FabSwingers.com forum: Tell me something the good Fab men do

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not the ones who post 100 cock pics or send abusive messages or share pics and messages of other Fab members.

The decent men... tell me about them.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

We help the vulnerable across the road……

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t send penis-post on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ew. I hoped this was a man bashing thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners maketh the man

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By *onderWomanWlvWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Accept a no without question, without pleading, without an attempt at persuasion.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

They know the difference between “discreet”and “discrete”.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Not the ones who post 100 cock pics or send abusive messages or share pics and messages of other Fab members.

The decent men... tell me about them.

I for one compliment women I'm here to talk and help can make them laughter empower them .I'm also extremely good with my hands if they wanted personal attention . and come with testimonials .

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

They talk to people about ordinary things with no reference to sex at all.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"We help the vulnerable across the road…… "

^^ by assisting with one hand on a butt cheek and the other on one of their tits

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"We help the vulnerable across the road……

^^ by assisting with one hand on a butt cheek and the other on one of their tits "

I thought you meant 'by carrying them like a bowling ball'.....

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"We help the vulnerable across the road……

^^ by assisting with one hand on a butt cheek and the other on one of their tits

I thought you meant 'by carrying them like a bowling ball'.....

That method is an option as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wank over people's wives. Quite often

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

South East & Europe

We compliment breasts better than mere non-fab men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They know the difference between “discreet”and “discrete”."

This is a very rare breed

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"They know the difference between “discreet”and “discrete”."

. I think if they knew what 'discrete ' means it would be the last thing they'd put.

"Why can't I get meets?"

"Your profile literally says you want to be separate"

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Chat normally without sex talk, treat people like humans and not objects, generally overall can hold a conversation and don't think any holes a goal.

Mrs

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Bless, it's truly a minefield for them. Some of them try so hard to tailor a message to you from your profile that it's painfully dull. They try though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bless, it's truly a minefield for them. Some of them try so hard to tailor a message to you from your profile that it's painfully dull. They try though. "

I really did try with that message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not the ones who post 100 cock pics or send abusive messages or share pics and messages of other Fab members.

The decent men... tell me about them.

We ask what u want

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"They talk to people about ordinary things with no reference to sex at all. "

It feels like a carry on movie sometimes, after a while.

What film do you want to see?

Oh I'd give you a good SEEING to.

so I'll pick any.

Yeah you take charge, I love it.

For fuck sake - give it a rest

You'll need a rest when I'm done with you.

Yeah what's sexy and hangs up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bless, it's truly a minefield for them. Some of them try so hard to tailor a message to you from your profile that it's painfully dull. They try though. "

Dam it… been busted lol

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"They talk to people about ordinary things with no reference to sex at all. "

Indeed my lady of the forum moderation .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We help the vulnerable across the road…… "

And keep the bin areas clear by Aldi

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

We drink coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They take pics of their penis over toilet bowls, to let people know there's 101 different uses for a cock

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"We drink coffee"

I drink tea sadly green tea its mankey.

But lot of orange squash .

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"They talk to people about ordinary things with no reference to sex at all.

It feels like a carry on movie sometimes, after a while.

What film do you want to see?

Oh I'd give you a good SEEING to.

so I'll pick any.

Yeah you take charge, I love it.

For fuck sake - give it a rest

You'll need a rest when I'm done with you.

Yeah what's sexy and hangs up..."

I'm laughing but it does feel like that sometimes.

I occasionally wonder if it's peculiar to me finding men much more attractive when they're talking about normal stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bless, it's truly a minefield for them. Some of them try so hard to tailor a message to you from your profile that it's painfully dull. They try though. "

The message or the profile?

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"They talk to people about ordinary things with no reference to sex at all.

It feels like a carry on movie sometimes, after a while.

What film do you want to see?

Oh I'd give you a good SEEING to.

so I'll pick any.

Yeah you take charge, I love it.

For fuck sake - give it a rest

You'll need a rest when I'm done with you.

Yeah what's sexy and hangs up...

I'm laughing but it does feel like that sometimes.

I occasionally wonder if it's peculiar to me finding men much more attractive when they're talking about normal stuff.

I'm shocked my lady of the forum moderation

Would revive such messages.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

We can wash your hair for you while we're sharing a shower

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"They talk to people about ordinary things with no reference to sex at all.

It feels like a carry on movie sometimes, after a while.

What film do you want to see?

Oh I'd give you a good SEEING to.

so I'll pick any.

Yeah you take charge, I love it.

