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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So not naming anyone at all so hopefully within forum rules..if not please delete.

I have found out that someone has forwarded a private photo that I sent to them to their “friend”

I am fuming. Probably naive. Who or why would you send someone else’s photo to someone else. It’s disgusting

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

That is naughty

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By *oneybee1001Woman
over a year ago

Around and about


"So not naming anyone at all so hopefully within forum rules..if not please delete.

I have found out that someone has forwarded a private photo that I sent to them to their “friend”

I am fuming. Probably naive. Who or why would you send someone else’s photo to someone else. It’s disgusting "

Ah, welcome to the wonderful world of FAB! Normal rules is life seem to alude some! Maybe they sent your pic because they think you're gorgeous? I'd look for the reason that gives the most peace and positivity

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek


"So not naming anyone at all so hopefully within forum rules..if not please delete.

I have found out that someone has forwarded a private photo that I sent to them to their “friend”

I am fuming. Probably naive. Who or why would you send someone else’s photo to someone else. It’s disgusting "

That’s rough but it happens, unfortunately you can’t control what others do with pics or vids you send or allow them to take. How did you find out?

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

Hope you explained to them that that is not right, private messages and photos should remain private

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

People do it a lot on here. That’s why I don’t send them on here or take part in FPF. Once it’s out there it’s out there.

Sorry it’s happened to you though. It’s shit.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

Was their friend also on Fab OP? Not condoning the act but could it have been with the best of intentions ?

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria


"People do it a lot on here. That’s why I don’t send them on here or take part in FPF. Once it’s out there it’s out there.

Sorry it’s happened to you though. It’s shit. "

Wow, do they really?... that's very out of order. Makes me way more hesitant to send such pics in future.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

Sorry thats happened to you OP its not nice, unfortunately it happens no idea why people do it or what they get out of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They told me

My friend in America thinks you’re fit

I said

How do they know

They said that they described me

However then admitted they sent them my photo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you put yourself on the internet….

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I'm afraid you have to assume any pictures you send may be shared. It's how fab works I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick to the rule face or fun. If your face is in the photo your dick shouldn’t be. Avoids this situation.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Betrayed trust can be deeply hurtful.

I'm afraid that is the tip of the iceberg of what people will engage in with brazen glee. Others behind the veil of plausible deniability.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Stick to the rule face or fun. If your face is in the photo your dick shouldn’t be. Avoids this situation. "

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Sage words!

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria


"Stick to the rule face or fun. If your face is in the photo your dick shouldn’t be. Avoids this situation.

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Sage words! "

Yep... golden rule indeed!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Early on I think we was tricked with face pics

No we don’t just send out pics

Some lucky fuckers know how the Mrs looks and how hot she is

Mr

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands


"Stick to the rule face or fun. If your face is in the photo your dick shouldn’t be. Avoids this situation. "

Thats our rule as well.

If they want face pic then we send just a normal fully clothed pic.

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By *s-two-75Couple
over a year ago

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The minute you upload any picture u upload on the t’internet privacy is out of your hands..

Hopefully the wife won’t stumble on it

Best of luck

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

I would expect that this is pretty common in all aspects of dating. Assuming this 3rd party is actually a friend in real life, I would expect any photos I shared to potentially be seen by their friends. Obviously it's a totally different situation if this person has shared it with another random fab member as wank material, but sharing it with a genuine friend is surely not a surprise, even if it is questionably actually OK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stick to the rule face or fun. If your face is in the photo your dick shouldn’t be. Avoids this situation.

Thats our rule as well.

If they want face pic then we send just a normal fully clothed pic.

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Actually we have managed to Maintain this,our face pics could be found on social media

A simple face pic not playing in anyway

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

They have broken the law

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields


"The minute you upload any picture u upload on the t’internet privacy is out of your hands..

Hopefully the wife won’t stumble on it

Best of luck"

And not a cropped photo where its clearly the same person. You want your face photo to be totally unconnected to your fun photo.

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By *ddkkk91Man
over a year ago

fife

Sorry it happened and she should not do it... without permission

Breaking your trust but at the same time, we are in online world here and hard to control it.

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By *untimes wantedMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

If you send a pic to anyone .You have no idea who else might be with the person you sent it to and looking at the profile together.

Does not even have to be sent to anyone else for other people than the intended recipient to see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They have broken the law "

They haven’t. Once you put something into the public domain it’s fair game unless it’s used to cause alarm, distress or harm (in which case it is covered by the Prevention of Malicious Communications Act).

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields


"They have broken the law

They haven’t. Once you put something into the public domain it’s fair game unless it’s used to cause alarm, distress or harm (in which case it is covered by the Prevention of Malicious Communications Act). "

Sharing privately isn't public domain, however revenge porn laws only apply if you can prove they intended distress, and showing off your new sexy conquest to your friend in a positive way is not intending to cause distress.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden


"Was their friend also on Fab OP? Not condoning the act but could it have been with the best of intentions ?"

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Even the best of intentions requires permission or any form of acquiescence. It's unacceptable.

...and also one of the reasons why I never participate in the ill-advised Face Pic Friday (FPF) nonsense.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"The minute you upload any picture u upload on the t’internet privacy is out of your hands..

Hopefully the wife won’t stumble on it

Best of luck"

Who's wife ?

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