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"To all men, is any of the below reasons apply to you? Let's open the debate 1. Anonymity: Swinging and other forms of non-monogamous sexual behavior can still be stigmatized in many societies, so participants may choose to maintain their anonymity by not showing their faces. They might want to prevent potential consequences in their personal or professional lives. 2. Sexual Expression: These men may believe that showing their genitals is an effective way to express their sexual desire or to attract potential partners on a platform like FabSwingers, which is a site specifically designed for swingers. 3. Misunderstanding of Desire: There might be a misconception that potential partners will be more attracted to explicit sexual images rather than personal characteristics or physical attractiveness more broadly. This could be a result of the objectification of bodies in certain pornographic materials, leading to a skewed understanding of what is desirable or appealing to others. 4. Exhibitionism: Some people get sexual pleasure from the act of exposing themselves to others. This behavior could be an expression of that desire. 5. Peer Behavior: If a lot of men on the platform are displaying explicit images, new users might think this is the norm or an unspoken rule and follow suit, even if they might not have done so otherwise. 6. Directness: Some users might think that such explicit display may filter out those who are not interested in what they have to offer, effectively saving time and effort in finding compatible partners. Again, it's important to remember that these are potential reasons and might not apply to everyone. People's motivations can be complex and multifaceted. " Does it bother you OP? | |||
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"I’m guessing they think that’s what people want to see. After all, it’s a sex site, innit. Plus - they’re proud of it. It’s their best feature. " Do you really think a cock can be the best feature a man can have? | |||
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"Interestingly my most fabbed pic from a very eclectic bunch with very few cock pics is a pic of my cock. Logic therefore suggests to me that in fabland then that is my most popular pic and therefore would make a suitable profile pic. But perhaps I’m not reading nearly enough into it. " My second most fabbed pic is a dick pic so someone out there likes it. | |||
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"I’m guessing they think that’s what people want to see. After all, it’s a sex site, innit. Plus - they’re proud of it. It’s their best feature. Do you really think a cock can be the best feature a man can have?" Surely it’s what they think and not others | |||
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"I’m guessing they think that’s what people want to see. After all, it’s a sex site, innit. Plus - they’re proud of it. It’s their best feature. Do you really think a cock can be the best feature a man can have?" On a sex site where the majority are looking for physical attributes? I’m only slightly above average with a few good pics and women/couples actually message me when I have them on display So yeah, I’d say on a website where “hung only” is common, a nice looking dick pic can mean everything | |||
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"So much effort in replying to my thread but none of you has actually answered with some reasons. Just saying " TLDR, only just finished War and Peace, could not another tome, can you bring out the Readers Digest abridged version please? | |||
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"I’m guessing they think that’s what people want to see. After all, it’s a sex site, innit. Plus - they’re proud of it. It’s their best feature. Do you really think a cock can be the best feature a man can have?" Irony. It’s a beautiful thing. Do you really think I would think a cock can be the best feature a man can have? | |||
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"So much effort in replying to my thread but none of you has actually answered with some reasons. Just saying " Maybe people don't have the 10mins to read the OP, just saying | |||
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"So much effort in replying to my thread but none of you has actually answered with some reasons. Just saying Maybe people don't have the 10mins to read the OP, just saying " yes maybe | |||
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"So much effort in replying to my thread but none of you has actually answered with some reasons. Just saying Maybe people don't have the 10mins to read the OP, just saying yes maybe " | |||
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"I appreciate your replys guys. I wander then why on majority of single women profiles or couple it is clearly written no dicks pictures. Probably they are just lying i guess " That’s in most cases in referenced to being inboxed them. If you have a dick pic as your profile pic it’s an our discretion to view it or not. | |||
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"I appreciate your replys guys. I wander then why on majority of single women profiles or couple it is clearly written no dicks pictures. Probably they are just lying i guess " I only want to see the dicks of men I am or am going to be intimate with not randoms on the Internet... Although if it's flacid ang lying on you leg/stomach or in your hand, I don't care who it is, nobody wants to see that! | |||
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"I appreciate your replys guys. I wander then why on majority of single women profiles or couple it is clearly written no dicks pictures. Probably they are just lying i guess " Really? Do you walk into a public place with your flies undone and your dick hanging out. Seems quite reasonable to say 'no dick pics'. Just the social media form of the 1970s dirty media old man in a brown mac. | |||
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"So much effort in replying to my thread but none of you has actually answered with some reasons. Just saying " I have, just not the reason you proposed. | |||
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"I appreciate your replys guys. I wander then why on majority of single women profiles or couple it is clearly written no dicks pictures. Probably they are just lying i guess " … they’re really not lying | |||
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"I appreciate your replys guys. I wander then why on majority of single women profiles or couple it is clearly written no dicks pictures. Probably they are just lying i guess " That's possibly just your own perception. I've seen it on a handful of profiles but certainly not the majority. For every person who dislikes dick pics is at least one other who encourages them. | |||
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"I’m guessing they think that’s what people want to see. After all, it’s a sex site, innit. Plus - they’re proud of it. It’s their best feature. " | |||
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"I appreciate your replys guys. I wander then why on majority of single women profiles or couple it is clearly written no dicks pictures. Probably they are just lying i guess " All lying. Er, ok. Or they don't want to talk to a cock. Or they don't want to get cock pics sent without their consent. | |||
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"OP "if thine eye offends thee pluck it out" You can go into your settings and turn off site images that way you won't have to "expose" yourself to all of these hideous pictures of male genitalia. " Yes, that too can happen. | |||
