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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

and were, say 21 years old... what would you do different if anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I be 18 - in which case absolutely! I'd have left my abusive ex after the first time he hit me.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"and were, say 21 years old... what would you do different if anything? "

Learned to drive instead of leaving it so late in life and have a 2nd child.

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"and were, say 21 years old... what would you do different if anything? "

Never ever ever let a bastard family member babysit.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Can I be 18 - in which case absolutely! I'd have left my abusive ex after the first time he hit me."
Just because its you, Ruby... you can be 18 again

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"and were, say 21 years old... what would you do different if anything?

Never ever ever let a bastard family member babysit. "
Heck that sounds serious - hope all is weel for you now x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

On the whole... Not much. I have lived a really happy life, have/had a fantastic family and continue to do so. A small blip a few years ago but overall, a great life.

I look forward to the future.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"and were, say 21 years old... what would you do different if anything?

Learned to drive instead of leaving it so late in life and have a 2nd child. "
You might be a better driver for it though?

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"and were, say 21 years old... what would you do different if anything?

Never ever ever let a bastard family member babysit. Heck that sounds serious - hope all is weel for you now x"

Still have to stop killing, but hey life goes on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were married at 21 so there is not a lot to change relationship wise .

Maybe we would have started swinging earlier and maybe I would of got out of farming whilst the going was good instead of working on a series of crap to crappier jobs .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and were, say 21 years old... what would you do different if anything? "

Well im not that far past that age really but I am honestly glad of most of the mistakes I made looking back now. At the time it was bad but now i think fuck it thats whats made me

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

i was living the dream at 21, loads of women, partys, clubs and fun. I loved it best years of my life. Now pass my pipe and slippers i need a rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be asy to say, yes get rid of this bit of my life and never meet this person...but no. I believe in fate.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I honestly would not change a thing....have had a fantastic marriage, fantastic children, and have loved every second of my adult life

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Made a lot of very large mistakes, and a lot of bad choices, but the journey made me who I am now, and as my lovely man loves who I am now, then I wouldnt change a thing.

(except not getting the opportuinity to say goodbye to my Dad ) x

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By *ll-Knight-longMan
over a year ago

Derby/Notts(Long Eaton)

Things have never been easy but the things that went bad made me who I am today

so never forget ....never regret

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm not sure I would change much. I think the other choices would have led to different experiences but I'm not sure the outcome would be any different.

The only thing I might do I press for more follow-up after being attacked just before my 21st birthday. I might not have had some of the health problems that followed.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"and were, say 21 years old... what would you do different if anything?

Learned to drive instead of leaving it so late in life and have a 2nd child. You might be a better driver for it though? "

Then again I'd have never met my best friend, who has been there for the last 5 years of my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and were, say 21 years old... what would you do different if anything? "

I would go back to the last few weeks of 2012...was last time I had good, hardcore sex lately, its been "nice and gentle"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If, and you didn't clarify this point, I had the knowledge and life experiences I have now then ................ bloody hell I would have been a nightmare back then ............. but boy would I have had fun and wouldn't have done tooo much differently ..... just more of it!!!!!!! perhaps it's good we can't go backwards !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i could have my time again i would never get married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot change my past, but I can use it to change my Future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably wouldn't have bothered with Uni...just left me with a lot of debt that 10yrs on I'm still not fully out of. Ho hum...live and learn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would go back to when I was 14, and stay out of the way when people were messing about with air pistols.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldnt change anything, because all the things that have happened to me both good and bad have made me who I am today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learn to ride, instead of waiting 2 years, split up with my ex sooner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to be a lot younger than that and be stronger so that I can report a family member that screwed up my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From 21 until now?

So many things I would've done differently as a lot of mistakes were made during this period.

