FabSwingers.com forum: Easy to read.

By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

Let's keep it easy.

Are you easy to read? Do people pick up on your mood easily? Are you good at reading others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to say I'm not...but I'd be lying

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I think I'm easy enough to read generally speaking, the difficulty probably comes in whether my sarcasm is annoyance, friendly banter, or an attempt at getting into your pants

As for reading other people, I need extra large font and a reading light. I'm fucking awful at it

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moody cow here

Honest, clear, flammable, loud. Very easy to read.

Rubbish at reading others.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

My actual mood at any given time, no. I'm cynical and dislike people, but unless I'm intentionally lashing out and venting I could be in a great mood and people wouldn't be able to tell my actual mood. I'm extremely stoic for the most part.

Some say I'm grumpy and I can be, especially mornings but that's not my overall mood.

It is no secret I dislike too much positivity along with overly negative. I prefer to see balance and what I can say and do is often reflective of that and not my own personal mood internally or externally.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

I’m very good at camouflaging my inner emotions to the outside world.

Reading others though; it depends on how well versed in similar obfuscation they are.

Obfuscation….what a lovely word

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I didn't think I was easy to read but I think I'm easier than I think.

I'm absolutely rubbish at reading others, but I like to think I'm a good judge of character.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on a screen can people be read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm piss easy to read it sucks sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately my facial expressions speak before I do and give a lot of my thoughts away even when I would rather it didn't

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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

"I would like to say I'm not...but I'd be lying"

Yeaaaah... you are. That's not a bad thing though. Your face is beautifully expressive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My latest piece of feedback from manager has been, the team thinks you're impossible to read

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Yeah I’m not one for the smile regardless, you can tell my mood by my face.

The mr

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I am easy when I'm relaxed and happy, I'm impossible when I'm not, showing emotions in tense situations when I was younger, was dangerous. So it's a learned behaviour I excel at

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Yes, yes and yes.

You’re right. That was an easy one!

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By *iss_Juicy79Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yes my face and eyes always give me away I'd rather be harder to read to keep some mystery though

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I think so... I have the opposite of a poker face. What is that?

Mrs TMN x

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By *apidaryMan
over a year ago

Chipping Norton

Varies with engagement. Often, easy to read and good at reading. But like so much in life it's situation specific; in other circumstances it can go wrong in both directions.

Would prefer to be more legible. Somewhere Jane Austen talks of one of her heroes having an open countenance. There's something emotionally honest about being frankly on display like that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No idea is my answer to all three questions

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By *lmost TouchingMan
over a year ago

Wherever I lay my hat.

If you want to make some money, play poker with me…

Ever seen the clip of Buzz Aldrin reacting to Donald Trump speech… I just can’t keep a cool demeanour

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

I'm very difficult to read and with a dry sense of humour that's not always a good thing

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"Let's keep it easy.

Are you easy to read? Do people pick up on your mood easily? Are you good at reading others? "

I'll try.

If reading means analysing and working me out. No

If it means trying to understand me and empathise. Yes

I am good at reading others, but I never assume to know a person's mind better than they do. I ask and check my understanding.

I offer openness and hope for the same in return. I am not interested in relationships where that quality does not exist.

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple
over a year ago

Debauchery

I immediately felt that yes, I am but I'm not sure that's true on reflection. I wear my emotions as a jacket, you see the outside layer clear as day. I share the style, the colour and fabric with all who want to notice. My underwear are my true feelings. You might occasionally glimpse a bra strap, a hint of lacey knicker but unless we're close you'll rarely see the full set...

That saying, recently people have said they saw my knickers when I thought I was only showing my coat... so who knows! *shrug emoji

Cherry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I can sometimes be very easy to read. I have one of those faces that usually gives away what I'm thinking. Especially in meetings at work!

However other times I can be incredibly guarded.

When it comes to others I think I'm quire perceptive but sadly I'm still misled at times.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

See my feedback. Someone said "I wear my heart on the sleeve". Don't hide anything is my motto.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not all the time.

I think I'm quite good at reading others. If I have a interest in you I'll try and work you out.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

You can read my hips…

I’m a back row forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who the fuck knows at this point

I’m sure lots of people on here think they can read me like a book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or did you mean a read like a diss, OP

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By *uke_silverMan
over a year ago

London

I want to say yes to both (being read and reading), but empirical evidence suggests otherwise, so no. I try to compensate with speech instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.No.Yes

I may come out in a big print version, but I'm not sure it will help..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm soooooo easy to read. I'm an open book and wear my heart on my sleeve.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I think I'm fairly transparent.

I'm 99.5% of the time super chirpy at work. So when people ask how I am and I respond negatively, they haven't known what to say/do

I will always discuss my mood, but not necessarily why I'm in that mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You tell me?

I've been described as an enigma and guarded a few times.

Sometimes I think I couldn't be any easier to read, other times I think people really don't get me or my dry sense of humour.

Truth is I can't tell how others read me.

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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

"I think I'm easy enough to read generally speaking, the difficulty probably comes in whether my sarcasm is annoyance, friendly banter, or an attempt at getting into your pants

As for reading other people, I need extra large font and a reading light. I'm fucking awful at it

LvM"

I always read it as friendly banter if that's any help?

You learn people over time don't you? Their mannerisms. What their intent is, along with their words. Having a reading light isn't always a bad thing.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

In real life I think you will find me to be easy to read. I can’t be bothered hiding emotions anymore.

Behind the keyboard - who knows what mood anyone is in? It is pretty much impossible to say.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I think I'm easy enough to read generally speaking, the difficulty probably comes in whether my sarcasm is annoyance, friendly banter, or an attempt at getting into your pants

As for reading other people, I need extra large font and a reading light. I'm fucking awful at it

LvM

I always read it as friendly banter if that's any help?

You learn people over time don't you? Their mannerisms. What their intent is, along with their words. Having a reading light isn't always a bad thing.

Sorry, I'll be more clear in future. I would 100%, frfr, no cap, like to do the sex with you Mels

That is true, brand new shiny people do put me a little on did because I don't know how they tick yet, and I'm worried of coming off too weird or too much of a dick

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm very easy to read. What you see is what you get kind of thing.

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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago

"You tell me?

I've been described as an enigma and guarded a few times.

Sometimes I think I couldn't be any easier to read, other times I think people really don't get me or my dry sense of humour.

Truth is I can't tell how others read me.

Honestly? I think you're guarded to a certain extent and when you're comfortable you're happier showing more of yourself. Lots of people are like that, it's not a deep analysis of your psyche don't worry.

I think I'm finding it easier to read you recently. Like a little shift where we both understand each other a bit more. I don't think you ever know how others read you unless you ask them directly. And even then it's so quick to change from biases both positive and negative. I like people asking me questions, even if they're of the rhetorical persuasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, not all the time.

I think I'm quite good at reading others. If I have a interest in you I'll try and work you out.

Where I'm a wears his heart on his sleeve kind of guy, I hide nothing, if I like you I'll tell you, if I don't like you, you'll know quickly

Working others out I'm the same as F in that respect

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