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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So obviously you can choose an age range to search for profiles and receive messages from what I don’t get is when you click on “the age I’m looking for” button all the profiles that are looking for your age pop up but then women will say oh you’re to young etc why not just change the age you are looking for this happen to anyone else doesn’t make sense lol

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By *cotty_01ukMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Annoying isn’t it like just don’t select my age not exactly hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A polite way to say you're not for them. Or they don't fancy someone as young as you right then. It could also be they are Dyscalculia. Women are a minefield.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A polite way to say you're not for them. Or they don't fancy someone as young as you right then. It could also be they are Dyscalculia. Women are a minefield.

F"

So goes back to them if they don’t want someone who’s 24 then just put it at 25+ problems solved

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By *aydumfriesMan
over a year ago

heathhall


"A polite way to say you're not for them. Or they don't fancy someone as young as you right then. It could also be they are Dyscalculia. Women are a minefield.

F

So goes back to them if they don’t want someone who’s 24 then just put it at 25+ problems solved "

No they mean they're being polite say you specifically aren't for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A polite way to say you're not for them. Or they don't fancy someone as young as you right then. It could also be they are Dyscalculia. Women are a minefield.

F

So goes back to them if they don’t want someone who’s 24 then just put it at 25+ problems solved "

Just accept they don't want to meet or talk and move on.

F

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

I often turn my filters off for forum games and forget to put them back up, my age range is on my profile and if someone doesn’t have the time to actually read that then they definitely wouldn’t be for me regardless of their age.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I figure people come in all shapes and sizes as the quote goes but I can generally get along with most people from varying age ranges so have no age range set

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a polite way to turn someone down without saying they're not attracted to you.

Even if you are within someone's age range, you aren't guaranteed a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age range is 18 to 99, doubtful I'll ever get an 18yr old want to meet me, and if they did the answer would probably be no but thanks.

Why don't I change my age range to suit, can't be arsed to be honest. I see it as a statement that all ages are considered, but still my choice to say yes/no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think a lot of you are missing the point of what my post says it’s not getting turned down because someone’s not interested it’s getting turned down based on your age “you’re to young” but you have my age example in what it says you’re looking for so when you have it set let’s say 22-42 and then you say to a 24 year old “oh you’re to young” well that doesn’t really make sense as it’s an age you’ve set your looking to meet so simply just change the age that you want example 25+ and then problem solved so make sure to read the post properly before you comment next time guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot of you are missing the point of what my post says it’s not getting turned down because someone’s not interested it’s getting turned down based on your age “you’re to young” but you have my age example in what it says you’re looking for so when you have it set let’s say 22-42 and then you say to a 24 year old “oh you’re to young” well that doesn’t really make sense as it’s an age you’ve set your looking to meet so simply just change the age that you want example 25+ and then problem solved so make sure to read the post properly before you comment next time guys "

Is it possible you are missing the point. Most people like to decline in a way that doesn't offend, if they responded with 'you aren't for me/us' then experience says another message asking why or worse still, an abusive message is likely to follow.

Everybody gets knocked back and far more often than you think, at least they were polite enough to respond, most just delete and some even block. Welcome to fab.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I've never set my age range left it at 18 to 99 ! But won't b meeting anyone under 30! But am willing to chat to younger! X

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Some people have different age ranges for men and women.

A profile might be happy to meet a 24 year old woman but prefer men to be slightly older. Filters don't allow for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I would meet younger women but not younger men. Fab only allows one age range though.

Peach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a polite way to turn someone down without saying they're not attracted to you.

Even if you are within someone's age range, you aren't guaranteed a fuck. "

More to the point, they aren't guaranteed a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot of you are missing the point of what my post says it’s not getting turned down because someone’s not interested it’s getting turned down based on your age “you’re to young” but you have my age example in what it says you’re looking for so when you have it set let’s say 22-42 and then you say to a 24 year old “oh you’re to young” well that doesn’t really make sense as it’s an age you’ve set your looking to meet so simply just change the age that you want example 25+ and then problem solved so make sure to read the post properly before you comment next time guys "

The point that you are missing is that they can set whatever age range they like for their own profile.

