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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Get message from ladies. So men it’s not just you who don’t. It’s a woman thing. Do any other bi ladies get messages from other ladies or is it just me who doesn’t appeal?

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

This isn’t a moany thread btw. I don’t do whinging. Just interested in other people’s experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My other half complains of this.

She’s inundated with messsages from couples, but not a one from any single women.

She does message women but they largely go ignored.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"My other half complains of this.

She’s inundated with messsages from couples, but not a one from any single women.

She does message women but they largely go ignored. "

Ah. I have couples blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This isn’t a moany thread btw. I don’t do whinging. Just interested in other people’s experiences "

Isn’t it? I think you sound like a single man to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried going to clubs? Or a group social?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 only unfortunately. Both ended with nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get message from ladies. So men it’s not just you who don’t. It’s a woman thing. Do any other bi ladies get messages from other ladies or is it just me who doesn’t appeal? "

I don't either.

But I'd love to meet you Nora and discuss this subject.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Have you tried going to clubs? Or a group social? "

Yes. Been to loads of group socials over the years. Went to a club once, didn’t like it

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Get message from ladies. So men it’s not just you who don’t. It’s a woman thing. Do any other bi ladies get messages from other ladies or is it just me who doesn’t appeal?

I don't either.

But I'd love to meet you Nora and discuss this subject."

We’ve been saying this for years haven’t we! Let’s meet!

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"This isn’t a moany thread btw. I don’t do whinging. Just interested in other people’s experiences

Isn’t it? I think you sound like a single man to me "

I reckon I’d do better with the ladies if I was!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

If I say I do, because I do, am I that twat who appears on a thread and says I don't see what your problem is, I never struggle?

Because if yes, hi. There you go, it's pretty much a single man's thread now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get message from ladies. So men it’s not just you who don’t. It’s a woman thing. Do any other bi ladies get messages from other ladies or is it just me who doesn’t appeal?

I don't either.

But I'd love to meet you Nora and discuss this subject.

We’ve been saying this for years haven’t we! Let’s meet! "

Yes we have

I'm free Friday, and Wednesday if any good!

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Get message from ladies. So men it’s not just you who don’t. It’s a woman thing. Do any other bi ladies get messages from other ladies or is it just me who doesn’t appeal? "

If I was a woman I’d have my head buried between your thighs in a jiffy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried going to clubs? Or a group social?

Yes. Been to loads of group socials over the years. Went to a club once, didn’t like it "

There’s a group social in October you should go to

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Get message from ladies. So men it’s not just you who don’t. It’s a woman thing. Do any other bi ladies get messages from other ladies or is it just me who doesn’t appeal?

I don't either.

But I'd love to meet you Nora and discuss this subject.

We’ve been saying this for years haven’t we! Let’s meet!

Yes we have

I'm free Friday, and Wednesday if any good! "

I’ll message you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This isn’t a moany thread btw. I don’t do whinging. Just interested in other people’s experiences

Isn’t it? I think you sound like a single man to me

I reckon I’d do better with the ladies if I was! "

It’s true. It’s true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get message from ladies. So men it’s not just you who don’t. It’s a woman thing. Do any other bi ladies get messages from other ladies or is it just me who doesn’t appeal?

I don't either.

But I'd love to meet you Nora and discuss this subject.

We’ve been saying this for years haven’t we! Let’s meet!

Yes we have

I'm free Friday, and Wednesday if any good!

I’ll message you x"

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Get message from ladies. So men it’s not just you who don’t. It’s a woman thing. Do any other bi ladies get messages from other ladies or is it just me who doesn’t appeal?

If I was a woman I’d have my head buried between your thighs in a jiffy "

love you fiddles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get message from ladies. So men it’s not just you who don’t. It’s a woman thing. Do any other bi ladies get messages from other ladies or is it just me who doesn’t appeal? "

I’ve received messages from “ladies”, as in it seemed questionable. It felt more like a man hiding behind a woman’s profile each time.

I did once send a lady a message. Completely platonic. Her profile was brilliant and reading it, made me want to befriend her in real life. It never lead anywhere but I did share my strong like for her powerful, take no bullshit, confidence that was unapologetic about her many likes and dislike. She just seemed a real party of laughter, and good times but someone who would have your back through thick and thin.

