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By *apnDom OP   Man
over a year ago

London

I just don't get it.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

What are we like, eh?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Women.

The enigma that keeps on giving.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Sweeping generalisation

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Women.

The enigma that keeps on giving. "

Don't worry, apparently we're getting fixed on that other thread, so that's all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does it matter is the better question

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

Its a fab conundrum.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

Probably the same reason they keep getting new shoes

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Probably the same reason they keep getting new shoes "

Shoes

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
over a year ago

Beverley

The bloody bastards, eh!

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

The same reason we need new handbags and shoes....when I work out the reason I'll let you know. I just like new bags and shoes

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By *apnDom OP   Man
over a year ago

London

I don't understand the reactions? Are you saying guys do it all the time, too?

It doesn't have to matter for me to wonder about why. Like, it doesn't matter why the last second of a really vibrant sunset flashes green before completely disappearing, but it still made me wonder why that is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand the reactions? Are you saying guys do it all the time, too?

It doesn't have to matter for me to wonder about why. Like, it doesn't matter why the last second of a really vibrant sunset flashes green before completely disappearing, but it still made me wonder why that is. "

Men do it as well

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By *apnDom OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"I don't understand the reactions? Are you saying guys do it all the time, too?

It doesn't have to matter for me to wonder about why. Like, it doesn't matter why the last second of a really vibrant sunset flashes green before completely disappearing, but it still made me wonder why that is.

Men do it as well "

Okay, maybe not just women then. Still puzzled about the possible reasons?

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Damnit. Does this declassify me as a woman now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The same reason we need new handbags and shoes....when I work out the reason I'll let you know. I just like new bags and shoes "

Wait, is this not your first profile

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

It's to get rid of the mountain of verifications so their summary doesn't make them look like shlaaags

LvM

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I see men do it all the time, there's 2 or 3 near me who seem to do it every week... but they use the same photos from 2 years ago. I guess they do it to get around blocks maybe?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Women do not constantly get new profiles. What is happening if you look closely is that they get rid of the old ones.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

The ones I notice locally are all male profiles.

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
over a year ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders


"The same reason we need new handbags and shoes....when I work out the reason I'll let you know. I just like new bags and shoes

Wait, is this not your first profile "

Shhhhhhhhht

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's to get rid of the mountain of verifications so their summary doesn't make them look like shlaaags

LvM"

Just like Kat Slater, they can leave but they always come back.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

There is a man who does it near me, same username and pics everytime and he's been 39 for the past 3 yrs I've been on here.

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By *an1978Woman
over a year ago

GONE/TIMEOUT (No DMs please)

Often they are men pretending to be women, and they delete when get blocked or banned.. or just start a new one to get fresh interest.

But round here men are forever making new profiles.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"It's to get rid of the mountain of verifications so their summary doesn't make them look like shlaaags

LvM

Just like Kat Slater, they can leave but they always come back. "

Introducing Steve (version 7.4)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

@JAG

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By *apnDom OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Okay. So we established there are men doing this. Let's establish the amounts of times I have seen women doing this, which is more than I can remember. At least 20 or so in the past year, at least whom I know of. EIther it's in the profile "new profile, verify me again" or I just recognise the same pictures.

I can see how some guys do it to go around some blocks or something, but I think this reason fits women?

So to the people on this thread you have had more than one profile: Did you all just do it to go around blocks?

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By *apnDom OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"It's to get rid of the mountain of verifications so their summary doesn't make them look like shlaaags

LvM"

Maybe the reason. Makes sense.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"It's to get rid of the mountain of verifications so their summary doesn't make them look like shlaaags

LvM

Maybe the reason. Makes sense."

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"It's to get rid of the mountain of verifications so their summary doesn't make them look like shlaaags

LvM"

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

Soooo many reasons. But I think the main is overexposure and wanting to shake off the trail of having been added to a gazillion hotlists. Like seriously, even the most average of women will be on the crosshairs of hundreds of people across the country. So basically to maintain some privacy.

But yeah men and couples also delete and rejoin. I think when you first open an account it's a high but then the realities of the fabs grind eventually make it a low. For men it's the crickets/silence and rejections, for women it's the constant selfish waffle, objectification and abuse. You set up with a specific intention and either achieve it or realise you can't achieve it or your attempts have mixed results. You get fed up and delete. A few weeks, months or years later you have recovered, processed your previous experiences and think you can do better, so you give it another go Also some profiles are very project-specific too (come fuck my slut next weekend).

