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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But I want it with someone else.

Ever hold out from just dealing with your horn level yourself and get frustrated in the process?

I do this sometimes.

But why? FFS.

I think I know why and I have to break it. But does anyone else do this?

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By *aramel.desiresMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Yes I do this.

I do it because I think I enjoy being frustrated and on the edge. Plus the anticipation of cumming when it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But I want it with someone else.

Ever hold out from just dealing with your horn level yourself and get frustrated in the process?

I do this sometimes.

But why? FFS.

I think I know why and I have to break it. But does anyone else do this?"

I think I've got an orgasm in a box round here somewhere....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried to wait the other night knowing Mr would be home soon. I couldn't help myself. I know why I broke it now... My body was telling me my menstrual cycle was looming imminently and I NEED an orgasm before I start bleeding otherwise I'm the worst person to be around.

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

If I was waiting to have an orgasm with someone else, I’d turn into raging monster.

Nobody needs to see that.

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"But I want it with someone else.

Ever hold out from just dealing with your horn level yourself and get frustrated in the process?

I do this sometimes.

But why? FFS.

I think I know why and I have to break it. But does anyone else do this?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Yes yes yes. I hate myself for it.

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

Yeah I do if I know I'm meeting someone soonish, as its adds to the build up. But other than that why deny yourself one of life's free pleasures.

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"But I want it with someone else.

Ever hold out from just dealing with your horn level yourself and get frustrated in the process?

I do this sometimes.

But why? FFS.

I think I know why and I have to break it. But does anyone else do this?"

Why torture yourself ?

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I put up a meet in the hope I’ll meet someone amazing, never happens, wait frustrated and horny for a few hours, and finally get the bullet out for a few orgasms.

Rinse and repeat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I tried to wait the other night knowing Mr would be home soon. I couldn't help myself. I know why I broke it now... My body was telling me my menstrual cycle was looming imminently and I NEED an orgasm before I start bleeding otherwise I'm the worst person to be around.

Oh I'm like this too, not so much the worst person to be around but definitely a bit grumpy, but helps the whole thing move along and gets rid of cramps...and so does sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I put up a meet in the hope I’ll meet someone amazing, never happens, wait frustrated and horny for a few hours, and finally get the bullet out for a few orgasms.

Rinse and repeat.

What is wrong with the men near Redhill - how can they not respond to your meet request!

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Just have a wank...no more worries about horn, frustration etc.

Until tomorrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But I want it with someone else.

...

When that handyman comes round to put up your shelves and pictures, why not ask him if he can oblige?

I am sure you will be inundated.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes. Yes yes yes. I hate myself for it. "

Why do you do it though??

I think mine stems from a past relationship where I would wait for sex, thinking that it would be sods law that if I dealt with myself he'd then want sex. Which wasn't a problem but I'd rather have sex without having had an orgasm alone first as it's a lot more sexy.

I think it formed a habit I haven't let go of, waiting for someone else.

Now I wait for a meet instead which is utterly stupid.

Though I do like abstaining before a meet.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I only ever put off having one/several, a few days before meeting up with my FWB x

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I much prefer to edge and save my orgasms for when I have good company.

However, given the past two evenings I'm giving the poor thing a rest today

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But I want it with someone else.

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When that handyman comes round to put up your shelves and pictures, why not ask him if he can oblige?

I am sure you will be inundated."

Yeah that did fill my inbox a bit.

I need to go through the contenders yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I do this…I don’t cum/ejaculate when masterbating, I’ll edge a few times then stop.

I only want that release during sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. Yes yes yes. I hate myself for it.

Why do you do it though??

I think it formed a habit I haven't let go of, waiting for someone else.

Now I wait for a meet instead which is utterly stupid.

Though I do like abstaining before a meet."

I think I often do it because sex is generally more enjoyable than self pleasure (though self pleasure is very enjoyable too).

I do like to tell myself I can get a meet last minute though that literally never happens. Or I tell myself later when my partner and I get some alone time but by then you’re exhausted etc. and it just leads to frustration. And I think I should’ve just dealt with it. Idk.

I think to answer, I do it because I know sex will be more enjoyable if I get to have it. And I enjoy being with other people.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Quite often, just not the same as when someone gives you one

Tinder

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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

I enjoy being frustrated and waiting for fun with another person.

On the other hand if I’m busy with work or it’s stopping me focusing on things I need to so, then self-pleasure it is, preferably a long self-pleasure session.

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By *t0600Man
over a year ago

elvedon

I actually enjoy making myself wait as makes my orgasm a lot better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fine I'm on my way, I will warn you I'm kind of tired so my performance won't be so good, F can drive so I'll nap to get my energy levels up

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Multiple orgasm service available here .

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

PS no charge and can deliver .

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Have you tried the "Meet Now" function? Might take you a few tries to get that O but I believe in you

And yes, sometimes. I'll be insanely horny and aching but really wanting to fuck rather than wank myself off... a bit of edging never hurt though right?

LvM

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By *orny-DJMan
over a year ago

Leigh-on-Sea

I would so love to help you out OP.

Would love to share several with you

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"But I want it with someone else.

Ever hold out from just dealing with your horn level yourself and get frustrated in the process?

I do this sometimes.

But why? FFS.

I think I know why and I have to break it. But does anyone else do this?"
nope i never hold out because tomorrow may never come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I was waiting to have an orgasm with someone else, I’d turn into raging monster.

Nobody needs to see that. "

Lmao, sometimes its worth it though

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

"I put up a meet in the hope I’ll meet someone amazing, never happens, wait frustrated and horny for a few hours, and finally get the bullet out for a few orgasms.

Rinse and repeat.

What is wrong with the men near Redhill - how can they not respond to your meet request!"

Living near London I get inundated with offers.

Are they offers I want? No. I said someone amazing. For everything else, there are toys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I put up a meet in the hope I’ll meet someone amazing, never happens, wait frustrated and horny for a few hours, and finally get the bullet out for a few orgasms.

Rinse and repeat.

What is wrong with the men near Redhill - how can they not respond to your meet request!

Living near London I get inundated with offers.

Are they offers I want? No. I said someone amazing. For everything else, there are toys.

That seems quite reasonable.

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By *apidaryMan
over a year ago

Chipping Norton

Most things are better shared. We're not built to be solitary. If we were, we'd not share experiences over an online forum.

Nothing wrong with solitary pleasures, but don't all of us have times where we prefer to share them, whether those pleasures are sex, eating, drinking, conversation, even the pleasures of work? Be a shame to abolish that urge entirely; we'd be diminished by doing so.

Completely get what you mean, though, OP - there's a balance between allowing yourself to want things that aren't immediately available (as we should!) and torturing yourself by not accepting what is available, but perhaps isn't perfect. And the balance is always shifting & never perfect.

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By *amesBeelzebubMan
over a year ago

norwich

"But I want it with someone else.

Ever hold out from just dealing with your horn level yourself and get frustrated in the process?

I do this sometimes.

But why? FFS.

I think I know why and I have to break it. But does anyone else do this?"

I have a donor card and will happily give you my orgasm in the event of my death

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Oh I needed the one I just had soo much

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By *oitering-With-intentMan
over a year ago

city of Lodon

Orgasms are over rated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really. Most of the time I’d rather do it myself than meet any of the men I talk to.

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