She did reply to me in awe and perhaps thought I was mad.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"This isn’t a moany thread btw. I don’t do whinging. Just interested in other people’s experiences

Isn’t it? I think you sound like a single man to me

I reckon I’d do better with the ladies if I was!

It’s true. It’s true "

You must have loads. Can I borrow one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get message from ladies. So men it’s not just you who don’t. It’s a woman thing. Do any other bi ladies get messages from other ladies or is it just me who doesn’t appeal? "

Do you message them?

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Get message from ladies. So men it’s not just you who don’t. It’s a woman thing. Do any other bi ladies get messages from other ladies or is it just me who doesn’t appeal?

I’ve received messages from “ladies”, as in it seemed questionable. It felt more like a man hiding behind a woman’s profile each time.

I did once send a lady a message. Completely platonic. Her profile was brilliant and reading it, made me want to befriend her in real life. It never lead anywhere but I did share my strong like for her powerful, take no bullshit, confidence that was unapologetic about her many likes and dislike. She just seemed a real party of laughter, and good times but someone who would have your back through thick and thin.

She did reply to me in awe and perhaps thought I was mad. "

Yes. I’ve had a few which were obviously men. It’s quite easy to work out isn’t it . X

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Get message from ladies. So men it’s not just you who don’t. It’s a woman thing. Do any other bi ladies get messages from other ladies or is it just me who doesn’t appeal?

Do you message them? "

Yes I sometimes have a search and message. I’m so much better at messaging men though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get message from ladies. So men it’s not just you who don’t. It’s a woman thing. Do any other bi ladies get messages from other ladies or is it just me who doesn’t appeal?

Do you message them?

Yes I sometimes have a search and message. I’m so much better at messaging men though! "

Are you being polite and respectful and reading the profile?

Apparently that’s all you need to do to be drowning in vagina on here

Give it a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get message from ladies. So men it’s not just you who don’t. It’s a woman thing. Do any other bi ladies get messages from other ladies or is it just me who doesn’t appeal?

Do you message them?

Yes I sometimes have a search and message. I’m so much better at messaging men though! "

Keep messaging them relentlessly, especially with an erotic novel to hand. It works a treat!

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Get message from ladies. So men it’s not just you who don’t. It’s a woman thing. Do any other bi ladies get messages from other ladies or is it just me who doesn’t appeal?

Do you message them?

Yes I sometimes have a search and message. I’m so much better at messaging men though!

Are you being polite and respectful and reading the profile?

Apparently that’s all you need to do to be drowning in vagina on here

Give it a go "

Haha of course. And I always read profiles. Maybe I should send a minge pic . Haven’t tried that approach

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Get message from ladies. So men it’s not just you who don’t. It’s a woman thing. Do any other bi ladies get messages from other ladies or is it just me who doesn’t appeal? "

Oi! I tried with you years ago!

You're clearly just fussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This isn’t a moany thread btw. I don’t do whinging. Just interested in other people’s experiences

Isn’t it? I think you sound like a single man to me

I reckon I’d do better with the ladies if I was!

It’s true. It’s true

You must have loads. Can I borrow one?"

you don’t like sharing though. So not sure how you’d feel knowing they’re also interested in me

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

It could well be a woman thing OP; generalising, it seems most women on here wait to be messaged, which, if true would explain why you aren't getting mail from women.

Men on the othere hand, generally message first, which would explain why I'm always getting messages from them even though I'm straight and I'm not interested in blokes... oh the irony.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get message from ladies. So men it’s not just you who don’t. It’s a woman thing. Do any other bi ladies get messages from other ladies or is it just me who doesn’t appeal?

Do you message them?

Yes I sometimes have a search and message. I’m so much better at messaging men though!

Are you being polite and respectful and reading the profile?

Apparently that’s all you need to do to be drowning in vagina on here

Give it a go

Haha of course. And I always read profiles. Maybe I should send a minge pic . Haven’t tried that approach "

That only works if your hung

Dunno what the minge equivalent is

Hairy biker lasagna minge maybe

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

In actual answer to your question though, I probably get one or two messages a month when my age filters allow it from single women. I do better on dating apps with women though.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"This isn’t a moany thread btw. I don’t do whinging. Just interested in other people’s experiences

Isn’t it? I think you sound like a single man to me

I reckon I’d do better with the ladies if I was!

It’s true. It’s true

You must have loads. Can I borrow one? you don’t like sharing though. So not sure how you’d feel knowing they’re also interested in me "

Oh goodness. That’s men! I have no rules with the ladies!

