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I’m so close to sending a meet now message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you ever sent one?

(I’m not going to dw)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

No

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

No.

But one day, if I'm far away, I may. Odelay!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've puts meets up but never actually got a meet from one. Ever

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

No, I've put up a few 'out in X if anyone wants a social' though. Usually no response though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've puts meets up but never actually got a meet from one. Ever "

Yeah well that’s because men like me message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sent one to my husband before but he told me he was too busy watching TV.

F

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Never.

For a guy, the odds of this succeeding would be equivalent to winning the lottery

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire


"I've puts meets up but never actually got a meet from one. Ever "

What wait how

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I’ve done it. Much like Nero’s thinking, I posted one up when I was away in Aberdeen for a while with work … and it led to a wonderful night with a gorgeous wee sweetheart of a woman. We’re still friends, and I’ll see her again if/when I end up back there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've puts meets up but never actually got a meet from one. Ever

Yeah well that’s because men like me message"

I think it's more they can't find a good excuse for the wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve done it. Much like Nero’s thinking, I posted one up when I was away in Aberdeen for a while with work … and it led to a wonderful night with a gorgeous wee sweetheart of a woman. We’re still friends, and I’ll see her again if/when I end up back there."

How do you get it to work and I don't? I have boobs FFS.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never.

For a guy, the odds of this succeeding would be equivalent to winning the lottery "

Can't win the lottery if you don't buy a ticket

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"I think it's more they can't find a good excuse for the wife "

Nonsense.

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I always have a good excuse.

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

I find it never ever gets any interest...

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Don't think I'll be that lucky if I put one up lol

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"How do you get it to work and I don't? I have boobs FFS."

It worked ONCE.

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If I had boobs and low standards I’m sure it’d work every time …

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Lives in Preston, Eng


"Never.

For a guy, the odds of this succeeding would be equivalent to winning the lottery

Can't win the lottery if you don't buy a ticket "

This. Post it for a social or meet and see what happens but don't expect anything?

In with the bang on advice as per usual Joe.

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

I've put up a few social meets with no interest so was me just sitting in Costa on my own lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put meets up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you get it to work and I don't? I have boobs FFS.

It worked ONCE.

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If I had boobs and low standards I’m sure it’d work every time …"

You're ONCE ahead of me.

Dam! I might try it again when I can be arsed with men.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nope prefer to use the meet section when I'm available then plan

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

I'm always down for a meat now.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

I hade an unsual number of meet now messages yesterday. Some looked suspicious as did the amount of profile viewings from straight guys that were also followed by a message in some cases. Somebody mentioned recently the unsual increase of profile viewings and I noticed that myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've puts meets up but never actually got a meet from one. Ever "

I’m not sure the village notice board is the best option?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever sent one?

(I’m not going to dw) "

god, no!

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Not individually.

But we kind of already knew who was likely to bite, usually.

Wildcard factor has had its merits.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I did once only because people were saying they don't work blah blah blah.

I had a great date - Christmas market, gingerbread latte, sang some carols. Got fingered.

It worked.

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford


"I did once only because people were saying they don't work blah blah blah.

I had a great date - Christmas market, gingerbread latte, sang some carols. Got fingered.

It worked."

I do love fingering at a Christmas market

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Very occasionally, yes.

Mrs TMN x

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By *wingersimonMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

“Got fingered”. This response wins the thread, brilliant.


"I did once only because people were saying they don't work blah blah blah.

I had a great date - Christmas market, gingerbread latte, sang some carols. Got fingered.

It worked."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never.

For a guy, the odds of this succeeding would be equivalent to winning the lottery

Can't win the lottery if you don't buy a ticket

This. Post it for a social or meet and see what happens but don't expect anything?

In with the bang on advice as per usual Joe.

"

I mean, nothing ever does but you can always have hope, right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I did once only because people were saying they don't work blah blah blah.

I had a great date - Christmas market, gingerbread latte, sang some carols. Got fingered.

It worked."

Must be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did once only because people were saying they don't work blah blah blah.

I had a great date - Christmas market, gingerbread latte, sang some carols. Got fingered.

It worked.

I do love fingering at a Christmas market "

That's like top tier Christmas spirit!

F

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I’ve been tempted just to see what chaos would ensue. But then actually worry that I couldn’t take the rejection….

I’ll not bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a “meet now” message but we have put up meets for socials before, it’s never worked out well.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I got my first ever Fab meet with a Meet Now. The one and only time that's worked.

LvM

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I did once only because people were saying they don't work blah blah blah.

I had a great date - Christmas market, gingerbread latte, sang some carols. Got fingered.

It worked.

I do love fingering at a Christmas market

That's like top tier Christmas spirit!

F"

Right? It's got everything you need to put you in a jolly mood. I might put the same request up this year. Obviously not requesting fingering because a girl can't be greedy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've puts meets up but never actually got a meet from one. Ever

Yeah well that’s because men like me message

I think it's more they can't find a good excuse for the wife "

But I thought that you'd only become their wife if they can keep a plant alive for a year and a pet for the second (bet you give them a goldfish, or something tgat has a lifespan of less than a year!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never.

