FabSwingers.com forum: Finding A partner on fab !!!!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi everyone, I’m new to Fab.. just after peoples thoughts is it possible to find a relationship from this place?

I know it’s harder for guys to make their way on this site

It’s kind of difficult when you’ve got a high sex drive to meet someone mainstream if they can keep up with you and also age gaps. Do they really matter?

Positive replies, only cheers

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Yes, it's possible, several couples on the forum got together through fab.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Yes, it's possible, several couples on the forum got together through fab."

Is this the kind of relationship you're talking about?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

What kind of relationship are you asking for?

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Hi everyone, I’m new to Fab.. just after peoples thoughts is it possible to find a relationship from this place?

I know it’s harder for guys to make their way on this site

It’s kind of difficult when you’ve got a high sex drive to meet someone mainstream if they can keep up with you and also age gaps. Do they really matter?

Positive replies, only cheers"

Yep Maya and I have been together 10 years.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

It happens. There are loads of couples here that met and relationships blossomed…. Whatever type of relationship you seek. As with real life the key is to allow things to grow naturally, rather than look for a relationship look for whoever interests you and let relationships grow from that. What I’ve learned over the years is there’s no one way to have a great relationship and the beauty of fab is that that are people here that embrace a slightly more alternative outlook perhaps. So don’t let anyone tell you it’s not a dating site. It’s whatever you want it to be.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I struggled when I first started until I went to a club and socialised. Once I got a genuine veri you’ll find people to be a lot more receptive if your feedback is positive.

Go to a club mate, you don’t have to participate if you don’t want to but talk to people, it’s going to open doors for you. Obviously you’re going to need to sell yourself a little don’t just rely on sex talk, actually engage in other people’s interests and you’ll find people who once shunned you will start to engage with you more.

I’m no expert on fab but this is my experience. As long as you’re respectful and you control that sex drive so you’re not too pushy you’ll do fine

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A proper one … with someone that gets your naughty side haah

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks spoken on cam to people . Room but no one Veris easy ahah I’ll work on that ….

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks x

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

Yes... it is

Especially when u weren't expecting it or wanting it.

Oh and yes age gap.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes... it is

Especially when u weren't expecting it or wanting it.

Oh and yes age gap."

Always the best way to be your right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes... it is

Especially when u weren't expecting it or wanting it.

Oh and yes age gap."

Hit reply and quote so everyone knows who you're replying to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes... it is

Especially when u weren't expecting it or wanting it.

Oh and yes age gap.

Hit reply and quote so everyone knows who you're replying to."

Hahaha thanks what a donut … you can tell I’m new on fab right !! Haahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes... it is

Especially when u weren't expecting it or wanting it.

Oh and yes age gap.

Hit reply and quote so everyone knows who you're replying to.

Hahaha thanks what a donut … you can tell I’m new on fab right !! Haahaha"

We were all there once.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Relationships

Marriage

Friendships

Dynamics

Fab has it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the forums OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Welcome to the forums OP"

Why thanks you all for being so nice x

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

It’s possible definitely. But I think wiser not to go looking for here - better to be open to it as so many people aren’t here actively looking for that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s possible definitely. But I think wiser not to go looking for here - better to be open to it as so many people aren’t here actively looking for that. "

Oh not looking I’m not desperate but I like the idea of a filthy gf hahaha

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"A proper one … with someone that gets your naughty side haah"

It's very possible.

Quite a few couples on the forums met on here, and I'm guessing others who don't use the forums did too.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"It’s possible definitely. But I think wiser not to go looking for here - better to be open to it as so many people aren’t here actively looking for that.

Oh not looking I’m not desperate but I like the idea of a filthy gf hahaha"

Filthy in what way?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We met on here.

Always better to find something when you’re not looking for it.

But having the same sexual appetite is certainly one of the foundations for a healthy relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We met on here.

Always better to find something when you’re not looking for it.

But having the same sexual appetite is certainly one of the foundations for a healthy relationship.

Amen to that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s possible definitely. But I think wiser not to go looking for here - better to be open to it as so many people aren’t here actively looking for that.

Oh not looking I’m not desperate but I like the idea of a filthy gf hahaha

Filthy in what way?"

Just high sex drive and open

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"It’s possible definitely. But I think wiser not to go looking for here - better to be open to it as so many people aren’t here actively looking for that.

Oh not looking I’m not desperate but I like the idea of a filthy gf hahaha

Filthy in what way?