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Get message from ladies. So men it’s not just you who don’t. It’s a woman thing. Do any other bi ladies get messages from other ladies or is it just me who doesn’t appeal?

Do you message them?

Yes I sometimes have a search and message. I’m so much better at messaging men though!

Are you being polite and respectful and reading the profile?

Apparently that’s all you need to do to be drowning in vagina on here

Give it a go

Haha of course. And I always read profiles. Maybe I should send a minge pic . Haven’t tried that approach

That only works if your hung

Dunno what the minge equivalent is

Hairy biker lasagna minge maybe "

Hung minge . Sounds appealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This isn’t a moany thread btw. I don’t do whinging. Just interested in other people’s experiences

Isn’t it? I think you sound like a single man to me

I reckon I’d do better with the ladies if I was!

It’s true. It’s true

You must have loads. Can I borrow one? you don’t like sharing though. So not sure how you’d feel knowing they’re also interested in me

Oh goodness. That’s men! I have no rules with the ladies! "

I know just the person for you

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"In actual answer to your question though, I probably get one or two messages a month when my age filters allow it from single women. I do better on dating apps with women though. "

I’ve never tried dating apps. Maybe I’ll have a peek. Do they do women only ones? Don’t suppose we can say on here.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"This isn’t a moany thread btw. I don’t do whinging. Just interested in other people’s experiences

Isn’t it? I think you sound like a single man to me

I reckon I’d do better with the ladies if I was!

It’s true. It’s true

You must have loads. Can I borrow one? you don’t like sharing though. So not sure how you’d feel knowing they’re also interested in me

Oh goodness. That’s men! I have no rules with the ladies!

I know just the person for you"

Can’t be your age though. You’re younger than my daughter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This isn’t a moany thread btw. I don’t do whinging. Just interested in other people’s experiences

Isn’t it? I think you sound like a single man to me

I reckon I’d do better with the ladies if I was!

It’s true. It’s true

You must have loads. Can I borrow one? you don’t like sharing though. So not sure how you’d feel knowing they’re also interested in me

Oh goodness. That’s men! I have no rules with the ladies!

I know just the person for you

Can’t be your age though. You’re younger than my daughter "

Ffs. Ok I’m out

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Get message from ladies. So men it’s not just you who don’t. It’s a woman thing. Do any other bi ladies get messages from other ladies or is it just me who doesn’t appeal?

If I was a woman I’d have my head buried between your thighs in a jiffy

love you fiddles "

Call me fiddlemina

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"This isn’t a moany thread btw. I don’t do whinging. Just interested in other people’s experiences

Isn’t it? I think you sound like a single man to me

I reckon I’d do better with the ladies if I was!

It’s true. It’s true

You must have loads. Can I borrow one? you don’t like sharing though. So not sure how you’d feel knowing they’re also interested in me

Oh goodness. That’s men! I have no rules with the ladies!

I know just the person for you

Can’t be your age though. You’re younger than my daughter

Ffs. Ok I’m out "

Haha. Keep thinking though. You may come up with some more

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Get message from ladies. So men it’s not just you who don’t. It’s a woman thing. Do any other bi ladies get messages from other ladies or is it just me who doesn’t appeal?

If I was a woman I’d have my head buried between your thighs in a jiffy

love you fiddles

Call me fiddlemina "

Haha

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

They just don't want to put effort in, Nora!

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"They just don't want to put effort in, Nora!

"

Haha. They’d be a perfect match for me then

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"In actual answer to your question though, I probably get one or two messages a month when my age filters allow it from single women. I do better on dating apps with women though.

I’ve never tried dating apps. Maybe I’ll have a peek. Do they do women only ones? Don’t suppose we can say on here. "

Yup, there are lesbian sites. I use mixed sites though and just set my filters accordingly. Women actually message and chat out there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This isn’t a moany thread btw. I don’t do whinging. Just interested in other people’s experiences

Isn’t it? I think you sound like a single man to me

I reckon I’d do better with the ladies if I was!

It’s true. It’s true

You must have loads. Can I borrow one? you don’t like sharing though. So not sure how you’d feel knowing they’re also interested in me

Oh goodness. That’s men! I have no rules with the ladies!