If your messages come across like what you've said in this forum discussion then they will probably say that you're too young, I don't mean to offend or single you out because this kind of question regarding how people use their profile comes up quite a lot.

You need a thick skin in the online fab world.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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They might be doing veris.

They might want more views and people to notice them.

They might be leaving it open for forum users.

They might not really care or think about filters.

They might be an attention whore.

Whatever is OP, as frustrating as it could be, you've just got to accept that it's a no and dwelling as to the reasons why is kind of a waste of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot of you are missing the point of what my post says it’s not getting turned down because someone’s not interested it’s getting turned down based on your age “you’re to young” but you have my age example in what it says you’re looking for so when you have it set let’s say 22-42 and then you say to a 24 year old “oh you’re to young” well that doesn’t really make sense as it’s an age you’ve set your looking to meet so simply just change the age that you want example 25+ and then problem solved so make sure to read the post properly before you comment next time guys

Is it possible you are missing the point. Most people like to decline in a way that doesn't offend, if they responded with 'you aren't for me/us' then experience says another message asking why or worse still, an abusive message is likely to follow.

Everybody gets knocked back and far more often than you think, at least they were polite enough to respond, most just delete and some even block. Welcome to fab."

Sorry OP, I see what you're saying but I agree with the above.

Using age as a decline is much nicer than listing a load of reasons why they don't find you attractive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've never set my age range left it at 18 to 99 ! But won't b meeting anyone under 30! But am willing to chat to younger! X"

What’s the point in chatting to someone with no intention of meeting them seems like you’re just wanting the attention and validation from people that’s like a drug to women they can’t resist it just set you range to 30+ and actually chat to people you’d be interested in meeting or just change your bio to “I’m only looking for attention and validation” so people know to avoid you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Free range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What’s the point in chatting to someone with no intention of meeting them..."

I set my age range but don't limit people from speaking to me, even blokes. I like chatting to people and have no intention of meeting all the people I chat to.

Do you seriously only chat to people in everyday life in a certain age range or that you want to shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never set my age range left it at 18 to 99 ! But won't b meeting anyone under 30! But am willing to chat to younger! X

What’s the point in chatting to someone with no intention of meeting them seems like you’re just wanting the attention and validation from people that’s like a drug to women they can’t resist it just set you range to 30+ and actually chat to people you’d be interested in meeting or just change your bio to “I’m only looking for attention and validation” so people know to avoid you "

See this is where you don't understand swinging, you don't fuck everyone you chat to, it's being social, I chat to guys but I'm straight, I chat to people I'm not attracted to, that's part of this lifestyle.

Maybe you need to understand what it's all about.

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By *rincipessaWoman
over a year ago

your wildest dreams,


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What’s the point in chatting to someone with no intention of meeting them...

I set my age range but don't limit people from speaking to me, even blokes. I like chatting to people and have no intention of meeting all the people I chat to.

Do you seriously only chat to people in everyday life in a certain age range or that you want to shag?"

Reading down the comments, I was going to reply. But basically you said it all before me. Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What’s the point in chatting to someone with no intention of meeting them...

I set my age range but don't limit people from speaking to me, even blokes. I like chatting to people and have no intention of meeting all the people I chat to.

Do you seriously only chat to people in everyday life in a certain age range or that you want to shag?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What’s the point in chatting to someone with no intention of meeting them...

I set my age range but don't limit people from speaking to me, even blokes. I like chatting to people and have no intention of meeting all the people I chat to.

Do you seriously only chat to people in everyday life in a certain age range or that you want to shag?"

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


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What’s the point in chatting to someone with no intention of meeting them...

I set my age range but don't limit people from speaking to me, even blokes. I like chatting to people and have no intention of meeting all the people I chat to.

