FabSwingers.com forum: Men pretending to be a couple.

By *oalie66 OP Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Why do they go thru all the trouble of the pretence when they can get off by watching free porn.

I've lost count of couples profiles that turn out to be a single guy.

I have a rule now" nobody is genuine until I've met them"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and report yadda yadda

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By *oalie66 OP Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I do that.

Just trying to work out why they do it.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"I do that.

Just trying to work out why they do it."

So they can get round filters is probably one reason.

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By *etterdays2021Man
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH

Weirdos.. can't trust nothing this days.

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By *ineappleroloWoman
over a year ago

Derby

They probably think they have more of a chance getting a meet if they say they're a couple. Just report if you have reason to believe it's a fake profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do they go thru all the trouble of the pretence when they can get off by watching free porn.

I have often thought the same.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

We get that as well. We ask to speak to the lady..oh shes just gone out, shes cooking etc.......BLOCK!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do that.

Just trying to work out why they do it."

Why? Do you need tips?

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"I do that.

Just trying to work out why they do it."

They do it as it makes wanking more enjoyable for them rather than just looking at pornhub/twitter smut

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

We have met plenty of couples who only one of them actually does account admin.

For example Jools hardly ever uses the forum,she will occasionally very occasionally post on here or sometimes her single account.

She leaves most of the stuff to me on here.

Doesn't mean she's not real,she reads everything like a silent business partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We get that as well. We ask to speak to the lady..oh shes just gone out, shes cooking etc.......BLOCK!!"

If I let her do the cooking it would be a single female profile! Bahasa

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I've actually never had a couple where it's the man pretending to be a couple.

There's some profiles I've queried it but never chatted to one.

Mrs

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By *etterdays2021Man
over a year ago

PETERBOROUGH

I had a guy pretending to be a girl even was verified how? No idea. And how i did fund out. It was right on my doorstep.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

It's so I can get around all the filters that block out single guys

They! *They* can do it. Not us, we're totally a couple, she's got tits and everything

LvM

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By *oalie66 OP Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"We get that as well. We ask to speak to the lady..oh shes just gone out, shes cooking etc.......BLOCK!!"

One bloke had a wife who spent a whole week in bed asleep according to him.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"I had a guy pretending to be a girl even was verified how? No idea. And how i did fund out. It was right on my doorstep. "

Getting a fake veri is pretty easy.

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

"Why do they go thru all the trouble of the pretence when they can get off by watching free porn.

I've lost count of couples profiles that turn out to be a single guy.

I have a rule now" nobody is genuine until I've met them"

There must be a certain thrill in extracting pics and videos from people because like you say. Why do it when you can just watch porn. I've thought this for years even going back to my online dating days. Just such a waste of time picture collectors. I now share very little privately. Just a face pic or two.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"I had a guy pretending to be a girl even was verified how? No idea. And how i did fund out. It was right on my doorstep. "

Ouch

. This is why I never meet anyone with video calls first

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We've experienced a few chancers message us on here we suspect. But we don't interact a lot online so the chances are the slightest tingling of the spidy senses and we're probably not going to interact. We mainly do our swinging at clubs and parties. It's kind of hard to fake being a couple in the real world unless you've got a very convincingly blow up doll

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By *litpleaserMan
over a year ago

Oldham

I've experienced this a few days ago...easy to catch them out

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"Just trying to work out why they do it."

I don’t get it.

But if you have any warnings about local Catfish, let me know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting question?

Do girls ever pretend to be couples or dudes? Not that I’ve ever seen…. I could be wrong though.

Kinda tells you something lol

I don’t get the false profile thing, but do wish Reading someone’s bloody profile was somehow mandatory ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely never happens.

Or men pretending to be the woman while responding in the forums. Can't be so.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

I think also some men get a kick out of showing intimate pics of their wife off in a 'joint' account. The wife probably has no idea that her trust has been betrayed.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Why do they go thru all the trouble of the pretence when they can get off by watching free porn.

I've lost count of couples profiles that turn out to be a single guy.

I have a rule now" nobody is genuine until I've met them"

Even then people are always what they seem or try to portray....not every one is as genuine they seem, be careful out there op its a dangerous world, full of fucked up people...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think also some men get a kick out of showing intimate pics of their wife off in a 'joint' account. The wife probably has no idea that her trust has been betrayed. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We get that as well. We ask to speak to the lady..oh shes just gone out, shes cooking etc.......BLOCK!!

One bloke had a wife who spent a whole week in bed asleep according to him."

Did you chat to him for a week?

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By *oecutterMan
over a year ago

Clonakilty

"Why do they go thru all the trouble of the pretence when they can get off by watching free porn.

I've lost count of couples profiles that turn out to be a single guy.

I have a rule now" nobody is genuine until I've met them"

“I’m Brian, and so’s my wife”.

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By *oalie66 OP Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"We get that as well. We ask to speak to the lady..oh shes just gone out, shes cooking etc.......BLOCK!!

One bloke had a wife who spent a whole week in bed asleep according to him.

Did you chat to him for a week?"