For fuck sake - give it a rest

You'll need a rest when I'm done with you.

Yeah what's sexy and hangs up...

I'm laughing but it does feel like that sometimes.

I occasionally wonder if it's peculiar to me finding men much more attractive when they're talking about normal stuff.

I'm shocked my lady of the forum moderation

Would revive such messages."

Or even receive.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’m taking notes here.

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By *ortherner81Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

"They know the difference between “discreet”and “discrete”."

I think this is a problem common to all genders

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Bless, it's truly a minefield for them. Some of them try so hard to tailor a message to you from your profile that it's painfully dull. They try though.

The message or the profile?"

Both probably

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Consistent, kind, respectful and book hotel rooms

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"They talk to people about ordinary things with no reference to sex at all.

It feels like a carry on movie sometimes, after a while.

What film do you want to see?

Oh I'd give you a good SEEING to.

so I'll pick any.

Yeah you take charge, I love it.

For fuck sake - give it a rest

You'll need a rest when I'm done with you.

Yeah what's sexy and hangs up...

I'm laughing but it does feel like that sometimes.

I occasionally wonder if it's peculiar to me finding men much more attractive when they're talking about normal stuff.

I'm shocked my lady of the forum moderation

Would revive such messages."

you'd be surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They make me think, they make me laugh, they make me wet when they kiss me, they even make me cum and they leave me wanting more.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"They talk to people about ordinary things with no reference to sex at all.

It feels like a carry on movie sometimes, after a while.

What film do you want to see?

Oh I'd give you a good SEEING to.

so I'll pick any.

Yeah you take charge, I love it.

For fuck sake - give it a rest

You'll need a rest when I'm done with you.

Yeah what's sexy and hangs up...

I'm laughing but it does feel like that sometimes.

I occasionally wonder if it's peculiar to me finding men much more attractive when they're talking about normal stuff.

I'm shocked my lady of the forum moderation

Would revive such messages.

you'd be surprised

I know there be knobs afoot in this parish

Sadly spoil it for the few good men here

Sorry couldn't resist in fact some can't handle the truth .

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"They talk to people about ordinary things with no reference to sex at all.

It feels like a carry on movie sometimes, after a while.

What film do you want to see?

Oh I'd give you a good SEEING to.

so I'll pick any.

Yeah you take charge, I love it.

For fuck sake - give it a rest

You'll need a rest when I'm done with you.

Yeah what's sexy and hangs up...

I'm laughing but it does feel like that sometimes.

I occasionally wonder if it's peculiar to me finding men much more attractive when they're talking about normal stuff.

I'm shocked my lady of the forum moderation

Would revive such messages.

you'd be surprised

I know there be knobs afoot in this parish

Sadly spoil it for the few good men here

Sorry couldn't resist in fact some can't handle the truth .

It's fine, the few who do it mean well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not the ones who post 100 cock pics or send abusive messages or share pics and messages of other Fab members.

The decent men... tell me about them.

Give up their seat on the bud for a parent and child

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They call out other men for bad behaviour on the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They call out other men for bad behaviour on the forum "

White knighting

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By *rownhotnessMan
over a year ago

Cheshire/London/Midlands

Give their seat up on the tube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They follow rule 1 and 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They call out other men for bad behaviour on the forum

White knighting"

Simping

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"They know the difference between “discreet”and “discrete”."

Preach!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're respectful , interested in you not just your vagina and interesting.

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

They Don’t type I want to bend you over on the first message

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"We help the vulnerable across the road……

^^ by assisting with one hand on a butt cheek and the other on one of their tits "

Isn't that a sheryl crow lyric?

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

We can put up shelves and take out the wheelie bins.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

We know the Mexican flick

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

They check in on you to see how you are.

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By *uckyFarmersCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

The very few that are respectful to both parties in a couple and talk to both of them and not single out the lady...

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"They check in on you to see how you are. "

Hey Crimson, hope you're well?x

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

"They talk to people about ordinary things with no reference to sex at all.

It feels like a carry on movie sometimes, after a while.

What film do you want to see?

Oh I'd give you a good SEEING to.

so I'll pick any.

Yeah you take charge, I love it.

For fuck sake - give it a rest

You'll need a rest when I'm done with you.

Yeah what's sexy and hangs up...

I'm laughing but it does feel like that sometimes.

I occasionally wonder if it's peculiar to me finding men much more attractive when they're talking about normal stuff.

Well, there is so much "normal" stuff to talk about

talking about "one" subject all the time is very likely going to get boring and repetitive.

