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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To be able to speak your mind?

Or, do you just speak it and hope for the best?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm a bit of a free spirit I generally speak my mind, however, recently I've managed to have a filter to keep the smut out of everyday talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be able to speak your mind?

Or, do you just speak it and hope for the best? "

Depends on circumstance and company for speaking my mind I'd not need a drink anyhoo.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I prefer not to drink and just vomit my truth out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't drink and prefer to let things fester until it builds resentment and contempt with the person I want to talk to about the problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I consolidate my resentments into one convenient monthly outburst. This may involve alcohol

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

To be honest it depends what politeness mood is like.

The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of reasons I gave for not drinking was the fear of telling some people what I really think of them or outing myself as kinky.

There are times especially recently when I want to drink but for the wrong reasons

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

My shrink lady is the one I speak my mind to so I can enjoy a drink without worrying about word diarrhoea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem i have is understand what i`m saying Karen

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

No, I tend to speak before I think, it's a curse, I don't need drink for that but I'm probably more honest & have a more brutal way of saying things when I've had a drink.

Mrs

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By *layisbetterwithLaughterMan
over a year ago

Stourbridge

No I don't need a drink and even if I have I often still take my own counsel best.

I don't always think the truth needs to be heard, sometimes it is just wasting my breath and their ears. Save it for the conversations and relationships that matter.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Neither.

I find people who say they speak their minds generally use this as an excuse to be rude.

And I certainly wouldn't need booze to do so.

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

I don't drink. So I have to speak my mind anyway

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By *ttmcdguyTV/TS
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I gave up drinking 25 years ago

I say it as I see it if they don’t like it fuck it

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Don't need Dutch courage, I'm an open book it just falls out of my mouth. Speak my mind regardless of situation

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

Always best to speak in a nice and clear manner to anyone. I don't think drink helps with that.

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By *rown_Bread78Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I need restraint, to stop me speaking my mind and getting into lots of trouble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Direct..

No do not alchol to speak my mind

I say it how it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more than likely to do it with coffee than alcohol.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm not confrontational by nature and I've never tasted alcohol.

Some people claim to be able to speak their mind regardless and have an "I couldn't give a fuck" attitude and I've no time for those because they have no thought for the impact of their words.

I'll speak my mind if asked for it but I'll never use it as a weapon.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

No and I am wary of those who don't speak their minds.

I am not conflict averse, so I will speak my mind, if I feel it is justified. Once it's done it's done. Go back inside have a pint, hug it out or whatever. It's done then.

I don't think alcohol changes that really. Same process.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

I consider my words. I certainly don’t need a drink to be honest. But I’m never blunt or brutal. A little diplomacy, understanding and empathy can go a long way. In the past I have been reactive, but only when I’ve felt that I’ve been wronged in some way. These days I mostly don’t reply at all, or leave considerable time to reflect before I do.

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