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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do they make you feel?

When they suddenly ignore your messages? Or they suddenly have time for you again?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Depends on the dynamic and the relationship.

If it's safely and happily consented to as a particularly flighty connection with sudden ups and downs, I'm okay with that as long as that's an energy I can feel with them.

If something has been established as a more concrete and stable connection and that suddenly goes weird, that's when I struggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They got what they wanted and moved on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They got what they wanted and moved on. "

Holes init

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I thought that this was a question about electrons moving between energy levels within atoms, releasing or absorbing photons. Producing different colours for different energy gaps... polychromatic in fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it's someone I care about, it hurts like a mother fucker !

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

When it's springtime and the sap is rising I always get a message or three from some long-forgotten connection ebb and flow, wax and wane, remembered and forgotten.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

They make me feel like an option, not a priority.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Folk waste their energy on here and they don’t even know it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s fine. I don’t expect people to always give me their 100%, just as I don’t give them mine

There’s many things in life that take energy, it’s selfish to assume you deserve all of someone’s at all times

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I hardly ever think about it. When they have time they have time. If they don’t want to carry on the conversation then fair enough but life gets in the way sometimes

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By *xelciscoMan
over a year ago

Reading/bracknell

It used to wind me up and make me anxious until I realised that for every breath in there is a breath out, and a day for every night.

Now I give the benefit of the doubt.

If it becomes unexpectedly regular and cold, I challenge them why so, and won't tolerate manipulations.

That I ram in or walk out.

Peace.

Axel

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