FabSwingers.com forum: How do you figure out who wants you...

By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

Just had an interesting chat with a nice looking chap who suddenly blocked me. What are the clues?

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

She's stood naked at the foot of my bed

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"She's stood naked at the foot of my bed

Yes that does tend to be a big clue.

Ours was a couple who we chatted to at a club, where after a couple of hours the lady leaned across to me and said "are you going to take me to a private room and fuck my brains out?"

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"She's stood naked at the foot of my bed

Now that I could spot.

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By *hinstrapMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

"She's stood naked at the foot of my bed

Yes that does tend to be a big clue.

Ours was a couple who we chatted to at a club, where after a couple of hours the lady leaned across to me and said "are you going to take me to a private room and fuck my brains out?""

That would work too

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

They kiss me. Or they say Meli I want you. Most of the time I just see it as flirty banter.

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"She's stood naked at the foot of my bed

Yes that does tend to be a big clue.

Ours was a couple who we chatted to at a club, where after a couple of hours the lady leaned across to me and said "are you going to take me to a private room and fuck my brains out?""

Lovely. No misunderstanding there. I thought that was what we were doing. It's the fucking fab straight thing I think...

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"She's stood naked at the foot of my bed

Yes that does tend to be a big clue.

Ours was a couple who we chatted to at a club, where after a couple of hours the lady leaned across to me and said "are you going to take me to a private room and fuck my brains out?""

An offer you cannot refuse

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

Historically I just never know and have found out more than once when they just started kissing me.

I'm not on here that long and early on I had a coffee meet where the woman helped me along by interjecting with questions like 'do you find be attractive?' and 'now it's your turn to ask me a question'.

I didn't even realise how shy I was being and she was both gentle, funny and assertive. Still the best meet I've had and I'm much better and expressing my interest now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know people want me when they instruct me to get on my knees and open my mouth.

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By *unchal OP Man
over a year ago

Dartford

"I know people want me when they instruct me to get on my knees and open my mouth.

Yeah. I've had that once or twice. Nice and clear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I default to assuming they don’t want me.

Hasn’t let me down yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it sounds stupid but there gonna have to be blatant and obvious xD I'm terrible at reading body language n over think it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually see the drool spilling from their mouths and assume.

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By *ashMan
over a year ago

Westhoughton

I'm so bad at socialising, I've only got rejections do far..

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

When I tell them to get naked and they obey.

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

I crap at reading the signs, wish people would just tell me.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

When they're knelt between my legs, with my cock in their mouth

LvM

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Pretty rubbish at cryptic. Just be blunt and say you want to ride me like red rum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually see the drool spilling from their mouths and assume.

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u must be a good night

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

I just assume nobody does until they say they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pretty rubbish at cryptic. Just be blunt and say you want to ride me like red rum

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most of us are I think tbh cause of the world we live in now unfortunately

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"I know people want me when they instruct me to get on my knees and open my mouth.

Okay. Get on your knees and open your mouth.

(Please.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll let you know if it ever happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the chat is pretty much immediately sexual.... warning sign.

If it turns fantasy role play at any point in the conversation.... warning sign

When the first message is "U horny?" or "mmmmmmm" or "wot yous wearing".... warning sign

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

They'll tell me without any hesitation

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

"When the chat is pretty much immediately sexual.... warning sign.

If it turns fantasy role play at any point in the conversation.... warning sign

When the first message is "U horny?" or "mmmmmmm" or "wot yous wearing".... warning sign"

What about "mmmmm what you dunking tonight?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When the chat is pretty much immediately sexual.... warning sign.

If it turns fantasy role play at any point in the conversation.... warning sign

When the first message is "U horny?" or "mmmmmmm" or "wot yous wearing".... warning sign

What about "mmmmm what you dunking tonight?"

Whole different ball game

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

"When the chat is pretty much immediately sexual.... warning sign.

If it turns fantasy role play at any point in the conversation.... warning sign

When the first message is "U horny?" or "mmmmmmm" or "wot yous wearing".... warning sign

What about "mmmmm what you dunking tonight?"

Whole different ball game "

Single or double?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was once out for coffee with someone, spent some time bantering, chatting, getting on well, etc. It wasn’t a first meet.

I rubbed their foot on accident not purposely. I scooted my chair closer to theirs, touched their arm gently… they were clueless.

In total desperate style, I asked them if I could kiss them. The face they pulled screamed, “are you a mad lady?”, but they said they were thinking about kissing me and were happy I asked.

I was so confused. I told them by the face they pulled it didn’t seem they were keen to kiss me.

All I kept thinking was, unless I threw myself at this man, and started ripping his clothes off right there, how did he miss my subtle clues that I was into him? Especially as it wasn’t a first meet.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I was once out for coffee with someone, spent some time bantering, chatting, getting on well, etc. It wasn’t a first meet.

I rubbed their foot on accident not purposely. I scooted my chair closer to theirs, touched their arm gently… they were clueless.

In total desperate style, I asked them if I could kiss them. The face they pulled screamed, “are you a mad lady?”, but they said they were thinking about kissing me and were happy I asked.

I was so confused. I told them by the face they pulled it didn’t seem they were keen to kiss me.

I think you've described 90% of the male population

LvM

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"How did he miss my subtle clues that I was into him?"