For a guy, the odds of this succeeding would be equivalent to winning the lottery

Can't win the lottery if you don't buy a ticket "

Joseph. You always talk sense

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

No I don't do random sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever sent one?

(I’m not going to dw) "

I've sent a meet today message and met him the same day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you ever sent one?

(I’m not going to dw)

I've sent a meet today message and met him the same day. "

Bullshit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you ever sent one?

(I’m not going to dw)

I've sent a meet today message and met him the same day. "

You strike me as shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever sent one?

(I’m not going to dw)

I've sent a meet today message and met him the same day.

Bullshit "

I sent him a cleavage pic and he still turned up!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you ever sent one?

(I’m not going to dw)

I've sent a meet today message and met him the same day.

Bullshit

I sent him a cleavage pic and he still turned up! "

You’re a man? What cleavage?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever sent one?

(I’m not going to dw)

I've sent a meet today message and met him the same day.

Bullshit

I sent him a cleavage pic and he still turned up!

You’re a man? What cleavage? "

Butt cleavage of course!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you ever sent one?

(I’m not going to dw)

I've sent a meet today message and met him the same day.

Bullshit

I sent him a cleavage pic and he still turned up!

You’re a man? What cleavage?

Butt cleavage of course! "

Did you put out for him?

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss


"I’ve been tempted just to see what chaos would ensue. But then actually worry that I couldn’t take the rejection….

I’ll not bother "

This is exactly me

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"I’ve been tempted just to see what chaos would ensue. But then actually worry that I couldn’t take the rejection….

I’ll not bother

This is exactly me "

Maybe we should just send one to each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I never have. But I once did meet really quickly for a social. Good fun.

There’s no one near enough on my radar to meet now.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Nope. Spontaneity is a luxury I don’t have

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve been tempted just to see what chaos would ensue. But then actually worry that I couldn’t take the rejection….

I’ll not bother

This is exactly me

Maybe we should just send one to each other "

I’ll send to you both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you ever sent one?

(I’m not going to dw)

I've sent a meet today message and met him the same day.

Bullshit

I sent him a cleavage pic and he still turned up!

You’re a man? What cleavage?

Butt cleavage of course!

Did you put out for him?"

No, he was straight. The only straight guy on Fab!

*scratches bollocks and licks fingers*

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Never as ip prefer invitations

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"I’ve done it. Much like Nero’s thinking, I posted one up when I was away in Aberdeen for a while with work … and it led to a wonderful night with a gorgeous wee sweetheart of a woman. We’re still friends, and I’ll see her again if/when I end up back there.

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How do you get it to work and I don't? I have boobs FFS."

Would you consider a semi-naked artistic photoshoot for a meet-me-now? I'm always on the lôôk out for a new muse for my atelier.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I put a call out for a social when I was in London but got inundated with penis pics and FAF messages. So I got a takeaway and watched telly on my own instead.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"I put a call out for a social when I was in London but got inundated with penis pics and FAF messages. So I got a takeaway and watched telly on my own instead. "

Was that the time when I was just down the road in my office and I could have taken you out to dinner?

I think you also blew out YOLO that evening as well, KC².

KC² you really need to be less capricious.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I put a call out for a social when I was in London but got inundated with penis pics and FAF messages. So I got a takeaway and watched telly on my own instead.

Was that the time when I was just down the road in my office and I could have taken you out to dinner?

I think you also blew out YOLO that evening as well, KC².

KC² you really need to be less capricious. "

That was the time you AND YOLO blew me out

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford


"I did once only because people were saying they don't work blah blah blah.

I had a great date - Christmas market, gingerbread latte, sang some carols. Got fingered.

It worked.

I do love fingering at a Christmas market

That's like top tier Christmas spirit!

F

Right? It's got everything you need to put you in a jolly mood. I might put the same request up this year. Obviously not requesting fingering because a girl can't be greedy."

Yes you can. Join us in Paris for the Christmas market and you can be as greedy as you like.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Have you ever sent one?

(I’m not going to dw) "

Just send it to me directly

FAF?

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I could go a meet now right now.

I’m home alone. In need of sex.

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By *cotCouple666Couple
over a year ago

Central Belt

Yup. Stupid o'clock in the morning, d*unkenly scrolling at the tail end of a night out. Saw the profile of a single woman I'd been admiring was online, so I messaged asking if she was free now. Such a red neck the next morning realising what I'd done . I did get a response but it was hours later and she said she just couldn't sleep so was clearing out her inbox. Told her how embarrassed I was and that I don't normally do things like that. She was really understanding and nice about it.

Beth x

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford


"Have you ever sent one?

(I’m not going to dw) "

A few times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could go a meet now right now.

I’m home alone. In need of sex. "

Yes, it sounds good. Until the meet of your nightmares turns up...

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex


"I've puts meets up but never actually got a meet from one. Ever "

We’d have replied to your “meets” but our satnav couldn’t find “List & Liberty, south east” so stay home and got takeout food instead

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I could go a meet now right now.

I’m home alone. In need of sex. "

Hi.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

The good old days

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