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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you aim to achieve this month?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To make it to November

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Survive work.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am trying to get away hot for some wellness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sort my fucking life out

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"What do you aim to achieve this month?"

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The progression of a late September social/date into a mid-October sexology between the sheets.

If that doesn't happen then it's Plån ß.

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By *ixed MisterMan
over a year ago

London

Get work sorted, so I can re join the real work, then thats when all the fun begins.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

Cut down another ancient tree..

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

cut my working hours down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another birthday.

Cashing in on 41 orgasms.

Loads of laughter shared with special people in my life.

Getting back to training after being poorly as right now I’m out of breath simply walking.

Drinking loads of my favourite tea. I don’t drink it in summer months.

Happiness that’s felt to my core.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New supercar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to have a lot more sex than in September.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you aim to achieve this month?

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The progression of a late September social/date into a mid-October sexology between the sheets.

If that doesn't happen then it's Plån ß."

But we met mid September, not late September?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drink lots of lattes.

Have sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to have a lot more sex than in September. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Amen to that

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Drink lots of lattes.

Have sex."

Same. Lots of sex. Lots of lattes.

Watch at least five horror films.

Get fucked by someone wearing a mask.

It's going to be a good month.

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By *_elia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Goals.

House

Complete new fencing

Redecoration of living room

Work

Continue to strive forward with the new job role.

Small steps, but each project brings improvements.

Personal

Gigs and events throughout

Continue to reach out, network and build new friendships

Continuous Improvements on health and wellbeing.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Get social services to help properly with my Dad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sort my fucking life out "

Amen sister!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Drink lots of lattes.

Have sex."

Oh the joys of losing one's virginity

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

Try and find a job as it appears I am unemployable all of a sudden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get payed

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

Keep the snacking reduction going - nothing between breakfast and dinner apart from water. I'm told it's having a visible effect.

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

To go on a few vanilla dates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Drink lots of lattes.

Have sex.

Same. Lots of sex. Lots of lattes.

Watch at least five horror films.

Get fucked by someone wearing a mask.

It's going to be a good month."

Ooh and want those creepy white contacts some guy has on here. Those are hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Drink lots of lattes.

Have sex.

Oh the joys of losing one's virginity "

Does it hurt?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you aim to achieve this month?

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Getting my new job offered tomorrow

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
over a year ago

Durham

Full body orgasm

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Drink lots of lattes.

Have sex.

Same. Lots of sex. Lots of lattes.

Watch at least five horror films.

Get fucked by someone wearing a mask.

It's going to be a good month.

Ooh and want those creepy white contacts some guy has on here. Those are hot "

Need to find these bad boys. Do you ever think you might be going to hell?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To make it to November "

This and find a reason to keep going

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"What do you aim to achieve this month?

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The progression of a late September social/date into a mid-October sexology between the sheets.

If that doesn't happen then it's Plån ß.

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But we met mid September, not late September? "

•

Okay...do you prefer Travelodge™ or PremierInn™ ?

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By *929Man
over a year ago

newcastle

Make good progress on garden before the shot weather comes was supposed to be sorted for this summer but too busy with work summer was shot anyway so no great loss. Decided to go with walls, brick planters ect rather that fencing and kind of regret as it’s took shitload longer but be worth in end.

Get bigger and stronger in gym, nothing to stop lean for now winter almost here so more food baggy 3xl tshirt time

Nowt else I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to drop at least 8lbs more by the end of the month.

I'd like to catch up with a friend. I've known her since school but life gets so busy for us both.

I'd also rather like to be kissed

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I can help with the last one.

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I’d like to get my sexy old car on the road instead of keeping it in the barn. Might take more than one month though, that.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Continue hitting the gym and further improving my physique.

Attend a training course in London.

Reuniting with someone special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Continue my counselling

Stick to my boundaries and find the people that will respect them, I need to find more of my tribe and enjoy them.

Tick off my real life to do list.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Get off here

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

A bit of me time, hopefully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Drink lots of lattes.

Have sex.

Same. Lots of sex. Lots of lattes.

Watch at least five horror films.

Get fucked by someone wearing a mask.

It's going to be a good month.

Ooh and want those creepy white contacts some guy has on here. Those are hot

Need to find these bad boys. Do you ever think you might be going to hell?"

