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why is life so hard for a single woman?

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By *imi_Rouge OP   Woman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Tell me... why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go you!

I might comment in a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hormones and hearts.

Also if it has tyres or balls it's likely to cause you upset or break down at some point.

Otherwise it's great..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hormones and hearts.

Also if it has tyres or balls it's likely to cause you upset or break down at some point.

Otherwise it's great.. "

I really lol'd at that.

My car has cost me 4 figures this year and now needs two new tyres.

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

Reaching high stuff, although that might be a short female thing rather than single female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hormones and hearts.

Also if it has tyres or balls it's likely to cause you upset or break down at some point.

Otherwise it's great..

I really lol'd at that.

My car has cost me 4 figures this year and now needs two new tyres."

Hard year for me.. 4 new tyres

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Something something dick pics.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is so hard. I haven't had sex for six months and I'm SOOOOOOOOOOO horny. But I can't find a man I fancy who isn't a cockwomble. It's tragic.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Tell me... why?"

I never wanna hear you say, I want it, that, a way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me... why?"

I expect your box is overflowing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single woman I agree life is hard :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mimi! The men are intruding!

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

31% of adult females in the UK are single. Maybe were onto something

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Because sometimes it's nice to have someone offer to do something for you whether that is make dinner, give a foot massage without having to ask for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"31% of adult females in the UK are single. Maybe were onto something "

age 25-mid sixties, there are more single men, after that women take over big style, probably because their men are dead.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Because sometimes it's nice to have someone offer to do something for you whether that is make dinner, give a foot massage without having to ask for it "

Please see my profile title

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

It must be hard choosing from so many fine men on here

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Tell me... why?"

Is it fab wise or in general?

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"Because sometimes it's nice to have someone offer to do something for you whether that is make dinner, give a foot massage without having to ask for it

Please see my profile title "

When you next in Manchester Brucey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life is so hard. I haven't had sex for six months and I'm SOOOOOOOOOOO horny. But I can't find a man I fancy who isn't a cockwomble. It's tragic. "

Tell me about it

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Because sometimes it's nice to have someone offer to do something for you whether that is make dinner, give a foot massage without having to ask for it

Please see my profile title

When you next in Manchester Brucey "

I'll let you know! Turns out middlesborough did not offer anything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It must be hard choosing from so many fine men on here "

Fine.. You are just so fine unlike the problematic ones

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If you turn your filters up to fuck off and invest in toys, it's fabulous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos they’re fussy as fuck.

*runs*

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I'm single and have been for many years.

Even when I had a husband I might as well have been single.

I don't think my life is harder because I'm single now.

I have the basics in life and my family.

I have health problems that hinder me physically, but I had some of the issues now that I had when I was married.

I have more, and much better sex now.

I have more freedom.

I still can't put up a curtain pole or decorate my home.

I still sleep alone.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"If you turn your filters up to fuck off and invest in toys, it's fabulous "

That hair was made for playing with though let's face it!

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Sometimes when you sneeze you don’t know what’s happening in your pants. Have I gone on? Given birth to an alien? Is that the dna he left in me last night?

Also never knowing why your tummy hurts

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If you turn your filters up to fuck off and invest in toys, it's fabulous

That hair was made for playing with though let's face it!"

Don't worry, I play with it regularly.

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe


"It must be hard choosing from so many fine men on here

Fine.. You are just so fine unlike the problematic ones "

That's all I needed to hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ovaries, it’s all to to with the ovaries.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

Pah! Henceforth I shall address you as "Mini Rogue", OP. For you are a womanly rogue with perfidious tendencies to create such questionable threads.

A singleton woman's life is made from the purest carbon, but weaker than a flawed diamond. You pilfer the battle-hardened hearts of men and replace them with the darkest of shadows born from phantoms and ghouls, and you cause carnage upon their goodwill and good nature.

You haemorrhage monthly and yet you bleed us daily, we engineer the widest of roads that resemble a parking lot and yet you continue to manoeuvre 13 times for a 3 point turn. You have brought this upon thyself and yet you inflict blame on the dispirited souls of the gentle men.