Do you seriously only chat to people in everyday life in a certain age range or that you want to shag?"

In everyday life I chat to everyone. On this site I only chat to people that I feel may be compatible so I have very strict age filters in place.

I have no interest in networking or chatting to other guys.

When my filters were more flexible I used to get messages from young women looking to "try" an older man and rather than having to say no all the time it's much easier not to engage at all.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"I've never set my age range left it at 18 to 99 ! But won't b meeting anyone under 30! But am willing to chat to younger! X

What’s the point in chatting to someone with no intention of meeting them seems like you’re just wanting the attention and validation from people that’s like a drug to women they can’t resist it just set you range to 30+ and actually chat to people you’d be interested in meeting or just change your bio to “I’m only looking for attention and validation” so people know to avoid you "

Telling people how to use the site - nice move.

Also, not just women.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"So obviously you can choose an age range to search for profiles and receive messages from what I don’t get is when you click on “the age I’m looking for” button all the profiles that are looking for your age pop up but then women will say oh you’re to young etc why not just change the age you are looking for this happen to anyone else doesn’t make sense lol"
Theirs always a preference that goes beyond age

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I've never set my age range left it at 18 to 99 ! But won't b meeting anyone under 30! But am willing to chat to younger! X

What’s the point in chatting to someone with no intention of meeting them seems like you’re just wanting the attention and validation from people that’s like a drug to women they can’t resist it just set you range to 30+ and actually chat to people you’d be interested in meeting or just change your bio to “I’m only looking for attention and validation” so people know to avoid you "

Um thank u for advice but nope! Be leaving it as it is! Chat to a few younger men here they know I won't b meeting them for anything other than a social! This site is not all about meets u do know that? And yes admit to being an attention seeker to right! X

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Sometimes they just don't want you inside then my man. You're not alone (hold hand)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What’s the point in chatting to someone with no intention of meeting them...

I set my age range but don't limit people from speaking to me, even blokes. I like chatting to people and have no intention of meeting all the people I chat to.

Do you seriously only chat to people in everyday life in a certain age range or that you want to shag?

Reading down the comments, I was going to reply. But basically you said it all before me. Exactly."

Oh, one of my favourite Fabsters acknowledged my existence, and I don't even speak to her. Now I feel honoured!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What’s the point in chatting to someone with no intention of meeting them...

I set my age range but don't limit people from speaking to me, even blokes. I like chatting to people and have no intention of meeting all the people I chat to.

Do you seriously only chat to people in everyday life in a certain age range or that you want to shag?

Yes"

Yeah, but you're just mean. Unlike your friend Elf, who was predominantly sarcastic, with only a little mean streak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never set my age range left it at 18 to 99 ! But won't b meeting anyone under 30! But am willing to chat to younger! X

What’s the point in chatting to someone with no intention of meeting them seems like you’re just wanting the attention and validation from people that’s like a drug to women they can’t resist it just set you range to 30+ and actually chat to people you’d be interested in meeting or just change your bio to “I’m only looking for attention and validation” so people know to avoid you "

Wow

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

I have a wide age range & am willing to meet people of any age but obviously more lightly to have things in common with people of a similar age

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By *ntrigued888Woman
over a year ago

Beds

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By *ntrigued888Woman
over a year ago

Beds

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By *ntrigued888Woman
over a year ago

Beds

I find if you reply I'm sorry my age preference is 34+ , a usual response is "oh, I'm really 35, not 28!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t worry about it op. You get to mop up all the younger ones that we are all too old for.

This positive

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By *hawn ScottMan
over a year ago

london Brixton

My age range says 18 to 50 but I would never contact an 18 year old. That would be creepy!

If a profile says nobody over 40 or black guys only again I wouldn't contact them. I always read the profile first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My age range says 18 to 50 but I would never contact an 18 year old. That would be creepy!