I hope so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be told I have a new job

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

I have three I want to stick to:

• Start at the gym. I’ve signed up but need to induct and devise a program.

• 31 days of Duolingo

• 8 piano practice sessions (basically two a week which is manageable even for a procrastinator like me)

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

To start my small group PT sessions added to the classes and bootcamp I already enjoy

Prepare better and not to procrastinate so much when preparing training sessions for work

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Productive in my coursework, and don't get fired because a customer is a dickhead.

LvM

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Survive

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Accepting help to sort my house out ready for recovery post op.

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By *hatBeardedChapMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Start going gym

Survive going London

Start painting warhammer stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you aim to achieve this month?

•

The progression of a late September social/date into a mid-October sexology between the sheets.

If that doesn't happen then it's Plån ß.

·

But we met mid September, not late September?

•

Okay...do you prefer Travelodge™ or PremierInn™ ? "

Premier Inn, the purple lighting is better for photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To finish my patio. And before someone asks nobody is below it. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you aim to achieve this month?

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vacation next weekend. 5 days Seneca lake wine country fall foliage and waterfalls.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"What do you aim to achieve this month?

•

The progression of a late September social/date into a mid-October sexology between the sheets.

If that doesn't happen then it's Plån ß.

·

But we met mid September, not late September?

•

Okay...do you prefer Travelodge™ or Premier Inn™ ?

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Premier Inn, the purple lighting is better for photos. "

•

I shall bring my trusty tripod!

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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To lose 4lb by the 21st

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To lose 4lb by the 21st"

Wow. Do you need to loose that. You look good now

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

4/6 weeks of a new run plan.

Drink more water.

Wind down better after work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently working away from home so a good month of training Gym & Cycling few cycling goals that are within reach now

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

To put my Autumn garland on the door and to get the pumpkins out (Wahey!)

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By *im RoyleCouple
over a year ago

chester

Losing more weight….and more weight training….learning one piano piece

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By *im RoyleCouple
over a year ago

chester


"To lose 4lb by the 21st"

Easy that. One meal a day. Sorted.

I’ve gone from 14 stone 10 to 12 stone 7 in few months

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

My goal in Oct is to accomplish the goals I set in Sept, which I should of done in May, because I made a promise in March which I planned in Jan

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By *im RoyleCouple
over a year ago

chester


"I have three I want to stick to:

• Start at the gym. I’ve signed up but need to induct and devise a program.

• 31 days of Duolingo

• 8 piano practice sessions (basically two a week which is manageable even for a procrastinator like me)"

Piano? Two a week??! Are you already quite good?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Accepting help to sort my house out ready for recovery post op. "

Oooooooo are they finally going to fix you, Saff? Hope it all goes well

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford


"I have three I want to stick to:

• Start at the gym. I’ve signed up but need to induct and devise a program.

• 31 days of Duolingo

• 8 piano practice sessions (basically two a week which is manageable even for a procrastinator like me)

Piano? Two a week??! Are you already quite good? "

Some basics/fundamentals. I should be practicing daily, or at least every other day, but I know I can’t keep to that.

So 2x 20-30 minute sessions a week shouldn’t be too tough to stick to. I spend more time on here just browsing. It’s not for ‘improvement’ per se this month, but more to build the habit again as I’ve been very lazy recently.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Accepting help to sort my house out ready for recovery post op.

Oooooooo are they finally going to fix you, Saff? Hope it all goes well "

Yes thank god!! It’s bone on bone so can barely walk now. Thanks Chuck x

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By *im RoyleCouple
over a year ago

chester


"I have three I want to stick to:

• Start at the gym. I’ve signed up but need to induct and devise a program.

• 31 days of Duolingo

• 8 piano practice sessions (basically two a week which is manageable even for a procrastinator like me)

Piano? Two a week??! Are you already quite good?

Some basics/fundamentals. I should be practicing daily, or at least every other day, but I know I can’t keep to that.

So 2x 20-30 minute sessions a week shouldn’t be too tough to stick to. I spend more time on here just browsing. It’s not for ‘improvement’ per se this month, but more to build the habit again as I’ve been very lazy recently."

