FabSwingers.com forum: Labia

By *tanley Funseeker OP Man
over a year ago

stanley

Ladies how do you like your labia? Would you consider labiaplasty to get the “ perfect look”?

Gents do you have a type of labia that you like best ?

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By *yselfAndHerCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

"Ladies how do you like your labia? Would you consider labiaplasty to get the “ perfect look”?

Gents do you have a type of labia that you like best ?"

Would you consider surgery on your cock to create the perfect look??

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I'm happy with my fuzzy little peach looking thing. But I also like the more intricate ones.

I wouldn't consider surgery for mine. If people want to go through surgeries to correct parts of themselves they're not happy with that's entirely up to them though

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By *eliciouslyFilthyGentMan
over a year ago

York

I guess there is no “perfect look” as people prefer different things.

I do have a liking for larger and meatier labia, but I wouldn’t discriminate against a lady with smaller labia

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

The labia that I like best are the ones attached to the people that I want to get naked with

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

I have no idea what the perfect look labia is! Don't really give mine much thought tbh it is what it is

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Nope. I’m not a fan of cosmetic surgery so it’s not for me.

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By *tanley Funseeker OP Man
over a year ago

stanley

"Ladies how do you like your labia? Would you consider labiaplasty to get the “ perfect look”?

Gents do you have a type of labia that you like best ?

Would you consider surgery on your cock to create the perfect look??

I wasn’t being critical, there have been threads on here about how blokes feel about their cock size or shape so just asked the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies how do you like your labia? Would you consider labiaplasty to get the “ perfect look”?

Gents do you have a type of labia that you like best ?"

Don’t expect nice replies as it’s a touchy subject for most

There’s definitely been labias I prefer to look of to others, however it’s hardly a factor in my enjoyment of someone

If I’m already at the point that I’m seeing your labia then I doubt there’s anything that’s gonna put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate mine. I’m so self conscious about them I don’t let anyone go down on me. If I could afford it I’d have the surgery.

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By *yselfAndHerCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

"Ladies how do you like your labia? Would you consider labiaplasty to get the “ perfect look”?

Gents do you have a type of labia that you like best ?

Would you consider surgery on your cock to create the perfect look??

I wasn’t being critical, there have been threads on here about how blokes feel about their cock size or shape so just asked the question "

No offence, we haven't seen them.

But do you honestly think it is a good question? All it will do is bring insecurities to the surface for already insecure people.

Don't you think?

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"I wasn’t being critical, there have been threads on here about how blokes feel about their cock size or shape so just asked the question "

Those threads are usually started by men.

As is this one. And as always, the comments on this sort of thread are a useful filter.

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By *tanley Funseeker OP Man
over a year ago

stanley

I apologise for the thread, thanks to those who have highlighted that it’s insensitive. I genuinely did not wish to upset anyone

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By *ts the taking part thatMan
over a year ago

southampton

Love what you have as plenty of others will & forget the ones that don't.

This goes for Todgers too.

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By *yselfAndHerCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

"I apologise for the thread, thanks to those who have highlighted that it’s insensitive. I genuinely did not wish to upset anyone "

This is the problem when the blood surges to a certain place and guys think with the wrong organ.

Fair play for apologising.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"I apologise for the thread, thanks to those who have highlighted that it’s insensitive. I genuinely did not wish to upset anyone "
You shouldn’t really apologise you asked a genuine question I’m sure if some women have a issue then they will just skip this post like I do with a lot of posts …

To answer your question I love mine and my husband loves mine and that’s all that really matters to me..I love women in general so I don’t really have a preference…

Their is no perfect labia the same way as theirs no perfect cock everyone comes in different shapes and sizes and unless theirs a way to change that then you just have to learn to love what you have ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of guys like a larger labia, I do for sure

Please don't go getting labiaplasty because you think it's a little bit on the bigger size

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

"Nope. I’m not a fan of cosmetic surgery so it’s not for me."

I think its best to live with what you have rather than trying for some sort of imagined perfection

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Well it's not like I really have to look at them, so I don't care. No such thing as the "perfect look".

There's enough pressure on us without having to think about a body part only a few chosen will see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as it doesn’t look like a punched lasagne it’s all good

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

If this thread was transposed it *could* read like this:

·Gents· how do you like your ·cock· ? Would you consider surgery to get the “perfect look”?

·Ladies· do you have a type of ·cock· that you like best ?

My reaction would either be to bypass the thread entirely or simply answer along the lines of "I'm happy with my cock. I have no desire to augment it but I'm sure some men would and good luck to them".

OP - you have nothing to apologise for. There's nothing alluding to any form of body shaming, or hurtful remarks, contentious inferences or any hidden subtext to your opening post. That's how I interpreted it.

I'm sure some of my friends and connections will disagree with me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I apologise for the thread, thanks to those who have highlighted that it’s insensitive. I genuinely did not wish to upset anyone "

I don't think you have anything to apologise for. You asked a genuine question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as it doesn’t look like a punched lasagne it’s all good"

I'm yet to find a lasagna that I wouldn't eat

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"As long as it doesn’t look like a punched lasagne it’s all good"

This is the kind of comment that upsets people in my experience of forum discussions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Mr) love the larger labia. Mrs BB's is just exquisite. However, smaller labia is good too.

Some women are sensitive to body shaming and there just isn't any need for it. If you have nothing nice to say, just keep it to yourself. Nothing wrong with having a preference but disrespectful remarks are just uncalled for.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Some women are sensitive to body shaming"

Point me to the body shaming in the opening post.

"...but disrespectful remarks are just uncalled for"

Where are the disrespectful remarks?

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"As long as it doesn’t look like a punched lasagne it’s all good

This is the kind of comment that upsets people in my experience of forum discussions."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some women are sensitive to body shaming

Point me to the body shaming in the opening post.

...but disrespectful remarks are just uncalled for

Where are the disrespectful remarks?"

Someone mentioned punched lasagne??

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm happy with mine, neat & tidy I wouldn't change it.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you have nothing to apologise for. Nothing wrong with your question. Preferences are ok.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

My labia are not something I spend any time thinking about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're all beautiful. And I want to lick them

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I saw a documentary where women were having surgery on their labia minora because they were very big/long and uncomfortable for them.

I'm happy with my flappy bits

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

"I hate mine. I’m so self conscious about them I don’t let anyone go down on me. If I could afford it I’d have the surgery. "

Blindfold them

I have found art projects of genital photography very useful for realising just how much variation there is in real people. It makes you reflect on what we assume to be normal or desirable, there is no discernible standard they are all so different.

I would never consider elective surgery on an area so sensitive, idc what it looks like! Maybe if my lips were so big they impeded movement, I've heard this happens sometimes. But for aesthetic reasons which are pretty arbitrary anyway, no. The risk of scar tissue and loss of sensitivity is not a price I'd want to pay for a tidy vulva. Function over form

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

If I had the time, money and desire for surgery then I’m damn sure I wouldn’t be thinking about my labia tbh

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

There are many parts that I would like surgery on, but that part of my anatomy is as neat and tidy as it could be

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Isn't that a model of Scoda?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Nope. Mine is the perfect look to me, quite happy with it.

And no need to apologise op for a perfectly acceptable question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was discussing this last night with a friend. I actually considered filler in my pussy lips so they looked more plump. I’d say I’m fine with having a bigger labia I don’t like the porn star look personally. I don’t think anyone’s entirely happy with their genitals and we do compare ourselves at times. I just set the scene of it looking like a dropped lasagna then they aren’t disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've yet to see labia that look like a lasagna. They all look beautiful to me.

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