If a profile says nobody over 40 or black guys only again I wouldn't contact them. I always read the profile first"

So why have 18 then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find if you reply I'm sorry my age preference is 34+ , a usual response is "oh, I'm really 35, not 28!""

This, alongside the other old favourite “I’m bi really”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find if you reply I'm sorry my age preference is 34+ , a usual response is "oh, I'm really 35, not 28!"

This, alongside the other old favourite “I’m bi really”

"

I have a wife who’s like to meet you. … classic chat up line.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Because sometimes people go to socials and if you have ages set you can’t verify people outside that age range.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strongly agree with this

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

Or you could just take the rejection on the chin and move on it's not like they owe you anything age is a preference maybe they don't particularly want to meet you at 24 years old but there could be another 24 year old they would meet

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"I think a lot of you are missing the point of what my post says it’s not getting turned down because someone’s not interested it’s getting turned down based on your age “you’re to young” but you have my age example in what it says you’re looking for so when you have it set let’s say 22-42 and then you say to a 24 year old “oh you’re to young” well that doesn’t really make sense as it’s an age you’ve set your looking to meet so simply just change the age that you want example 25+ and then problem solved so make sure to read the post properly before you comment next time guys

Is it possible you are missing the point. Most people like to decline in a way that doesn't offend, if they responded with 'you aren't for me/us' then experience says another message asking why or worse still, an abusive message is likely to follow.

Everybody gets knocked back and far more often than you think, at least they were polite enough to respond, most just delete and some even block. Welcome to fab."

This.

Mrs

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham


"I find if you reply I'm sorry my age preference is 34+ , a usual response is "oh, I'm really 35, not 28!"

This, alongside the other old favourite “I’m bi really”

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I get this alot by guys well if your bi then state it in your profile the options there lol accept your bi and embrace it

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford


"I often turn my filters off for forum games and forget to put them back up, my age range is on my profile and if someone doesn’t have the time to actually read that then they definitely wouldn’t be for me regardless of their age."

Similar for me apart from forum games. I have opened up my profile for all ages to message if they wish, as I go to clubs and organized socials and don't mind people going messaging me. However, I have no intention to play with someone very young or very old. And as the quoted poster has said, if the person messaging me did not bother to read my profile, I can't be bothered to get to know to know them better to see if I'd be happy to meet them.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I understand what you’re saying OP, but people are on Fab for many reasons. Some are here just to socialise and are happy to chat to those they wouldn’t necessarily want to fuck. Some have their filters open for attention. Some may have created their profile and not updated it in years to reflect a change of age preference. Some may consider others who are younger/older but are using age as an excuse to cushion the blow of rejection. Many reasons that we’ll never truly know…

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By *hawn ScottMan
over a year ago

london Brixton


"My age range says 18 to 50 but I would never contact an 18 year old. That would be creepy!

If a profile says nobody over 40 or black guys only again I wouldn't contact them. I always read the profile first

So why have 18 then? "

Default setting! I doubt any 18 year old girl would contact me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never set my age range left it at 18 to 99 ! But won't b meeting anyone under 30! But am willing to chat to younger! X

What’s the point in chatting to someone with no intention of meeting them seems like you’re just wanting the attention and validation from people that’s like a drug to women they can’t resist it just set you range to 30+ and actually chat to people you’d be interested in meeting or just change your bio to “I’m only looking for attention and validation” so people know to avoid you "

I thought we were all looking for attention on here..?

Or are there people in Ninja mode.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"It's a polite way to turn someone down without saying they're not attracted to you.

Even if you are within someone's age range, you aren't guaranteed a fuck. "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My age range says 18 to 50 but I would never contact an 18 year old. That would be creepy!

If a profile says nobody over 40 or black guys only again I wouldn't contact them. I always read the profile first

So why have 18 then?