I know just the person for you

Can’t be your age though. You’re younger than my daughter

Ffs. Ok I’m out

Haha. Keep thinking though. You may come up with some more "

No I can only think of me and you getting it on currently. Sorry

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"In actual answer to your question though, I probably get one or two messages a month when my age filters allow it from single women. I do better on dating apps with women though.

I’ve never tried dating apps. Maybe I’ll have a peek. Do they do women only ones? Don’t suppose we can say on here.

Yup, there are lesbian sites. I use mixed sites though and just set my filters accordingly. Women actually message and chat out there! "

You have to pay loads for the ones I’ve seen though. Can’t be doing with paying

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"This isn’t a moany thread btw. I don’t do whinging. Just interested in other people’s experiences

Isn’t it? I think you sound like a single man to me

I reckon I’d do better with the ladies if I was!

It’s true. It’s true

You must have loads. Can I borrow one? you don’t like sharing though. So not sure how you’d feel knowing they’re also interested in me

Oh goodness. That’s men! I have no rules with the ladies!

I know just the person for you

Can’t be your age though. You’re younger than my daughter

Ffs. Ok I’m out

Haha. Keep thinking though. You may come up with some more

No I can only think of me and you getting it on currently. Sorry "

. Such a liar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't because I have them blocked I really can't be dealing with the chasing that's involved haha. Mutual interest is what I'm after. Obviously not all women are like that but I just prefer to look for them myself.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Nope we don't either even though its clear I'll meet females alone, didn't really on my singles profile either.

Tinder

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Nope we don't either even though its clear I'll meet females alone, didn't really on my singles profile either.

Tinder "

See I’m half tempted to unblock couples as it seems some ladies will meet alone from

Couples. I don’t want all that can he be involved/ can we video/ can we call him stuff though. I’m not interested in someone else’s man at all.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

They’re all on mumsnet complaining about their lazy other half that’s why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This isn’t a moany thread btw. I don’t do whinging. Just interested in other people’s experiences

Isn’t it? I think you sound like a single man to me

I reckon I’d do better with the ladies if I was!

It’s true. It’s true

You must have loads. Can I borrow one? you don’t like sharing though. So not sure how you’d feel knowing they’re also interested in me

Oh goodness. That’s men! I have no rules with the ladies!

I know just the person for you

Can’t be your age though. You’re younger than my daughter

Ffs. Ok I’m out

Haha. Keep thinking though. You may come up with some more

No I can only think of me and you getting it on currently. Sorry

. Such a liar "

My attraction to you is genuine. My thoughts about you and I currently, who knows

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"They’re all on mumsnet complaining about their lazy other half that’s why "

Haha net mums is where I had my first lady experience

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire


"In actual answer to your question though, I probably get one or two messages a month when my age filters allow it from single women. I do better on dating apps with women though.

I’ve never tried dating apps. Maybe I’ll have a peek. Do they do women only ones? Don’t suppose we can say on here. "

Yeah dating apps can be good, yes you can search ladies only on them. I've even had meets from Facebook dating.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"This isn’t a moany thread btw. I don’t do whinging. Just interested in other people’s experiences

Isn’t it? I think you sound like a single man to me

I reckon I’d do better with the ladies if I was!

It’s true. It’s true

You must have loads. Can I borrow one? you don’t like sharing though. So not sure how you’d feel knowing they’re also interested in me

Oh goodness. That’s men! I have no rules with the ladies!

I know just the person for you

Can’t be your age though. You’re younger than my daughter

Ffs. Ok I’m out

Haha. Keep thinking though. You may come up with some more

No I can only think of me and you getting it on currently. Sorry

. Such a liar

My attraction to you is genuine. My thoughts about you and I currently, who knows "

Steve we’d kill each other!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not a bi lady. But if I was, it wouldn’t be just you not getting messages.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I’m not a bi lady. But if I was, it wouldn’t be just you not getting messages. "

I reckon you’d make a sexy lady Woody

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By *aigeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I used to get more, I think aging has something to do with that. Less girls wanting to try it, or certainly try with me as they aren’t in my age range. Also life gets busy and it’s hard to find mutually free time. Now it’s mainly men pretending, or messages that go nowhere. However when it does work out it’s still amazing ??

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"In actual answer to your question though, I probably get one or two messages a month when my age filters allow it from single women. I do better on dating apps with women though.

I’ve never tried dating apps. Maybe I’ll have a peek. Do they do women only ones? Don’t suppose we can say on here.

