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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What’s a turn on about my profile and what’s a turn off? What’s your ideal opening message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are both the pics you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well… as you asked….

The fact your profile states straight, but you are looking for a human/humans(all options selected) between 18 & 50 - So basically anything.

Come across as desperate and not attractive.

“Any holes a goal” springs to mind

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Pics are ok but repetitive

Absolutely no bio so nothing to comment on, I'd personally not respond to a message because your profile lacks effort.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are both the pics you?"

Yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are both the pics you?

Yeah "

So which one is an accurate representation of you now?

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Turn on - you haven't got your dick out as your main pics, that's ge uinely great and you're already ahead for that

Turn off - nothing in your bio to give any information on who you are, what you're looking for, what you like etc. You also don't explain why you can't accommodate which appears as if you're cheating

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are both the pics you?

Yeah

So which one is an accurate representation of you now? "

I fluctuate between the two depending on how many holidays I’m going on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are both the pics you?

Yeah

So which one is an accurate representation of you now?

I fluctuate between the two depending on how many holidays I’m going on "

Okay so if someone met you now would the get the bigger or smaller version?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are both the pics you?

Yeah

So which one is an accurate representation of you now?

I fluctuate between the two depending on how many holidays I’m going on

Okay so if someone met you now would the get the bigger or smaller version? "

Somewhere in between but more towards the bigger bloke. I went away for a long time in July and I’m still working it off

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Turn off - only replying to the one woman who commented on the thread.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Turn off - only replying to the one woman who commented on the thread.

Mrs "

I reply to everyone if I can. I’m on and off of here today quite a bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Turn off - only replying to the one woman who commented on the thread.

Mrs "

And I replied to a bloke too

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Turn off - only replying to the one woman who commented on the thread.

Mrs

And I replied to a bloke too "

Not on this thread, ignored the two couples.

General observation it's quite common with some men only replying to the women

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no turns on for me as I'm not looking or guys. But at least you haven't got your tinker out.

What does turn me off though, and it will probably sound harsh but stating that you've had cancer. Having had it doesn't mean people will feel sorry for you and fuck you. If people try to pull that card it makes me less inclined of wanting to go further with that person.

If it comes up in conversation then great, it's something you can expand on and talk about.

F

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's no turns on for me as I'm not looking or guys. But at least you haven't got your tinker out.

What does turn me off though, and it will probably sound harsh but stating that you've had cancer. Having had it doesn't mean people will feel sorry for you and fuck you. If people try to pull that card it makes me less inclined of wanting to go further with that person.

If it comes up in conversation then great, it's something you can expand on and talk about.

F"

Is there a prejudice against the most common deadly cellular killer in history?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's no turns on for me as I'm not looking or guys. But at least you haven't got your tinker out.

What does turn me off though, and it will probably sound harsh but stating that you've had cancer. Having had it doesn't mean people will feel sorry for you and fuck you. If people try to pull that card it makes me less inclined of wanting to go further with that person.

If it comes up in conversation then great, it's something you can expand on and talk about.

F

Is there a prejudice against the most common deadly cellular killer in history? "

No, but why do I need to know you've had it if it's just casual sex?

F

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's no turns on for me as I'm not looking or guys. But at least you haven't got your tinker out.

What does turn me off though, and it will probably sound harsh but stating that you've had cancer. Having had it doesn't mean people will feel sorry for you and fuck you. If people try to pull that card it makes me less inclined of wanting to go further with that person.

If it comes up in conversation then great, it's something you can expand on and talk about.

F

Is there a prejudice against the most common deadly cellular killer in history?

No, but why do I need to know you've had it if it's just casual sex?

F"

Why not? It’s just words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Why not? It’s just words "

To me it's unnecessary information.

F

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Why not? It’s just words

To me it's unnecessary information.

F"

Each to their own

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By *urious KittenWoman
over a year ago

Neverland

To me the fact that you can’t accommodate immediately puts me off or makes me suspicious. Also less chat about the scars. Yes you may have survived something and I take my hat off to you but that’s not really important on a profile.

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"What’s a turn on about my profile and what’s a turn off? What’s your ideal opening message? "

I'd bum you.....

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"To me the fact that you can’t accommodate immediately puts me off or makes me suspicious. Also less chat about the scars. Yes you may have survived something and I take my hat off to you but that’s not really important on a profile."

How's the sun

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"There's no turns on for me as I'm not looking or guys. But at least you haven't got your tinker out.

What does turn me off though, and it will probably sound harsh but stating that you've had cancer. Having had it doesn't mean people will feel sorry for you and fuck you. If people try to pull that card it makes me less inclined of wanting to go further with that person.

If it comes up in conversation then great, it's something you can expand on and talk about.

F

Is there a prejudice against the most common deadly cellular killer in history?

No, but why do I need to know you've had it if it's just casual sex?

F

Why not? It’s just words "

It's not just word's though, it's the motivation behind those words, and the reason behind divulging that personal indepth information about yourself

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By *urious KittenWoman
over a year ago

Neverland


"To me the fact that you can’t accommodate immediately puts me off or makes me suspicious. Also less chat about the scars. Yes you may have survived something and I take my hat off to you but that’s not really important on a profile.

How's the sun "

Absolutely scorching today. I’ll have to show you my white bits

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"What’s a turn on about my profile and what’s a turn off? What’s your ideal opening message? "

Your photos are unimaginative

Your bio repetitive

You do explain why you can't accommodate

You've no dick pics

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)


"To me the fact that you can’t accommodate immediately puts me off or makes me suspicious. Also less chat about the scars. Yes you may have survived something and I take my hat off to you but that’s not really important on a profile.

How's the sun

Absolutely scorching today. I’ll have to show you my white bits "

I'll be waiting for these white bits

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To me the fact that you can’t accommodate immediately puts me off or makes me suspicious. Also less chat about the scars. Yes you may have survived something and I take my hat off to you but that’s not really important on a profile.

How's the sun

Absolutely scorching today. I’ll have to show you my white bits "

Where the sun doesn’t shine

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