A lot of people say just hide and leave it be. I've seen inactive accounts that reignite at later dates, personally I can't leave an account alone, I find it actually addictive. So I delete for a rest. Couples accounts are easier to maintain as they attract way less attention/pressure from ill-behaved people.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

To be honest I lose a lot of sleep over this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand the reactions? Are you saying guys do it all the time, too?

It doesn't have to matter for me to wonder about why. Like, it doesn't matter why the last second of a really vibrant sunset flashes green before completely disappearing, but it still made me wonder why that is.

Men do it as well

Okay, maybe not just women then. Still puzzled about the possible reasons?"

Lots of reasons, for men I can imagine it doesn't look good if they've been on here for over a year with no verifications

Maybe they were seeing someone so deleted the account and made a new one when it didn't work out

Maybe they wanted to take a break from the site and then after a week or so started to miss it

Maybe they were trying to avoid someone so deleted their account and then made a new one and blocked the other person straight away (I've done this before)

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

Oh forgot to say that lots of cheating accounts come and go (file under "project-specific" )

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"It's to get rid of the mountain of verifications so their summary doesn't make them look like shlaaags

LvM

Maybe the reason. Makes sense.

"

My bad, I forgot the /s

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay. So we established there are men doing this. Let's establish the amounts of times I have seen women doing this, which is more than I can remember. At least 20 or so in the past year, at least whom I know of. EIther it's in the profile "new profile, verify me again" or I just recognise the same pictures.

I can see how some guys do it to go around some blocks or something, but I think this reason fits women?

So to the people on this thread you have had more than one profile: Did you all just do it to go around blocks?"

There's a guy I kept blocking who kept making new accounts to get in contact with me

In the end I deleted my account and made a new one straight away and blocked his @ before he could find my new account

There are so many reasons why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"@JAG"

And Coyote Ugly!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've seen a greater proportion of men who repeatedly have new profiles, in my many years here. In 15 years, I've only had 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's to get rid of the mountain of verifications so their summary doesn't make them look like shlaaags

LvM

Just like Kat Slater, they can leave but they always come back.

Introducing Steve (version 7.4)"

Oh shit. I guess Men do do it.

. Doo doo

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"It's to get rid of the mountain of verifications so their summary doesn't make them look like shlaaags

LvM

Just like Kat Slater, they can leave but they always come back.

Introducing Steve (version 7.4)

Oh shit. I guess Men do do it.

. Doo doo "

Yep, dirty Den did it too in EastEnders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's to get rid of the mountain of verifications so their summary doesn't make them look like shlaaags

LvM

Just like Kat Slater, they can leave but they always come back.

Introducing Steve (version 7.4)

Oh shit. I guess Men do do it.

. Doo doo

Yep, dirty Den did it too in EastEnders "

How many profiles do you reckon he had

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove


"Okay. So we established there are men doing this. Let's establish the amounts of times I have seen women doing this, which is more than I can remember. At least 20 or so in the past year, at least whom I know of."

You've got men blocked so you can't know who does it more loads men's profiles saying "if you remember me verify me", lots of profiles of all genders saying "this is not my first rodeo" or "know how this works".

Oh and yes men returning often say the break was because they were in a mono relationship in-between. It's like gaps in employment history, you gotta give reasons

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove


"I've seen a greater proportion of men who repeatedly have new profiles, in my many years here. In 15 years, I've only had 1 "

There should be special badges for this

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"It's to get rid of the mountain of verifications so their summary doesn't make them look like shlaaags

LvM

Just like Kat Slater, they can leave but they always come back.

Introducing Steve (version 7.4)

Oh shit. I guess Men do do it.

. Doo doo

Yep, dirty Den did it too in EastEnders

How many profiles do you reckon he had "

DirtyDensDong killed it on here in the 80s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really wouldn't worry yourself about what anyone else is doing on here. But I can think of lots of reasons why it might happen, for starters:

They're fake profiles started by men

Too many creepy men they're trying to lose

They just pop on and off when they're horny

It's really no big deal for a woman to restart a profile - it's super easy to meet and get verified again

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Do you mean leaving and come back / starting again. Guys would do the same if it didn’t take so long to get a meet from a new profile.

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By *ojo2joWoman
over a year ago

Penclawdd


"Okay. So we established there are men doing this. Let's establish the amounts of times I have seen women doing this, which is more than I can remember. At least 20 or so in the past year, at least whom I know of. EIther it's in the profile "new profile, verify me again" or I just recognise the same pictures.

I can see how some guys do it to go around some blocks or something, but I think this reason fits women?

So to the people on this thread you have had more than one profile: Did you all just do it to go around blocks?"