Default setting! I doubt any 18 year old girl would contact me "

99 is also the default setting. And you changed that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've never set my age range left it at 18 to 99 ! But won't b meeting anyone under 30! But am willing to chat to younger! X

What’s the point in chatting to someone with no intention of meeting them seems like you’re just wanting the attention and validation from people that’s like a drug to women they can’t resist it just set you range to 30+ and actually chat to people you’d be interested in meeting or just change your bio to “I’m only looking for attention and validation” so people know to avoid you

Um thank u for advice but nope! Be leaving it as it is! Chat to a few younger men here they know I won't b meeting them for anything other than a social! This site is not all about meets u do know that? And yes admit to being an attention seeker to right! X"

From all your 232 verifications it doesn’t seem like you meet anyone for “just a social” but alt least you admit to being an attention seeker kinda sad really that you need the attention and validation from other men to get that dopamine rush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP. I'd just stop before you dig yourself into a massive hole. Move on.

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never set my age range left it at 18 to 99 ! But won't b meeting anyone under 30! But am willing to chat to younger! X

What’s the point in chatting to someone with no intention of meeting them seems like you’re just wanting the attention and validation from people that’s like a drug to women they can’t resist it just set you range to 30+ and actually chat to people you’d be interested in meeting or just change your bio to “I’m only looking for attention and validation” so people know to avoid you

Um thank u for advice but nope! Be leaving it as it is! Chat to a few younger men here they know I won't b meeting them for anything other than a social! This site is not all about meets u do know that? And yes admit to being an attention seeker to right! X

From all your 232 verifications it doesn’t seem like you meet anyone for “just a social” but alt least you admit to being an attention seeker kinda sad really that you need the attention and validation from other men to get that dopamine rush "

Well dam. Now you're gonna get alllllllll the pussy.

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By *lasphemousGirlWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

I think the question of age and maturity speaks for itself.

Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t sleep with women old enough to be my mum because of my mummy issues. Women old enough to be my Nan though? Fair game if you ask me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never set my age range left it at 18 to 99 ! But won't b meeting anyone under 30! But am willing to chat to younger! X

What’s the point in chatting to someone with no intention of meeting them seems like you’re just wanting the attention and validation from people that’s like a drug to women they can’t resist it just set you range to 30+ and actually chat to people you’d be interested in meeting or just change your bio to “I’m only looking for attention and validation” so people know to avoid you

Um thank u for advice but nope! Be leaving it as it is! Chat to a few younger men here they know I won't b meeting them for anything other than a social! This site is not all about meets u do know that? And yes admit to being an attention seeker to right! X

From all your 232 verifications it doesn’t seem like you meet anyone for “just a social” but alt least you admit to being an attention seeker kinda sad really that you need the attention and validation from other men to get that dopamine rush "

Yet you're the one with the attention seeking thread. Hmm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've never set my age range left it at 18 to 99 ! But won't b meeting anyone under 30! But am willing to chat to younger! X

What’s the point in chatting to someone with no intention of meeting them seems like you’re just wanting the attention and validation from people that’s like a drug to women they can’t resist it just set you range to 30+ and actually chat to people you’d be interested in meeting or just change your bio to “I’m only looking for attention and validation” so people know to avoid you

Um thank u for advice but nope! Be leaving it as it is! Chat to a few younger men here they know I won't b meeting them for anything other than a social! This site is not all about meets u do know that? And yes admit to being an attention seeker to right! X

From all your 232 verifications it doesn’t seem like you meet anyone for “just a social” but alt least you admit to being an attention seeker kinda sad really that you need the attention and validation from other men to get that dopamine rush

Yet you're the one with the attention seeking thread. Hmm."

