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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi, we are attending abfab halloween night in Oct and are really looking forward to it.. we are new to the club scene, but we have a scenario we'd like to play out .. lead by F.. she wants me to cum in her pussy before we enter the club and to find a willing Female to go down on her and clean up, cum kiss with her and maybe more.... just putting the feelers out there to see if Any ladies would be interested.. solo females or female of a couple xxx

Thank you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How will you approach this scenario with a woman at the club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Won't lie, this may be a very hard sell. Firstly you are searching for the rarest of rare which is a lady wanting to be involved with a random couple, secondly your fantasy is somewhat niche. Thirdly most single ladies hate the thought of being treated like meat, probably far easier to have a full MFF where her pleasure is equal to yours, you finish with your partner and she has the choice if she wants to go down for deserts.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I don't think you will find a willing participant, but I wish you good luck OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single lady that attends clubs, I would be asking myself what do I receive from the experience, what about my wants and needs. I enjoy 3 way fun, I'm not just there to fulfill other people's fantasies without a thought from them about what I want.

I really can't see you being successful with this fantasy, but good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys, thank you for the replies above, all points noted and maybe its wrong to ask here and hopefully an organic reaction is more likely than something planned.. we'd like to add that we are 100% respectful to others and no offence was intended.. probably guilty of inexperience.. its still something F was to happy but baybe needs to happen spontaneously xxx

We've not approached a female in a club before, how would you suggest we do so? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a single lady that sometimes goes to clubs....I wouldn't entertain that on the risk of STI's alone never mind anything else.

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By *awty_TwoCouple
over a year ago

Near Maidstone

This is never going to happen.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

"Hi, we are attending abfab halloween night in Oct and are really looking forward to it.. we are new to the club scene, but we have a scenario we'd like to play out .. lead by F.. she wants me to cum in her pussy before we enter the club and to find a willing Female to go down on her and clean up, cum kiss with her and maybe more.... just putting the feelers out there to see if Any ladies would be interested.. solo females or female of a couple xxx

Thank you xxx "

Why a straight lady wants a woman to lick her partner's cum out of her pussy and then snowball??? I'm sorry but to me, it very much sounds like the man's fantasy rather than the woman's, and very niche, too. So you're going to a club for the very first time (I'm assuming, going by your published veris), meeting people in person as a couple for the very first time (again, assumption based on your veris) and you want such a rare, heavy play straight away? You may need to adjust your expectations, sadly. You never know, it may happen, but as far as I'm aware, eating cum out of the lady's pussy seems to be much more men's kink rather than ladies. Not many ladies would go down on another lady in the best of circumstances (or maybe I wasn't overly lucky there yet

), most play seems to be kissing, boob play, some fingering. Also, as a single female, if I was to join you, I would want a few orgasms in return, not just do the clean up for you (which I would definitely not do, not my kink).

Anyway, good luck, OP.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

"Hi guys, thank you for the replies above, all points noted and maybe its wrong to ask here and hopefully an organic reaction is more likely than something planned.. we'd like to add that we are 100% respectful to others and no offence was intended.. probably guilty of inexperience.. its still something F was to happy but baybe needs to happen spontaneously xxx

We've not approached a female in a club before, how would you suggest we do so? Xx "

Politely and with no expectations. Just chat, if there's mutual attraction, then great if not, you've made a club mate.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Just work on finding good chemistry and a 3 way connection first. If a woman is sold on you as a couple first, feels totally comfortable with you and the chemistry is good she's more likely to be open to explore stuff with you. I think this is one of those things you can't just ask someone mid sex if they're up for it. Its something you need to approach before hand. Maybe get on to the topic of fantasies and see what her reaction is to it. Is like absolutely not or that's hot? Also remember to let her talk about her fantasies and what she wants too. Because singles aren't living sex toys for couples. They go for their own pleasure and desires. So it only really works when the desires are shared with all parties. Like other have said its a hard sell however there's something for everybody.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all, and some good pointers for us. Ty

BTW.. it is the female suggestion

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

How do approach this spontaneously?

I can safely say with 99.9% certainty that you will not walk straight in to a club and have a single girl giving oral to a woman straight away, especially if they are aware of what happened previously. This is akin to a guy getting his cock out in a bar, expecting a BJ.

Normal people go to clubs, some will have fetishes but you’d have to be extremely lucky to find a woman with a cum fetish to be giving oral to another random woman which has been pre-filled!

Clubs are pretty much the same as night clubs - you still have to chat to people, socialise, feel comfortable, build a connection.

There may be times when you’re next to other couples playing or a single woman playing but you wouldn’t know they wanted anything from you without a discussion and I don’t think that’s the type of thing you should surprise people with

Good luck finding someone but I’d say you’d need to looking at chatting and building a connection with someone first but then your profile and pics need to be added for a single woman to chat.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I’m another one voting for this never happening.

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

NG 21

Got to say op, this sounds more of a male fantasy than female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw I really wanted to say something positive but if I went down on a lady in a club and found a fanny full of jizz I’d probably vom

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I wish I hadn't read this eating my porridge. Good luck on your adventure though. You've got a much higher chance of this happening with a guy though

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I remember my first time with a girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't had my porridge but...I won't wish you good luck. I can see it as a female fantasy but it won't happen in your scenario. Do update us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aw I really wanted to say something positive but if I went down on a lady in a club and found a fanny full of jizz I’d probably vom

It would be old jizz, not fresh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you all, and some good pointers for us. Ty

BTW.. it is the female suggestion"

What else would the woman do after she'd sucked the cum out of your straight wife?

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Surely the time between having sex, getting ready to go out, getting there, mingling, chatting, finding someone to play this out with- surely you’ll need a wee at some point and surely you’ll wipe up so I don’t see how this could work unless I’m just really not creative enough, it just sounds like cystitis waiting to happen

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Sounds pretty grim to me, and how's she going to hold it in all that time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aw I really wanted to say something positive but if I went down on a lady in a club and found a fanny full of jizz I’d probably vom

It would be old jizz, not fresh.

I really need this green sick emoji now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds pretty grim to me, and how's she going to hold it in all that time?

Kegel?

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

It’s not something I’d ever want to partake in.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"Sounds pretty grim to me, and how's she going to hold it in all that time?

Kegel?

Extreme kegels. Or some sort of plug?

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