd...truthfully I am a bit sad because she was really nice

Here’s some advice, never send that message again

It’s simp behaviour. She told you everything you needed to know with her actions. You don’t need to grovel and say you’re sorry she’s not interested. Sorry for what?

Buck up lad "

Don't think that's very kind.

Should be allowed to vent about his feelings if he wishes to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I've messaged her thanking her for a nice time on our date and that im sorry she's not interested in a 2nd...truthfully I am a bit sad because she was really nice

Here’s some advice, never send that message again

It’s simp behaviour. She told you everything you needed to know with her actions. You don’t need to grovel and say you’re sorry she’s not interested. Sorry for what?

Buck up lad

Don't think that's very kind.

Should be allowed to vent about his feelings if he wishes to. "

Didn’t say he couldn’t, I offered advice he’s free to take or leave

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

"So I've messaged her thanking her for a nice time on our date and that im sorry she's not interested in a 2nd...truthfully I am a bit sad because she was really nice

Here’s some advice, never send that message again

It’s simp behaviour. She told you everything you needed to know with her actions. You don’t need to grovel and say you’re sorry she’s not interested. Sorry for what?

Buck up lad

Don't think that's very kind.

Should be allowed to vent about his feelings if he wishes to.

Didn’t say he couldn’t, I offered advice he’s free to take or leave "

Don't recall the opening post asking for advice. Once read often not forgotten.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I've messaged her thanking her for a nice time on our date and that im sorry she's not interested in a 2nd...truthfully I am a bit sad because she was really nice

Here’s some advice, never send that message again

It’s simp behaviour. She told you everything you needed to know with her actions. You don’t need to grovel and say you’re sorry she’s not interested. Sorry for what?

Buck up lad

Don't think that's very kind.

Should be allowed to vent about his feelings if he wishes to.

Didn’t say he couldn’t, I offered advice he’s free to take or leave

Don't recall the opening post asking for advice. Once read often not forgotten.

Don’t remember it needing to on an open forum where you can post what you want

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By *imisugarWoman
over a year ago

Rugby

"So I've messaged her thanking her for a nice time on our date and that im sorry she's not interested in a 2nd...truthfully I am a bit sad because she was really nice

Here’s some advice, never send that message again

It’s simp behaviour. She told you everything you needed to know with her actions. You don’t need to grovel and say you’re sorry she’s not interested. Sorry for what?

Buck up lad

Don't think that's very kind.

Should be allowed to vent about his feelings if he wishes to.

Didn’t say he couldn’t, I offered advice he’s free to take or leave

Don't recall the opening post asking for advice. Once read often not forgotten.

Don’t remember it needing to on an open forum where you can post what you want "

You're right. Just think that takes a special kind of something to see someone upset about something and reply the way you did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I've messaged her thanking her for a nice time on our date and that im sorry she's not interested in a 2nd...truthfully I am a bit sad because she was really nice

Here’s some advice, never send that message again

It’s simp behaviour. She told you everything you needed to know with her actions. You don’t need to grovel and say you’re sorry she’s not interested. Sorry for what?

Buck up lad

Don't think that's very kind.

Should be allowed to vent about his feelings if he wishes to.

Didn’t say he couldn’t, I offered advice he’s free to take or leave

Don't recall the opening post asking for advice. Once read often not forgotten.

Don’t remember it needing to on an open forum where you can post what you want

You're right. Just think that takes a special kind of something to see someone upset about something and reply the way you did.

Tough truths do a man good. You might like be coddled but that isn’t going to help him in the future

The poor guy said “sorry you weren’t interested”

He’s apologising for getting ghosted

Buck it up lad. Your worth more then that.

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