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What is a SLAG and is it an insult?

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By *oneybee1001 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Around and about

I'll fly the flag on this one

If a SLAG is Sexually Liberated And Glorious then yup I'm good with it. I also recognise that everyone I've ever met in a swingers club does the same as me so they must also be a FABulous SLAG so it cannot possibly be an insult - right? I mean nobody could possibly be insulting their own pals like that right?

So, what is a SLAG to you and do you use it at an insult (not including when it was used in the schoolyard, I mean whilst you've been old enough to vote lol!)

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

It's an Eastenders insult and I can't hear hit any other way

LvM

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

It was a great insult on The Sweeney.

(Didn’t it refer to a grass?)

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By *oneybee1001 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Around and about


"It's an Eastenders insult and I can't hear hit any other way

LvM"

Ooh yeah, you're right! I hadn't remembered that it's an East End term of endearment! "Alright you slag" Love that!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Slag is a by-product of smelting ores and recycled metals. Slag is mainly a mixture of metal oxides and silicon dioxide. Broadly, it can be classified as ferrous, ferroalloy or non-ferrous/base metals. Within these general categories, slags can be further categorized by their precursor and processing conditions.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Slag is a by-product of smelting ores and recycled metals. Slag is mainly a mixture of metal oxides and silicon dioxide. Broadly, it can be classified as ferrous, ferroalloy or non-ferrous/base metals. Within these general categories, slags can be further categorized by their precursor and processing conditions.

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I'd find this really sexy if it wasn't copied and pasted. Which I fear it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t use it as an insult but I’m very weary about using language like that to describe women that way and feel weird hearing it unless they describe themselves that way in a reclamation of the word. I think slag and slut, are insulting terms that have been reclaimed and I think are fair to be used positively by women.

I may use the term slut to refer to myself jokingly or in relation to ethical sluthood but other than that it’s probably something I’d steer clear of.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"Slag is a by-product of smelting ores and recycled metals. Slag is mainly a mixture of metal oxides and silicon dioxide. Broadly, it can be classified as ferrous, ferroalloy or non-ferrous/base metals. Within these general categories, slags can be further categorized by their precursor and processing conditions.

I'd find this really sexy if it wasn't copied and pasted. Which I fear it is."

I'm choosing to believe he just knows. So I can keep finding it sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eating 2 chicken and mushroom King Pot Noodles.

Proppa slaaaaaaaag

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I don't like any of that language at all

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By *oneybee1001 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Around and about


"I don’t use it as an insult but I’m very weary about using language like that to describe women that way and feel weird hearing it unless they describe themselves that way in a reclamation of the word. I think slag and slut, are insulting terms that have been reclaimed and I think are fair to be used positively by women.

I may use the term slut to refer to myself jokingly or in relation to ethical sluthood but other than that it’s probably something I’d steer clear of.

"

I agree, I take it as a compliment to be called a SLAG, I'm clearly enjoying my life in a glorious way, what's not to love about that!

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By *oneybee1001 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Around and about


"Slag is a by-product of smelting ores and recycled metals. Slag is mainly a mixture of metal oxides and silicon dioxide. Broadly, it can be classified as ferrous, ferroalloy or non-ferrous/base metals. Within these general categories, slags can be further categorized by their precursor and processing conditions.

I'd find this really sexy if it wasn't copied and pasted. Which I fear it is.

I'm choosing to believe he just knows. So I can keep finding it sexy "

I do wish there was a 'like' button in the forums lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t use it as an insult but I’m very weary about using language like that to describe women that way and feel weird hearing it unless they describe themselves that way in a reclamation of the word. I think slag and slut, are insulting terms that have been reclaimed and I think are fair to be used positively by women.

I may use the term slut to refer to myself jokingly or in relation to ethical sluthood but other than that it’s probably something I’d steer clear of.

I agree, I take it as a compliment to be called a SLAG, I'm clearly enjoying my life in a glorious way, what's not to love about that! "

Loving yourself makes life so much more fun.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"I don’t use it as an insult but I’m very weary about using language like that to describe women that way and feel weird hearing it unless they describe themselves that way in a reclamation of the word. I think slag and slut, are insulting terms that have been reclaimed and I think are fair to be used positively by women.

I may use the term slut to refer to myself jokingly or in relation to ethical sluthood but other than that it’s probably something I’d steer clear of.

"

well said pickles

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"Slag is a by-product of smelting ores and recycled metals. Slag is mainly a mixture of metal oxides and silicon dioxide. Broadly, it can be classified as ferrous, ferroalloy or non-ferrous/base metals. Within these general categories, slags can be further categorized by their precursor and processing conditions.

I'd find this really sexy if it wasn't copied and pasted. Which I fear it is."

