FabSwingers.com forum: Younger and Older

By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago

elvedon

So most people have a different preference . Some like older some like younger and some think age is just a number . I want to hear what peoples attractions are to younger people and what peoples attractions are to older people ?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

I tend to connect better with people a smidge older than myself.

The attraction is much more dependant on the person than how long they've been alive.

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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago

elvedon

"I tend to connect better with people a smidge older than myself.

The attraction is much more dependant on the person than how long they've been alive."

So could say your a mixture of both then connect better with people a bit older but the attraction could be age is just number and more dependent on the person

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Age is just a number.

I do think going for under 25s would be predatory at my age, and I prefer to stay over 30. But one of my favourite people is only in his 20s.

It is what it is.

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By * MailMan
over a year ago

Poole

Currently and unexpectedly attracted to a woman I work with mid sixties but petite and amazing for her age, which is no longer important as she’s gorgeous

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

What are your thoughts on it O.P. ?

What is your reason for asking ?

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By *taste4olderMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

I've always preferred much older then myself mainly for the experience less judgemental and more open is a big attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes do wonder why older people are interested in me. Not complaining though.

I’m attracted to people my age and older and there’s no reason other than I find them attractive. Both mentally and physically. I wouldn’t be with someone I wasn’t attracted to in some way.

I do tend to date people my own age though but I think that’s because older women would rarely date a younger guy in my experience. We’re only good for the sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love older people there bodies seem more interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to connect better with people a smidge older than myself.

The attraction is much more dependant on the person than how long they've been alive."

Until very recently I don’t know why but I thought you were in your 20s lmao

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By *uzySuzyCouple
over a year ago

Lytham St Annes

younger

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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago

elvedon

"What are your thoughts on it O.P. ?

What is your reason for asking ?"

No reason really just enjoy having a debate and hearing peoples views here . I personally like older women because I feel I connect better with them .

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By *uangshanMan
over a year ago

jarrow

My personal preference is for younger because there fitter/ slimmer but older fit healthy people how look after there body I find just as horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

I've always preferred older and Paul prefers younger so that works for us.

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By *quidgeyWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

My preference on here is younger. Simply for shallow aesthetic reasons!!

I do tend to attract the young bloods. Can’t think why!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say we should ask our therapists this question

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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago

elvedon

"My preference on here is younger. Simply for shallow aesthetic reasons!!

I do tend to attract the young bloods. Can’t think why!!

I can see why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normaly go for a few years a older than me not really into younger guys

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By *ama bamaMan
over a year ago

dalkeith

When I was younger it was always older now as I am an old relic it's younger I seek

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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago

elvedon

Good to see a real mixture

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"I tend to connect better with people a smidge older than myself.

The attraction is much more dependant on the person than how long they've been alive.

Until very recently I don’t know why but I thought you were in your 20s lmao "

Recently as in when you got to see the wrinkles in person without my kind lighting to soften the blow?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to connect better with people a smidge older than myself.

The attraction is much more dependant on the person than how long they've been alive.

Until very recently I don’t know why but I thought you were in your 20s lmao

Recently as in when you got to see the wrinkles in person without my kind lighting to soften the blow?

No in person you still looked like you were in your 20s. But I checked your profile recently. You know. I can do that.

I was in disbelief

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By *oofy321Man
over a year ago

moon base zero

Age is a number, I dont get any messages from anyone any age lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm ancient Happy with anyone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely find an older man attractive, but there are certainly a few. I've only ever slept with one and he was fantastic. Very thoughtful, great kisser and a decent person.

I like younger men because they're rarely into status and owning things like men my age. They're open, good communicators and not judgmental.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Age isn't just a number. Age reflects physical development and changes. I am only attracted to men around the same age as myself.

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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago

elvedon

"Age isn't just a number. Age reflects physical development and changes. I am only attracted to men around the same age as myself."

Yeah I do see your point . But as some people on this thread age isn’t really a factor for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age isn't just a number. Age reflects physical development and changes. I am only attracted to men around the same age as myself."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes me

when a man says age is just a number after I've said hes too young. It is not just a number....to me! I do prefer younger than me but when some 20 something tries telling me I'm wrong/I obv dont think I can keep up/age is just a number it just adds them to the block list.

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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago

elvedon

"Makes me

I guess when it’s used in that context the phrase could be seen as rather annoying .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The older the sexier…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Makes me

I can relate to this, it’s like some of the younger men are in shock that we are not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age isn't just a number. Age reflects physical development and changes. I am only attracted to men around the same age as myself."