Just high sex drive and open "

It may take you a while but there's every chance you'll find someone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s possible definitely. But I think wiser not to go looking for here - better to be open to it as so many people aren’t here actively looking for that.

Oh not looking I’m not desperate but I like the idea of a filthy gf hahaha

Filthy in what way?

Just high sex drive and open

It may take you a while but there's every chance you'll find someone.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did once, never again, ever.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Relationships

Marriage

Friendships

Dynamics

Fab has it all

Exciting hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I did once, never again, ever."

Ohhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been lucky enough to have had a couple of "relationships " with guys I've met on fab.

It's very possible but it may take a while to find it

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"I did once, never again, ever."

I thought that once. Then I did. Then I did it again.

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By *ecretescapeCouple
over a year ago

I'm looking myself. I can't see normal dating would work when I know i want both of us to play with others. I've put on my profile that I'm looking for a partner, I have had some nice messages since from guys looking for similar

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

"Yes... it is

Especially when u weren't expecting it or wanting it.

Oh and yes age gap.

Hit reply and quote so everyone knows who you're replying to."

No need... its answer to op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here, coming up to 8 years now, been married for 5 and a half. We met on a dating thread.

Best post I ever made!

Danish x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We met on here, coming up to 8 years now, been married for 5 and a half. We met on a dating thread.

Best post I ever made!

Danish x"

Ahhhh nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did once, never again, ever.

I thought that once. Then I did. Then I did it again.

Oh dont say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did once, never again, ever.

I thought that once. Then I did. Then I did it again.

Can someone please delete my profile now!

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By *eforuWoman
over a year ago

ely

"We met on here, coming up to 8 years now, been married for 5 and a half. We met on a dating thread.

Best post I ever made!

Danish x"

Where is the dating thread on here? I'm on dating sites but no luck and we all have needs on here looking for a regular fwb but ultimately would like to date. Don't really know my way around the fab menu so to speak just reply to messages.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"We met on here, coming up to 8 years now, been married for 5 and a half. We met on a dating thread.

Best post I ever made!

Danish x

Every now and then someone starts a thread....post here if you are looking for a relationship type thread

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By *eforuWoman
over a year ago

ely

"We met on here, coming up to 8 years now, been married for 5 and a half. We met on a dating thread.

Best post I ever made!

Danish x

Thanks x

Every now and then someone starts a thread....post here if you are looking for a relationship type thread "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We met on here, coming up to 8 years now, been married for 5 and a half. We met on a dating thread.

Best post I ever made!

Danish x

I'm sure one will pop up soon x

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"What kind of relationship are you asking for?"
He wants happily ever after and kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but it won't happen instantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi everyone, I’m new to Fab.. just after peoples thoughts is it possible to find a relationship from this place?

I know it’s harder for guys to make their way on this site

It’s kind of difficult when you’ve got a high sex drive to meet someone mainstream if they can keep up with you and also age gaps. Do they really matter?

Positive replies, only cheers"

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d not date anyone I met on here

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By *asterR and slut mayaMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"I’d not date anyone I met on here

I'm heartbroken I've been singing

Could be forever .

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By *ester.jamesMan
over a year ago

birmingham

Sounds nice meeting someone from here you enjoy talking to and playing with and becoming serious. Won’t happen to me for a while though haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What kind of relationship are you asking for?He wants happily ever after and kids

Grow up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's definitely possible. I know a few people where they've met their partner on here. Anything is possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends what kind of relationship you’d want

Personally, I’ve been dating girls and found out they were on here and chose to break it off, because I think in the long term I want a monogamous relationship

Many people are extremely happy not doing that though, so Fabs might actually be the perfect place to find someone that’s already that way inclined

You gotta figure out what you want, then go for it

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

For the OP,

Don’t chase the relationship. Enjoy the site and the lifestyle and wait for the relationship to find you.

We did just that..

together 5 years and married last weekend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For the OP,

Don’t chase the relationship. Enjoy the site and the lifestyle and wait for the relationship to find you.

