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"If it's for a bit of fun, my preference would be younger. If I ever want to get into a relationship again, it would have to be someone more my age" Relatable | |||
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"I seem to go for guys in their 30's lately. They are more mature and laid back than older guys. " I totally agree with you....the younger guys appear to be more respectful too.... | |||
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"I seem to go for guys in their 30's lately. They are more mature and laid back than older guys. I totally agree with you....the younger guys appear to be more respectful too...." Would you say the same about late 20s or? | |||
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"I seem to go for guys in their 30's lately. They are more mature and laid back than older guys. I totally agree with you....the younger guys appear to be more respectful too.... Would you say the same about late 20s or?" No | |||
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"Hello what's your opinion on age gaps? For fun and more? Are you an age is just a number or does it matter to you??" On here, we would actively avoid anyone who is younger than our kids, or older than our parents. In a club situation, it's all about they come across. People can seem older or younger than their actual age, and we've never asked peoples age in a club. Cal | |||
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"I seem to go for guys in their 30's lately. They are more mature and laid back than older guys. " Yep, exactly the same for me. I always thought I was solely attracted to those who are at least 15 years older than me. Lately I've discovered how much fun and how easy it is to see men who are in their thirties. I had this weird misconception that somehow they wouldn't have their shit together, they'd be less emotionally mature... nope. Men in their thirties are my sweet spot. | |||
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"Hello what's your opinion on age gaps? For fun and more? Are you an age is just a number or does it matter to you??" Give me a gilf, the older the better with minimum of 6 grand kids | |||
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"I seem to go for guys in their 30's lately. They are more mature and laid back than older guys. Yep, exactly the same for me. I always thought I was solely attracted to those who are at least 15 years older than me. Lately I've discovered how much fun and how easy it is to see men who are in their thirties. I had this weird misconception that somehow they wouldn't have their shit together, they'd be less emotionally mature... nope. Men in their thirties are my sweet spot." Women always like men who are a little older, don't they? When I was a teenager, they all wanted the 20 year olds. Early 20s want end of 20s, middle of twenties want the 30s and so on. Always a slightly bit above themselves. If you're 50, you don't want 35, I bet. | |||
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" women love a sexy mentor!" This part just made me wanna vomit in my mouth....reads really creepy to me.. | |||
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" women love a sexy mentor! This part just made me wanna vomit in my mouth....reads really creepy to me.." I hope you swallow it back down.  | |||
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" women love a sexy mentor! This part just made me wanna vomit in my mouth....reads really creepy to me.. I hope you swallow it back down. "Heres where i disappoint you, I'm a spitter | |||
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"I seem to go for guys in their 30's lately. They are more mature and laid back than older guys. Yep, exactly the same for me. I always thought I was solely attracted to those who are at least 15 years older than me. Lately I've discovered how much fun and how easy it is to see men who are in their thirties. I had this weird misconception that somehow they wouldn't have their shit together, they'd be less emotionally mature... nope. Men in their thirties are my sweet spot. Women always like men who are a little older, don't they? When I was a teenager, they all wanted the 20 year olds. Early 20s want end of 20s, middle of twenties want the 30s and so on. Always a slightly bit above themselves. If you're 50, you don't want 35, I bet." I think so. I'm not sure why that is. I do think the older you get, the more likely you are to want someone younger? At least in terms of being on here (but I'm noting my confirmation bias). I always thought significantly older was for me. I'm learning far more seeing someone who isn't too far from my age than I have before. Maybe it's more about the person for me than age. Maybe I'm over my daddy* issues. *this is a joke. | |||
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" women love a sexy mentor! This part just made me wanna vomit in my mouth....reads really creepy to me.." If you’ve not experienced it, fine. No need to throw up though | |||
