FabSwingers.com forum: Whats the first thing you look for on a profile?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What is the first thing you look for when you view someone's profile?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Big tits and an available hole

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"What is the first thing you look for when you view someone's profile?"

Location.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

First I read bio...after I look at pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they have the green flag and tick

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Boobs

Mrs

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By *rown_Bread78Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Pictures

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

"What is the first thing you look for when you view someone's profile?

Location. "

What she said.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Contrary to popular belief I read their content first.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

Fanciability. If that’s a word. I look for a spark of excitement.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Boobs and sexy pussy

Mrs

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

"First I read bio...after I look at pics.

I feel violated

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

Normally there location and age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Di I mean bio.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first thing i look for is when there having there dinner saves me washing up. Karen

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek

Location, profile pic and height (usually in that order

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By *AABMan
over a year ago

Not far

Distance

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Socks and sandals

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Compatibility

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

If the profile picture resembles the rest of pictures.

Location.

Profile text.

Age range.

Verifications.

And videos if they have any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

That je ne sais quoi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pulse

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

How wide they can open their bum hole.

The mr

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Age.

That determines if I look any further or not.

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

"How wide they can open their bum hole.

The mr "

Looking for the red rose.

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By *randMrsGeeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Looks, shallow I know but honest

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By *phrodite_AdonisCouple
over a year ago

Photos of the dude

Seems they’re shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i got bite the other night both asked for my post code then no show. now i look for verifications. Karen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Username and location - easy to rule out via both of these

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

The bio the location dosent matter to me its if we get on distance can be overcome or we are simply online friends here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just message them and ask for a fuck. No point looking at the profile, we're all on here for the same thing. Age, sexuality, location, it's all irrelevant.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

"I just message them and ask for a fuck. No point looking at the profile, we're all on here for the same thing. Age, sexuality, location, it's all irrelevant. "
,, no messing straight to the point,,

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"I just message them and ask for a fuck. No point looking at the profile, we're all on here for the same thing. Age, sexuality, location, it's all irrelevant. "

Guess who inbox is going to be full.

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Boobs , location then boobs

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By *uge saggy boob loverMan
over a year ago

harrogate

Boobies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Pics...no point without attraction.

Then their preferences

Then the bio

Then their veris...and veris they have given.

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

Location

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Hands up I might look at the boobs

It an admirering sort of way .

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

Sydney university

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Pics then bio then location

Tinder x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics then age

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By *lexm87Man
over a year ago

Various

Typos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they put cream on before the jam on their scone.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

A buy one, get one free offer

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

Location, then bio.

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By *inda May SimmonsTV/TS
over a year ago

hexham

"If they have the green flag and tick

I don’t have the green flag!

What’s the green flag for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good bio and a good mix of photos of both the female and the male of the couple.

So many couples profiles are all females photos.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Face pic then distance x

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

All of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

A lot have said location. What's a reasonable distance you're willing to entertain?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures to see if I’m attracted. Then bio to see if I meet requirements. Then whether I’m eligible to message.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Pics as they’ll show us whether there’ll be any compatibility…just all graphic pics, action shots and we know there wouldn’t be so don’t go any further.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Good punctuation and grammar.

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By *mber81Woman
over a year ago

Chorley, Eng

1st Bio - I want info about who they are as a person. Some humour, some personality. A sense of could I share a drink with them and enjoy thier company. An idea for a conversation opener and if I might be what they are looking for.

2nd pics - if they only have lots of dick pics or pics with other people then probably not going to be a match

3rd veris - what was said about them and what did they say about the other person.

4th location - I really need to move this up higher.

5th preferences.

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By *rofmoriartyMan
over a year ago

Nearby

Green tick, then profile pic, then location and age, then if it all checks out, Bio.