Of course it is. I mean I know what it is, but it's lazy mood and I can't be bothered to type it all

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

I don't use it personally

I do find it insulting, if a woman wants to refer to herself as one then its her choice.

Personally I don't think of myself in that way neither do I see men a community dick

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

The term slag originated as the above poster said and most steelworks had a "slag heap" where the byproducts slag where heaped up into mountain sized heap's hence the term "thrown on the slag heap" I can only assume that it was then shortened to be used as an insult "slag" at a later stage.

I think the difference between a slag and a slut is possibly (and I'm guessing here) slag is pretty useless and ugly looking material that no-one wants, where as a slut is someone who's open minded enough to admit they love the D.

So in summary I wouldn't like to refer to anyone lady or otherwise as a slag unless they specifically requested it.

Same as slut but that seems more of a trendy phrase these days.

I think?

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slag is a by-product of smelting ores and recycled metals. Slag is mainly a mixture of metal oxides and silicon dioxide. Broadly, it can be classified as ferrous, ferroalloy or non-ferrous/base metals. Within these general categories, slags can be further categorized by their precursor and processing conditions.

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As a metallurgist I can confirm that this is correct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t use it as an insult but I’m very weary about using language like that to describe women that way and feel weird hearing it unless they describe themselves that way in a reclamation of the word. I think slag and slut, are insulting terms that have been reclaimed and I think are fair to be used positively by women.

I may use the term slut to refer to myself jokingly or in relation to ethical sluthood but other than that it’s probably something I’d steer clear of.

"

So just to be clear, am I ok to say I'm a complete whore for a good doughnut and the like or do I need to be careful of who I say it around?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just makes me think of smithy and gav

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's an Eastenders insult and I can't hear hit any other way

LvM"

Indeed.

"get out of my pub, you slag.." barbara windsor epic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All words are subject to interpretation

There’s a million things that go into a word that makes up its meaning

Laughing and calling your mate a slag is very different to a dirty looking and calling someone you don’t know at the club a slag. Just a look can be an insult if you do it right

Rather then attaching arbitrary labels to words, understand that intention is the most important thing

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’m old cause it remember the SLAG night club / event in the UK - straights lesbians and gays.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"I don't use it personally

I do find it insulting, if a woman wants to refer to herself as one then its her choice.

Personally I don't think of myself in that way neither do I see men a community dick "

Oh I am so stealing Community Dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't use it personally

I do find it insulting, if a woman wants to refer to herself as one then its her choice.

Personally I don't think of myself in that way neither do I see men a community dick

Oh I am so stealing Community Dick "

Also- he’s for the streets/ he belongs to the streets/roads

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'd never call anyone a slag. In my mind it conjures up (and yes this is a problematic bias and I can own that) a woman with a slightly erm something accent, wearing a lot of makeup and with a particular approach to sex. And veris that back that up. I'd never call someone a slag though because... it's problematic.

I don't know why I feel more comfortable with the term slut. Perhaps it's because it's been reclaimed and used by my friends a lot. Perhaps because of my problematic perception differentials; a slut to me is someone who enjoys a lot of sex. I make jokes about going through my slutty phase currently but I'd never call it a slaggy stage.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't use it personally

I do find it insulting, if a woman wants to refer to herself as one then its her choice.

Personally I don't think of myself in that way neither do I see men a community dick

Oh I am so stealing Community Dick

Also- he’s for the streets/ he belongs to the streets/roads"

Community dick is amazing! As is he's for the street. I use mantart to describe certain men's behaviour but I prefer community dick. It works.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"I don't use it personally

I do find it insulting, if a woman wants to refer to herself as one then its her choice.

Personally I don't think of myself in that way neither do I see men a community dick

Oh I am so stealing Community Dick "

LOOOL oh dear

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt


"I don't use it personally

I do find it insulting, if a woman wants to refer to herself as one then its her choice.

Personally I don't think of myself in that way neither do I see men a community dick

Oh I am so stealing Community Dick

Also- he’s for the streets/ he belongs to the streets/roads"

Yeahhhh dead them talks there its unnecessary its double standard type of get up

I'm not with all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A word with lots of meanings bit like lots of words but for me calling a woman a slag isn’t nice. Can’t easily think of a situation where it would be nice.

If you want to use a word for sexually liberated and free woman maybe “slutty” is better but I am not sure as I type

Perhaps follow the famous quote “if you can’t say something nice don’t say anything”

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By *oneybee1001 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Around and about


"I'd never call anyone a slag. In my mind it conjures up (and yes this is a problematic bias and I can own that) a woman with a slightly erm something accent, wearing a lot of makeup and with a particular approach to sex. And veris that back that up. I'd never call someone a slag though because... it's problematic.

