FabSwingers.com forum: Time to

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

say goodbye. Due to several timewasters and serial wind-up merchants I have decided to say goodbye to Fab. The straw that broke the camel's back was an arranged meet that didn't take place on Friday. I'd arranged a meet with a lady from here in a pub of her choice- 30 miles from where I live and 15 miles from hers. I got half-way there when I got a text from her saying she didn't like driving in the dark!! I said texted her back telling her to get a cab and I'd pay for it. She got back to say she wouldn't be coming out to meet up, she was going out with her partner instead.

Two weeks ago I'd a meet set up at a couples house, I got a message that day saying that the meet was off due to their daughter turning up unexpectedly from Australia!!!

Add these to some other similar episodes and I think that all you lovely people who are not timewasters, or wind-up merchants, and fellow vicitms, will understand my anger, frustration and disappointment with FAB.

To those of you who have my contact details, you are welcome to keep them and use them to keep in touch with me.

I've had some great times on the forums and some great laughs and wonderful wind ups, but as ever those who seem to find it funny to wind people up in an unkind and hurtful way have unfortunately won the day.

I may be back one day but I doubt it.

Goodbye and good luck. Stay safe. Peter

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

ok,bye x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bye Peter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gods speed. Contact my HR department for any references and your p45.

Thanks for your time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good luck m8

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I will be sorry to see you go, take carexx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look after yourself and good luck

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

All the best

Seemed a decent guy in the forums

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

peter who ?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Who was it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pearldiver and he is a decent guy

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"pearldiver and he is a decent guy

He did seem decent on the forum. Wish him well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"pearldiver and he is a decent guy

He did seem decent on the forum. Wish him well."

yeah I will - he would say thank you too

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Oh what a shame .. pity people get treated so badly .

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Oh what a shame .. pity people get treated so badly .

Not all...then again I only travel about 100m to meet initialy.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Seems apt.....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qtivSTZrezc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh what a shame .. pity people get treated so badly .

Not all...then again I only travel about 100m to meet initialy.

Is that 100 metres or 100 miles

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Has he ran off to meet Pearl Necklace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

messers eh, can't stand em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One Part of fab i guess which is not good!! At least he was offered something !!But some times things happen in life nothings guaranteed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a reply from an email would be a start for most guys pmsl

Sad realy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take care and good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a shame when a decent person leaves dejected. How long was he on the site for. I know i can't wait to meet a friendly face even just for a coffee and a chat. Good luck mate

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Oh what a shame .. pity people get treated so badly .

Not all...then again I only travel about 100m to meet initialy.

Is that 100 metres or 100 miles

100 metres

Always do a social meet during my lunch break. Meet them outside the Marks I get my sarnie which is about 100m from my desk. Should they not turn up no biggy as I was going there anyway.

100% success rate so far.

Won't suit everyone, but perfect for me.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"It is a shame when a decent person leaves dejected. How long was he on the site for. I know i can't wait to meet a friendly face even just for a coffee and a chat. Good luck mate

There's no guarantees though! I've been on paid sites and not had any interest and I've cancelled my subscription. I didn't feel the need to complain about anything and I didn't feel dejected.

Not being harsh but this is a site with thousands of horny people at it like rabbits...allegedly.

If you keep picking "fakes" and no shows then no matter where you go it'll be the same.

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"It is a shame when a decent person leaves dejected. How long was he on the site for. I know i can't wait to meet a friendly face even just for a coffee and a chat. Good luck mate

There's no guarantees though! I've been on paid sites and not had any interest and I've cancelled my subscription. I didn't feel the need to complain about anything and I didn't feel dejected.

Not being harsh but this is a site with thousands of horny people at it like rabbits...allegedly.

If you keep picking "fakes" and no shows then no matter where you go it'll be the same."
I'm not so sure that there are more fakes than one would expect! Lots of genuine nice people too of course...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a reply from an email would be a start for most guys pmsl

Sad realy!

Oddly enough, I reply to people even if its only to say no thanks and I don't get abusive either unlike the nasty woman who replied to my friends introductory not 'copied and pasted' message with a response full of foul mouthed expletives. I have tried to get him to report her but he wouldn't as he feels nothing would be done

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Bad English lol " that there aren't "

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"a reply from an email would be a start for most guys pmsl

Sad realy!

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I can only speak about responses from women, I've had more rudeness that courtesy. Which is sad to say.

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By *li87Man
over a year ago

Manchester/Kendal

"a reply from an email would be a start for most guys pmsl

Sad realy!

Any women who send me a "no thanks" message always get a personal reply thanking them for taking the time to reply. And I normally block them the next day so I don't end up messaging them again by mistake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bad English lol " that there aren't " "

Better English.... "that there are not"

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"Bad English lol " that there aren't "

Better English.... "that there are not"

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both are allowed. One less formal than the other. Often used in informal conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bad English lol " that there aren't "

Better English.... "that there are not"

both are allowed. One less formal than the other. Often used in informal conversation. "

One stands educated... Removes hat and bows low....

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"Bad English lol " that there aren't "

Better English.... "that there are not"

both are allowed. One less formal than the other. Often used in informal conversation.

One stands educated... Removes hat and bows low....

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it's wot I done at uni but a bloody long time ago!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"a reply from an email would be a start for most guys pmsl

Sad realy!

Admin would rather people report so they can deal with it as abuse is not tolerated from either gender.

Ask him to remember if people don't report they keep getting away with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck friend , but you should never let the bad few spoil what is a great site !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"a reply from an email would be a start for most guys pmsl

Sad realy!

Admin would rather people report so they can deal with it as abuse is not tolerated from either gender.

Ask him to remember if people don't report they keep getting away with it.

I will try but I can't promise he will do it

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