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London

"They check in on you to see how you are. "

They overlook people not liking coconut.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"They check in on you to see how you are.

They overlook people not liking coconut."

They provide Minstrels on tap.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

We get women messaging us about a meet. Joke ...we join in with constructive forum/cam room chat not expecting anything in return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always open the door for you and walk next to the road when walking with you down the street

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They offer an arm to hold on to through the difficult times whether it be because you did a marathon or because you’re wearing 5” heels.

They make you laugh and smile first and foremost.

Their kisses leave you wanting more. At the same time they don’t demand more.

They listen to you. Truly.

They are observant and remember your little likes and quirks.

They surprise you with the simplest of things that make you smile just to make your day happy.

Distance doesn’t stop them from consistently making time for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They make the assholes look shitter.

*I don’t know, I’m trying to relate this to what I normally hear about the assholes make the good ones stand out.

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

I like to think of myself as a good man, but then I am somewhat biased and in no position to judge.

I do my best, I have a helpful and polite nature but never been one to blow my own trumpet.

Some people will like me, others won't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They talk to people about ordinary things with no reference to sex at all.

It feels like a carry on movie sometimes, after a while.

What film do you want to see?

Oh I'd give you a good SEEING to.

so I'll pick any.

Yeah you take charge, I love it.

For fuck sake - give it a rest

You'll need a rest when I'm done with you.

Yeah what's sexy and hangs up..."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We drink coffee"

Hot

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

We supply biscuits.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They make the assholes look shitter.

*I don’t know, I’m trying to relate this to what I normally hear about the assholes make the good ones stand out. "

Good point

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I hear that they never grumble, take a “no” with grace and are genuinely happy for all of the “arseholes” that get to meet people only to be lambasted in a status message a few days later. Because irony is delicious. They also own every copy of Razzle from 1984 to date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We behave like men should. Respectful, honest, kind and by god we call out the bad attitudes, language and behaviour when we see it..

Tell you what we also do.. we bring our sons up to be good and respectful so we can allow each others daughter to walk home at night without fear

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We behave like men should. Respectful, honest, kind and by god we call out the bad attitudes, language and behaviour when we see it..

Tell you what we also do.. we bring our sons up to be good and respectful so we can allow each others daughter to walk home at night without fear"

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By *ifeIsntSeriousMan
over a year ago

Rugby

Turn up to meets

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By *imionMan
over a year ago

redditch

That's wicked advice thank u

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By *imionMan
over a year ago

redditch

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By *imionMan
over a year ago

redditch

"They talk to people about ordinary things with no reference to sex at all.

It feels like a carry on movie sometimes, after a while.

What film do you want to see?

Oh I'd give you a good SEEING to.

so I'll pick any.

Yeah you take charge, I love it.

For fuck sake - give it a rest

You'll need a rest when I'm done with you.

Yeah what's sexy and hangs up...

I'm laughing but it does feel like that sometimes.

I occasionally wonder if it's peculiar to me finding men much more attractive when they're talking about normal stuff.

I'm shocked my lady of the forum moderation

Would revive such messages.

you'd be surprised

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love the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Know the difference between white knighting and calling out shitty behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Know the difference between white knighting and calling out shitty behaviour "

There’s no difference

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

We don't attempt to curry favour by White knighting in the hopes of getting some sexual compensation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't attempt to curry favour by White knighting in the hopes of getting some sexual compensation."

I find it hilarious people think that women are not capable of seeing through this

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"We drink coffee

Hot

Not too hot else you'll burn the milk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Know the difference between white knighting and calling out shitty behaviour

There’s no difference

Yes there fucking is Steve

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"We don't attempt to curry favour by White knighting in the hopes of getting some sexual compensation.

I find it hilarious people think that women are not capable of seeing through this"

Yet it happens hourly.

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By *impcuckMan
over a year ago

edge of taunton

pleasing my wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Know the difference between white knighting and calling out shitty behaviour

There’s no difference

Yes there fucking is Steve "

We only do it all for the sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Know the difference between white knighting and calling out shitty behaviour

There’s no difference

Yes there fucking is Steve

We only do it all for the sex"

No you don’t Steve

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

Rescue kittens from trees, amd Puppies from flooded drainage culverts

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"They talk to people about ordinary things with no reference to sex at all.

It feels like a carry on movie sometimes, after a while.

What film do you want to see?

Oh I'd give you a good SEEING to.

so I'll pick any.

Yeah you take charge, I love it.

For fuck sake - give it a rest

You'll need a rest when I'm done with you.