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By *elshmumWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Bio, verification, photos and location

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

Read the bio then look at what the couple or person is looking for then peruse the pics followed by a wink to show interest and if I get a wink back I'll send a message

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri

The profile name, some people have chosen the most disgusting and crude names on here which puts me off straight away, don't even get as far as their profile content

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Bio first. If it’s a few words. Delete

Then pics. No public pics. Delete

Then look if pics are old. If they are. Delete

Then look if pics have them “balls deep” in someone else. Delete.

Then look if they’re verified. If not. Delete.

Then possibly read message. Maybe.

Then might reply.

I’m a hard taskmaster… but it works for me

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By *ornyltlfkrMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I check for the dreaded 'not looking for single guys'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at photos and verifications. Then I read their Bio.

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

Bio

Photos

Veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Appealing photos and a verification.

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

"I check for the dreaded 'not looking for single guys'"

So often seen on alot of profiles here lol

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Location

Height

Rarely get further than that

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Height

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Pictures first.

We're not superficial, we read the bio and key information next and it doesn't matter how attractive they are to us if it reads they're not for us then they're not for us. Then if that's all good the verifications. But a good photo range both tell us do we find them physically attractive (obviously no good reading futher if we don't). And most importantly it then gives us a very quick insight to what they're like in terms of personality and how they like to enjoy the lifestyle. For example do they like rope, the outdoors, are they serious or do they not take themselves too seriously etc. We like profiles that have pictures that give a flavour of the person or couple. Specifically with couples we like to see a good range of the male too (it's not blind date) and photos of the couple together and how they are with each other. We like secure power couples who are very much in love and in harmony with each other. You sometimes get a sense of this in photos.

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By *arryandhedgehogCouple
over a year ago

Thurrock

Are they site verified, it’s just a bare minimum in our opinion if they’re not we don’t look at anything else

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"Are they site verified, it’s just a bare minimum in our opinion if they’re not we don’t look at anything else "

Me to...not worth the risk

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

Urm tits

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Some hint of individuality and personality on their profile. No I can't be more specific, it's very much "I know it when I see it"

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"What is the first thing you look for when you view someone's profile?"

Signs of life.

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By *ldFashionedGentMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Green flag

Green tick

Profile (mainly does anything spark an interest or make me smile)

Interests

Location

Pics

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Bio then pics

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By *oding1Man
over a year ago

marlow

At my advanced years it has to be age!!

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By *ijay_AnansiMan
over a year ago

Wembley

Profile, then pics and/or vids

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By *ornyltlfkrMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I check to see if they are looking for. Short fat and bald! no luck so far

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"What is the first thing you look for when you view someone's profile?"

Location.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big tits and an available hole

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lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verified!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics. There has to be physical attraction for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures followed by reading the bio if we like what we see.

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Interesting thread , but it's easy to see why done if us have no chance because of people demanding "meet verifications '

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By *ntcovMan
over a year ago

Church Gresley / Swadlincote

Thumbnail pic, if that sparks interest then I'll look at more, starting with location, for some reason I get a lot from Ireland and Scotland looking aty profile and messaging... flattering but not practical distance wise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the first thing you look for when you view someone's profile?"

Verifications on their profile. Any showing, then it's a no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always look for a tasty dick pic and if I find one I leave the profile and will probably never look at it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the first thing you look for when you view someone's profile?"

Pictures, they tell a story

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By *SCouple81Couple
over a year ago

Between Edinburgh and Scottish Borders

Pictures, smoking, bio

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"First I read bio...after I look at pics.

Same here

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"What is the first thing you look for when you view someone's profile?

Verifications on their profile. Any showing, then it's a no."

?? Interesting

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By *irty-pairCouple
over a year ago

Essex

A green tick, location, pics, bio, verifications - usually in that order!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Location and can they accommodate. My two requirements.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics - vids- write up/ preferences- verified.

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By *igforfun100Man
over a year ago

Magherafelt

I always look at location, then read their profile, respect filters and usually just admire from afar.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Data, then pics

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Decent text then pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the first thing you look for when you view someone's profile?

Verifications on their profile. Any showing, then it's a no.