1. Got a boyfriend so deleted, we split up, rejoined.

2. After a bad meet, thought wtf am I doing here, deleted, came back when missed the forums

3. To get rid of a really nice verification I left for someone who turned out to be a complete dick next time I saw him.

4. To avoid someone I blocked who repeatedly set up a new profile to find me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

- speaking for myself I keep ‘disappearing’ because my profile’s routinely targeted and suspended by admin asking me to ‘photo verify’ even though I’ve meet verifications & have been a member over 10yrs… I’ll never take a nude pic with my face visible whilst brandishing a fabswingers sign

It’s anyone’s guess as to how long this profile will last

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I thought about going in the past, but the effort of coming back is so much more for a guy and if you become single, this place is good, compared to other apps. A woman can achieve in a few months what takes a guy several years, coming off is a much bigger decision

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Soooo many reasons. But I think the main is overexposure and wanting to shake off the trail of having been added to a gazillion hotlists. Like seriously, even the most average of women will be on the crosshairs of hundreds of people across the country. So basically to maintain some privacy.

But yeah men and couples also delete and rejoin. I think when you first open an account it's a high but then the realities of the fabs grind eventually make it a low. For men it's the crickets/silence and rejections, for women it's the constant selfish waffle, objectification and abuse. You set up with a specific intention and either achieve it or realise you can't achieve it or your attempts have mixed results. You get fed up and delete. A few weeks, months or years later you have recovered, processed your previous experiences and think you can do better, so you give it another go Also some profiles are very project-specific too (come fuck my slut next weekend).

A lot of people say just hide and leave it be. I've seen inactive accounts that reignite at later dates, personally I can't leave an account alone, I find it actually addictive. So I delete for a rest. Couples accounts are easier to maintain as they attract way less attention/pressure from ill-behaved people."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't get it."

New women profiles get hounded by desperate men, desperate for fresh meat. Any meat.

Could be fake profiles started by a wanking man.

Might be hiding from someone.

Might be doing something dodgy and Admin deletes them.

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

Not my experience op, some do leave then join again. Some fakes pop up and are removed. Doesn’t seem to be just women either.

Could be that if you’re only looking for women that’s the only profiles you see?

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By *oecutterMan
over a year ago

Clonakilty


"I just don't get it."

Why do you even care?

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

Is this a thing? I sometimes see the same photos being posted, but I assumed that's just an attempt to get more fabs than last time. I've never bothered checking if the account is new too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are the worst for it

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By *ackdaw52Man
over a year ago

Chesterfield

They get overwhelmed and leave.

Then miss the constant adoration and come back.

Rinse and repeat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't get it."

You don’t need to get it.

It’s a freedom we all have. Come and go as we all please. Owe nobody any explanations behind it.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

no rules against it they can do what they want,,

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Not sure the purpose of the thread tbh

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE

Because they are driven away by the fucktards on here. They then come back and its still the same. So off they go. Can't blame them really.

Also, they don't need veris so no need to keep the old profile.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands


"- speaking for myself I keep ‘disappearing’ because my profile’s routinely targeted and suspended by admin asking me to ‘photo verify’ even though I’ve meet verifications & have been a member over 10yrs… I’ll never take a nude pic with my face visible whilst brandishing a fabswingers sign

It’s anyone’s guess as to how long this profile will last "

You don't need a nude pic with your face showing, you can use a clothed pic with your face visible.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"

So to the people on this thread you have had more than one profile: Did you all just do it to go around blocks?

There's a guy I kept blocking who kept making new accounts to get in contact with me

In the end I deleted my account and made a new one straight away and blocked his @ before he could find my new account

There are so many reasons why "

I had someone do this... but he always has the same username... so I know you block straight away. Be dangerous if he had half a brain.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"- speaking for myself I keep ‘disappearing’ because my profile’s routinely targeted and suspended by admin asking me to ‘photo verify’ even though I’ve meet verifications & have been a member over 10yrs… I’ll never take a nude pic with my face visible whilst brandishing a fabswingers sign

It’s anyone’s guess as to how long this profile will last "

You don't need to be nude

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Oops I mustn't be female as I've had this profile all my fab life.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"I just don't get it."
to confuse you, one in particular will be back soon

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I've been here for ten years and this is only my second profile ,apart from my couple one.

Both men & women do this though,shame Coyote isn't on maybe she could shed some light as she is regularly unlos.

Maybe they get bored ,they're up to no good and get caught out.

Or they get blocked by the same people all the time so leave and rejoin to get over the block.

They get pestered or regularly stood up and lose interest/faith in the site.

Some maybe fake profiles too

I only look for men so only notice men in my updates and they're are a few who regularly delete and pop back up within a week or so.

I don't know why they do it,but I wouldn't meet a profile that's constantly leaving and rejoining tbh.

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