Ah ok. I practice at least an hour per day. With one day off. Have a lesson each week. Studying theory too. And I’m still shit!!!! Lol

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By *im RoyleCouple
over a year ago

chester


"My goal in Oct is to accomplish the goals I set in Sept, which I should of done in May, because I made a promise in March which I planned in Jan"

Love this lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To keep with my target of 7 walks a month and plan a doctors appointment as they won't come to me. 9 months of working upto it. I hope I do it

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London

I need to arrange a sail to Isle of Man before it's too cold and stormy. That'll be my goal for the month, I suppose. That, and, I can't stress this part enough; Not dying.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford


"I have three I want to stick to:

• Start at the gym. I’ve signed up but need to induct and devise a program.

• 31 days of Duolingo

• 8 piano practice sessions (basically two a week which is manageable even for a procrastinator like me)

Piano? Two a week??! Are you already quite good?

Some basics/fundamentals. I should be practicing daily, or at least every other day, but I know I can’t keep to that.

So 2x 20-30 minute sessions a week shouldn’t be too tough to stick to. I spend more time on here just browsing. It’s not for ‘improvement’ per se this month, but more to build the habit again as I’ve been very lazy recently.

Ah ok. I practice at least an hour per day. With one day off. Have a lesson each week. Studying theory too. And I’m still shit!!!! Lol"

When I was doing exams/lessons that was me so I don’t envy you. At the moment I have no teacher (or structure) so I just do stuff I enjoy and not stuff like sight reading and theory test papers

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By *im RoyleCouple
over a year ago

chester


"I have three I want to stick to:

• Start at the gym. I’ve signed up but need to induct and devise a program.

• 31 days of Duolingo

• 8 piano practice sessions (basically two a week which is manageable even for a procrastinator like me)

Piano? Two a week??! Are you already quite good?

Some basics/fundamentals. I should be practicing daily, or at least every other day, but I know I can’t keep to that.

So 2x 20-30 minute sessions a week shouldn’t be too tough to stick to. I spend more time on here just browsing. It’s not for ‘improvement’ per se this month, but more to build the habit again as I’ve been very lazy recently.

Ah ok. I practice at least an hour per day. With one day off. Have a lesson each week. Studying theory too. And I’m still shit!!!! Lol

When I was doing exams/lessons that was me so I don’t envy you. At the moment I have no teacher (or structure) so I just do stuff I enjoy and not stuff like sight reading and theory test papers "

I did grade one exams like the 7 year olds breeze through! Passed but shit myself nearly! So I chose to progress through the grades without exams. The theory I’m just interested in and at my age, keep brain working.

I’m not a natural by any measure. I find it all very very difficult. Find perving fabs easy!

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By *NV14INVCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Seriously, attend our first group social, spend time on a recommended nudest beach and visit a swinger’s club for our 2nd time after our 1st was disappointing.

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By *im RoyleCouple
over a year ago

chester


"Seriously, attend our first group social, spend time on a recommended nudest beach and visit a swinger’s club for our 2nd time after our 1st was disappointing. "

We been only to 2 clubs. One in Spain, wife thought sleazy. One in uk was great night. Townhouse in Birkenhead

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London

This "twice a week" stuff is not going to last. Once a day for a very short amount of time is better than twice a week for longer... Same with learning a language. You need to integrate it in your daily routine somehow. Same with gym.

Can't lift every day, but you need to go everyday. Maybe do cardio on your days off or something.

Need to play the piano once a day, 15 minutes before lunch or something.

While going through the day, look up how to say things in the language that you want to learn, that you would say in english. Learn single, everyday words like that. Just make a habit of looking it up. Best are short little sentences to get the syntax, too. Nothing too complicated. Pair that with duolingo.

Everytime I go to the bathroom, I play a game of chess. I became quite good over the years.

If you do it only once a week, you will get lazy and forget about it. Something will come up, and then the next opportunity is 7 days from now. And then you miss it again and ooops you haven't done it for 2 weeks now.

If you do it daily, then taht can happen, too. But it's a lot more difficult because it's literally everyday, so if you miss today you make up for it tomorrow and not next week.

But it's best to not do too much new stuff at once anyway. That is just overload and then you procrastinate ALL of your new hobbies. Implement little by little.

Get used to the gym first, then the second language, then the piano. If you do all at once you will not do any of those after a while, promised. And a thousand small steps are better than 100 big steps, they take less dedication and mental preparing and convincing, and for anything you try to achieve - going at it steady is more important than going at it hard. Even the gym.