It’s true. At 26 I’m far more able than anyone over 35. These are unavoidable truths

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age isn't just a number. Age reflects physical development and changes. I am only attracted to men around the same age as myself.

It’s true. At 26 I’m far more able than anyone over 35. These are unavoidable truths"

Able at what?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

I'm often, coincidentally / conveniently, attracted to whoever lands in my Inbox, regardless of age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm often, coincidentally / conveniently, attracted to whoever lands in my Inbox, regardless of age."

Shut the front door! Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like either much older or much younger

18-24ish and 50+ are the sweet spot for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age isn't just a number. Age reflects physical development and changes. I am only attracted to men around the same age as myself."

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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago

elvedon

"I'm often, coincidentally / conveniently, attracted to whoever lands in my Inbox, regardless of age.

Shut the front door! Really?"

Or a pulse ? Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm often, coincidentally / conveniently, attracted to whoever lands in my Inbox, regardless of age.

Shut the front door! Really?

Or a pulse ? Haha"

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By *utie bootyMan
over a year ago

the manor that never was

I was abused a child by an older woman, and now I just don't seem as interested in younger/same age women.

I haven't worked out weather I'm trying to take the power back or if its just my preferance.

I'll let younall know if i ever find the answer ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm often, coincidentally / conveniently, attracted to whoever lands in my Inbox, regardless of age.

Shut the front door! Really?

Or a pulse ? Haha"

To be fair, the ladies who contact Nero are going to have taste aren't they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does age matter if you connect?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I prefer meeting younger guys, I like their energy/vibe. I think of myself as young still and usually have the same interests.

They also have less baggage/trauma, less jaded by life, generally more fun!

I also like to hear their thought process and think I can teach them a thing or 2 about how to interact with women.

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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago

elvedon

"I'm often, coincidentally / conveniently, attracted to whoever lands in my Inbox, regardless of age.

Shut the front door! Really?

Or a pulse ? Haha

To be fair, the ladies who contact Nero are going to have taste aren't they?"

Oh 100%

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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago

elvedon

"Does age matter if you connect?"

I see your point

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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago

elvedon

"I prefer meeting younger guys, I like their energy/vibe. I think of myself as young still and usually have the same interests.

They also have less baggage/trauma, less jaded by life, generally more fun!

I also like to hear their thought process and think I can teach them a thing or 2 about how to interact with women. "

Great way to look at someone younger . And interesting to see you would enjoy teaching them a thing or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So most people have a different preference . Some like older some like younger and some think age is just a number . I want to hear what peoples attractions are to younger people and what peoples attractions are to older people ? "

Have met a few younger ladies and guys down to 20's but only a couple of older men.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"Age isn't just a number. Age reflects physical development and changes. I am only attracted to men around the same age as myself.

It’s true. At 26 I’m far more able than anyone over 35. These are unavoidable truths"

Ability is irrelevant if I am not attracted to the person in the first place. I used to get pawed by young lads when I used to get clubbing. I would say no thank you nicely, they would say stuff like....what's your problem babe, worried you couldn't keep up with me all night ? Then they got the not so polite response. You are making my skin crawl just being this close and touching me briefly, the thought of being groped all night by you makes me want to throw up, go away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age isn't just a number. Age reflects physical development and changes. I am only attracted to men around the same age as myself.

It’s true. At 26 I’m far more able than anyone over 35. These are unavoidable truths

Able at what?"

Who knows? Who knows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age isn't just a number. Age reflects physical development and changes. I am only attracted to men around the same age as myself.

It’s true. At 26 I’m far more able than anyone over 35. These are unavoidable truths

Able at what?

Who knows? Who knows?"

Hey you said it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have met a few younger ladies and guys down to 20's but only a couple of older men.

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was that when you were younger or the age you’re at now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age isn't just a number. Age reflects physical development and changes. I am only attracted to men around the same age as myself.

It’s true. At 26 I’m far more able than anyone over 35. These are unavoidable truths

I was just talking about running around at soft play with my daughter.

And I was joking anyway. Age has little or impact on sexual performance, or intelligence or any of those things.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

My track record is with people all older than myself... aside from one 20 year old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age isn't just a number. Age reflects physical development and changes. I am only attracted to men around the same age as myself.