Not really it was a question if you don’t like it then scroll on and don’t get triggered over it

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By *e nuMan
over a year ago

sorn

I laugh at the ones who say im 2 old yet they have an age range of 99 cheeky bastards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never set my age range left it at 18 to 99 ! But won't b meeting anyone under 30! But am willing to chat to younger! X

What’s the point in chatting to someone with no intention of meeting them seems like you’re just wanting the attention and validation from people that’s like a drug to women they can’t resist it just set you range to 30+ and actually chat to people you’d be interested in meeting or just change your bio to “I’m only looking for attention and validation” so people know to avoid you

Um thank u for advice but nope! Be leaving it as it is! Chat to a few younger men here they know I won't b meeting them for anything other than a social! This site is not all about meets u do know that? And yes admit to being an attention seeker to right! X

From all your 232 verifications it doesn’t seem like you meet anyone for “just a social” but alt least you admit to being an attention seeker kinda sad really that you need the attention and validation from other men to get that dopamine rush

Yet you're the one with the attention seeking thread. Hmm.

Not really it was a question if you don’t like it then scroll on and don’t get triggered over it "

Sweetie, I'm not the one shouting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've never set my age range left it at 18 to 99 ! But won't b meeting anyone under 30! But am willing to chat to younger! X

What’s the point in chatting to someone with no intention of meeting them seems like you’re just wanting the attention and validation from people that’s like a drug to women they can’t resist it just set you range to 30+ and actually chat to people you’d be interested in meeting or just change your bio to “I’m only looking for attention and validation” so people know to avoid you

Um thank u for advice but nope! Be leaving it as it is! Chat to a few younger men here they know I won't b meeting them for anything other than a social! This site is not all about meets u do know that? And yes admit to being an attention seeker to right! X

From all your 232 verifications it doesn’t seem like you meet anyone for “just a social” but alt least you admit to being an attention seeker kinda sad really that you need the attention and validation from other men to get that dopamine rush

Yet you're the one with the attention seeking thread. Hmm.

Not really it was a question if you don’t like it then scroll on and don’t get triggered over it

Sweetie, I'm not the one shouting. "

I’m not shouting just making a point that’s all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never set my age range left it at 18 to 99 ! But won't b meeting anyone under 30! But am willing to chat to younger! X

What’s the point in chatting to someone with no intention of meeting them seems like you’re just wanting the attention and validation from people that’s like a drug to women they can’t resist it just set you range to 30+ and actually chat to people you’d be interested in meeting or just change your bio to “I’m only looking for attention and validation” so people know to avoid you "

Jesus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t sleep with women old enough to be my mum because of my mummy issues. Women old enough to be my Nan though? Fair game if you ask me"

Mr Pickle, you are a bad person!

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over a year ago


"I don’t sleep with women old enough to be my mum because of my mummy issues. Women old enough to be my Nan though? Fair game if you ask me

Mr Pickle, you are a bad person!"

Tell that to someone that cares

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never set my age range left it at 18 to 99 ! But won't b meeting anyone under 30! But am willing to chat to younger! X

What’s the point in chatting to someone with no intention of meeting them seems like you’re just wanting the attention and validation from people that’s like a drug to women they can’t resist it just set you range to 30+ and actually chat to people you’d be interested in meeting or just change your bio to “I’m only looking for attention and validation” so people know to avoid you

Um thank u for advice but nope! Be leaving it as it is! Chat to a few younger men here they know I won't b meeting them for anything other than a social! This site is not all about meets u do know that? And yes admit to being an attention seeker to right! X

From all your 232 verifications it doesn’t seem like you meet anyone for “just a social” but alt least you admit to being an attention seeker kinda sad really that you need the attention and validation from other men to get that dopamine rush "

Something tells me it's your your age stopping you from getting meets. X

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"I've never set my age range left it at 18 to 99 ! But won't b meeting anyone under 30! But am willing to chat to younger! X

What’s the point in chatting to someone with no intention of meeting them seems like you’re just wanting the attention and validation from people that’s like a drug to women they can’t resist it just set you range to 30+ and actually chat to people you’d be interested in meeting or just change your bio to “I’m only looking for attention and validation” so people know to avoid you "

It’s not often I’m left speechless on here but… wow

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I've never set my age range left it at 18 to 99 ! But won't b meeting anyone under 30! But am willing to chat to younger! X