I know all of that, and yet I am a lazy SoB at the moment, too. But I used to live like this for years, and I got shit done. Constantly. All the time. I was so well up together. So take it from someone who knows what works, and what doesn't. I have done both.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Finally find a new job

K

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford


"I have three I want to stick to:

• Start at the gym. I’ve signed up but need to induct and devise a program.

• 31 days of Duolingo

• 8 piano practice sessions (basically two a week which is manageable even for a procrastinator like me)

Piano? Two a week??! Are you already quite good?

Some basics/fundamentals. I should be practicing daily, or at least every other day, but I know I can’t keep to that.

So 2x 20-30 minute sessions a week shouldn’t be too tough to stick to. I spend more time on here just browsing. It’s not for ‘improvement’ per se this month, but more to build the habit again as I’ve been very lazy recently.

Ah ok. I practice at least an hour per day. With one day off. Have a lesson each week. Studying theory too. And I’m still shit!!!! Lol

When I was doing exams/lessons that was me so I don’t envy you. At the moment I have no teacher (or structure) so I just do stuff I enjoy and not stuff like sight reading and theory test papers

I did grade one exams like the 7 year olds breeze through! Passed but shit myself nearly! So I chose to progress through the grades without exams. The theory I’m just interested in and at my age, keep brain working.

I’m not a natural by any measure. I find it all very very difficult. Find perving fabs easy! "

You’ll smash it. I didn’t enjoy my exams, but I did enjoy the preparation for them. Next time I might go back to syllabus stuff but for now it’s YouTube tutorials and (terrible) improvisation

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By *im RoyleCouple
over a year ago

chester


"I have three I want to stick to:

• Start at the gym. I’ve signed up but need to induct and devise a program.

• 31 days of Duolingo

• 8 piano practice sessions (basically two a week which is manageable even for a procrastinator like me)

Piano? Two a week??! Are you already quite good?

Some basics/fundamentals. I should be practicing daily, or at least every other day, but I know I can’t keep to that.

So 2x 20-30 minute sessions a week shouldn’t be too tough to stick to. I spend more time on here just browsing. It’s not for ‘improvement’ per se this month, but more to build the habit again as I’ve been very lazy recently.

Ah ok. I practice at least an hour per day. With one day off. Have a lesson each week. Studying theory too. And I’m still shit!!!! Lol

When I was doing exams/lessons that was me so I don’t envy you. At the moment I have no teacher (or structure) so I just do stuff I enjoy and not stuff like sight reading and theory test papers

I did grade one exams like the 7 year olds breeze through! Passed but shit myself nearly! So I chose to progress through the grades without exams. The theory I’m just interested in and at my age, keep brain working.

I’m not a natural by any measure. I find it all very very difficult. Find perving fabs easy!

You’ll smash it. I didn’t enjoy my exams, but I did enjoy the preparation for them. Next time I might go back to syllabus stuff but for now it’s YouTube tutorials and (terrible) improvisation "

Chords and that! An enigma to me. Need to be told exactly what to do

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By *im RoyleCouple
over a year ago

chester


"This "twice a week" stuff is not going to last. Once a day for a very short amount of time is better than twice a week for longer... Same with learning a language. You need to integrate it in your daily routine somehow. Same with gym.

Can't lift every day, but you need to go everyday. Maybe do cardio on your days off or something.

Need to play the piano once a day, 15 minutes before lunch or something.

While going through the day, look up how to say things in the language that you want to learn, that you would say in english. Learn single, everyday words like that. Just make a habit of looking it up. Best are short little sentences to get the syntax, too. Nothing too complicated. Pair that with duolingo.

Everytime I go to the bathroom, I play a game of chess. I became quite good over the years.

If you do it only once a week, you will get lazy and forget about it. Something will come up, and then the next opportunity is 7 days from now. And then you miss it again and ooops you haven't done it for 2 weeks now.

If you do it daily, then taht can happen, too. But it's a lot more difficult because it's literally everyday, so if you miss today you make up for it tomorrow and not next week.

But it's best to not do too much new stuff at once anyway. That is just overload and then you procrastinate ALL of your new hobbies. Implement little by little.

Get used to the gym first, then the second language, then the piano. If you do all at once you will not do any of those after a while, promised. And a thousand small steps are better than 100 big steps, they take less dedication and mental preparing and convincing, and for anything you try to achieve - going at it steady is more important than going at it hard. Even the gym.

