FabSwingers.com forum: South Essex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, I’m relatively new to Fab and currently stuck in the catch 22, where most people will only meet men with verifications, but I can’t get any until I meet.

Has anyone else found it hard to break this cycle?

I’m willing to just meet up for a coffee with anyone in South Essex tomorrow lunchtime so I can get this verification thing off the launch pad and start this (hopefully) wonderful nee chapter.

Adam x

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Hate to tell you this... but 1 verification for coffee won't have you swimming in pussy.

From your post you seem quite polite and can string a sentence together, that's a good start.

Maybe an organised social would be an idea?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hate to tell you this... but 1 verification for coffee won't have you swimming in pussy."

WHAT?!

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Hate to tell you this... but 1 verification for coffee won't have you swimming in pussy.

WHAT?!"

Didn't you know?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hate to tell you this... but 1 verification for coffee won't have you swimming in pussy.

From your post you seem quite polite and can string a sentence together, that's a good start.

Maybe an organised social would be an idea? "

Lol, thanks. I don’t expect to be swimming in pussy anytime soon, although that is a nice thought. Thank you for your comments. I’ll look into the organised social bit too, although it can be a bit daunting just strolling in on my jack straight off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hate to tell you this... but 1 verification for coffee won't have you swimming in pussy.

WHAT?!

Didn't you know?

You mean I had to endure one of those pumpkin spiced lattes for nothing?

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By *entle_lover_xMan
over a year ago

Great Dunmow

"Hi, I’m relatively new to Fab and currently stuck in the catch 22, where most people will only meet men with verifications, but I can’t get any until I meet.

Has anyone else found it hard to break this cycle?

I’m willing to just meet up for a coffee with anyone in South Essex tomorrow lunchtime so I can get this verification thing off the launch pad and start this (hopefully) wonderful nee chapter.

Adam x"

There is a regular party pretty close to you in Shoebury.. They have single men attend albeit limited. Try getting to go along. Also a lady I know in Canvey who is often looking for plus one to attend events. Keep an eye out on your local updates

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

Don't get so hung up on getting that first veri. You'll actually put people off wanting to meet you as they'll get the impression that you're not so much interested in them as you are getting that green tick.

Try putting yourself in someone elses shoes for a moment and read your initial post again.

It screams of desperation

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
over a year ago

Thurrock

You need patience as a single man you’re swimming against the tide here there’s 1000’s just like you all looking for the same small pool of others to meet. Send polite opening messages and try not to be put off if you don’t get a response. Look for events and as has already been said socials, get your face seen talk to people in person and it’ll fall into place.

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