I know where you are going with this.

Yes I did chat to him on and off over a week after realising very quickly he was just another single guy posing as a couple.

Put it down to research to see how long he could keep up the pretence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We get that as well. We ask to speak to the lady..oh shes just gone out, shes cooking etc.......BLOCK!!

One bloke had a wife who spent a whole week in bed asleep according to him.

Did you chat to him for a week?

I know where you are going with this.

Yes I did chat to him on and off over a week after realising very quickly he was just another single guy posing as a couple.

Put it down to research to see how long he could keep up the pretence."

You will have learned more about that type of man so you can avoid in the future.

If you did sex chat, that answers your OP. He was having fun wanking about a 'real meet'. It's personalised porn.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

There are all kinds of fantasists on Fab, this is just one type.

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

I had one the other day asking to rate his wife, I said “not gonna answer that unless your wife knows”

They’re no longer on the site

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By *oalie66 OP Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

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By *oalie66 OP Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"We get that as well. We ask to speak to the lady..oh shes just gone out, shes cooking etc.......BLOCK!!

One bloke had a wife who spent a whole week in bed asleep according to him.

Did you chat to him for a week?

I know where you are going with this.

Yes I did chat to him on and off over a week after realising very quickly he was just another single guy posing as a couple.

Put it down to research to see how long he could keep up the pretence.

You will have learned more about that type of man so you can avoid in the future.

If you did sex chat, that answers your OP. He was having fun wanking about a 'real meet'. It's personalised porn."

I purposely avoided sex chat.

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Because they're sad, depraved and desperate for attention. It's pathetic and they're spotted a mile off.

Tell tale signs on first appearance:

- Only verified by 1 cam and it's bloke.

- No verifications at all.

- Won't get photo verified.

- Low quality photos of the female on the profile

We all know how to spot them, there's other ways too but let's not make it easy for them to sneak through.

Cunts.

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By *oalie66 OP Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"Because they're sad, depraved and desperate for attention. It's pathetic and they're spotted a mile off.

Tell tale signs on first appearance:

- Only verified by 1 cam and it's bloke.

- No verifications at all.

- Won't get photo verified.

- Low quality photos of the female on the profile

We all know how to spot them, there's other ways too but let's not make it easy for them to sneak through.

Cunts.

Couldn't have put it better myself.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I seemed to have gotten a fair few of these when I landed on Page 1 of the hot pics last week

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By *ottodot123Couple
over a year ago

Gillingham

"I had one the other day asking to rate his wife, I said “not gonna answer that unless your wife knows”

They’re no longer on the site

Thanks for the integrity there. Men challenging men is so important.

I hate all the wife chat and sharing threads in the other forums.

Always want to ask

Did your wife consent to this !!!

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By *agerMorganMan
over a year ago

Canvey Island

"I had one the other day asking to rate his wife, I said “not gonna answer that unless your wife knows”

They’re no longer on the site

Thanks for the integrity there. Men challenging men is so important.

I hate all the wife chat and sharing threads in the other forums.

Always want to ask

Did your wife consent to this !!! "

Ah you’re very welcome

I find that a lot of the time on places like this integrity is often lacking.

I agree with your wife chat comment, I hardly believe their wives know they’re doing this.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I do that.

Just trying to work out why they do it."

Try this for size. Wanking and watching porn is okay ........ BUT pretending to be a couple and speaking to ( let's say you ) you , they can take their fantasy that one step further. In their head they are acting out their desire with a real person and getting real time responses.....

Just DONT have conversations until you have seen a cam or spoken on the phone at least. Even then keep the convos short until you have met.

If they are a long time before they will cam or speak ...... STOP the conversations and block.

Why do people keep allowing themselves to be take for fools is the Q I always ask myself .....

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Because they get weirdly excited over messages in a strange way and pop

like American pie

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"I do that.

Just trying to work out why they do it."

Cheap kicks and sad loners is my guess

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

It's easy to change from Couple to Single isn't it? I used to get emailed quite a lot by someone who just never did it, and at some point I just realised that he didn't really want to. I think his actual 'now single' status was something he eventually brought up in the chat. But why waste your own time and others? I was actually looking for single people, but I didn't appreciate his dishonesty at all.

And we always have our profile text too (serious people *do* look at them) so there is never any excuse to mislead in this way.

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By *oalie66 OP Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"I do that.

Just trying to work out why they do it.

Just DONT have conversations until you have seen a cam or spoken on the phone at least. Even then keep the convos short until you have met.

If they are a long time before they will cam or speak ...... STOP the conversations and block.

Why do people keep allowing themselves to be take for fools is the Q I always ask myself ..... "

But I do I know until I have messaged them in the first instance?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Power?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"I do that.

Just trying to work out why they do it.

Just DONT have conversations until you have seen a cam or spoken on the phone at least. Even then keep the convos short until you have met.

If they are a long time before they will cam or speak ...... STOP the conversations and block.

Why do people keep allowing themselves to be take for fools is the Q I always ask myself ..... "

And it's perplexing how some will engage in sexual chat too

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