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"I seem to go for guys in their 30's lately. They are more mature and laid back than older guys. Yep, exactly the same for me. I always thought I was solely attracted to those who are at least 15 years older than me. Lately I've discovered how much fun and how easy it is to see men who are in their thirties. I had this weird misconception that somehow they wouldn't have their shit together, they'd be less emotionally mature... nope. Men in their thirties are my sweet spot. Women always like men who are a little older, don't they? When I was a teenager, they all wanted the 20 year olds. Early 20s want end of 20s, middle of twenties want the 30s and so on. Always a slightly bit above themselves. If you're 50, you don't want 35, I bet. I think so. I'm not sure why that is. I do think the older you get, the more likely you are to want someone younger? At least in terms of being on here (but I'm noting my confirmation bias). I always thought significantly older was for me. I'm learning far more seeing someone who isn't too far from my age than I have before. Maybe it's more about the person for me than age. Maybe I'm over my daddy* issues. *this is a joke." From my experience - no. At some point "older" is too old, and then they just wish the same age. But generally speaking, just a little older is the sweet spot for women, while men like a little younger, if possible. There are always the guys who tell you they like milfs, but that's usually just catering to the audience or as an excuse why you never see them with young girls. Women want stability, men want fertility. If we admit it or not, that is just deep, deep down in our biology. | |||
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"I seem to go for guys in their 30's lately. They are more mature and laid back than older guys. Yep, exactly the same for me. I always thought I was solely attracted to those who are at least 15 years older than me. Lately I've discovered how much fun and how easy it is to see men who are in their thirties. I had this weird misconception that somehow they wouldn't have their shit together, they'd be less emotionally mature... nope. Men in their thirties are my sweet spot. Women always like men who are a little older, don't they? When I was a teenager, they all wanted the 20 year olds. Early 20s want end of 20s, middle of twenties want the 30s and so on. Always a slightly bit above themselves. If you're 50, you don't want 35, I bet. I think so. I'm not sure why that is. I do think the older you get, the more likely you are to want someone younger? At least in terms of being on here (but I'm noting my confirmation bias). I always thought significantly older was for me. I'm learning far more seeing someone who isn't too far from my age than I have before. Maybe it's more about the person for me than age. Maybe I'm over my daddy* issues. *this is a joke. From my experience - no. At some point "older" is too old, and then they just wish the same age. But generally speaking, just a little older is the sweet spot for women, while men like a little younger, if possible. There are always the guys who tell you they like milfs, but that's usually just catering to the audience or as an excuse why you never see them with young girls. Women want stability, men want fertility. If we admit it or not, that is just deep, deep down in our biology." Mel Gibson's got nothing on you | |||
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"I seem to go for guys in their 30's lately. They are more mature and laid back than older guys. Yep, exactly the same for me. I always thought I was solely attracted to those who are at least 15 years older than me. Lately I've discovered how much fun and how easy it is to see men who are in their thirties. I had this weird misconception that somehow they wouldn't have their shit together, they'd be less emotionally mature... nope. Men in their thirties are my sweet spot. Women always like men who are a little older, don't they? When I was a teenager, they all wanted the 20 year olds. Early 20s want end of 20s, middle of twenties want the 30s and so on. Always a slightly bit above themselves. If you're 50, you don't want 35, I bet. I think so. I'm not sure why that is. I do think the older you get, the more likely you are to want someone younger? At least in terms of being on here (but I'm noting my confirmation bias). I always thought significantly older was for me. I'm learning far more seeing someone who isn't too far from my age than I have before. Maybe it's more about the person for me than age. Maybe I'm over my daddy* issues. *this is a joke. From my experience - no. At some point "older" is too old, and then they just wish the same age. But generally speaking, just a little older is the sweet spot for women, while men like a little younger, if possible. There are always the guys who tell you they like milfs, but that's usually just catering to the audience or as an excuse why you never see them with young girls. Women want stability, men want fertility. If we admit it or not, that is just deep, deep down in our biology." Intresting opinions there, do you study at Hustlers University by any chance?. | |||
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"I seem to go for guys in their 30's lately. They are more mature and laid back than older guys. Yep, exactly the same for me. I always thought I was solely attracted to those who are at least 15 years older than me. Lately I've discovered how much fun and how easy it is to see men who are in their thirties. I had this weird misconception that somehow they wouldn't have their shit together, they'd be less emotionally mature... nope. Men in their thirties are my sweet spot. Women always like men who are a little older, don't they? When I was a teenager, they all wanted the 20 year olds. Early 20s want end of 20s, middle of twenties want the 30s and so on. Always a slightly bit above themselves. If you're 50, you don't want 35, I bet. I think so. I'm not sure why that is. I do think the older you get, the more likely you are to want someone younger? At least in terms of being on here (but I'm noting my confirmation bias). I always thought significantly older was for me. I'm learning far more seeing someone who isn't too far from my age than I have before. Maybe it's more about the person for me than age. Maybe I'm over my daddy* issues. *this is a joke. From my experience - no. At some point "older" is too old, and then they just wish the same age. But generally speaking, just a little older is the sweet spot for women, while men like a little younger, if possible. There are always the guys who tell you they like milfs, but that's usually just catering to the audience or as an excuse why you never see them with young girls. Women want stability, men want fertility. If we admit it or not, that is just deep, deep down in our biology." You’ll get hate for that view but yeah, millions of years of evolution is on your side People hate to admit that they might not have as much free will as they think and a lot of our desires and behaviours are down to uncontrollable instincts programmed over millions of years | |||