?? Interesting "

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By *oitering-With-intentMan
over a year ago

city of Lodon

Verified by meet

Location

read bio

pics

Verifications

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By *tranger swings 69Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

Sexuality

Jack

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

If it says not looking for single guys or not

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By *ature male OldhamMan
over a year ago

Oldham

Location and age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location. Then are they looking at single men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile pic, rest of photos, then their bio. If I start talking to them, then I'll read their veris.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
over a year ago

A den in the Glen

Location, age, build, bio, veris and sense of humour.

Currently looking for a 60 year old midget from Cork who dishes it out like a Bombay money lender whom I should 'treat this one with respect and you will get your just rewards'.

Call me picky but...

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

How they’ve written their Bio.

Does it come across friendly & easy going?

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

Profile text, verifications, location, public photos… not necessarily in that order

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Bio.

Location isn't a guaranteed blocker.

Trains, planes and automobiles.....

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

Boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How they’ve written their Bio.

Does it come across friendly & easy going? "

I was just told I appear headstrong from my bio. Not quite the vibe I was going for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually their age range first, then location. Afterwards I'll check out the rest of the profile.

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By *irmelaterMan
over a year ago

Telford

Interests similar to my own

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

Pics first, then i look to see if they are interested in TVs.

If thats all good I read the profile, providing they are close enough to meet x

Having said that I get a lot of messages from straight guys.

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By *oyInTheSquareMileWoman
over a year ago

Central London

Penis and/or pussy pictures!

Quick and easy way to choose to block without reading anything

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

If they invested in double glazing

I ain’t fucking in a cold house hahaha

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

The sheer amount of posts in this thread saying "meet verifications " ,just shows why some of us don't stand a chance .

Don't you all remember when you had no verifications. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The sheer amount of posts in this thread saying "meet verifications " ,just shows why some of us don't stand a chance .

Don't you all remember when you had no verifications. ?"

You are verified.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,

Age Parameters.

Location

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"The sheer amount of posts in this thread saying "meet verifications " ,just shows why some of us don't stand a chance .

Don't you all remember when you had no verifications. ?"

Yes.

And somehow I managed to get verified and then keep on getting them. What do you mean ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The sheer amount of posts in this thread saying "meet verifications " ,just shows why some of us don't stand a chance .

Don't you all remember when you had no verifications. ?"

Stop looking for extrinsic reasons why you haven't found what you wanted. Look at yourself - that's all you can change.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Height. Then pics. Then text. Then usually delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First, smoker status.

Then if they are looking for guys, if so, I scan quickly if they mention height as I’m 5’9 I don’t see the point if the woman/ couple are looking for 6ft +. It’s fair as we all have preferences.

Then I read the bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location, age, pictures, text, likes and dislikes.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

age range.

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"What is the first thing you look for when you view someone's profile?"

How well written the bio is.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Cock pics

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

"Big tits and an available hole

Yeah. That.

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Bio, pictures then verifications if they have any

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By *atnayCouple
over a year ago

STEVENAGE

Verifications, bio and then pics.

If I'm meeting someone off fab. I want to know they are verified. Safety thing I guess. Seconded, want to know if they're what I'm looking for and then if I like pics I'll go from there. N

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"The sheer amount of posts in this thread saying "meet verifications " ,just shows why some of us don't stand a chance .

Don't you all remember when you had no verifications. ?

You are verified."

I'm not meet verified though ,which is the brick wall I hit when viewing the majority of profiles I am attracted too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex. ? M f or Tv.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex. ? M f or Tv. "
or couple etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is the first thing you look for when you view someone's profile?"

I read their profile to see would there be a mental connection , both have to be connected, no point in just one being interested.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

The ‘looking for’ usually pointless if they stop at 50

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

If I'm just perving - pics. If I'm looking at potential folks to meet - their age/age requirements, location and bio then pics. That way I don't get my hopes up as very little seems to match

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"Boobs

Mrs "

This just about sums it up. Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whether their pictures are fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Location. Age. Photos. Profile.

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