You crave sex and the companionship of man and yet, despite the flight of a thousand cold granite steps that lead to your ivory towers, your legs remain steadfastly closed like a drawbridge, leaving us to yearn and lament through the poisoned and twisted bars of your portcullis and gates.

Nay, ladies, retract and disavow from your unwarranted pining and reach out to the moderate mods and beg for this thread to be closed and sanctioned for an eternity.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Tell me... why?"

Because you don’t like Mondays ?

The mr

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Hormones and hearts.

Also if it has tyres or balls it's likely to cause you upset or break down at some point.

Otherwise it's great..

I really lol'd at that.

My car has cost me 4 figures this year and now needs two new tyres.

Hard year for me.. 4 new tyres "

Not a goodyear then lol

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Back of Nowhere and Beyond

It's no harder for a single woman than for a single man (or single person of other gender), nor is it harder for a single woman than for attached people.

It's just hard in different ways is all. It's proper hard to cuddle yourself to sleep when you're crying, that's for sure.

Posh

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"31% of adult females in the UK are single. Maybe were onto something "

A higher percentage of men are single around 45 percentage.

Unrealistic expectations perhaps.

Now excuse m I am going to batten down.the hatches.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE


"31% of adult females in the UK are single. Maybe were onto something "

Not necessarily through choice, or happy with this. Devils advocate

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'm guessing Men, not all but try being a man for one single day not just any man have a good rummage and scrape the bottom of the barrel...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cognitive ability

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"Tell me... why?"

You have too high expectations and need to compromise.

It's one of many reasons but also try being a man which isn't easy either.

Who said life was easy anyway. Why should you want or think you are entitled to an easy life?

That's self indulgence.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"31% of adult females in the UK are single. Maybe were onto something

Not necessarily through choice, or happy with this. Devils advocate "

And also maybe only interested in women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hormones and hearts.

Also if it has tyres or balls it's likely to cause you upset or break down at some point.

Otherwise it's great.. "

Call me a romantic..I took a lady out for a meal.. I really pushed the boat out it was a michelin tyred snack van

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Is life any more hard for a single woman than for a partnered woman?

Just different challenges to face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is hard.

And so am I!

You'd better give me something.

So I don't die.

Novocaine.

For the soul.

Before I sputter out…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you turn your filters up to fuck off and invest in toys, it's fabulous "

Don't like toys. Grumble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is life any more hard for a single woman than for a partnered woman?

Just different challenges to face."

It IS. SO much harder. Life is impossible. And whatever we do, the MENZ aren't happy!! Woe is me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me... why?

You have too high expectations and need to compromise.

It's one of many reasons but also try being a man which isn't easy either.

Who said life was easy anyway. Why should you want or think you are entitled to an easy life?

That's self indulgence. "

Go away to your own MAN threads!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If you turn your filters up to fuck off and invest in toys, it's fabulous

Don't like toys. Grumble."

Fair.

My life is way easier without dealing with other people's bullshit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahem man for hire will do jobs naked. Man for hire. Makes ladies life so much easier... man for hireeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you turn your filters up to fuck off and invest in toys, it's fabulous

Don't like toys. Grumble.

Fair.

My life is way easier without dealing with other people's bullshit "

I just stay desperate. I could almost be a man. Except I don't whinge about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it easier as a single female than an attached one Probarbly why I've stayed single for so long.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Ahem man for hire will do jobs naked. Man for hire. Makes ladies life so much easier... man for hireeee "

Woman can do jobs herself. Ta

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn


"Hormones and hearts.

Also if it has tyres or balls it's likely to cause you upset or break down at some point.

Otherwise it's great..

Call me a romantic..I took a lady out for a meal.. I really pushed the boat out it was a michelin tyred snack van "

You Sir are a catch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life is so hard. I haven't had sex for six months and I'm SOOOOOOOOOOO horny. But I can't find a man I fancy who isn't a cockwomble. It's tragic. "

Um. This isn't a serious comment and it's not a serious thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can poke about with my own dipstick thankyou

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham


"Tell me... why?

You have too high expectations and need to compromise.

It's one of many reasons but also try being a man which isn't easy either.

Who said life was easy anyway. Why should you want or think you are entitled to an easy life?