I know all of that, and yet I am a lazy SoB at the moment, too. But I used to live like this for years, and I got shit done. Constantly. All the time. I was so well up together. So take it from someone who knows what works, and what doesn't. I have done both. "

Can weight train every day. Well Monday to Friday. Different body parts. I’m 60….I do

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Accepting help to sort my house out ready for recovery post op.

Oooooooo are they finally going to fix you, Saff? Hope it all goes well

Yes thank god!! It’s bone on bone so can barely walk now. Thanks Chuck x "

Get yourself a snazzy wheely chair! In all seriousness though, we hope it's all successful and that you'll be out of pain once it's all done and dusted

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford


"This "twice a week" stuff is not going to last. Once a day for a very short amount of time is better than twice a week for longer... Same with learning a language. You need to integrate it in your daily routine somehow. Same with gym.

Can't lift every day, but you need to go everyday. Maybe do cardio on your days off or something.

Need to play the piano once a day, 15 minutes before lunch or something.

While going through the day, look up how to say things in the language that you want to learn, that you would say in english. Learn single, everyday words like that. Just make a habit of looking it up. Best are short little sentences to get the syntax, too. Nothing too complicated. Pair that with duolingo.

Everytime I go to the bathroom, I play a game of chess. I became quite good over the years.

If you do it only once a week, you will get lazy and forget about it. Something will come up, and then the next opportunity is 7 days from now. And then you miss it again and ooops you haven't done it for 2 weeks now.

If you do it daily, then taht can happen, too. But it's a lot more difficult because it's literally everyday, so if you miss today you make up for it tomorrow and not next week.

But it's best to not do too much new stuff at once anyway. That is just overload and then you procrastinate ALL of your new hobbies. Implement little by little.

Get used to the gym first, then the second language, then the piano. If you do all at once you will not do any of those after a while, promised. And a thousand small steps are better than 100 big steps, they take less dedication and mental preparing and convincing, and for anything you try to achieve - going at it steady is more important than going at it hard. Even the gym.

I know all of that, and yet I am a lazy SoB at the moment, too. But I used to live like this for years, and I got shit done. Constantly. All the time. I was so well up together. So take it from someone who knows what works, and what doesn't. I have done both. "

It’s to build a habit of some sorts, because with the way my work is split across localities I can’t be home for a part of the week. Therefore the piano practice is limited to those times when I’m home.

2x is a minimum and if I can do more, which I will be able to most weeks then great but it’s just to get my brain back into making it part of a loose routine. I’m not trying to be Einaudi, just someone who can sit down and piss about.

Duolingo is a daily habit on the other hand because my phone is always with me

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over a year ago

Go to just one kink event.

Go swimming at least once a week and have a gym session once a week too.

I've been tasked, and would like to finish 'this life' and watch trainspotting as I've not seen it yet

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London


"This "twice a week" stuff is not going to last. Once a day for a very short amount of time is better than twice a week for longer... Same with learning a language. You need to integrate it in your daily routine somehow. Same with gym.

Can't lift every day, but you need to go everyday. Maybe do cardio on your days off or something.

Need to play the piano once a day, 15 minutes before lunch or something.

While going through the day, look up how to say things in the language that you want to learn, that you would say in english. Learn single, everyday words like that. Just make a habit of looking it up. Best are short little sentences to get the syntax, too. Nothing too complicated. Pair that with duolingo.

Everytime I go to the bathroom, I play a game of chess. I became quite good over the years.

If you do it only once a week, you will get lazy and forget about it. Something will come up, and then the next opportunity is 7 days from now. And then you miss it again and ooops you haven't done it for 2 weeks now.

If you do it daily, then taht can happen, too. But it's a lot more difficult because it's literally everyday, so if you miss today you make up for it tomorrow and not next week.

But it's best to not do too much new stuff at once anyway. That is just overload and then you procrastinate ALL of your new hobbies. Implement little by little.

Get used to the gym first, then the second language, then the piano. If you do all at once you will not do any of those after a while, promised. And a thousand small steps are better than 100 big steps, they take less dedication and mental preparing and convincing, and for anything you try to achieve - going at it steady is more important than going at it hard. Even the gym.