I don't know why I feel more comfortable with the term slut. Perhaps it's because it's been reclaimed and used by my friends a lot. Perhaps because of my problematic perception differentials; a slut to me is someone who enjoys a lot of sex. I make jokes about going through my slutty phase currently but I'd never call it a slaggy stage."

Hmm interesting, you're right, it's totally problematic as I've heard of women calling other women a slag - for doing exactly the same things (or less) that they and their 'mates' do! I see it as either a childish insult if said for those reasons, or recognition of me being gloriously sexually liberated and loving life lol!

Yeah I get you on the slutty phases, we all go through them right? Lol!

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By *oneybee1001 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Around and about


"A word with lots of meanings bit like lots of words but for me calling a woman a slag isn’t nice. Can’t easily think of a situation where it would be nice.

If you want to use a word for sexually liberated and free woman maybe “slutty” is better but I am not sure as I type

Perhaps follow the famous quote “if you can’t say something nice don’t say anything” "

Not everybody knows how to be nice lol! I'd like to think that most people in this scene are sound, with the occasional off day, however, that doesn't always appear to be the case! A genuine smile and a kind word go a long way - in all areas of life me thinks

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I'd never call anyone a slag. In my mind it conjures up (and yes this is a problematic bias and I can own that) a woman with a slightly erm something accent, wearing a lot of makeup and with a particular approach to sex. And veris that back that up. I'd never call someone a slag though because... it's problematic.

I don't know why I feel more comfortable with the term slut. Perhaps it's because it's been reclaimed and used by my friends a lot. Perhaps because of my problematic perception differentials; a slut to me is someone who enjoys a lot of sex. I make jokes about going through my slutty phase currently but I'd never call it a slaggy stage.

Hmm interesting, you're right, it's totally problematic as I've heard of women calling other women a slag - for doing exactly the same things (or less) that they and their 'mates' do! I see it as either a childish insult if said for those reasons, or recognition of me being gloriously sexually liberated and loving life lol!

Yeah I get you on the slutty phases, we all go through them right? Lol! "

It's quite a bitchy term as far as insults go, isn't it? I just wouldn't stoop to using that to describe another because they're having sex. So what if they are? Good for them. As long as I'm not being hurt or lied to, I don't really care how many cocks someone wants to gag on in a night. Or ride until they're an aching sore mess.

Slutty phases are the best! I'm aware that my version of slutty possibly doesn't match others, I'm a bit boring. Slutty for me maybe? Sod it though. Sex is to be enjoyed. There's something so liberating about meeting fantastic people for great sex and it being easy. Fun. Really fucking hot. Long live your slutty years OP.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

To quote Bob Hopkins

" you slaaag your right out of order"

To be said in a thick gruff cockney accent as in orda instead of order.

Jolly good

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"I'll fly the flag on this one

If a SLAG is Sexually Liberated And Glorious then yup I'm good with it. I also recognise that everyone I've ever met in a swingers club does the same as me so they must also be a FABulous SLAG so it cannot possibly be an insult - right? I mean nobody could possibly be insulting their own pals like that right?

So, what is a SLAG to you and do you use it at an insult (not including when it was used in the schoolyard, I mean whilst you've been old enough to vote lol!) "

Unfortunately, SLAG doesn’t mean sexually liberated and glorious. It is generally seen as a derogatory term. No, I’ve never used it.

In better news, and irate motorist wound down his window recently and shouted at me that I was a Committed User of New Technology, which was nice. I smoked and thanked him, which seemed to annoy him.

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By *sername already in useMan
over a year ago

manchester

The stoney waste matter separated from metals during the smelting or refining of ore

Somebody might have said already, reading was effort though

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

In my part of North London and the parts of North & East London that I frequent if I called a lady a slag or slut it would be seen as a insult and could result in a punch up.

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By *oneybee1001 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Around and about


"I'll fly the flag on this one

If a SLAG is Sexually Liberated And Glorious then yup I'm good with it. I also recognise that everyone I've ever met in a swingers club does the same as me so they must also be a FABulous SLAG so it cannot possibly be an insult - right? I mean nobody could possibly be insulting their own pals like that right?

So, what is a SLAG to you and do you use it at an insult (not including when it was used in the schoolyard, I mean whilst you've been old enough to vote lol!)

Unfortunately, SLAG doesn’t mean sexually liberated and glorious. It is generally seen as a derogatory term. No, I’ve never used it.

In better news, and irate motorist wound down his window recently and shouted at me that I was a Committed User of New Technology, which was nice. I smoked and thanked him, which seemed to annoy him. "

Mwhaha that's brilliant! I may refer to that word in that way myself! Lol! Thank you for sharing

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Honestly it's just a word. A slang word at that. Get over it.