We did just that..

together 5 years and married last weekend. "

Congratulations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends what kind of relationship you’d want

Personally, I’ve been dating girls and found out they were on here and chose to break it off, because I think in the long term I want a monogamous relationship

Many people are extremely happy not doing that though, so Fabs might actually be the perfect place to find someone that’s already that way inclined

You gotta figure out what you want, then go for it "

Forgive me for prying. You break off because they are on here because you ultimately want monogamy yet you are on here too. Why might they also not want monogamy and like you, only here in the interim?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not for me. I want a monogamous relationship. Id rather try find someone on an actual dating site or real life rather than it start via meeting on here. I’m sure there are others on here who would want a monogamous relationship too but would we trust each other? Not sure. I guess the same goes for meeting someone anywhere any way though. Depends what you both want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends what kind of relationship you’d want

Personally, I’ve been dating girls and found out they were on here and chose to break it off, because I think in the long term I want a monogamous relationship

Many people are extremely happy not doing that though, so Fabs might actually be the perfect place to find someone that’s already that way inclined

You gotta figure out what you want, then go for it "

It is absolutely possible to be on here and want to be monogamous if you find someone you want to build something with.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Forget about messaging women op. They just get too many to reply. Join in with forum/cam room chat and make friends. Get noticed and who knows, they might approach you. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Forget about messaging women op. They just get too many to reply. Join in with forum/cam room chat and make friends. Get noticed and who knows, they might approach you. Good luck!"

Cheers

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Anything is possible on here.

I met my last partner on here (neither of us looking for a relationship) it was fun while it lasted (2 years) x

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By *ycanNightsMan
over a year ago

Workington

Yes. Totally possible. I met my partner on here.

But I'd say don't go looking for it here. But it's amazing what can happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi everyone, I’m new to Fab.. ….

It’s kind of difficult when you’ve got a high sex drive to meet someone mainstream if they can keep up with you….."

Sorry. I read between the lines. I hope you don’t. Mind op.

Good luck.

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By *itaandJohnCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

It's definitely possible, we've been together for over 5 years and met via our old individual profiles here on Fab. We'd say it's likely a rarer occurrence to meet a long term partner on here though, for a number of reasons. That being said initially matching through our sexual interests and libido was a great first step, as you can't really do that in the monogamous dating world as easily. We're now more poly leaning than swingers, but are still very grateful for finding each other on Fab. We wish you the best for meeting a partner

"Hi everyone, I’m new to Fab.. just after peoples thoughts is it possible to find a relationship from this place?

I know it’s harder for guys to make their way on this site

It’s kind of difficult when you’ve got a high sex drive to meet someone mainstream if they can keep up with you and also age gaps. Do they really matter?

Positive replies, only cheers"

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

It’s entirely possible - the best things are found when they happen naturally, with no expectation

I met my other half here 1.5yrs ago and neither of us were looking for a relationship at the time, that said I’m am very happy to have found him xx

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We found each other on here (although by accident in terms of a relationship). However if you seek a long term relationship going forward that is sexually non-monogamous or monogamish then logically this site and the wider scene is a good place to look. Many happy long term relationships have been made in the lifestyle. After all we all want to be with someone who accepts and hopefully shares our sexual desires. It's just as important as acceptance of the other aspects of who we are.

Good luck to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It depends what kind of relationship you’d want

Personally, I’ve been dating girls and found out they were on here and chose to break it off, because I think in the long term I want a monogamous relationship

Many people are extremely happy not doing that though, so Fabs might actually be the perfect place to find someone that’s already that way inclined

You gotta figure out what you want, then go for it

Just the way I feel

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I have some how ended up in a relationship with a wonderful human after meeting through this site. I will add that it was the last thing I was looking for - in fact I would say I was actively against getting feelings for anyone

Just be yourself, have fun and if you meet someone along the way then it's a bonus

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have some how ended up in a relationship with a wonderful human after meeting through this site. I will add that it was the last thing I was looking for - in fact I would say I was actively against getting feelings for anyone

Just be yourself, have fun and if you meet someone along the way then it's a bonus

Ah nice one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on fab and are now together, not married but live together with our families

It’s fantastic as where else could you meet like minded people

Sex is a very important part of a healthy relationship, so if you’re both in the same place, as in you’re both kinky then it’s a great start

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

My partner and I have been together 2 years after meeting due to a "my mate fancies you" thread on here.

Neither of us was looking, neither of us wanted a relationship, but sometimes it just fits and can be the best thing in your life.

People meet their partners in all sorts of places, OP. Fab is just one of those places where people make connections.

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By *he Infamous Minxie MinxWoman
over a year ago

Sussex

Yes it's possible overthe years I've been on and off here I've had 3 relationships - all ended for different reasons xx

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I’d not date anyone I met on here

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why not, its just a selection of guys and girls going about their lives and as long as they are loyal whats the problem?

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