I know all of that, and yet I am a lazy SoB at the moment, too. But I used to live like this for years, and I got shit done. Constantly. All the time. I was so well up together. So take it from someone who knows what works, and what doesn't. I have done both.

It’s to build a habit of some sorts, because with the way my work is split across localities I can’t be home for a part of the week. Therefore the piano practice is limited to those times when I’m home.

2x is a minimum and if I can do more, which I will be able to most weeks then great but it’s just to get my brain back into making it part of a loose routine. I’m not trying to be Einaudi, just someone who can sit down and piss about.

Duolingo is a daily habit on the other hand because my phone is always with me "

Find solutions and don't make excuses. Get a little keyboard with you, it helps you practice the piano.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London


"This "twice a week" stuff is not going to last. Once a day for a very short amount of time is better than twice a week for longer... Same with learning a language. You need to integrate it in your daily routine somehow. Same with gym.

Can't lift every day, but you need to go everyday. Maybe do cardio on your days off or something.

Need to play the piano once a day, 15 minutes before lunch or something.

While going through the day, look up how to say things in the language that you want to learn, that you would say in english. Learn single, everyday words like that. Just make a habit of looking it up. Best are short little sentences to get the syntax, too. Nothing too complicated. Pair that with duolingo.

Everytime I go to the bathroom, I play a game of chess. I became quite good over the years.

If you do it only once a week, you will get lazy and forget about it. Something will come up, and then the next opportunity is 7 days from now. And then you miss it again and ooops you haven't done it for 2 weeks now.

If you do it daily, then taht can happen, too. But it's a lot more difficult because it's literally everyday, so if you miss today you make up for it tomorrow and not next week.

But it's best to not do too much new stuff at once anyway. That is just overload and then you procrastinate ALL of your new hobbies. Implement little by little.

Get used to the gym first, then the second language, then the piano. If you do all at once you will not do any of those after a while, promised. And a thousand small steps are better than 100 big steps, they take less dedication and mental preparing and convincing, and for anything you try to achieve - going at it steady is more important than going at it hard. Even the gym.

I know all of that, and yet I am a lazy SoB at the moment, too. But I used to live like this for years, and I got shit done. Constantly. All the time. I was so well up together. So take it from someone who knows what works, and what doesn't. I have done both.

Can weight train every day. Well Monday to Friday. Different body parts. I’m 60….I do"

Oh definitely, but most people go for a full body work out, which is sufficient. And then you have to rest between workouts, especially if you're still sore. Cardio is a good alternative, it lets you go to the gym even if you don't want to strain yourself.

A split plan is obviously not a bad idea either, but personally never liked it that much and I don't think it's very helpful unless you're at competition level. Personal preference and opinion though. As long as you go to the gym and you keep going to the gym, you do it right.

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over a year ago

Finding a new job before I go insane.

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By *im RoyleCouple
over a year ago

chester


"This "twice a week" stuff is not going to last. Once a day for a very short amount of time is better than twice a week for longer... Same with learning a language. You need to integrate it in your daily routine somehow. Same with gym.

Can't lift every day, but you need to go everyday. Maybe do cardio on your days off or something.

Need to play the piano once a day, 15 minutes before lunch or something.

While going through the day, look up how to say things in the language that you want to learn, that you would say in english. Learn single, everyday words like that. Just make a habit of looking it up. Best are short little sentences to get the syntax, too. Nothing too complicated. Pair that with duolingo.

Everytime I go to the bathroom, I play a game of chess. I became quite good over the years.

If you do it only once a week, you will get lazy and forget about it. Something will come up, and then the next opportunity is 7 days from now. And then you miss it again and ooops you haven't done it for 2 weeks now.

If you do it daily, then taht can happen, too. But it's a lot more difficult because it's literally everyday, so if you miss today you make up for it tomorrow and not next week.

But it's best to not do too much new stuff at once anyway. That is just overload and then you procrastinate ALL of your new hobbies. Implement little by little.

Get used to the gym first, then the second language, then the piano. If you do all at once you will not do any of those after a while, promised. And a thousand small steps are better than 100 big steps, they take less dedication and mental preparing and convincing, and for anything you try to achieve - going at it steady is more important than going at it hard. Even the gym.

I know all of that, and yet I am a lazy SoB at the moment, too. But I used to live like this for years, and I got shit done. Constantly. All the time. I was so well up together. So take it from someone who knows what works, and what doesn't. I have done both.

