FabSwingers.com forum: Cannot accommodate, cannot travel....

By *moothshaft OP Man
over a year ago

Coventry

...... so how are you supposed to meet?!!

Just been winked, with this on their profile.

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By *ohnboy64Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

Any pics?

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

"...... so how are you supposed to meet?!!

Just been winked, with this on their profile. "

Maybe ask them that question

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

Quickie in their front garden ?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

You pick them up....!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...... so how are you supposed to meet?!!

Just been winked, with this on their profile. "

More than likely they can't accomodate but want to meet locally as in not travel far.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

At their local pub at the end of their road perhaps?

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

"You pick them up....!!!"

Taxi!!

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

I presume hotels

We wouldn't accommodate a stranger in our family home nor would we go back to a strangers house

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By *ineappleroloWoman
over a year ago

Derby

Hotels or clubs.

I don't want strangers in my family home, nor would I go to strangers houses.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Behind the bins at their local supermarket.

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By *annyig10Man
over a year ago

loughton

This one always gets me?

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Hotel in their area. Not hard is it?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Hotel, club, will travel locally. (Some people assume "will travel" means "will go to the Outer Hebrides after two messages")

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Really?! I don't get what is so hard to understand with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotel in their area. Not hard is it?"

There ya go .. location sorted..

.it is hard after seeing those photos

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

When it's full moon and on the broom

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

It's sex in the garden shed I'm afraid

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's a paradox and I'd clarify in my profile, if I'd selected those options.

I'm a little too tightly fixated on the literal meaning. I include people who meet at hotels as that they can accom. Fab could do with a few more options to help to simplify things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Er, don't meet them?

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By *moothshaft OP Man
over a year ago

Coventry

"Really?! I don't get what is so hard to understand with that

Well it just seems like a double negative. They don't want you in their home (understandable), but they don't want to go out either.

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

"It's sex in the garden shed I'm afraid "

But you have to climb over the back fence

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Really?! I don't get what is so hard to understand with that

Well it just seems like a double negative. They don't want you in their home (understandable), but they don't want to go out either.

My experience is that the positive leads to people just assuming they can take what they like.

"Can accommodate" means "I'm coming over". "Can travel" means "you're coming hundreds of miles".

What if I can accommodate occasionally, people I know and trust, and I'm only prepared to travel locally? Either way I'm going to piss people off, no matter what I choose (because reading is hard and people are entitled)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe don’t believe everything written in profiles.

It may all be a ruse to manage inbox levels?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Maybe don’t believe everything written in profiles.

It may all be a ruse to manage inbox levels?

True. For awhile I said can't accommodate. Can, won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have it in mine. It puts off those incapable of thinking outside the box

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Really?! I don't get what is so hard to understand with that

Well it just seems like a double negative. They don't want you in their home (understandable), but they don't want to go out either.

They probably want to go out… but whether that’s “out out” will depend on who is messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really?! I don't get what is so hard to understand with that

Well it just seems like a double negative. They don't want you in their home (understandable), but they don't want to go out either.

Exactly that. You aren't coming here but I'm not prepared to travel the earth to suck on your dick sunshine

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I could offer a tent

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

"Really?! I don't get what is so hard to understand with that

Well it just seems like a double negative. They don't want you in their home (understandable), but they don't want to go out either.

How does it equate to not wanting to go out?? I mean, I don't drive so I would probably have to meet at least within the town I live in

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By *airyboxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Yes please

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I don't drive and my daughter lives with me. I find ways.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

Cannot accommodate is clear enough.

Cannot travel simply means that they do not wish to travel outside of their locality or immediate vicinity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have it in mine. It puts off those incapable of thinking outside the box

Haha. Exactly this.

I have this on my profile but it hasn't stopped me meeting!!

From my point of view, I'm sick of guys assuming that I will accommodate them 25/7 and I will travel hundreds of miles if I say I can to either option. Neither is the case.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Worked for me in past! Had a local fwb he would pick me up and take me back to his! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot travel 360 miles for a neros lol

I have travelled but by coach not car to reach out and stay in hotel but when cost of living is damaging my purse.. Not yet

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"I don't drive and my daughter lives with me. I find ways. "

This is same for me! Don't drive and have 2 daughters living at home! Very very rare I'm ever home alone! One works from home x

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"I don't drive and my daughter lives with me. I find ways.

This is same for me! Don't drive and have 2 daughters living at home! Very very rare I'm ever home alone! One works from home x"

Yes mine too! I did have both until recently but she's bought a house.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Pick them up, bang them in the back of the Corsa, drop them home. Easy

LvM

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Can't imagine it works well on a bloke's profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found

Guys still at home so cannot accommodate

Guys with wives

Single guys sharing hmo.. No sex allowed

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I take it to mean can’t travel far.

If I drive 2hrs out and 2hrs back then I’ve no time to do anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have found

Guys still at home so cannot accommodate

Guys with wives cannot accommodate

Single guys sharing hmo.. No sex allowed

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or living at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I take it to mean can’t travel far.

If I drive 2hrs out and 2hrs back then I’ve no time to do anything. "

Someone drove from Bromich to Kent.. It is doable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have it in mine. It puts off those incapable of thinking outside the box

Haha. Exactly this.

I have this on my profile but it hasn't stopped me meeting!!

From my point of view, I'm sick of guys assuming that I will accommodate them 25/7 and I will travel hundreds of miles if I say I can to either option. Neither is the case. "

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