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By *tew wendy OP   Couple
over a year ago

selby

ok when it come's to a meet i always talk to wendy my wife if she like and if she is interested in what might happen, then from that conversation i do what she says, but having a talk tonight she disagree's that in a couple woman are in charge.

what are your thought ppl?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time a man is in charge is when the woman instinctively knows its about to all go tits up! The lady can then retake the reins of power and give you that 'look'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every happy secure couple I've met with the woman has been in charge, her husband/partner and I follow her lead.

I don't get involved with those women who I think are coerced into it for their husbands sake, and I've met loads of them, usually in a club setting to be honest, never in a private meet.

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By *kywatcherMan
over a year ago

Southwick


"ok when it come's to a meet i always talk to wendy my wife if she like and if she is interested in what might happen, then from that conversation i do what she says, but having a talk tonight she disagree's that in a couple woman are in charge.

what are your thought ppl?"

I am concerned about your use of apostrophes.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Surely the lady has the final say cos she is he one who is gonna get fucked and as its her body she must be able to say whose cock gets to go inside it Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ok when it come's to a meet i always talk to wendy my wife if she like and if she is interested in what might happen, then from that conversation i do what she says, but having a talk tonight she disagree's that in a couple woman are in charge.

what are your thought ppl?"

I would have to agree. The lady is in charge xxx

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By *tew wendy OP   Couple
over a year ago

selby

The Naked Handyman sorry for miss use of written english.

Thanks people it's just like i said to Wendy at the end of the day she has the final word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexually i like the man to be in charge... All other times its me

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By *tressfreeMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Sexually i like the man to be in charge... All other times its me "
ha ha fair enough

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I like being in charge... If that's ok with you xx

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By *he Original TTMan
over a year ago

Brackley, Northants


"Sexually i like the man to be in charge... All other times its me "

There are other times...???

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By *kywatcherMan
over a year ago

Southwick


"The Naked Handyman sorry for miss use of written english.

Thanks people it's just like i said to Wendy at the end of the day she has the final word."

Hey no need to apologise. Just feel the poor old apostrophe needs to be supported sometimes - gets a raw deal mostly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure about the woman being 'in charge' as such, but I'm always very aware of the fact that women, especially singles, are porentially at some risk in this environment, bearing in mind some of the headcases that are out there!

So certainly initially, I'm happy to let the lady set the agenda with regard to where, when and what. It's important that a lady feels safe and secure, and you can be sure that with a lady feeling safe and comfortable, any activity that follows will be sooo much better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are in charge when the women need money,but even then its not like we have a choice of giving them it. just gota thinknof intereating repayments

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"ok when it come's to a meet i always talk to wendy my wife if she like and if she is interested in what might happen, then from that conversation i do what she says, but having a talk tonight she disagree's that in a couple woman are in charge.

what are your thought ppl?"

But if you didn't like the look of a potential meet, would you still run it by your partner and do what she says?

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

When couples are concerned i always thought it was a joint effort . If i don't like i won't meet. If she doesn't like she won't meet so at the end of the day we both have to agree as we play together and have each others interests at heart and like to see each other happy or it could be classed as 1 sided or selfish

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

As a single lady I need to feel comfortable with all people about to be involved in the fun but yes I need to feel comfortable and wanted.

I have found too many couples are very intune with each other but seem unable to engage with me before play enough to arouse me before we start to get naked.

Reading that back it sounds wrong.

I like to stand chatting with a couple and be chatted up so I feel aroused and encouraged to play. Its good to feel wanted and stimulated before we get naked.

I have been chatting with a couple and meeting soon and they have me sooo aroused already. Roll on that meet.

Fruit x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think anyone should be in charge, within a couple you have your boundaries already discussed and when you meet someone should be a mutual decision to play and what takes place.

"Power" to one person is not appropriate imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm meeting a couple then that's what I expect. That means their decision should have been a mutual one...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we both have to agree on who/when/where....joint decision from both of us.

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By *tew wendy OP   Couple
over a year ago

selby

If were looking for a meet then i always talk with wendy about every one who is interested and if she's interested we go on from there, where as myself i am very easy goning and find that as long as she is ok with things then so am i.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"ok when it come's to a meet i always talk to wendy my wife if she like and if she is interested in what might happen, then from that conversation i do what she says, but having a talk tonight she disagree's that in a couple woman are in charge.

what are your thought ppl?"

Of course us women have the ultimate say in a relationship based on equality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we both have to be evenly involved - if one aint happy neither is the other and nothing is going to happen - end of -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We talk things over all the time but if it was decided that were were going to play on a meet Morrigan would have the final say, after all she is the one that will be penetrated.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Joke aside... if either of us has the slightest reservation we dont do it. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ULTIMATE DOMINATION OF ALL KINKY PEOPLES"

"who's incharge " Indeed !

Shek your heads !

Mistress is incharge !

You just don't Know it yet !

Mistress Charlotte x

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

We must be in the minority here as we are 100% 50/50 ...if temp sez no it doesnt happen...if I say no it doesnt happen ...niether of us are in charge ..we both are

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"We must be in the minority here as we are 100% 50/50 ...if temp sez no it doesnt happen...if I say no it doesnt happen ...niether of us are in charge ..we both are "
Bunkieeeeeeee _ I am so happy somebody else agrees with me today even though you said it in a different (more eloquent) way

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"We must be in the minority here as we are 100% 50/50 ...if temp sez no it doesnt happen...if I say no it doesnt happen ...niether of us are in charge ..we both are Bunkieeeeeeee _ I am so happy somebody else agrees with me today even though you said it in a different (more eloquent) way "

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