Can weight train every day. Well Monday to Friday. Different body parts. I’m 60….I do

Oh definitely, but most people go for a full body work out, which is sufficient. And then you have to rest between workouts, especially if you're still sore. Cardio is a good alternative, it lets you go to the gym even if you don't want to strain yourself.

A split plan is obviously not a bad idea either, but personally never liked it that much and I don't think it's very helpful unless you're at competition level. Personal preference and opinion though. As long as you go to the gym and you keep going to the gym, you do it right."

True enough. I’ve tried them all. But at my age, can go quite hard say legd Monday and 7 days until do them again. Cardio is now walking and swimming. All over takes too long and I don’t think can do enough of each group

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London


"This "twice a week" stuff is not going to last. Once a day for a very short amount of time is better than twice a week for longer... Same with learning a language. You need to integrate it in your daily routine somehow. Same with gym.

Can't lift every day, but you need to go everyday. Maybe do cardio on your days off or something.

Need to play the piano once a day, 15 minutes before lunch or something.

While going through the day, look up how to say things in the language that you want to learn, that you would say in english. Learn single, everyday words like that. Just make a habit of looking it up. Best are short little sentences to get the syntax, too. Nothing too complicated. Pair that with duolingo.

Everytime I go to the bathroom, I play a game of chess. I became quite good over the years.

If you do it only once a week, you will get lazy and forget about it. Something will come up, and then the next opportunity is 7 days from now. And then you miss it again and ooops you haven't done it for 2 weeks now.

If you do it daily, then taht can happen, too. But it's a lot more difficult because it's literally everyday, so if you miss today you make up for it tomorrow and not next week.

But it's best to not do too much new stuff at once anyway. That is just overload and then you procrastinate ALL of your new hobbies. Implement little by little.

Get used to the gym first, then the second language, then the piano. If you do all at once you will not do any of those after a while, promised. And a thousand small steps are better than 100 big steps, they take less dedication and mental preparing and convincing, and for anything you try to achieve - going at it steady is more important than going at it hard. Even the gym.

I know all of that, and yet I am a lazy SoB at the moment, too. But I used to live like this for years, and I got shit done. Constantly. All the time. I was so well up together. So take it from someone who knows what works, and what doesn't. I have done both.

Can weight train every day. Well Monday to Friday. Different body parts. I’m 60….I do

Oh definitely, but most people go for a full body work out, which is sufficient. And then you have to rest between workouts, especially if you're still sore. Cardio is a good alternative, it lets you go to the gym even if you don't want to strain yourself.

A split plan is obviously not a bad idea either, but personally never liked it that much and I don't think it's very helpful unless you're at competition level. Personal preference and opinion though. As long as you go to the gym and you keep going to the gym, you do it right.

True enough. I’ve tried them all. But at my age, can go quite hard say legd Monday and 7 days until do them again. Cardio is now walking and swimming. All over takes too long and I don’t think can do enough of each group "

We get weaker the older we get, so that you still hit the gym is really impressive.

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over a year ago

Im doing the sober for october challange

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By *iiimanMan
over a year ago

london

Meeting my first couple

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

To lose another stone and to get my car at least running

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By *im RoyleCouple
over a year ago

chester


"To lose another stone and to get my car at least running "

A stone in one month is difficult. Maybe revise to 4/7 pounds ??

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By *im RoyleCouple
over a year ago

chester


"This "twice a week" stuff is not going to last. Once a day for a very short amount of time is better than twice a week for longer... Same with learning a language. You need to integrate it in your daily routine somehow. Same with gym.

Can't lift every day, but you need to go everyday. Maybe do cardio on your days off or something.

Need to play the piano once a day, 15 minutes before lunch or something.

While going through the day, look up how to say things in the language that you want to learn, that you would say in english. Learn single, everyday words like that. Just make a habit of looking it up. Best are short little sentences to get the syntax, too. Nothing too complicated. Pair that with duolingo.

Everytime I go to the bathroom, I play a game of chess. I became quite good over the years.

If you do it only once a week, you will get lazy and forget about it. Something will come up, and then the next opportunity is 7 days from now. And then you miss it again and ooops you haven't done it for 2 weeks now.

If you do it daily, then taht can happen, too. But it's a lot more difficult because it's literally everyday, so if you miss today you make up for it tomorrow and not next week.