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"I seem to go for guys in their 30's lately. They are more mature and laid back than older guys. Yep, exactly the same for me. I always thought I was solely attracted to those who are at least 15 years older than me. Lately I've discovered how much fun and how easy it is to see men who are in their thirties. I had this weird misconception that somehow they wouldn't have their shit together, they'd be less emotionally mature... nope. Men in their thirties are my sweet spot. Women always like men who are a little older, don't they? When I was a teenager, they all wanted the 20 year olds. Early 20s want end of 20s, middle of twenties want the 30s and so on. Always a slightly bit above themselves. If you're 50, you don't want 35, I bet. I think so. I'm not sure why that is. I do think the older you get, the more likely you are to want someone younger? At least in terms of being on here (but I'm noting my confirmation bias). I always thought significantly older was for me. I'm learning far more seeing someone who isn't too far from my age than I have before. Maybe it's more about the person for me than age. Maybe I'm over my daddy* issues. *this is a joke. From my experience - no. At some point "older" is too old, and then they just wish the same age. But generally speaking, just a little older is the sweet spot for women, while men like a little younger, if possible. There are always the guys who tell you they like milfs, but that's usually just catering to the audience or as an excuse why you never see them with young girls. Women want stability, men want fertility. If we admit it or not, that is just deep, deep down in our biology. You’ll get hate for that view but yeah, millions of years of evolution is on your side People hate to admit that they might not have as much free will as they think and a lot of our desires and behaviours are down to uncontrollable instincts programmed over millions of years " - humans actually haven’t been on earth millions of years or anything like it. We have about 5percent free will - all of us. The rest is programmed but we still all have a modicum of free will - knowing and believing this (most people/ all npc’s don’t realise ) can change an individual’s life exponentially  | |||
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"I seem to go for guys in their 30's lately. They are more mature and laid back than older guys. Yep, exactly the same for me. I always thought I was solely attracted to those who are at least 15 years older than me. Lately I've discovered how much fun and how easy it is to see men who are in their thirties. I had this weird misconception that somehow they wouldn't have their shit together, they'd be less emotionally mature... nope. Men in their thirties are my sweet spot. Women always like men who are a little older, don't they? When I was a teenager, they all wanted the 20 year olds. Early 20s want end of 20s, middle of twenties want the 30s and so on. Always a slightly bit above themselves. If you're 50, you don't want 35, I bet. I think so. I'm not sure why that is. I do think the older you get, the more likely you are to want someone younger? At least in terms of being on here (but I'm noting my confirmation bias). I always thought significantly older was for me. I'm learning far more seeing someone who isn't too far from my age than I have before. Maybe it's more about the person for me than age. Maybe I'm over my daddy* issues. *this is a joke. From my experience - no. At some point "older" is too old, and then they just wish the same age. But generally speaking, just a little older is the sweet spot for women, while men like a little younger, if possible. There are always the guys who tell you they like milfs, but that's usually just catering to the audience or as an excuse why you never see them with young girls. Women want stability, men want fertility. If we admit it or not, that is just deep, deep down in our biology." I'll come back to this - caffeine is needed and I've got a couple of things to do before 9am.  | |||
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"Age gaps can be fun adventures, you experience things and get new perspectives & interpersonal growth you might not otherwise experience.women love a sexy mentor! And guys feel energised by a younger woman " I've always seen mentoring as a non-sexual role. I presume you don't mean professional mentoring because I would find that creepy. | |||
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"I've met 20 years older & 20 yrs younger, it's all down to the person." This | |||
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"I prefer younger men. And the ones I've met just generally find older women more attractive. For a range of reasons. My last boyfriend was 10 years younger but I've been with men 20 years younger although I wouldn't go for that big a gap again. I think it's just a very individual thing. " 
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"I prefer younger men. And the ones I've met just generally find older women more attractive. For a range of reasons. My last boyfriend was 10 years younger but I've been with men 20 years younger although I wouldn't go for that big a gap again. I think it's just a very individual thing.