That's self indulgence.

Go away to your own MAN threads!"

Prickly one arnt you. Yet if a man was to put the same post you would be jumping righting wouldn't you? One rule for you eh?

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By *heelerMan
over a year ago

Northants

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By *heelerMan
over a year ago

Northants

Ive always thought females like it hard lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahem man for hire will do jobs naked. Man for hire. Makes ladies life so much easier... man for hireeee

Woman can do jobs herself. Ta"

Lightening the mood

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

I think the only hard part that I find difficult is when people presume. We're not all the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell me... why?

You have too high expectations and need to compromise.

It's one of many reasons but also try being a man which isn't easy either.

Who said life was easy anyway. Why should you want or think you are entitled to an easy life?

That's self indulgence.

Go away to your own MAN threads!

Prickly one arnt you. Yet if a man was to put the same post you would be jumping righting wouldn't you? One rule for you eh?

"

My god. Literally ONE thread by a woman which is tongue in cheek. Men post multiple threads daily complaining about not getting meets. And you can't hold yourself back from criticism.

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By *oom_88Man
over a year ago

Grays


"Tell me... why?"

Ain't nothin' but a heartache

Tell me why

Ain't nothin' but a mistake

Tell me why

I never wanna hear you say

I want it that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate the men, love the penis.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Tell me... why?

Ain't nothin' but a heartache

Tell me why

Ain't nothin' but a mistake

Tell me why

I never wanna hear you say

I want it that way"

Why is life hard for women?

These earworms

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By *quirtyfun69Couple
over a year ago

Burnley


"Tell me... why?

Ain't nothin' but a heartache

Tell me why

Ain't nothin' but a mistake

Tell me why

I never wanna hear you say

I want it that way"

Haha'd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate the men, love the penis."

What she said.

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

Sometimes it is just about the super large girthy clean penis..

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"If you turn your filters up to fuck off and invest in toys, it's fabulous

That hair was made for playing with though let's face it!

Don't worry, I play with it regularly."

Now I can sleep again

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Hate the men, love the penis."

God bless our penises. They never let us down

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By *uke_silverMan
over a year ago

London


"Tell me... why?

Ain't nothin' but a heartache

Tell me why

Ain't nothin' but a mistake

Tell me why

I never wanna hear you say

I want it that way"

Ah chills, literal chills.

It was number 5, number 5 killed my brother!

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I don't know something about a snake and an apple.

I only went to Sunday school for the paper mache and my mate's mum used to cook roast beef or lamb after it.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Tell me... why?

Ain't nothin' but a heartache

Tell me why

Ain't nothin' but a mistake

Tell me why

I never wanna hear you say

I want it that way"

I'm not gonna let it slide that I made this comment 3 posts in

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By *iscovery27Man
over a year ago

Banbiry

Where are you lol

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Men just make everything that little bit better don’t they. With their manly ways.

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

It would be to decide who to meet with all the offers

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Because all the genuine and respectful blokes are actually cheating on their wives

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know something about a snake and an apple.

I only went to Sunday school for the paper mache and my mate's mum used to cook roast beef or lamb after it."

You mean you didn't take the Lord into your heart?

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By *ullyMan
over a year ago

Near Clacton

Is it though ???

I can assure you life is no bed of roses for a lot of single guys either.

Single guy suicides up, drug/alcohol addiction up many many more males living on the streets. In a lot of ways males are not coping or getting on too well with today's world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it though ???

I can assure you life is no bed of roses for a lot of single guys either.

Single guy suicides up, drug/alcohol addiction up many many more males living on the streets. In a lot of ways males are not coping or getting on too well with today's world. "

And there are two threads about single men you can post on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men just make everything that little bit better don’t they. With their manly ways. "

That's enough of that kind of talk or you'll have my knickers falling at my ankles of their own accord

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By *oom_88Man
over a year ago

Grays


"Tell me... why?

Ain't nothin' but a heartache

Tell me why

Ain't nothin' but a mistake

Tell me why

I never wanna hear you say

I want it that way

I'm not gonna let it slide that I made this comment 3 posts in "

I didnt have the chance to read all the comments, great minds think alike

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By *imi_Rouge OP   Woman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Tell me... why?

