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People asking for money on here… why?

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By *ensual-dominant-passion OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield

I’ve seen on some statuses… women asking for site supporter codes and I’m thinking it’s only £5… do guys actually pay for the site supporter codes for those who ask for it… and another thing… was meant to meet a few women from here after chatting until they asked me for fuel money when they said they would rather drive to me than me driving to them but then say can you give me some money for fuel as it’s costing me.. does that put you off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simps gonna simp

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By *tockyGuy91Man
over a year ago

Dorset

Dunno why someone would wanna give money to someone you don't really know. Also the asking for money seems like a bit of red flag to me.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Just after what they can get! Wouldn't converse with them!but yes I'm sure some will! X

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By *hatBeardedChapMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

its everywhere now,every dating app,social app,email,text,you name it..it has it fuck it's even on Consoles get fake friend quests asking for money...that Nigerian prince be branching out that or scabs be scabbing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it really go on. karen

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

Had it once on here woman asking for £80 haha absolute madness

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Because some desperate guy will actually do it thinking they'll get laid.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I receive messages daily from men offering me money to watch them wanking on WhatsApp. I reckon these women must be getting some men to give them money hence why they do it.

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London

There always were men who paid stuff for women.

I knew a very cunning girl once, she ate out like 3-4 times a week for dinner just by going out with some interested dopes. She got food and drinks paid by the guys, all the time.

She never brought money to a club either. There always was a sucker buying her drinks.

For some time she even had a guy "help out" with her rent a few times.

Now the crazy bit: She never fucked those guys at all. Just got everything she needed and she never even had to ask, just, at most(!), hint at it. "Oh, no I can't go out with you. Sorry. Bit skint on money this month, I am not even sure if I make rent......... "

So to answer your question: Girls ask because there is always someone stupid enough to pay, and it's just a fiver, but if you can get it for free, why pay a fiver?

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By *apnDomMan
over a year ago

London

But it's very common on here for women to say "ran out of gold ....... " in the statuses (hint hint). Or they say "I wish I could have a 420 smoke now....".

Been very bad once and asked if she sucks dick for , she said yes, so I said "think I never paid this little for a blowjob before. A g is like 10 quid". Immediate block. But worth it. (and I don't even smoke )

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By *ensual-dominant-passion OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield

These aren’t fake people tho… they even said can you give me cash for fuel… I’m like really it’s not like your coming from 50 miles away lol… but do women expect guys to pay for a lot on here… that’s not me stereo typing all women by the way.. just the ones who expect guys to pay for alsorts… maybe they think men owe them something… I mean asking for the site supporter code or money on your status… it’s like why should I pay it… the guys on here should pay it.. it’s only £5 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These aren’t fake people tho… they even said can you give me cash for fuel… I’m like really it’s not like your coming from 50 miles away lol… but do women expect guys to pay for a lot on here… that’s not me stereo typing all women by the way.. just the ones who expect guys to pay for alsorts… maybe they think men owe them something… I mean asking for the site supporter code or money on your status… it’s like why should I pay it… the guys on here should pay it.. it’s only £5 lol"

I’ve never, in my life, expected any man to ever pay for me whether it be a coffee, water, meal, date, etc.

As a Latina, culturally men are expected to pay for women whether it’s nails, hair, dates, petrol, etc. but I wasn’t raised that way and always found it very odd to have that expectation. To me, if I want something I am responsible for getting it for myself, and if I can’t afford it I don’t have it. I don’t except any man to ever provide me with anything. I couldn’t live with the overwhelming feeling of owing someone something because they provided something monetary for me. That puts me off.

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By *randMrsLPCouple
over a year ago

london

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By *ensual-dominant-passion OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"These aren’t fake people tho… they even said can you give me cash for fuel… I’m like really it’s not like your coming from 50 miles away lol… but do women expect guys to pay for a lot on here… that’s not me stereo typing all women by the way.. just the ones who expect guys to pay for alsorts… maybe they think men owe them something… I mean asking for the site supporter code or money on your status… it’s like why should I pay it… the guys on here should pay it.. it’s only £5 lol

I’ve never, in my life, expected any man to ever pay for me whether it be a coffee, water, meal, date, etc.

As a Latina, culturally men are expected to pay for women whether it’s nails, hair, dates, petrol, etc. but I wasn’t raised that way and always found it very odd to have that expectation. To me, if I want something I am responsible for getting it for myself, and if I can’t afford it I don’t have it. I don’t except any man to ever provide me with anything. I couldn’t live with the overwhelming feeling of owing someone something because they provided something monetary for me. That puts me off.

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My point is… could it be a case of those women feeling like they are owed something on here… like certain things they shouldn’t pay for… like going on a meet.. why should they put fuel in… being on this site… why should they have to pay the site supporter… lol

I was just trying to understand this because the situation supporter is only £5

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By *randMrsLPCouple
over a year ago

london

We were offered "presents" and nice hotel meal etc by several different people. Then others have offered to pay for "cabs." I just block those that offer stuff.

If you are not happy with anything another FS says, asks, offers, block or block and report if you feel it's required.

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By *addad99Man
over a year ago

Rotherham /newquay


"I’ve seen on some statuses… women asking for site supporter codes and I’m thinking it’s only £5… do guys actually pay for the site supporter codes for those who ask for it… and another thing… was meant to meet a few women from here after chatting until they asked me for fuel money when they said they would rather drive to me than me driving to them but then say can you give me some money for fuel as it’s costing me.. does that put you off?

