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By *oneybee1001 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Around and about

Following on from another post, do you have a distinction between FAB and real life friends?

I have friends in real life and I have FAB friends but they're very different kinds of relationships for me and are worlds apart. Wondering what others think of this topic?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I don’t know if I’d call them different kinds of friends, but we certainly chat about *very* different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends — people that truly know me, trust me, and I trust, those who know my current life happenings— aren’t different in terms of how I treat them simply based on where our paths crossed.

I have friends and I have acquaintances. This is the defining factor for me.

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By *oneybee1001 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Around and about


"I don’t know if I’d call them different kinds of friends, but we certainly chat about *very* different things.

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Haha! I get that lol! Although my real life friends know all about my Swinging life and love the stories!

I guess, in order for me to consider someone as a friend in my real life, they're are a ride or die, whereas those in this world are people I get along with and we have a shared interest, basically someone I'm friendly with as opposed to being an actual friend and confidante

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

My Fåb friends - the ones that I meet for passion, dinners, culture and tea - are my real friends, and very dear to me. My other friends - extraneous to Fab - have no notion about my Fab life, and they are also close to me.

There is no distinction otherwise.

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By *ilthycoupleabzCouple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I don't think I have any fab friends but I enjoy chattering on the forum occasionally and the odd exchange of messages.

I've got lots of real life ones though, so its all good

MrsAbz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My friends — people that truly know me, trust me, and I trust, those who know my current life happenings— aren’t different in terms of how I treat them simply based on where our paths crossed.

I have friends and I have acquaintances. This is the defining factor for me. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People on Fab are only friends when they think they can get something from you. Usually sex. Sometimes gossip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my friends, bar a couple are fab friends.

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An easy distinction for me to make, as I only have FAB friends.

I don’t have friends out in the muggle world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 2 real life friends.

I have a few people I would call Fab friends.

None transition into either or. Who knows what the future may bring though.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I keep my circles very small and tight and the only difference is that I don't discuss my sex life with anyone outside of fab.

Some of my closest and most trustworthy friends are people I have met through fab. They aren't on the site anymore but we are still in touch.

My best friend on fab is someone I trust implicitly and we are fully supportive of each other every day.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside


"Following on from another post, do you have a distinction between FAB and real life friends?

I have friends in real life and I have FAB friends but they're very different kinds of relationships for me and are worlds apart. Wondering what others think of this topic?"

As you.

We have FAB friends and 'normal' friends !!

Never mix them.

Just would not be comfortable with mixing, terrified that a slip of the tongue may occur.

We like the difference, we like the fact that our secret life remains just that.

Nobody knows or is interested in your career, house, financial position.

Most of our vanilla friends know all about us and our kids etc.

Going to keep our secret life secret but treat each section of friends with respect.

To be fair, non of the couples or singles we have met for swinging has really wanted to become more than FAB friends.

The only exception is the folks we meet on swinging holidays we love to meet them again on holiday and new people too.

I suppose its each to their own.

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I have fab friends who I chat to on and off here and I have 1 good friend not on fab who's knows I'm here and I chat to her and knows everything well just about

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
over a year ago

Norwich

You ought to have a party where you get the two groups to meet. That could be fun!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Yes my name is a little different.

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By *oneybee1001 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Around and about


"You ought to have a party where you get the two groups to meet. That could be fun!"

I reckon my funeral will be a hoot! (Hopefully not soon though lol)

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