You have too high expectations and need to compromise.

It's one of many reasons but also try being a man which isn't easy either.

Who said life was easy anyway. Why should you want or think you are entitled to an easy life?

That's self indulgence.

Go away to your own MAN threads!

Prickly one arnt you. Yet if a man was to put the same post you would be jumping righting wouldn't you? One rule for you eh?

My god. Literally ONE thread by a woman which is tongue in cheek. Men post multiple threads daily complaining about not getting meets. And you can't hold yourself back from criticism. "

We're definitely not the PRICKly ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How low are you willing to have your standards? Now put them lower than that and you're life will be easy

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Financially worse off than single men and couples

Too much choice

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By *imi_Rouge OP   Woman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"How low are you willing to have your standards? Now put them lower than that and you're life will be easy "

Can you get lower than the gutter?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I cannot reach anything on the top shelf…

*woe is me*

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"I don't know something about a snake and an apple.

I only went to Sunday school for the paper mache and my mate's mum used to cook roast beef or lamb after it.

You mean you didn't take the Lord into your heart? "

I tried but the priest dude started trembling, backed away and ran out of the church screaming.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"I don't know something about a snake and an apple.

I only went to Sunday school for the paper mache and my mate's mum used to cook roast beef or lamb after it.

You mean you didn't take the Lord into your heart?

I tried but the priest dude started trembling, backed away and ran out of the church screaming."

Naked? Oh wow

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Financially worse off than single men and couples

Too much choice "

Which calls for another post you can't be left out

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By *KTim61Man
over a year ago

Tipton


"Tell me... why?"

I really didn't think that was a problem on here ?

Love the Video ???????

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By *ifestyle1Man
over a year ago

me171

Shame we all have issues with preferences. People to pick it.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"How low are you willing to have your standards? Now put them lower than that and you're life will be easy

Can you get lower than the gutter?"

The sewer is technically lower

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By *ndy man 61Man
over a year ago

Chichester

if life is hard for you then you need something hard to put it right

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London

Because being a single man is so much easier?

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By *onguesandpunsMan
over a year ago

East Midlands

Men, this is definitely the thread where we should just listen and learn, not comment.

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
over a year ago

Hastings


"If you turn your filters up to fuck off and invest in toys, it's fabulous

Don't like toys. Grumble."

Is that because you not as good at DIY "Ment as a joke"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know something about a snake and an apple.

I only went to Sunday school for the paper mache and my mate's mum used to cook roast beef or lamb after it.

You mean you didn't take the Lord into your heart?

I tried but the priest dude started trembling, backed away and ran out of the church screaming.

Naked? Oh wow "

Hans just has to look at people and their clothes fall off

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London


"Men, this is definitely the thread where we should just listen and learn, not comment. "

.... he said in a comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But surely the invention of washing machines, dishwashers and non-iron apparel has made your lives infinitely easier?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"I don't know something about a snake and an apple.

I only went to Sunday school for the paper mache and my mate's mum used to cook roast beef or lamb after it.

You mean you didn't take the Lord into your heart?

I tried but the priest dude started trembling, backed away and ran out of the church screaming.

Naked? Oh wow

Hans just has to look at people and their clothes fall off "

I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know something about a snake and an apple.

I only went to Sunday school for the paper mache and my mate's mum used to cook roast beef or lamb after it.

You mean you didn't take the Lord into your heart?

I tried but the priest dude started trembling, backed away and ran out of the church screaming.

Naked? Oh wow

Hans just has to look at people and their clothes fall off

I know "

Ooh la la!

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

How is life hard for women?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"How is life hard for women?"

Period and that's just the man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally what I find hard is the relentless sexist crap that some guys spout daily here.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"I don't know something about a snake and an apple.

I only went to Sunday school for the paper mache and my mate's mum used to cook roast beef or lamb after it.

You mean you didn't take the Lord into your heart?

I tried but the priest dude started trembling, backed away and ran out of the church screaming.