Yeah what's sexy and hangs up...

I'm laughing but it does feel like that sometimes.

I occasionally wonder if it's peculiar to me finding men much more attractive when they're talking about normal stuff.

It is certainly not only you. It is the same for me with women.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

They wipe up after you.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

We go to the shop for our other halfs and buy sanitary napkins when they are not feeling upto leaving the house and suprise them with a box of chocolates and flowers and a complimentary foot rub.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"They wipe up after you."

At least get up and bring the tissues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Know the difference between white knighting and calling out shitty behaviour

There’s no difference

Yes there fucking is Steve

We only do it all for the sex"

calling out shitty behaviour and educating and raising awareness is not white knighting. teaching our sons to be better is not white knighting. it what wee should all be doing

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By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

We operate in the background humble honest struggling but yet we carry on being polite taking our ls on the chin and try again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Know the difference between white knighting and calling out shitty behaviour

There’s no difference

Yes there fucking is Steve

We only do it all for the sex

calling out shitty behaviour and educating and raising awareness is not white knighting. teaching our sons to be better is not white knighting. it what wee should all be doing"

See, he knows

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"We go to the shop for our other halfs and buy sanitary napkins when they are not feeling upto leaving the house and suprise them with a box of chocolates and flowers and a complimentary foot rub."

Awwww

I’ve sent lucoxade and a Barbie magazine using Uber Eats when they are Ill in bed 4000 miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Know the difference between white knighting and calling out shitty behaviour

There’s no difference

Yes there fucking is Steve

We only do it all for the sex

calling out shitty behaviour and educating and raising awareness is not white knighting. teaching our sons to be better is not white knighting. it what wee should all be doing"

Fuck that I’m not doing all of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Know the difference between white knighting and calling out shitty behaviour

There’s no difference

Yes there fucking is Steve

We only do it all for the sex

No you don’t Steve "

I could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Know the difference between white knighting and calling out shitty behaviour

There’s no difference

Yes there fucking is Steve

We only do it all for the sex

No you don’t Steve

I could "

Yeah but you don’t coz you’re not a dick

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

They bring post sex snacks without being prompted, sleep in the wet spot and offer to drive most of the time we go out. I can drive I just don’t ever want to because I’m terrible at parking and don’t appreciate having an audience in my car for it

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Know the difference between white knighting and calling out shitty behaviour

There’s no difference

Yes there fucking is Steve

We only do it all for the sex

calling out shitty behaviour and educating and raising awareness is not white knighting. teaching our sons to be better is not white knighting. it what wee should all be doing"

Men on here with shitty behaviour are unlikely to be interested in being educated on how to respect women via good guys in a sex forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh the lovely men on Fab...

Well I've been fortunate enough to have some great conversations, we just talk about everything and anything!

I love the honesty, the laughter,banter the advice.

I've really connected with some people purely based on conversation and I love this!

This is an attraction in itself.

I salute the wonderful guys of Fab

As for the rest....close the door behind you please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They call out other men for bad behaviour on the forum

White knighting

Simping "

Women are capable of spotting the difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Know the difference between white knighting and calling out shitty behaviour

There’s no difference

Yes there fucking is Steve

We only do it all for the sex

calling out shitty behaviour and educating and raising awareness is not white knighting. teaching our sons to be better is not white knighting. it what wee should all be doing

Men on here with shitty behaviour are unlikely to be interested in being educated on how to respect women via good guys in a sex forum.

Doesn't mean we shouldn't try here and irl.. it is something I feel very strongly about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Know the difference between white knighting and calling out shitty behaviour

There’s no difference

Yes there fucking is Steve

We only do it all for the sex

calling out shitty behaviour and educating and raising awareness is not white knighting. teaching our sons to be better is not white knighting. it what wee should all be doing

Men on here with shitty behaviour are unlikely to be interested in being educated on how to respect women via good guys in a sex forum.

You're missing the point...

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

"Ahh the lovely men on Fab...

Well I've been fortunate enough to have some great conversations, we just talk about everything and anything!

I love the honesty, the laughter,banter the advice.

I've really connected with some people purely based on conversation and I love this!

This is an attraction in itself.

I salute the wonderful guys of Fab

As for the rest....close the door behind you please "

You put this way better than I could!