But it's best to not do too much new stuff at once anyway. That is just overload and then you procrastinate ALL of your new hobbies. Implement little by little.

Get used to the gym first, then the second language, then the piano. If you do all at once you will not do any of those after a while, promised. And a thousand small steps are better than 100 big steps, they take less dedication and mental preparing and convincing, and for anything you try to achieve - going at it steady is more important than going at it hard. Even the gym.

I know all of that, and yet I am a lazy SoB at the moment, too. But I used to live like this for years, and I got shit done. Constantly. All the time. I was so well up together. So take it from someone who knows what works, and what doesn't. I have done both.

Can weight train every day. Well Monday to Friday. Different body parts. I’m 60….I do

Oh definitely, but most people go for a full body work out, which is sufficient. And then you have to rest between workouts, especially if you're still sore. Cardio is a good alternative, it lets you go to the gym even if you don't want to strain yourself.

A split plan is obviously not a bad idea either, but personally never liked it that much and I don't think it's very helpful unless you're at competition level. Personal preference and opinion though. As long as you go to the gym and you keep going to the gym, you do it right.

True enough. I’ve tried them all. But at my age, can go quite hard say legd Monday and 7 days until do them again. Cardio is now walking and swimming. All over takes too long and I don’t think can do enough of each group

We get weaker the older we get, so that you still hit the gym is really impressive."

Still?? Now that’s making me feel old!

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By *im RoyleCouple
over a year ago

chester


"Go to just one kink event.

Go swimming at least once a week and have a gym session once a week too.

I've been tasked, and would like to finish 'this life' and watch trainspotting as I've not seen it yet "

Gym once a week? 4 per week plus swimming. Do it

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By *ony 2016Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield /derby cinemas

Made a list of New Year Resolutions last December , will have to find the bit of paper I wrote them on and make a start ,, only got 2 months left

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London


"Im doing the sober for october challange "

My challenge is called "Octobar, Novembar, Decembar"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no plans. … yet

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"Im doing the sober for october challange

My challenge is called "Octobar, Novembar, Decembar""

Try life now thats a challenge.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finish tidying in the garden and get some spring bulbs planted

Sort cupboards inside

Eat more healthily. Gym twice a week and swim once a week.

Hopefully get a couple of meets in too

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London


"Im doing the sober for october challange

My challenge is called "Octobar, Novembar, Decembar"

Try life now thats a challenge....."

I'd argue very much that I am living. At least I was under the strong impression that I do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im doing the sober for october challange "

I am trying that too but i have weddings to attend this month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To lose a stone in bodyweight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

- to keep on keeping on

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"To lose another stone and to get my car at least running

A stone in one month is difficult. Maybe revise to 4/7 pounds ??"

Why... I lost 23lb last month lol

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

My first thought was “more sex” but then I realised that it’s not going to be the case.

So maybe more sleep and mindfulness instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to wank twice

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Piss off all world and be happier than ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get to the gym more than twice a week

Have more fun

Book a holiday

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton


"Im doing the sober for october challange

My challenge is called "Octobar, Novembar, Decembar""

Haha I like your thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you aim to achieve this month?

"

Leave fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave fab join gri nr leave gri ndr rejoin fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Win the lottery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have sex (being overly optimistic)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think will try a solo holiday too

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By *azzler2Man
over a year ago

halifax

Have as much sex as I can

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By *oomarangMan
over a year ago

Chester

Get laid not had sex in two years

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By *nikingMan
over a year ago

Hull

Will try to quit my slut lifestyle

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Book a couple of flights holidays for Nov/Dec.

Hit my first 30-days plan targets - new job

Complete 15 hours of boxing training

Play guitar every single day

Not be a dick

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

To get through it without killing anyone

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"What do you aim to achieve this month?

Leave fab. "

Love seeing goals achieved

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Not have sex at all

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford


"To get through it without killing anyone "

Sounds like a challenge

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Taking a helicopter tour to see Rio de Janeiro from a bird’s eye view…

CANNOT WAIT.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London


"Taking a helicopter tour to see Rio de Janeiro from a bird’s eye view…

CANNOT WAIT. "

Damn. I think you win the thread with that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just enjoy myself and be happy.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Think will try a solo holiday too "
its so liberating xx

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