"
you been reading are updates she now silver so someone paid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve gotten right to the point of meeting someone, like 2 days chatting. Then planned a meet. Drive to their street. Then on the street they mention

“Oh by the way it’s £50 to get involved”

Unbelievable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should ask for a grand. Karen

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading


"Simps gonna simp"

Succinctly put

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By *omeoplaysMan
over a year ago

London / Hertfordshire


"Simps gonna simp"

Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol its unreal. karen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There always were men who paid stuff for women.

I knew a very cunning girl once, she ate out like 3-4 times a week for dinner just by going out with some interested dopes. She got food and drinks paid by the guys, all the time.

She never brought money to a club either. There always was a sucker buying her drinks.

For some time she even had a guy "help out" with her rent a few times.

Now the crazy bit: She never fucked those guys at all. Just got everything she needed and she never even had to ask, just, at most(!), hint at it. "Oh, no I can't go out with you. Sorry. Bit skint on money this month, I am not even sure if I make rent......... "

So to answer your question: Girls ask because there is always someone stupid enough to pay, and it's just a fiver, but if you can get it for free, why pay a fiver?"

Met a few fab guys like this.. Sucks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These aren’t fake people tho… they even said can you give me cash for fuel… I’m like really it’s not like your coming from 50 miles away lol… but do women expect guys to pay for a lot on here… that’s not me stereo typing all women by the way.. just the ones who expect guys to pay for alsorts… maybe they think men owe them something… I mean asking for the site supporter code or money on your status… it’s like why should I pay it… the guys on here should pay it.. it’s only £5 lol

I’ve never, in my life, expected any man to ever pay for me whether it be a coffee, water, meal, date, etc.

As a Latina, culturally men are expected to pay for women whether it’s nails, hair, dates, petrol, etc. but I wasn’t raised that way and always found it very odd to have that expectation. To me, if I want something I am responsible for getting it for myself, and if I can’t afford it I don’t have it. I don’t except any man to ever provide me with anything. I couldn’t live with the overwhelming feeling of owing someone something because they provided something monetary for me. That puts me off.

My point is… could it be a case of those women feeling like they are owed something on here… like certain things they shouldn’t pay for… like going on a meet.. why should they put fuel in… being on this site… why should they have to pay the site supporter… lol

I was just trying to understand this because the situation supporter is only £5 "

Could be. Could also be they live life in a similar way outside of Fab.

In a place like Fab where women outnumber men, maybe they just feel they are entitled to things if men want to have sex with them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve seen on some statuses… women asking for site supporter codes and I’m thinking it’s only £5… do guys actually pay for the site supporter codes for those who ask for it… and another thing… was meant to meet a few women from here after chatting until they asked me for fuel money when they said they would rather drive to me than me driving to them but then say can you give me some money for fuel as it’s costing me.. does that put you off?

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Not just women a see guys asking for site support, also had a guy ask me if i could lend him a tenner til he got paid.. spoke to him once

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By *evils PuddingCouple
over a year ago

the pub or in the nude in Paisley

We had a guy send us a site supporter code without us asking. Acted a bit like we owed him something afterwards so won't redeem one of those again!

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By *oecutterMan
over a year ago

Clonakilty


"Because some desperate guy will actually do it thinking they'll get laid.

Mrs "

Lots do.

A client of a client lost £100k+ on that kind of thing. Twice.

Worst of all?

He had yet to tell his wife the good news

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By *fweonlymeettwiceMan
over a year ago

Madrid

I will give you a tenner if you give me £20 lol

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

Anyone you dont know that ask for money from you just block them and move on

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By *vana_SweetnessWoman
over a year ago

Derby

Pretty sure it's against site rules...

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Some people don't become full members because of the data trail apparently, even with the text codes. I always assumed they were personalised, but guess it's more likely they are just codes that will work once for anyone.

I guess joint bank accounts and itemised phone billing with the partner doing the accounts is the issue.

pt

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By *entlemanrogueMan
over a year ago

Motherwell


"I’ve seen on some statuses… women asking for site supporter codes and I’m thinking it’s only £5… do guys actually pay for the site supporter codes for those who ask for it… and another thing… was meant to meet a few women from here after chatting until they asked me for fuel money when they said they would rather drive to me than me driving to them but then say can you give me some money for fuel as it’s costing me.. does that put you off?

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I was asked for fuel money and money for choclate and to half in for a babysitter.

I didnt meet that woman.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Pretty sure it's against site rules... "

^^ this

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

Asking for money is structly against site rules. Report them

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

i remember someone sending me a site code for silver as i was still reconsidering at the time to go back to silver, never used the code and no clue if its still viable to use, but i instead paid myself when i eventually decided. I have never once asked anyone for anything cause that is just wrong. My statuses at times tend to be tongue in cheek with me being silly at times.. ie dont take what i write serious and im trying to make folk smile at times.

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By *ensual-dominant-passion OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"Pretty sure it's against site rules...

^^ this

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Then how do they get away with putting it on their status lol asking for a site supporter code

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke


"Pretty sure it's against site rules...

^^ this

Then how do they get away with putting it on their status lol asking for a site supporter code "

Because not every status can be checked 24 hours a day. But it can be reported

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By *ersiantugMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Some sites let you 'gift' site membership to people, not this one though thankfully.

Not sure what the Fab rule is on asking for (or even offering) supporter codes.

It might actually be ok.

pt

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By *vana_SweetnessWoman
over a year ago

Derby

Because it's not been reported or picked up by admin.

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By *aribbean King 1985Man
over a year ago

South West London

But I hope nobody on Fab was guillible enough to give money to any stranger on here

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Please report any profile asking for or offering money, gifts, generous, skint and need help, a loan, send them a site supporter pin, sub to their premium snap or OF, buying or selling etc as this isn't allowed on Fab.

Thanks

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