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"To all men, is any of the below reasons apply to you? Let's open the debate 1. Anonymity: Swinging and other forms of non-monogamous sexual behavior can still be stigmatized in many societies, so participants may choose to maintain their anonymity by not showing their faces. They might want to prevent potential consequences in their personal or professional lives. " Except that dick pics could be far more damaging to one’s professional or personal life. I’m talking from a single straight man’s perspective but you will probably never have an encounter on Fab (or anywhere else) without sending a face pic to your potential partners. Them having pics of both face and penis puts the sender in a much more vulnerable position IMO than if the sender had only revealed his face. | |||
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"To all men, is any of the below reasons apply to you? Let's open the debate 1. Anonymity: Swinging and other forms of non-monogamous sexual behavior can still be stigmatized in many societies, so participants may choose to maintain their anonymity by not showing their faces. They might want to prevent potential consequences in their personal or professional lives. Except that dick pics could be far more damaging to one’s professional or personal life. I’m talking from a single straight man’s perspective but you will probably never have an encounter on Fab (or anywhere else) without sending a face pic to your potential partners. Them having pics of both face and penis puts the sender in a much more vulnerable position IMO than if the sender had only revealed his face." I don't send facepics so almost every encounter on fab in more than 7 years has been without the exchanging of facepics. | |||
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"Why is it always guys here who are more interested in dicks than women?" I'm very interested in dicks, but not dicks. | |||
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"To all men, is any of the below reasons apply to you? Let's open the debate 1. Anonymity: Swinging and other forms of non-monogamous sexual behavior can still be stigmatized in many societies, so participants may choose to maintain their anonymity by not showing their faces. They might want to prevent potential consequences in their personal or professional lives. Except that dick pics could be far more damaging to one’s professional or personal life. I’m talking from a single straight man’s perspective but you will probably never have an encounter on Fab (or anywhere else) without sending a face pic to your potential partners. Them having pics of both face and penis puts the sender in a much more vulnerable position IMO than if the sender had only revealed his face. I don't send facepics so almost every encounter on fab in more than 7 years has been without the exchanging of facepics. " As long as you can maintain that “barrier” and not reveal your face via a pic, that’s fine I guess. Funny how we can have wildly different experiences on Fab. Face pic is always brought up in the first few messages exchanged, in pretty much all the interactions I’ve had here! | |||
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"1. Anonymity: Swinging and other forms of non-monogamous sexual behavior can still be stigmatized in many societies, so participants may choose to maintain their anonymity by not showing their faces. They might want to prevent potential consequences in their personal or professional lives." •Correct, I don't want my mother to find out. She has a weak constitution. "2. Sexual Expression: These men may believe that showing their genitals is an effective way to express their sexual desire or to attract potential partners on a platform like FabSwingers, which is a site specifically designed for swingers." •"These men" follow the lead of their women counterparts who have no issue displaying their genitalia. What's good for the goose is good for the gander... "3. Misunderstanding of Desire: There might be a misconception that potential partners will be more attracted to explicit sexual images rather than personal characteristics or physical attractiveness more broadly. This could be a result of the objectification of bodies in certain pornographic materials, leading to a skewed understanding of what is desirable or appealing to others." •Yes. No. Perhaps. Maybe. "4. Exhibitionism: Some people get sexual pleasure from the act of exposing themselves to others. This behavior could be an expression of that desire." •Having a "Dicks (sic) pictures as profile" is not exposing oneself. It's just an emblem, an avatar, a personal motif... "5. Peer Behavior: If a lot of men on the platform are displaying explicit images, new users might think this is the norm or an unspoken rule and follow suit, even if they might not have done so otherwise." •Agreed / Plausible. "6. Directness: Some users might think that such explicit display may filter out those who are not interested in what they have to offer, effectively saving time and effort in finding compatible partners." •Indeed. | |||
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"Why is it always guys here who are more interested in dicks than women? I'm very interested in dicks, but not dicks." I completely understand! | |||
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"Why is it always guys here who are more interested in dicks than women?" I always wonder this too. Mrs | |||
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"Wives and GF’s find it hard to identify their men by their dicks " I don’t know about that. I can certainly identify the cock that slides in and out of me with any type of regularity out of a handful of cock photos. If I’m spending time with it that intimately, I certainly know every little mark, fold, the way it bends, etc. | |||
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"Wives and GF’s find it hard to identify their men by their dicks " Donald Trump and Bill Clinton might disagree | |||
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"Ffs, I just slipped into a coma reading all that! I show my cock because I can. Why has the OP got his panties in a bunch about this? Surely the obvious thing to do is scroll on by if you don’t like seeing a cock picture? " Aaaagh, a talking cock | |||
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"I find it a bit weird that some people are fine with their genitals all over the Internet but not their faces... My genitals are for personal and in person, with people I choose to share them with... My face is for everyone and seeing it makes sure they have at least a semblance of attraction before they decide to message or not" We are completely open about our lifestyle choice , so faces or genitals on show is not a problem for us ! We are out out ! | |||
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"If I had my dick as a profile pic I’d at least try to be a little different. You’d only be able to see 50% because I’d make a little wig, sunglasses and a shiny jacket for it. Id probably try to make a little story board of his whole day in different poses and situations. As fun as that would be it’s not really my style so anyone feel free to take that idea, I’d enjoy seeing someone’s take on it. I’m not a big lover of full exposure. It doesn’t get my sexual brain firing like a teasing look. Much prefer a hint of something, like seeing a bra pulled down so half a nipple and some bust is showing will drive me wild whereas just pulling the bra down and showing all doesn’t have the same effect." Nothing wrong either sunglasses and wigs at all hehehe | |||
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