Naked? Oh wow

Hans just has to look at people and their clothes fall off

I know

Ooh la la! "

That's why I wear always thinking of others.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London


"Personally what I find hard is the relentless sexist crap that some guys spout daily here. "

I see what you mean, but then I think about the writer who pretended to be a man for a year and then committed suicide because it was too much for her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How low are you willing to have your standards? Now put them lower than that and you're life will be easy

Can you get lower than the gutter?"

My bedroom?

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"How low are you willing to have your standards? Now put them lower than that and you're life will be easy

Can you get lower than the gutter?

My bedroom? "

Are you sleeping in a basement??, lol

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Personally what I find hard is the relentless sexist crap that some guys spout daily here.

I see what you mean, but then I think about the writer who pretended to be a man for a year and then committed suicide because it was too much for her."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally what I find hard is the relentless sexist crap that some guys spout daily here.

I see what you mean, but then I think about the writer who pretended to be a man for a year and then committed suicide because it was too much for her."

It's not a competition. And men have two threads at the moment about how it's hard for them. Why the need to comment here about how hard is it for single men?

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Personally what I find hard is the relentless sexist crap that some guys spout daily here.

I see what you mean, but then I think about the writer who pretended to be a man for a year and then committed suicide because it was too much for her.

It's not a competition. And men have two threads at the moment about how it's hard for them. Why the need to comment here about how hard is it for single men? "
. Because we care - we share!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally what I find hard is the relentless sexist crap that some guys spout daily here.

I see what you mean, but then I think about the writer who pretended to be a man for a year and then committed suicide because it was too much for her.

It's not a competition. And men have two threads at the moment about how it's hard for them. Why the need to comment here about how hard is it for single men? . Because we care - we share!! "

Share elsewhere, Todger...

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle


"Personally what I find hard is the relentless sexist crap that some guys spout daily here.

I see what you mean, but then I think about the writer who pretended to be a man for a year and then committed suicide because it was too much for her.

It's not a competition. And men have two threads at the moment about how it's hard for them. Why the need to comment here about how hard is it for single men? . Because we care - we share!!

Share elsewhere, Todger..."

Sorry Sally but I have had strictly male only threads of mine infiltrated by ladies of the forum.. what’s fair one way….

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London


"Personally what I find hard is the relentless sexist crap that some guys spout daily here.

I see what you mean, but then I think about the writer who pretended to be a man for a year and then committed suicide because it was too much for her.

It's not a competition. And men have two threads at the moment about how it's hard for them. Why the need to comment here about how hard is it for single men? "

Why do you make it a competition?

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish


"Personally what I find hard is the relentless sexist crap that some guys spout daily here.

I see what you mean, but then I think about the writer who pretended to be a man for a year and then committed suicide because it was too much for her."

It was the strain of maintaining a false identity rather than living as a man in particular. But then I think about how that doesn't fit the point you're trying to make.

J

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"How is life hard for women?"

We get spaffed in the eyes by a multitude of crusty, oozy peniiiiiii and the eye bleach they provide is watered down.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London


"Personally what I find hard is the relentless sexist crap that some guys spout daily here.

I see what you mean, but then I think about the writer who pretended to be a man for a year and then committed suicide because it was too much for her.

It was the strain of maintaining a false identity rather than living as a man in particular. But then I think about how that doesn't fit the point you're trying to make.

J"

Right. What other undercover authors committed suicide for maintaining a false identity?

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"Tell me... why?"

It's down to manners and respect firstly and then a man's individual experience with women and how it impacts his view of women.

Not that some of our gender are polite and respectful to men either to be honest

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By *ove2pleaseseukMan
over a year ago

Hastings


"Tell me... why?"

If it is I'd say its harder for single perants...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it hard as a single woman and as a single mother. The constant misogyny on here is exhausting, but if I should mention it I am a misandrist. Feeling lonely and needy but as I am "drowning in offers" those feelings are invalidated. Trying to find someone who I find attractive and respects me as a person but reading daily how fussy women are and we go for the top 10%. Supporting the complex needs of my children alone as my ex chooses to be a Disney dad rather than co-parent.

That's why it's hard.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Men just make everything that little bit better don’t they. With their manly ways.