What’s the point in chatting to someone with no intention of meeting them seems like you’re just wanting the attention and validation from people that’s like a drug to women they can’t resist it just set you range to 30+ and actually chat to people you’d be interested in meeting or just change your bio to “I’m only looking for attention and validation” so people know to avoid you

Um thank u for advice but nope! Be leaving it as it is! Chat to a few younger men here they know I won't b meeting them for anything other than a social! This site is not all about meets u do know that? And yes admit to being an attention seeker to right! X

From all your 232 verifications it doesn’t seem like you meet anyone for “just a social” but alt least you admit to being an attention seeker kinda sad really that you need the attention and validation from other men to get that dopamine rush "

Have met many for just a social! More than for a play meet tbh! Lol that u read them! and yes I do admit to the attention seeking here and real life tbh! My fam and friends would vouch for that! And far from sad! I lap up the attention! I've never felt happier than I am at this stage in my life! X

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I don’t sleep with women old enough to be my mum because of my mummy issues. Women old enough to be my Nan though? Fair game if you ask me"

my grandson is your age!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I (Abby) have deleted younger guys for many reasons, ie they look a lot younger than they say, the opening message is “ I want to fuck a milf/cougar/older women, or just general shitty first messages that show inexperience, or when chatting they are just mindfully too young for what I’m looking for, we have met younger males in the past and had great experiences, that said, I have deleted older males for the same reasons

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I guess it's because a few years younger or older may be negotiable if other factors align.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why are women commenting on this thread and then block me just carry on scrolling and go about your day plus if you’re not local to me we’d never chat anyway

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth


"I've never set my age range left it at 18 to 99 ! But won't b meeting anyone under 30! But am willing to chat to younger! X

What’s the point in chatting to someone with no intention of meeting them seems like you’re just wanting the attention and validation from people that’s like a drug to women they can’t resist it just set you range to 30+ and actually chat to people you’d be interested in meeting or just change your bio to “I’m only looking for attention and validation” so people know to avoid you "

Perhaps this is it. You've just smacked the point in the face and still didn't see it.

Your response is quite immature. So although you're mid-20's, you're acting as if you're a late teen to early 20's who doesn't understand what swing is.

Perhaps the people who have said no due to your age are actually looking for emotionally more mature men, same age as you but a little more "together". I don't mean that as a dig, we all develop differently and there is nothing wrong in that at all. But given our brains don't fully develop until we are around 25, there will be varying degrees for people your age.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"I don’t sleep with women old enough to be my mum because of my mummy issues. Women old enough to be my Nan though? Fair game if you ask me

my grandson is your age! "

Has he pulled!?

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

OP the tone of your responses is precisely one of the reasons why many women choose not to meet younger guys…. you’re coming across as quite immature and aren’t doing yourself any favours at all.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I don’t sleep with women old enough to be my mum because of my mummy issues. Women old enough to be my Nan though? Fair game if you ask me

my grandson is your age!

Has he pulled!?"

Ha ha ! Will meet for coffee for sure as comes across a nice fella! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are women commenting on this thread and then block me just carry on scrolling and go about your day plus if you’re not local to me we’d never chat anyway "

Cos we can

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London


"Why are women commenting on this thread and then block me just carry on scrolling and go about your day plus if you’re not local to me we’d never chat anyway

Cos we can "

Oh she went there!

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By *ureskilzMan
over a year ago

hemel hempstead

Oh yeh this pisses me off to the max like it makes it harder for the younger generation to interact with people they want to talk to see my preference is older mature women you see their age range then message you don’t get a reply or “I’m not interested” sad times for us young men

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By *addad99Man
over a year ago

Rotherham /newquay

Totally agree same as profile says not looking for men but box ticked suppose covering all bases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh yeh this pisses me off to the max like it makes it harder for the younger generation to interact with people they want to talk to see my preference is older mature women you see their age range then message you don’t get a reply or “I’m not interested” sad times for us young men "

So you ignore the age range on their profile and message them anyway?

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