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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am just curious as to whether social meets are still a thing or if they are a thing of the past.

Social meets give you the chance to get to know each other a little bit more and see if there is any connection to make the next meet better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are definitely a thing for me. I love them.

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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago

london stratford


"I am just curious as to whether social meets are still a thing or if they are a thing of the past.

Social meets give you the chance to get to know each other a little bit more and see if there is any connection to make the next meet better."

I am actually going to one on Friday

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They are definitely a thing for me. I love them. "

I feel like they can make the second meet better if there is a second chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call me boring or whatever you may wish but I only do social meets initially.

A coffee date. Hot. Strong. Not sweet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had an amazing one today. Eagerly anticipating now

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hi op

Sure they'll still be happening maybe not as much but I could be wrong also. But many have groups which gives a chance to mingle. The site meets section others do use also for arranging a gathering of friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Call me boring or whatever you may wish but I only do social meets initially.

A coffee date. Hot. Strong. Not sweet. "

This. Absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Call me boring or whatever you may wish but I only do social meets initially.

A coffee date. Hot. Strong. Not sweet. "

Not boring at all... this sounds perfect to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Had an amazing one today. Eagerly anticipating now "

Happy to hear this

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

They are a necessary for us. There's a Fab couple we have got together with who we've been out to dinner with more often than we've had sex with.

I regularly put the word out each year for socials at the Proms and have met a few Fabbers that way.

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

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I love social meets, group or 1-1

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They are a necessary for us. There's a Fab couple we have got together with who we've been out to dinner with more often than we've had sex with.

I regularly put the word out each year for socials at the Proms and have met a few Fabbers that way. "

This sounds like a great idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love social meets, group or 1-1 "

If your ever in the North West maybe we can arrange one

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I don't really do many socials. Tend to just go to clubs for play meets.

Do on rare occasions make exceptions but it is rare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had an amazing one today. Eagerly anticipating now

Happy to hear this "

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By *pforfun12Man
over a year ago

Norwich

That’s the only for me you got to feel that vibe

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By *heekyDemandCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

There's a monthly Fetish social in Leicester, just food, chatting, playing pool and drinks. Lots of fun, lovely people.

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By *alleyDaveMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I would love a 1 on 1 social ,but not interested in group socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am just curious as to whether social meets are still a thing or if they are a thing of the past.

Social meets give you the chance to get to know each other a little bit more and see if there is any connection to make the next meet better."

Tenderising and good seasoning can make your meat better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love social meets. If we stopped meeting 'swingers' for sexual meets then I think we would still continue to meet socially with strict no play.

I've grown to be quite fond of a lot of people we talk to. Some are friends for life.. Unfortunately for them.

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love social meets. And I love meeting people I’ve already met for further social meets. Dates, if you like.

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

We love, a, social first, it's so interesting to meet all these different people. To see if there's any attraction from either side.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Always social first I find it hard to make a connection with people online.

Mrs

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun

Like a social first as a general rule

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Always social first I find it hard to make a connection with people online.

Mrs "

Interesting I liked a meeting of minds before a social meet .

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

all ways social first for us

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Never play on a first meet always social first.

It's got to be done.

You can chat with someone online but it's impossible to get the true reflection of the person.

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Never play on a first meet always social first.

It's got to be done.

You can chat with someone online but it's impossible to get the true reflection of the person.

"

Interesting its always worked for me .

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Never play on a first meet always social first.

It's got to be done.

You can chat with someone online but it's impossible to get the true reflection of the person.

Interesting its always worked for me ."

That's just our preference.

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By *arleyfatboy2019Couple
over a year ago

Devon

A social first . It gives everyone a chance to be relaxed and have no pressure to perform. Just a chat, coffee and a laugh. If it goes well then we move on to a second social and nakedness appears

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Never play on a first meet always social first.

It's got to be done.

You can chat with someone online but it's impossible to get the true reflection of the person.

Interesting its always worked for me .

That's just our preference."

Indeed what works for you .

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't think they're a thing of the past at all; over the past few months I've had the pleasure of meeting lots of people socially whether it's group or more intimate socials.

I love them - it's a great way of spending time with people without any pressure or expectations and seeing if chemistry translates to real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone knows one in Essex/London this weekend dm me please xx

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

3rd Rock from the sun

I have had socials which have led to bedroom fun straight away and it was great fun

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I always do social meetings first. Sometimes more than one, in different places. I want to feel the connection and to see how the other person carries themselves in public.

I mainly meet much younger men and I want to make sure they are equally enthusiastic about being seen with me outside the bedroom and are comfortable with themselves as they are about sex behind the closed doors.

That is a very important factor for me.

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By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Always a social first for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socials first only for us

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By *empted23Couple
over a year ago

countryside

The reason we still haven’t played with anyone is because apparently single males who are apparently happy to just rock up and get naked with strangers all get stage fright when it’s explained they will need to have had a social first

They are a hugely important thing for us

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By *quidgeyWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

Seems socials are still very much a thing. They sure are for me. It’s an absolute must

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Always social first I find it hard to make a connection with people online.

Mrs

Interesting I liked a meeting of minds before a social meet ."

I'd never know if there was any real attraction until a meet face to face.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a social first, I'm not the type to just show up and get naked. I need to see who you are, your body language, mannerisms, they way you walk and talk etc, I need to see all of that before I'm attracted. You might look nice in a photo but if everything else is off it's a no go.

I just think there's a lot of guys that freak out at a social and run off which makes no sense when they were prepared to just get down to it with a total stranger. What's so scary about a social that's means sex is less scary?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Definitely a thing

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By *olf and RedCouple
over a year ago

Nr Cardiff or at Chams Darlaston

We always like a social before any play. We go to lots of group socials too and they’re great fun. Have made some lovely friends through the group socials.

Red

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

For me social meets were not a social thing, but to check if I got any mass murderer vibes from them.

Sipping my hot chocolate, giving them the once over to see if I could spot their trouser bulge whilst surreptitiously looking for red flags.

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

Met a few people on fab just for social meets. It's great to have someone to do some social stuff with and also speak openly about your sexual interests.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Socials are often as much fun as anything that may happen afterwards.

I've had socials that went no further and still enjoyed someone's company.

What's wrong withba coffee and a natter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a social get to know alot more if anything else happens later also just a nice friendly chat and drink win win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me social meets were not a social thing, but to check if I got any mass murderer vibes from them.

Sipping my hot chocolate, giving them the once over to see if I could spot their trouser bulge whilst surreptitiously looking for red flags."

Don't forget teasing your victim by flirtatiously easing down the zip on your anorak

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I actually prefer this as a first meet.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I will always without fail meet for a social in a public place first. I won't have sex on this social but I often kiss at the end if the chemistry is there.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

When I first meet someone, it is a social meet only. Always has been always will be x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A must have personally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meet is always a social and nothing promised beyond that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Happy to see so many of you all saying socials are still something you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet socially. I enjoy meeting people and chatting and seeing if there is any chemistry/connection.

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