He’s a man. That’s how.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know people want me when they instruct me to get on my knees and open my mouth.

Okay. Get on your knees and open your mouth.

(Please.)

RTG wants me! Yay!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"RTG wants me! Yay!

This swinging lark is so much easier when someone gives you the instructions!

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"RTG wants me! Yay!

This swinging lark is so much easier when someone gives you the instructions!"

Now I think you should get on your knees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had an interesting chat with a nice looking chap who suddenly blocked me. What are the clues?"
Sometimes there are no clues, usually when that was their intent from the outset I’d imagine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"RTG wants me! Yay!

This swinging lark is so much easier when someone gives you the instructions!

Now I think you should get on your knees

Yes, he absolutely should. I'm waiting

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"RTG wants me! Yay!

This swinging lark is so much easier when someone gives you the instructions!

Now I think you should get on your knees

You asking?

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"RTG wants me! Yay!

This swinging lark is so much easier when someone gives you the instructions!

Now I think you should get on your knees

You asking?

Less asking more instructing lol

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Now I think you should get on your knees

"Yes, he absolutely should. I'm waiting

For the two of you? Gladly. I’m in.

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

NG 21

"She's stood naked at the foot of my bed

Yes that does tend to be a big clue.

Ours was a couple who we chatted to at a club, where after a couple of hours the lady leaned across to me and said "are you going to take me to a private room and fuck my brains out?""

That does happen.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Now I think you should get on your knees

Yes, he absolutely should. I'm waiting

For the two of you? Gladly. I’m in."

*rubs hands together with glee

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"RTG wants me! Yay!

This swinging lark is so much easier when someone gives you the instructions!

Now I think you should get on your knees

You asking?

Less asking more instructing lol"

I'm good at obeying

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"RTG wants me! Yay!

This swinging lark is so much easier when someone gives you the instructions!

Now I think you should get on your knees

You asking?

Less asking more instructing lol

I'm good at obeying

Well this is getting interesting

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

Oh instructions are always better than guessing.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Ours was a couple who we chatted to at a club, where after a couple of hours the lady leaned across to me and said "are you going to take me to a private room and fuck my brains out?"

A couple of hours might be a bit of a gamble, unless you plan on being there when it opens at 10am.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

As simplistic as it sounds, it's the passionate and instinctive kissing and the tactile overtures during a date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When he gets an erection

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

" When he gets an erection

Even if he’s asleep?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" When he gets an erection

Even if he’s asleep?"

I don't "sleep" with guys so I don't know the answer to that.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I know people want me when they instruct me to get on my knees and open my mouth.

Be a good girl and go down on your knees for me, will ya?

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

I actually enjoy being in limbo not having a clue if they’re into me or not. Schrödingers horn. If I pull down their pants there might or might not be a boing.

Hopefully not a cat though

Actually probably better if he has a cat. Takes a 2 to a 10/10 really quickly

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I actually enjoy being in limbo not having a clue if they’re into me or not. Schrödingers horn. If I pull down their pants there might or might not be a boing.

Hopefully not a cat though

Actually probably better if he has a cat. Takes a 2 to a 10/10 really quickly "

I don't have a boing in my pants, but I have two cats and a pussy. Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they tell me. That’s usually when I figure it out.

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

"I actually enjoy being in limbo not having a clue if they’re into me or not. Schrödingers horn. If I pull down their pants there might or might not be a boing.

Hopefully not a cat though

Actually probably better if he has a cat. Takes a 2 to a 10/10 really quickly

I don't have a boing in my pants, but I have two cats and a pussy. Just saying

In! X

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Sometimes there are no clues OP.

Sometimes the world is weird and the people in it are strange.

Other times you can go up to someone you fancy… say FAF and it all works out.

It is the biggest mystery of all

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I've usually been able to perceive when someone wants me. One just needs to be observant.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

In the forums, with difficulty. I'm pretty straight talking but everyone is super flirty with everyone and you never know who is truly interested!

Outside of the forums, the ones that actually turn up I guess ??

Its comforting to see my regular profile stalkers pop in as well in who's looked at me.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

I'm a bit clueless when it comes to telling if people want me or not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no clue.

Never have

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Sometimes there are no clues OP.

Sometimes the world is weird and the people in it are strange.

Other times you can go up to someone you fancy… say FAF and it all works out.

It is the biggest mystery of all

FAF

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Don't bother worrying about it.

Make your interest known and then unless they make their interest clear then assume they have none and no longer bother showing your own interest. In general that is, not specific to this scenario of course.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I used to be quite good at it but I think I’ve lost my touch a little

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Sometimes there are no clues OP.

Sometimes the world is weird and the people in it are strange.

Other times you can go up to someone you fancy… say FAF and it all works out.

It is the biggest mystery of all

FAF

Yep

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

"Don't bother worrying about it.

Good advice ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't a clue tbh .. terrible at spotting clues or signs..if someone says it right out l usually twig it

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Sometimes there are no clues OP.

Sometimes the world is weird and the people in it are strange.

Other times you can go up to someone you fancy… say FAF and it all works out.

It is the biggest mystery of all

FAF

Yep

See guys.. It can work

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I don’t get exited about meeting anyone until their car pulls up.

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