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"Rescue kittens from trees, amd Puppies from flooded drainage culverts "

Can I add ducklings from a drain. Nice guys(me) do this too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Know the difference between white knighting and calling out shitty behaviour

There’s no difference

Yes there fucking is Steve

We only do it all for the sex

calling out shitty behaviour and educating and raising awareness is not white knighting. teaching our sons to be better is not white knighting. it what wee should all be doing"

Sounds like simping to me

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Rescue kittens from trees, amd Puppies from flooded drainage culverts

Can I add ducklings from a drain. Nice guys(me) do this too."

Add baby deer from canals if you like

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Simping "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahh the lovely men on Fab...

Well I've been fortunate enough to have some great conversations, we just talk about everything and anything!

I love the honesty, the laughter,banter the advice.

I've really connected with some people purely based on conversation and I love this!

This is an attraction in itself.

I salute the wonderful guys of Fab

As for the rest....close the door behind you please

You put this way better than I could!

Thanks Daizy! I surprise myself at times

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Know the difference between white knighting and calling out shitty behaviour

There’s no difference

Yes there fucking is Steve

We only do it all for the sex

calling out shitty behaviour and educating and raising awareness is not white knighting. teaching our sons to be better is not white knighting. it what wee should all be doing

Men on here with shitty behaviour are unlikely to be interested in being educated on how to respect women via good guys in a sex forum.

Doesn't mean we shouldn't try here and irl.. it is something I feel very strongly about"

IRL with your male friends & kids is very different. If you feel that strongly do a post for them , offer to mentor them or something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sharing is caring

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Know the difference between white knighting and calling out shitty behaviour

There’s no difference

Yes there fucking is Steve

We only do it all for the sex

calling out shitty behaviour and educating and raising awareness is not white knighting. teaching our sons to be better is not white knighting. it what wee should all be doing"

Your sons are on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Know the difference between white knighting and calling out shitty behaviour

There’s no difference

Yes there fucking is Steve

We only do it all for the sex

calling out shitty behaviour and educating and raising awareness is not white knighting. teaching our sons to be better is not white knighting. it what wee should all be doing

Your sons are on here? "

You see herein lies the issue what I've written should get nothing butacceptnace and acknowledgement.. instead what we see is ridicule, jest and quite frankly dickheads thinking its simping.. those that feel the need to do any of those.. you gents are the problem with what's going on today..

And yes this has transcended the original post sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Know the difference between white knighting and calling out shitty behaviour

There’s no difference

Yes there fucking is Steve

We only do it all for the sex

calling out shitty behaviour and educating and raising awareness is not white knighting. teaching our sons to be better is not white knighting. it what wee should all be doing

Sounds like simping to me "

That's a you problem then

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

They know when to vector away from decent to filthy, when she needs it

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Remove spiders from the room

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

White knighting disempowers and disregards a person's autonomy.

Does that person want your help? How do you know your action is something they would approve of?

Masters tools: You win the battle but nothing changes - it's still the same power dynamic.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"Remove spiders from the room

But does not kill them, they are our friends

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"Remove spiders from the room

But does not kill them, they are our friends "

Yes, fair. I just don’t want to see them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"White knighting disempowers and disregards a person's autonomy.

Does that person want your help? How do you know your action is something they would approve of?

Masters tools: You win the battle but nothing changes - it's still the same power dynamic."

They can handle themselves

Certainly don’t need a simping knight to the rescue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are not afraid to say they are bi or into TV's.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"Know the difference between white knighting and calling out shitty behaviour

There’s no difference

Yes there fucking is Steve

We only do it all for the sex

calling out shitty behaviour and educating and raising awareness is not white knighting. teaching our sons to be better is not white knighting. it what wee should all be doing

Your sons are on here?

And yes this has transcended the original post sorry."

Just wondered why you felt the need to introduce children to the discussion. No need for all that aggression. Carry on as you were. Clearly the concept of adults having opinions doesn't sit well with you.

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

"They are not afraid to say they are bi or into TV's."

Would actually enjoy us bumping into you for a bit of naughty fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't know...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The good ones. They eventually leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wipe from front to back

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"The good ones. They eventually leave.

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

We just blend into the background and fade away.....

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"We just blend into the background and fade away....."

Re record not fade away

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

They know that simping NEVER leads to sex

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By *r CracknMan
over a year ago

Somerset

They put the milk in after the teabag has done its job.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Not the ones who post 100 cock pics or send abusive messages or share pics and messages of other Fab members.

The decent men... tell me about them.

We go without, the ladies love a bad boy

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The good ones. They eventually leave.

The good ones go. The good ones go. If you wait too long. - Drake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not the ones who post 100 cock pics or send abusive messages or share pics and messages of other Fab members.

The decent men... tell me about them.