It’s true. At 26 I’m far more able than anyone over 35. These are unavoidable truths

Able at what?

Who knows? Who knows?

Hey you said it

Oh I was joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age isn't just a number. Age reflects physical development and changes. I am only attracted to men around the same age as myself.

It’s true. At 26 I’m far more able than anyone over 35. These are unavoidable truths

I was just talking about running around at soft play with my daughter.

And I was joking anyway. Age has little or impact on sexual performance, or intelligence or any of those things.

Backtracking now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age isn't just a number. Age reflects physical development and changes. I am only attracted to men around the same age as myself.

It’s true. At 26 I’m far more able than anyone over 35. These are unavoidable truths

I was just talking about running around at soft play with my daughter.

And I was joking anyway. Age has little or impact on sexual performance, or intelligence or any of those things.

Backtracking now

Wait you genuinely think that was a serious post

Disappointed but not surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age isn't just a number. Age reflects physical development and changes. I am only attracted to men around the same age as myself.

It’s true. At 26 I’m far more able than anyone over 35. These are unavoidable truths

I was just talking about running around at soft play with my daughter.

And I was joking anyway. Age has little or impact on sexual performance, or intelligence or any of those things.

Backtracking now

Wait you genuinely think that was a serious post

Disappointed but not surprised"

The ‘these are unavoidable truths’ was a clear giveaway of sarcasm I felt. But alas

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

I've always got along better with guys younger than me

From my experiences the older guys have just been liars saying they're single and in their bathroom sometimes by the door is feminine items

Nope they don't cross dress either before anyone starts.

I like the younger guys but with an old head on their shoulders

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By *ovetolick78Man
over a year ago

The Shire

I can get on with either, although if the time ages has nothing to do with if you'll get on or not mentally or physically. As long as we have have a good chat I'm happy and never like quick meets and communication is half the fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age isn't just a number. Age reflects physical development and changes. I am only attracted to men around the same age as myself.

It’s true. At 26 I’m far more able than anyone over 35. These are unavoidable truths

I was just talking about running around at soft play with my daughter.

And I was joking anyway. Age has little or impact on sexual performance, or intelligence or any of those things.

Backtracking now

Wait you genuinely think that was a serious post

Disappointed but not surprised

The ‘these are unavoidable truths’ was a clear giveaway of sarcasm I felt. But alas"

Ok I believe you

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By *lym4realCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Mr4's Ex used to like the younger male as she reckoned it gave her more choice ? and Mrs4 quite likes the younger male but then as she points out most males on here act and send messages like hormonally ravaged teenagers anyway who've had their very 1st glance of a bra strap/panties and even some boobies ...xxx

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I seem to float in a 30-50 bracket.

But there have been exceptions either way. I don't it's a hard rule for me age. If the conversation works and I am feeling it that's what matters.

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By *onsShlongMan
over a year ago

bury

I'm 29 but have always preferred women 40+. They excite me

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By *ustus555Couple
over a year ago

NG 21

Have been approached by a MUCH younger cpl before. Met them in the flesh, & have to say. While it was immensely flattering, having a 20 Yr old wanting to junp our bones just didn't sit right.

They were great about it to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always had a thing for younger, when I was single, I had my sights set on meeting someone under 30 (I was 36 at the time) and doughnut made the cut with about 5 weeks to spare!

I always said when I was in my 40s though, no one under 30 but I found myself being attracted to 20 something's, not entirely sure why but I just do. Men older than me I'm just not attractive too.

Danish x

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By *t0600 OP Man
over a year ago

elvedon

" Mr4's Ex used to like the younger male as she reckoned it gave her more choice ? and Mrs4 quite likes the younger male but then as she points out most males on here act and send messages like hormonally ravaged teenagers anyway who've had their very 1st glance of a bra strap/panties and even some boobies ...xxx

Haha I like that . Sometimes doesn’t matter how old still have the mental age of a young man

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"I tend to connect better with people a smidge older than myself.

The attraction is much more dependant on the person than how long they've been alive.

Until very recently I don’t know why but I thought you were in your 20s lmao

Recently as in when you got to see the wrinkles in person without my kind lighting to soften the blow?

No in person you still looked like you were in your 20s. But I checked your profile recently. You know. I can do that.

I was in disbelief"

You're alright pickle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always gravitated towards older men...10+ as I used to find they were more mature than the younger lot but nowadays it's same same....

now I'm just attracted to good food.

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