That's enough of that kind of talk or you'll have my knickers falling at my ankles of their own accord "

Your knickers are up and down like the Royal Standard!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

No idea. I’d say life can be hard for anyone, regardless of gender.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It's only hard if you make it hard x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard because no matter how much I make it clear what my boundaries are, people like to cross them, and then when I remind them of what they are and stick to them, they get upset that they can't have what they want and what I'm made to suffer next is completely shitty behaviour where I'm apparently the arsehole. Especially if I make it known that I'm upset with them at any point.

I'm supposed to just do what they want and not have a voice.

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By *andrelaxMan
over a year ago

Harlesden

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=BXJpDe3EB9Q

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By *exymarvelMan
over a year ago

cardiff


"Tell me... why?"

Because this site has many cockwombles who are self entitled and think that women should fall in their lap. I personally like to try n get to know someone, im happy go lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is hard for single men as well I have not had sex with a woman for such along time

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"Sometimes when you sneeze you don’t know what’s happening in your pants. Have I gone on? Given birth to an alien? Is that the dna he left in me last night?

Also never knowing why your tummy hurts "

The DNA he left in me last night.

Why is this such an accurate depiction of the struggles of being a woman?

Honestly, you're underappreciated babygirl.

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By *emma200Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"It must be hard choosing from so many fine men on here "

Needle in a haystack! x

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

I think these days being single is hard full stop.

Life is by it's very nature busy, throw in dating etc and time is very hard to come by

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By *KTim61Man
over a year ago

Tipton


"I think these days being single is hard full stop.

Life is by it's very nature busy, throw in dating etc and time is very hard to come by"

Agree as I've been single for over 10 years or more or maybe it's my looks & Body that women dont like ?

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"It must be hard choosing from so many fine men on here

Needle in a haystack! x"

I'd put my needle in your haystack

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By *imi_Rouge OP   Woman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"It's hard because no matter how much I make it clear what my boundaries are, people like to cross them, and then when I remind them of what they are and stick to them, they get upset that they can't have what they want and what I'm made to suffer next is completely shitty behaviour where I'm apparently the arsehole. Especially if I make it known that I'm upset with them at any point.

I'm supposed to just do what they want and not have a voice."

Innit. How dare we have boundaries!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's hard because no matter how much I make it clear what my boundaries are, people like to cross them, and then when I remind them of what they are and stick to them, they get upset that they can't have what they want and what I'm made to suffer next is completely shitty behaviour where I'm apparently the arsehole. Especially if I make it known that I'm upset with them at any point.

I'm supposed to just do what they want and not have a voice.

Innit. How dare we have boundaries!"

In no way am I trying to excuse disrespectful behaviour from men but isn't there also an element of poor selection if this is a recurring experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not half as hard as it is for a single man lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not half as hard as it is for a single man lol"

Not a competition...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not half as hard as it is for a single man lol

Not a competition..."

Was a tongue in cheek comment. No offence meant

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By *imi_Rouge OP   Woman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"It's hard because no matter how much I make it clear what my boundaries are, people like to cross them, and then when I remind them of what they are and stick to them, they get upset that they can't have what they want and what I'm made to suffer next is completely shitty behaviour where I'm apparently the arsehole. Especially if I make it known that I'm upset with them at any point.

I'm supposed to just do what they want and not have a voice.

Innit. How dare we have boundaries!

In no way am I trying to excuse disrespectful behaviour from men but isn't there also an element of poor selection if this is a recurring experience."

Sounds a bit victim blamey to me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did I miss

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"What did I miss"

Women complaining *dives for cover*

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What did I miss

Women complaining *dives for cover*

LvM"

I can’t get enough of that shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not half as hard as it is for a single man lol

Not a competition...

Was a tongue in cheek comment. No offence meant "

None taken, just quite a few men have posted the same thing.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A


"It's hard because no matter how much I make it clear what my boundaries are, people like to cross them, and then when I remind them of what they are and stick to them, they get upset that they can't have what they want and what I'm made to suffer next is completely shitty behaviour where I'm apparently the arsehole. Especially if I make it known that I'm upset with them at any point.

I'm supposed to just do what they want and not have a voice."

