FabSwingers.com forum: A fabulous Thursday sickly positive thread

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Spent more time in recent weeks focusing on the positives. The people that love me as I am rather than hating myself and wishing I looked different. Loving yourself is hard right? On a site like this the knock backs used feel like you weren’t attractive enough right? Like if you looked different your luck would change. But then you focus on those that do like you rather than those that don’t. And you fell on top of the world. Like you’re attractive. Because someone sees beauty in you.

I have learned in the last year, instead of what if they don’t like me, or what if I’m not good enough or what if it doesn’t work out, to consider instead- what if they do? What if I am? What if it does?

My wish today is for you to message someone (as a friend or more)! Take a leap!

Worst case you embarrass yourself. I’ve done that millions of times and I’m only 26. So I guess I’ll do it a million more times. And people will forget.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

TL:DR- message someone you’ve been too shook to

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Are you basically ripping off my thread, Pickle?

I am shook.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you basically ripping off my thread, Pickle?

I am shook.

Mrs TMN x"

Am I? I don’t think so but if I am- please ignore and go to Mrs TMN’s

I don’t want the drama today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shook

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Shook "

Shooketh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Shook "
you ain’t a crook, son. You’re just a shook one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shook

Shooketh"

Shaken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lovely sentiment and good solid advice to anyone who has low self worth.

We ALL look different, and we will feel different about ourselves and we should only love ourselves first.

My personal views on myself is not about my looks anymore. I only feel good about myself if someone I like says they think I’m nice. That makes me feel wanted and fancied again.

I have taken the leap of faith a few times in here, more often than not I’ve been put in my place, and found I’m must be waaaay out of their league when they don’t reply … …. It’s a joke.

But should we not talk to people because we think we won’t be their type? Nah, like you said op, go for it. It’s never going to happen if you don’t try.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Are you basically ripping off my thread, Pickle?

I am shook.

Mrs TMN x

Am I? I don’t think so but if I am- please ignore and go to Mrs TMN’s

I don’t want the drama today"

You know me. Allllll about the drama.

Good thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you basically ripping off my thread, Pickle?

I am shook.

Mrs TMN x

Am I? I don’t think so but if I am- please ignore and go to Mrs TMN’s

I don’t want the drama today

You know me. Allllll about the drama.

Good thread

I literally don’t know you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A lovely sentiment and good solid advice to anyone who has low self worth.

We ALL look different, and we will feel different about ourselves and we should only love ourselves first.

My personal views on myself is not about my looks anymore. I only feel good about myself if someone I like says they think I’m nice. That makes me feel wanted and fancied again.

I have taken the leap of faith a few times in here, more often than not I’ve been put in my place, and found I’m must be waaaay out of their league when they don’t reply … …. It’s a joke.

But should we not talk to people because we think we won’t be their type? Nah, like you said op, go for it. It’s never going to happen if you don’t try.

Literally love this

Thanks Woody. You’re nice.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

What if I've already copy pasta-d every vagina owner on Fab already?... asking for a friend of course

LvM

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"What if I've already copy pasta-d every vagina owner on Fab already?... asking for a friend of course

LvM"

Try dick

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"What if I've already copy pasta-d every vagina owner on Fab already?... asking for a friend of course

LvM

Try dick

Of course, it's so simple! BE right back.

LvM

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"What if I've already copy pasta-d every vagina owner on Fab already?... asking for a friend of course

LvM

Try dick

Of course, it's so simple! BE right back.

LvM"

Thank me later

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"What if I've already copy pasta-d every vagina owner on Fab already?... asking for a friend of course

LvM"

Were the post office on strike at some point?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What if I've already copy pasta-d every vagina owner on Fab already?... asking for a friend of course

LvM

Try dick

Of course, it's so simple! BE right back.

LvM

Thank me later "

Great album.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Bump.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bump.

I want to rip your clothes off.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Bump.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bump.

Now I want to rip your head off.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Bump

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bump

Somebody help her ffs

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Face a mirror

Say Elephant juice 3 times

Then sing I'm so pretty from West Side Story.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Face a mirror

Say Elephant juice 3 times

Then sing I'm so pretty from West Side Story.

Mrs TMN actually loves west side story as it happens

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"Mrs TMN actually loves west side story as it happens"

Doesn’t everybody?

"Shaken"

I’ve always liked you Fluffy. You’re my kinda gal.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Face a mirror

Say Elephant juice 3 times

Then sing I'm so pretty from West Side Story.

Mrs TMN actually loves west side story as it happens"

Honestly, boys. It's I feel pretty. And I do a cracking rendition.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mrs TMN actually loves west side story as it happens

Doesn’t everybody?

Shaken

I’ve always liked you Fluffy. You’re my kinda gal."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Face a mirror

Say Elephant juice 3 times

Then sing I'm so pretty from West Side Story.

Mrs TMN actually loves west side story as it happens

Honestly, boys. It's I feel pretty. And I do a cracking rendition. "

Mrs TMN, in another life I’d have proper put the moves on you.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Face a mirror

Say Elephant juice 3 times

Then sing I'm so pretty from West Side Story.

Mrs TMN actually loves west side story as it happens

Honestly, boys. It's I feel pretty. And I do a cracking rendition.

Mrs TMN, in another life I’d have proper put the moves on you. "

And in another life, Steven, I'd have let you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Face a mirror

Say Elephant juice 3 times

Then sing I'm so pretty from West Side Story.

Mrs TMN actually loves west side story as it happens

Honestly, boys. It's I feel pretty. And I do a cracking rendition.

Mrs TMN, in another life I’d have proper put the moves on you.

And in another life, Steven, I'd have let you. "

Now I’m singing the one that got away by Katie Perry.

‘I’m another liffeeeeeeeeeeeeee’

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