Yeah dating apps can be good, yes you can search ladies only on them. I've even had meets from Facebook dating. "

FaceBook dating has been surprisingly fruitful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This isn’t a moany thread btw. I don’t do whinging. Just interested in other people’s experiences

Isn’t it? I think you sound like a single man to me

I reckon I’d do better with the ladies if I was!

It’s true. It’s true

You must have loads. Can I borrow one? you don’t like sharing though. So not sure how you’d feel knowing they’re also interested in me

Oh goodness. That’s men! I have no rules with the ladies!

I know just the person for you

Can’t be your age though. You’re younger than my daughter

Ffs. Ok I’m out

Haha. Keep thinking though. You may come up with some more

No I can only think of me and you getting it on currently. Sorry

. Such a liar

My attraction to you is genuine. My thoughts about you and I currently, who knows

Steve we’d kill each other! "

Yeah but that’s how you know the sex would be good at least

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I used to get more, I think aging has something to do with that. Less girls wanting to try it, or certainly try with me as they aren’t in my age range. Also life gets busy and it’s hard to find mutually free time. Now it’s mainly men pretending, or messages that go nowhere. However when it does work out it’s still amazing ??"

I did think maybe it’s my age but it’s always been like that to be fair. Although I was probably about your age when I joined. I have met some lovely ladies in the past though.

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"This isn’t a moany thread btw. I don’t do whinging. Just interested in other people’s experiences

Isn’t it? I think you sound like a single man to me

I reckon I’d do better with the ladies if I was!

It’s true. It’s true

You must have loads. Can I borrow one? you don’t like sharing though. So not sure how you’d feel knowing they’re also interested in me

Oh goodness. That’s men! I have no rules with the ladies!

I know just the person for you

Can’t be your age though. You’re younger than my daughter

Ffs. Ok I’m out

Haha. Keep thinking though. You may come up with some more

No I can only think of me and you getting it on currently. Sorry

. Such a liar

My attraction to you is genuine. My thoughts about you and I currently, who knows

Steve we’d kill each other!

Yeah but that’s how you know the sex would be good at least "

Haha. True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. But then again us women know it's not easy. But it equally knocks our confidence too.

I've sent a few messages to women before and had no reply.

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I had my single profile, I only wanted to meet women for a period of time and then soon realised we don't generally message anyone so that was that.

I did get a couple of "women" message me but used the words panties and nightie, so they were a dude clearly

Danish x

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"In actual answer to your question though, I probably get one or two messages a month when my age filters allow it from single women. I do better on dating apps with women though.

I’ve never tried dating apps. Maybe I’ll have a peek. Do they do women only ones? Don’t suppose we can say on here.

Yeah dating apps can be good, yes you can search ladies only on them. I've even had meets from Facebook dating.

FaceBook dating has been surprisingly fruitful! "

I didn’t even know that was a thing!

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"When I had my single profile, I only wanted to meet women for a period of time and then soon realised we don't generally message anyone so that was that.

I did get a couple of "women" message me but used the words panties and nightie, so they were a dude clearly

Danish x"

Haha. Definitely a dude . Did they say “so tell me what’s your favourite thing to do with a woman?”

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

It's strange as a lot ladies profiles I'm drawn to aren't looking for single men they want ladies or couples. I was being to think that ladies had all the fun here and it's refreshing to hear not all do. Can't see why cause you're a very attractive lady (what your pics show). This place is strange but guess that's what keep us here.

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow


"Nope we don't either even though its clear I'll meet females alone, didn't really on my singles profile either.

Tinder

See I’m half tempted to unblock couples as it seems some ladies will meet alone from

Couples. I don’t want all that can he be involved/ can we video/ can we call him stuff though. I’m not interested in someone else’s man at all. "

I get that, I found that cropped up in conversation a lot of the time too.

Tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message you Nora!

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Yes. But then again us women know it's not easy. But it equally knocks our confidence too.

I've sent a few messages to women before and had no reply.

F"

I’ll fab a pic or something . I’m much more shy with women!

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"In actual answer to your question though, I probably get one or two messages a month when my age filters allow it from single women. I do better on dating apps with women though.

I’ve never tried dating apps. Maybe I’ll have a peek. Do they do women only ones? Don’t suppose we can say on here.

Yeah dating apps can be good, yes you can search ladies only on them. I've even had meets from Facebook dating.

FaceBook dating has been surprisingly fruitful!