That struck a chord for me, it really did. Someone said to me once that they don't realise they are doing it. But then they don't start like that do they?

That's my line too, if I start feeling like I don't have a voice. That one cuts really deep for me. The disempowerment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's hard because no matter how much I make it clear what my boundaries are, people like to cross them, and then when I remind them of what they are and stick to them, they get upset that they can't have what they want and what I'm made to suffer next is completely shitty behaviour where I'm apparently the arsehole. Especially if I make it known that I'm upset with them at any point.

I'm supposed to just do what they want and not have a voice.

That struck a chord for me, it really did. Someone said to me once that they don't realise they are doing it. But then they don't start like that do they?

That's my line too, if I start feeling like I don't have a voice. That one cuts really deep for me. The disempowerment."

No they don't!

The disempowerment is the worst.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"It's hard because no matter how much I make it clear what my boundaries are, people like to cross them, and then when I remind them of what they are and stick to them, they get upset that they can't have what they want and what I'm made to suffer next is completely shitty behaviour where I'm apparently the arsehole. Especially if I make it known that I'm upset with them at any point.

I'm supposed to just do what they want and not have a voice.

That struck a chord for me, it really did. Someone said to me once that they don't realise they are doing it. But then they don't start like that do they?

That's my line too, if I start feeling like I don't have a voice. That one cuts really deep for me. The disempowerment.

No they don't!

The disempowerment is the worst.

"

Isn't empowerment not enabling them to do it repeatedly though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's hard because no matter how much I make it clear what my boundaries are, people like to cross them, and then when I remind them of what they are and stick to them, they get upset that they can't have what they want and what I'm made to suffer next is completely shitty behaviour where I'm apparently the arsehole. Especially if I make it known that I'm upset with them at any point.

I'm supposed to just do what they want and not have a voice.

Innit. How dare we have boundaries!

In no way am I trying to excuse disrespectful behaviour from men but isn't there also an element of poor selection if this is a recurring experience."

I hate this comment. It's dumb. You're not the first to say something along the lines of the choice in the first place being the mistake. Which just seems to excuse the behaviour of the other person. The person shouldn't be pushing boundaries or limits out of selfishness. But hey let's brush that under the carpet shall we?

Trouble is on fab the lifestyle means we get in bed with people wearing masks on their best behaviour much sooner than we might normally and by the time they start waving red flags at us like it's a carnival we're already in the situation.

How could someone possibly know that on meet two a man is going to declare he's in with love with them?

How could someone possibly know someone's going to be jealous and possessive until if course they actually show it?

Why is the judgement of the person who picked that man rather than the actions of the man in question. We don't have crystal balls do we?

Have you picked perfect partners every single time I wonder???

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"

In no way am I trying to excuse disrespectful behaviour from men but isn't there also an element of poor selection if this is a recurring experience."

So, if I don't show the real me, and hide certain traits that maybe my predominate traits, Control, possessiveness, jealousy, manipulation, and coercive to name a few. And actively display the opposite, then poor selection can't be to blame.

As I'm showing a mask, a guise to get what i want.

The trouble with this is, true nature will always come to the forefront, as its the true nature to act like that.

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By *imi_Rouge OP   Woman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Well said PW and CG.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"It's hard because no matter how much I make it clear what my boundaries are, people like to cross them, and then when I remind them of what they are and stick to them, they get upset that they can't have what they want and what I'm made to suffer next is completely shitty behaviour where I'm apparently the arsehole. Especially if I make it known that I'm upset with them at any point.

I'm supposed to just do what they want and not have a voice.

That struck a chord for me, it really did. Someone said to me once that they don't realise they are doing it. But then they don't start like that do they?

That's my line too, if I start feeling like I don't have a voice. That one cuts really deep for me. The disempowerment.

No they don't!

The disempowerment is the worst.

Isn't empowerment not enabling them to do it repeatedly though?"

Yes it is. And when you stop allowing that behaviour, recognise it's not a healthy dynamic you get the abuse. The anger. The hurt.

I do think "taking back" that power is difficult but it's also necessary. You can easily be swept up and lose sight of so much good if you don't. It then starts leaking in to future dynamics, eating away at your confidence. No one deserves that.

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