If somebody wants to refer to themselves, and be called it then go for it, enjoy it and own it. Fuck what other people think. Their opinions should mean as little to you as their opinion on anything else. Would you care on their opinion on what you should name a baby, a dog, what colour curtains or wallpaper you should get?

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"In my part of North London and the parts of North & East London that I frequent if I called a lady a slag or slut it would be seen as a insult and could result in a punch up."

But in most London boozer's a geezer could also be referred to as a slag.

As in

" you fuckin slag u lookin at my bird's Titz?"

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

If a man called me that with no context I would be insulted.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"In my part of North London and the parts of North & East London that I frequent if I called a lady a slag or slut it would be seen as a insult and could result in a punch up.

But in most London boozer's a geezer could also be referred to as a slag.

As in

" you fuckin slag u lookin at my bird's Titz?""
. It has been known to happen in some London boozers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a compliment. If someone calls me a slag it's because I said no to fucking them and they are very sad that I fucked other people but won't fuck them.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I would never insult any woman just for enjoying sex.

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By *inkyguyUKMan
over a year ago

worcester

Women who enjoy sex and have multiple partners should be honored so if slag refers to them then slag can be used as a term of empowerment and pride. I like women who love being called a slag but I understand it has a negative attachment to them. I am a male slag and love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the right setting I don’t mind being called the 3-4-5 letter bad words during it or afterwards

But once they leave then that privilege leaves with them

Also I am allowed to refer myself to them at any point

I tend to just refer to them as the 3-4-5 lettter bad words so people don’t just randomly message me that

3 letter would be hoe 4 letter would be slut slag tart and what not 5 is whore

If someone dose randomly call me it

I have a awwsome come back for it

Yes you got that right I am a insert “witch ever bad word they called me” and I am damm proud off it hi at leas us insert “witch ever bad word they called me” have all the fun but man it must be a real bad day when the insert “witch ever bad word they called me” will not go to bed with you

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By *agnar73Man
over a year ago

glasgow-ish

Always think ‘The Sweeney’

Don’t think I’d actually say to a woman.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"Slag is a by-product of smelting ores and recycled metals. Slag is mainly a mixture of metal oxides and silicon dioxide. Broadly, it can be classified as ferrous, ferroalloy or non-ferrous/base metals. Within these general categories, slags can be further categorized by their precursor and processing conditions.

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I wonder if it’s the fact that it is the waste product, basically the unwanted bit after it’s served its purpose?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"It's an Eastenders insult and I can't hear hit any other way

LvM"

Also I hear it as DI Burnside on the bill

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By *tanley FunseekerMan
over a year ago

stanley

I thought it was the waste/spoil from coal mining?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I wouldn't like anyone to call me one on here, I think it's still used in a derogatory way tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't like anyone to call me one on here, I think it's still used in a derogatory way tbh. "

Me too and the word shag

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester

Slag to me is a derogatory word!!...slut however is totally different...I'm one of those

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Slag is what is thrown away ..... it's useless , no one wants it, it's the bottom of any pile .....

Can refer to metals or coal etc .... any material worked with and the detrius is the lowest of the low and has no value whatsoever...

So.... NO I do not like the word slag attached to anyone not just women.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Slag to me is a derogatory word!!...slut however is totally different...I'm one of those "

Really ? A woman who is bad at keeping a tidy home ? A sluttern ?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

No idea. When I was young it was used for someone who shagged around. Not sure now, I’m sure it’s changed. I don’t like the word and don’t use it.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Don't like it. Never used it

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester


"Slag to me is a derogatory word!!...slut however is totally different...I'm one of those

Really ? A woman who is bad at keeping a tidy home ? A sluttern ?"

I don't interpret it as that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can think it is whatever they want to think, personally I think it’s a nasty word and I wouldn’t use it. Much prefer skank

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Up to the receiver……

If they take it as a compliment, it is!

If they take it as an insult, it is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

SLAG is the simultaneous localization and guidance algorithm associated with robots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slag is a by-product of smelting ores and recycled metals. Slag is mainly a mixture of metal oxides and silicon dioxide. Broadly, it can be classified as ferrous, ferroalloy or non-ferrous/base metals. Within these general categories, slags can be further categorized by their precursor and processing conditions.

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I love it when you talk dirty

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

I think slag is a bit mean slut has a little sexiness to it needs the right context tho

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I've upgraded the word Slag to Community Vagina

Community Vagina Seeks Community Dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an insult in all shape and form. No one would call someone that without suggesting they 'sleep around' or judgement of their character so its always a negative context.

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