I didn’t even know that was a thing!"

And it's free! And there are no penises to burn the retina...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In actual answer to your question though, I probably get one or two messages a month when my age filters allow it from single women. I do better on dating apps with women though.

I’ve never tried dating apps. Maybe I’ll have a peek. Do they do women only ones? Don’t suppose we can say on here.

Yeah dating apps can be good, yes you can search ladies only on them. I've even had meets from Facebook dating.

FaceBook dating has been surprisingly fruitful!

I didn’t even know that was a thing!

And it's free! And there are no penises to burn the retina... "

Facebook dating is like a breath of fresh air, not having to pay for anything!

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I message you Nora! "

Haha. We were gonna do a joint profile and clean up Beds, Herts and Cambs weren’t we?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In actual answer to your question though, I probably get one or two messages a month when my age filters allow it from single women. I do better on dating apps with women though.

I’ve never tried dating apps. Maybe I’ll have a peek. Do they do women only ones? Don’t suppose we can say on here.

Yeah dating apps can be good, yes you can search ladies only on them. I've even had meets from Facebook dating.

FaceBook dating has been surprisingly fruitful!

I didn’t even know that was a thing!

And it's free! And there are no penises to burn the retina...

Facebook dating is like a breath of fresh air, not having to pay for anything!"

I usually find Facebook dating terrible! It's like the Jeremy Kyle of dating sites!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In actual answer to your question though, I probably get one or two messages a month when my age filters allow it from single women. I do better on dating apps with women though.

I’ve never tried dating apps. Maybe I’ll have a peek. Do they do women only ones? Don’t suppose we can say on here.

Yeah dating apps can be good, yes you can search ladies only on them. I've even had meets from Facebook dating.

FaceBook dating has been surprisingly fruitful!

I didn’t even know that was a thing!

And it's free! And there are no penises to burn the retina...

Facebook dating is like a breath of fresh air, not having to pay for anything!

I usually find Facebook dating terrible! It's like the Jeremy Kyle of dating sites!

"

I never said the quality was a breath of fresh air

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I message you Nora!

Haha. We were gonna do a joint profile and clean up Beds, Herts and Cambs weren’t we?! "

Yesssss!!! I can imagine the next time we have wine that we will actually do it too

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By *ora the explorer OP   Woman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I message you Nora!

Haha. We were gonna do a joint profile and clean up Beds, Herts and Cambs weren’t we?!

Yesssss!!! I can imagine the next time we have wine that we will actually do it too "

. You know it

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire


"In actual answer to your question though, I probably get one or two messages a month when my age filters allow it from single women. I do better on dating apps with women though.

I’ve never tried dating apps. Maybe I’ll have a peek. Do they do women only ones? Don’t suppose we can say on here.

Yeah dating apps can be good, yes you can search ladies only on them. I've even had meets from Facebook dating.

FaceBook dating has been surprisingly fruitful!

I didn’t even know that was a thing!

And it's free! And there are no penises to burn the retina...

Facebook dating is like a breath of fresh air, not having to pay for anything!"

Dating apps as with clubs take advantage of men unfortunately, ladies always get things free or very cheep so yeah the Facebook one is really good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In actual answer to your question though, I probably get one or two messages a month when my age filters allow it from single women. I do better on dating apps with women though.

I’ve never tried dating apps. Maybe I’ll have a peek. Do they do women only ones? Don’t suppose we can say on here.

Yeah dating apps can be good, yes you can search ladies only on them. I've even had meets from Facebook dating.

FaceBook dating has been surprisingly fruitful!

I didn’t even know that was a thing!

And it's free! And there are no penises to burn the retina...

Facebook dating is like a breath of fresh air, not having to pay for anything!

I usually find Facebook dating terrible! It's like the Jeremy Kyle of dating sites!

I never said the quality was a breath of fresh air "

I said usually because there has been an absolutely delicious fireman lately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In actual answer to your question though, I probably get one or two messages a month when my age filters allow it from single women. I do better on dating apps with women though.

I’ve never tried dating apps. Maybe I’ll have a peek. Do they do women only ones? Don’t suppose we can say on here.

Yeah dating apps can be good, yes you can search ladies only on them. I've even had meets from Facebook dating.

FaceBook dating has been surprisingly fruitful!

I didn’t even know that was a thing!

And it's free! And there are no penises to burn the retina...