Thought you were going to let me get some"Go for the 99 year old. You know you want to! | |||
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"I prefer younger men. And the ones I've met just generally find older women more attractive. For a range of reasons. My last boyfriend was 10 years younger but I've been with men 20 years younger although I wouldn't go for that big a gap again. I think it's just a very individual thing.
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Go for the 99 year old. You know you want to!"Ew. They’re out of my age range | |||
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"Hello what's your opinion on age gaps? For fun and more? Are you an age is just a number or does it matter to you?? On here, we would actively avoid anyone who is younger than our kids, or older than our parents. In a club situation, it's all about they come across. People can seem older or younger than their actual age, and we've never asked peoples age in a club. Cal " Exactly this | |||
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"I think so. I'm not sure why that is. I do think the older you get, the more likely you are to want someone younger? At least in terms of being on here (but I'm noting my confirmation bias). I always thought significantly older was for me. I'm learning far more seeing someone who isn't too far from my age than I have before. Maybe it's more about the person for me than age. Maybe I'm over my daddy* issues. *this is a joke. From my experience - no. At some point "older" is too old, and then they just wish the same age. But generally speaking, just a little older is the sweet spot for women, while men like a little younger, if possible. There are always the guys who tell you they like milfs, but that's usually just catering to the audience or as an excuse why you never see them with young girls. Women want stability, men want fertility. If we admit it or not, that is just deep, deep down in our biology. I'll come back to this - caffeine is needed and I've got a couple of things to do before 9am. "So, I'm back. It's a different viewpoint and one I've read before. I'm not too sure how much I buy in to it being completely true in today's society - it's very much through a heteronormative lense which may not be the most applicable. I think that fertility can be a driving factor for men, much like stability *could* be for women. There's some truth in the fertility argument - you can see it in terms of societal beauty standards as one example. I also think that a lot has changed, whether it's the relationships we seek, the deeper understanding we have of sexuality (gay people, as an example, really aren't going to be driven by fertility, are they?). I think that some people have a greater understanding of their innate biological drives and in a way are less likely to be s*aves to them? I do genuinely believe some men have a thing for older women. Much like women can have a thing for younger men. I suppose I thought stability was to be found in an older man, to a certain degree. In finding that stability in myself I've been able to enjoy seeing men far closer to my age. | |||
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"Hello what's your opinion on age gaps? For fun and more? Are you an age is just a number or does it matter to you??" We have a 7 year age gap. And got together when we were 26 and 33 respectively. We think anyone below the age of 20 with an age gap of 10+ years is on morally shakey ground. For example a 16 year old dating a 30 year old. That doesn’t sit right with us. It’s still possible to groom someone of legally consenting age. | |||
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"I love an age gap but don't care what way, either way, and don't need it either. I will get something out of a gorgeous 50 year old that I wouldn't around my age, but around my age we probably have more things in common. Like being broke? " I'm broke too | |||
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"I love an age gap but don't care what way, either way, and don't need it either. I will get something out of a gorgeous 50 year old that I wouldn't around my age, but around my age we probably have more things in common. Like being broke? I'm broke too "Great! Let's do the sex and complain about inflation! | |||
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"Hello what's your opinion on age gaps? For fun and more? Are you an age is just a number or does it matter to you??" I have had a couple of younger ladies and guys, doesn't bother me at all. | |||
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"I love an age gap but don't care what way, either way, and don't need it either. I will get something out of a gorgeous 50 year old that I wouldn't around my age, but around my age we probably have more things in common. Like being broke? I'm broke too
Great! Let's do the sex and complain about inflation!"Whoop! | |||
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"I seem to go for guys in their 30's lately. They are more mature and laid back than older guys. Yep, exactly the same for me. I always thought I was solely attracted to those who are at least 15 years older than me. Lately I've discovered how much fun and how easy it is to see men who are in their thirties. I had this weird misconception that somehow they wouldn't have their shit together, they'd be less emotionally mature... nope. Men in their thirties are my sweet spot. Women always like men who are a little older, don't they? When I was a teenager, they all wanted the 20 year olds. Early 20s want end of 20s, middle of twenties want the 30s and so on. Always a slightly bit above themselves. If you're 50, you don't want 35, I bet." That's completely incorrect for me & many other women my age on here! | |||
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"For me it depends on gender. For example, I could very easily see myself doing sexual stuff with a woman in her 30s/40s but with men anything over 28 and I start feeling like I've accidentally entered the bingo halls. Plus, they gotta be older than me as I cannot get sexually aroused by someone younger than me." Clickety click. | |||
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