Silk

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By *aris23Woman
over a year ago

France


"Can I be 18 - in which case absolutely! I'd have left my abusive ex after the first time he hit me.Just because its you, Ruby... you can be 18 again "

Can I be 18 too please Aphro? Some of us started our grown life a little younger than 21!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I've mulled this question over before. My conclusion is no. I've made stupid decisions and mistakes in my life but I've always learned something from them which has made me a better person, I feel.

I have no regrets in my life. Cannot see the point. And I am happier now than I have ever been. Had I not had some rough times because of stupid decisions made then I would not appreciate what I have now quite so much.

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

Probably have worked less and changed my focus from one thing to another

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Can I be 19 and just said to someone fuck off I aint doing it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess the trouble with changing your own past would be the ongoing cause and effect principle it might create upon the lives everyone else….

So for that reason, it seems unfair to selfishly change the path of your own life without taking responsibility for impact that could have on the lives of others…… so nah,,,, nowt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and were, say 21 years old... what would you do different if anything? "

Can I just pass to the next stage please? Anyone got a cheat code?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I would like to have been a bit more savvy money and financial wise... but other than that I wouldn't change a lot...

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Can I be 18 - in which case absolutely! I'd have left my abusive ex after the first time he hit me.Just because its you, Ruby... you can be 18 again

Can I be 18 too please Aphro? Some of us started our grown life a little younger than 21! "
Of course you can, Paris... I think I ll stick to maybe 30 for a bit?

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I've mulled this question over before. My conclusion is no. I've made stupid decisions and mistakes in my life but I've always learned something from them which has made me a better person, I feel.

I have no regrets in my life. Cannot see the point. And I am happier now than I have ever been. Had I not had some rough times because of stupid decisions made then I would not appreciate what I have now quite so much."
There is a good argument to support this - we would not be what we are today if it had not been for all the experiences... although some people might say they had experiences they really rather not have had.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Can I be 19 and just said to someone fuck off I aint doing it... "
Absolutely - think you should do that and you ll probably feel better (even if it can only be done in theory!)

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By *tu and ChezCouple
over a year ago

leicestershire

Hi chez here if i could i wouldn't be without any of my children i love them to bits but i wouldn't have had my first child at 17 and i would have stopped at three children! And not wasted 15years with a loser and a waste of space! But then again i met my now lovely husband and it was right time for both of us we are perfect together so if i had to go through everything to get him at the end then its all been worth it!

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I guess the trouble with changing your own past would be the ongoing cause and effect principle it might create upon the lives everyone else….

So for that reason, it seems unfair to selfishly change the path of your own life without taking responsibility for impact that could have on the lives of others…… so nah,,,, nowt! "
Had not thought of that ...and yes, you re right it would have affected others

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Discover Fab at 21 when I was young hot and sexy, not at 50 when i am far from it.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Hi chez here if i could i wouldn't be without any of my children i love them to bits but i wouldn't have had my first child at 17 and i would have stopped at three children! And not wasted 15years with a loser and a waste of space! But then again i met my now lovely husband and it was right time for both of us we are perfect together so if i had to go through everything to get him at the end then its all been worth it! "

I agree with that I would not want to change anything re my children and family.

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Discover Fab at 21 when I was young hot and sexy, not at 50 when i am far from it."
OMG can you imagine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Discover Fab at 21 when I was young hot and sexy, not at 50 when i am far from it.OMG can you imagine? "

It didn't exist then, as didn't the Internet! Its got a lot to answer for lol!!!

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By *phrodite OP   Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Discover Fab at 21 when I was young hot and sexy, not at 50 when i am far from it.OMG can you imagine?

It didn't exist then, as didn't the Internet! Its got a lot to answer for lol!!!"
It did when I was 30 lol

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Discover Fab at 21 when I was young hot and sexy, not at 50 when i am far from it.OMG can you imagine?

It didn't exist then, as didn't the Internet! Its got a lot to answer for lol!!!It did when I was 30 lol "

I was meaning if i was 21 in 2013 not 21 in 1980.

and OMG yes i can imagine, all these lucky young people on fab mmmmm

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