FabSwingers.com forum: 2 lives

By *EAT..85 OP Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Most of us keep our Fab lives/sex lives separate to our home/family life.

Have you ever wondered what happens if you died unexpectedly - a car crash for example.

How would those special FWB or FB find out? Would they be welcome at your funeral?

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I do love a happy positive thread in the morning

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In all seriousness it has crossed my mind .. Maybe 1 or 2 people not from fab know a fab friend so I'd imagine the news would filter through somehow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess they wouldn’t find out. Only perhaps anyone I may have become friends with would find out via my social media. I’m not having a funeral.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I’m not sure they’d find out. People I care about here would probably end up thinking I’d ghosted them. Which brings a whole new meaning to the term, I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fiancé would message my other partners and would probably put something on fab before closing my account. Discussed it already.

I do sometimes feel like it’s annoying that people I see, like partners, I likely wouldn’t be able to find out in their case. But it is what it is. Actually this conversation was prompted after a discussion with the last person I dated. And my fiancé and I then had this discussion.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Echoing the cheery comment by Grumpy. :D

No, I don't. My fiancé knows who is important to me, he's able to access my phone and message those people to let them know. In the past I've thought about it. Like if anyone would know or care from this part of my life. The answer now is happily very much a yes.

And of course they'll be invited to my funeral. Their friendships mean the world to me. I'm probably going to be inviting a couple of them to my wedding. :D

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By *cottish guy 555Man
over a year ago

London

"Most of us keep our Fab lives/sex lives separate to our home/family life.

Have you ever wondered what happens if you died unexpectedly - a car crash for example.

How would those special FWB or FB find out? Would they be welcome at your funeral? "

Oddly this has crossed my mind on occasions

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Most of us keep our Fab lives/sex lives separate to our home/family life.

Have you ever wondered what happens if you died unexpectedly - a car crash for example.

How would those special FWB or FB find out? Would they be welcome at your funeral? "

There are people on Fab that are friends of mine on Facey and in the outside world. I'm sure one of them would post a fitting obituary on here for me.

Besides. I plan on shuffling off mid sex, so odds are one of them would be with me at the time anyway.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend knows my phone pass code. She would probably check my WhatsApp and tell anyone recently contacted.

She also knows she's the one to empty my bedroom.

Other than that no one would know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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How would those special FWB or FB find out? Would they be welcome at your funeral? "

FAF? Fancy a fune….too much?

Life happens. It’s a sad thought but we all go that way. I think there’s lots here that I’d be sad for if anything happened. And some I’d be very sad about.

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By *EAT..85 OP Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm not a remotely maudlin person, but it's something that has crossed my mind a few times.

I need to update my brother on my phone password. He used to know it until I changed it. He'd know to drop a few messages to people for me like others have said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I discussed this with someone I met here years ago.

My best friend has his number, his brother has mine in case anything happened.

I have some platonic friends from here who are in my ' normal' life now, so they'd let people know I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha me n Jennie were talking about this the other week

can’t remember what the outcome was coz I was a bit tipsy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our friends are all swingers, all friends on Facebook etc so they would find out either through doughnut or Facebook and would always be welcome.

I did think about when I was seeing my FB how would he know but I'm sure Doughnut would find a way to tell him and I did wonder the opposite way round, I'd never find out and just assumed he ghosted me.

That's cheered me right up lol

Danish x

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Everyone would be welcome. As long as it's a celebration of my life with some laughs sharing my stories.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best way is to get those marks on the side of the coffin the same as when they are counting days in jail.. you know the 4 lines with the strike through it...

those in the know will laugh, the rest will spend a lifetime trying to work out what you did...

always leave them wanting more..

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