We go without, the ladies love a bad boy

lol "

Too right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don’t disrespect women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Self discipline, respect and cardio.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

They actually give a shit.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

They don't treat women like fools and try to flatter them into bed.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

"They put the milk in after the teabag has done its job."

Only anarchists put the milk in first.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

They Tbag the lady first then ask her where she wants the milk

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By *aucasian GhandiMan
over a year ago

from my dad's left nut (Warwick)

"Remove spiders from the room

Thrown right out the window

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

Provide face pics on request, when rejected done have a hissy fit, don't spam ladies with message after message

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

God loves a trier.

Sadly, nobody else seems to

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By *r CracknMan
over a year ago

Somerset

"They put the milk in after the teabag has done its job.

Only anarchists put the milk in first. "

You could only imagine what other wild things they do.

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By *.T.Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I would imagine they don't think themselves as part of the "decent men collective". They just crack on with life not being a dick.

They also don't declare they are a decent guy who isn't like the rest of fab.

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By *oecutterMan
over a year ago

Clonakilty

We save puppies and kittens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send a normal first message without sex talk and refer to things written in our profiles. Amazing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crap... goes to check his spelling!!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

They make me smile when they message me.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

"I would imagine they don't think themselves as part of the "decent men collective". They just crack on with life not being a dick.

They also don't declare they are a decent guy who isn't like the rest of fab."

But if you don't tell everyone how will they know?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

We treat people how they'd expect to be treated

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We treat people how they'd expect to be treated

You're often a really helpful good egg in your posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not the ones who post 100 cock pics or send abusive messages or share pics and messages of other Fab members.

The decent men... tell me about them.

Hard to find

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
over a year ago

Essex

It’s not so much what they “do” but who they are.

It can’t be faked.

It’s a genuine like and respect for women. Can treat you like a lady and a goddess. But make you feel like a (insert word of choice) …

**And it’s not white knighting or simping. (Well for some of the lip service guys it is).**

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, they make me smile in a genuine way. I know of a few gems who are in my box from time to time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are just nice, friendly and normal

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

"They talk to people about ordinary things with no reference to sex at all.

It feels like a carry on movie sometimes, after a while.

What film do you want to see?

Oh I'd give you a good SEEING to.

so I'll pick any.

Yeah you take charge, I love it.

For fuck sake - give it a rest

You'll need a rest when I'm done with you.

Yeah what's sexy and hangs up...

I'm laughing but it does feel like that sometimes.

I occasionally wonder if it's peculiar to me finding men much more attractive when they're talking about normal stuff.

Exactly - bloody inflation down but interest still rising … thats counterintuitive unlike my cock which is inflated and rising at an alarming rate… d’oh … so close!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They take pics of their penis over toilet bowls, to let people know there's 101 different uses for a cock

This made me cry with laughter.

Or have manky bed sheets & piles of dirty laundry around yet state CLEAN on their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I change light bulbs, I’m no good so don’t tar me with that but the big light in the living room works now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe I'm a decent man and have never been abusive!!

I'm honest & don't pester- such a shame that decent men get a shite name due to minority!

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By *yreGuy99Man
over a year ago

Somewhere in Moria

There's a lot of good men on here. We just get outnumbered by the idiots and tend to be mostly labelled the same.

A real shame to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I change light bulbs, I’m no good so don’t tar me with that but the big light in the living room works now "

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

You never see one pop up in the middle of a thread ( that has no context to the post ) and say “ horny now if anyone’s free “

The mr

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

We exist, therefore we are.

We don't need to tell anyone.

They know who we are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is my favourite

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By *AABMan
over a year ago

Not far

What we do comes from what we are. We don’t hold extreme views, we live and let live, and we believe people are free to be what they want to be, and we are not judgemental of those who are different or who are into different things. But perhaps most importantly here, we don’t turn into a complete dick just because we are on social sex site.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"We exist, therefore we are.

Yep. That's it pretty much.

I don't think the "good" men of Fab are perfect - they're human. Prone to making mistakes, having flaws etc. And that's absolutely fine.

As long as you're not abusive towards others, chances are you're probably a good man.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Hang up wet towels.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Get consent forms signed and witnessed.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

They message and ask if I'm OK if I say I've had a shitty day x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Get consent forms signed and witnessed. "

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By *mf123Man
over a year ago

with one foot out the door

We stay out of the way

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Floss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They end threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good Fab Men Do, everyone.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

Read and understand all of the profile so they can pass the theory test before getting to the practical.

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over a year ago

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