Facebook dating is like a breath of fresh air, not having to pay for anything!

I usually find Facebook dating terrible! It's like the Jeremy Kyle of dating sites!

"

I liken this place to the Jeremy Kyle show all the time!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I had one message once when I was toying with the idea of bi sex.

I couldn't make up my mind what I liked about women so I declined and gave up on the idea.

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

I'll also throw geography in the mix, as depending on where live can make a huge difference. I live in a small city and unfortunately men hugely out way women and couples and unless you're willing to travel 30/40 miles maybe more it can be a waste of time. I'm happy to travel but definitely not for just a quick.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"In actual answer to your question though, I probably get one or two messages a month when my age filters allow it from single women. I do better on dating apps with women though.

I’ve never tried dating apps. Maybe I’ll have a peek. Do they do women only ones? Don’t suppose we can say on here.

Yeah dating apps can be good, yes you can search ladies only on them. I've even had meets from Facebook dating.

FaceBook dating has been surprisingly fruitful!

I didn’t even know that was a thing!

And it's free! And there are no penises to burn the retina...

Facebook dating is like a breath of fresh air, not having to pay for anything!

I usually find Facebook dating terrible! It's like the Jeremy Kyle of dating sites!

"

Me too. I did meet one man from there who went very quiet when I was ill, so I didn't bother with him.

There were lots of scammers and fake profiles on there.

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire


"In actual answer to your question though, I probably get one or two messages a month when my age filters allow it from single women. I do better on dating apps with women though.

I’ve never tried dating apps. Maybe I’ll have a peek. Do they do women only ones? Don’t suppose we can say on here.

Yeah dating apps can be good, yes you can search ladies only on them. I've even had meets from Facebook dating.

FaceBook dating has been surprisingly fruitful!

I didn’t even know that was a thing!

And it's free! And there are no penises to burn the retina...

Facebook dating is like a breath of fresh air, not having to pay for anything!

I usually find Facebook dating terrible! It's like the Jeremy Kyle of dating sites!

I liken this place to the Jeremy Kyle show all the time!"

It can be funny as f*ck on there, a big pluss is 99% of the time people show faces so you know who you're talking to.

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

NG 21

It's rare, VERY rare. I ( Mrs) am only normally on on a Friday or weekend when I'm not working.

Rest of the time it's hubby, which I suspect is largely the case.

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire


"It's rare, VERY rare. I ( Mrs) am only normally on on a Friday or weekend when I'm not working.

Rest of the time it's hubby, which I suspect is largely the case. "

Lol throw him under the bus.

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

NG 21

He's quite open about it & always says its him if any ladies or cpls message.

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I have “straight” on my profile and have only just recently awoke to my bi-curious self so I don’t really know how to feel about that.

But I have often received messages from ladies asking me to keep their husbands company or something like that.

I’m now questioning whether I’m that naive to think they were actual ladies or what.

I apologise if they were, and I can understand the appeal.

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By *eliciousDiva69Woman
over a year ago

Schitts Creek


"Get message from ladies. So men it’s not just you who don’t. It’s a woman thing. Do any other bi ladies get messages from other ladies or is it just me who doesn’t appeal?

Do you message them?

Yes I sometimes have a search and message. I’m so much better at messaging men though! "

I find it so much easier to chat to men, but with women it just feels awkward. Even in person I find it much more difficult to flirt with women whereas I naturally flirt with guys without even realising it - why is that?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I get from couples and I think once from a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get message from ladies. So men it’s not just you who don’t. It’s a woman thing. Do any other bi ladies get messages from other ladies or is it just me who doesn’t appeal?

Do you message them?

Yes I sometimes have a search and message. I’m so much better at messaging men though!

I find it so much easier to chat to men, but with women it just feels awkward. Even in person I find it much more difficult to flirt with women whereas I naturally flirt with guys without even realising it - why is that? "

I feel exactly the same way!! I thought it was just me

Danish x

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Some women have couples blocked so C can’t chat to them even though she meets women alone.

She could set up a singles profile solely for women but as you’ve shown OP it’s whether it’s worth it.

Personally I think most women who are on here for a while will already have a number of people they meet or chat with and so adding more is hard.

K

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Could be many reasons why you don't receive any/many...location, age, kerb appeal etc.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"They’re all on mumsnet complaining about their lazy other half that’s why

Haha net mums is where I had my first lady experience "

I rest my case

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