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"Nostalgia is a hell of a drug and rose tint is one hell of a colour. People didn't care about each other all that much more than they do now. Conflict and controversy was still strong back then. There was little care for those that are different, so much less care than there is no in that regard. Different sexuality, race, even those with different hobbies and interests were bullied and picked on by adults no less." All this too! For many people/communities the 80s were a complete shit show. | |||
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"Nostalgia is a hell of a drug and rose tint is one hell of a colour. People didn't care about each other all that much more than they do now. Conflict and controversy was still strong back then. There was little care for those that are different, so much less care than there is no in that regard. Different sexuality, race, even those with different hobbies and interests were bullied and picked on by adults no less." Couldn't agree more. But because we didn't have instant global communication we didn't have access to the world's lack of care like we do now. | |||
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"Nostalgia is a hell of a drug and rose tint is one hell of a colour. People didn't care about each other all that much more than they do now. Conflict and controversy was still strong back then. There was little care for those that are different, so much less care than there is no in that regard. Different sexuality, race, even those with different hobbies and interests were bullied and picked on by adults no less." Fair point looking at it from racism, bigotry, homophobia pov I guess. We were definitely less accepting of those that were in the margins. | |||
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"Hm. I am tempted to say I miss everything- the music, the food, the toys, the cartoons, not the clothes because parents wouldn’t buy ![]() ![]() food dose not taste the sane | |||
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"Hm. I am tempted to say I miss everything- the music, the food, the toys, the cartoons, not the clothes because parents wouldn’t buy ![]() ![]() It probably tastes so much better now thanks to the availability of an abundance of ingredients | |||
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"Nostalgia is a hell of a drug and rose tint is one hell of a colour. People didn't care about each other all that much more than they do now. Conflict and controversy was still strong back then. There was little care for those that are different, so much less care than there is no in that regard. Different sexuality, race, even those with different hobbies and interests were bullied and picked on by adults no less. All this too! For many people/communities the 80s were a complete shit show." Exactly this , my dad was Irish and I had every comedy twat at school asking me how many bombs he made for the ira every day And people wonder why I'm so proud of my Irish side | |||
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"I miss folk caring about each other" This was the hallmark of Thatcher's Britain. | |||
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"I miss folk caring about each other This was the hallmark of Thatcher's Britain." I miss the miner's strikes. And free school milk. And having a bowl cut. Mrs TMN x | |||
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"I miss folk caring about each other This was the hallmark of Thatcher's Britain." And yet... | |||
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"Absolutely nothing " Good tune | |||
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"Hm. I am tempted to say I miss everything- the music, the food, the toys, the cartoons, not the clothes because parents wouldn’t buy ![]() ![]() That is exactly what I miss- the probably-now-forbidden artificial flavourings and colourings. Not saying they were better, just that I miss them…. Something else I don’t miss- adults chain-smoking ![]() | |||
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"Common sense and respect. ![]() And logic | |||
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"I miss folk caring about each other The music and the food" The music was more interesting other than that not much. | |||
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"I was born in 96 ![]() Please leave the room independently!! ![]() | |||
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"Kids playing out in the street! " My youngest and his mates do that now, it's lovely to see bikes and scooters everywhere, only see him when he wants food or a plaster. ![]() | |||
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"What I miss from the 80s is the nostalgia for the 60s. ![]() ![]() This I have to agree with ![]() | |||
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"Early 80s I was totally feral. Always out with my mates. No one knew where we were or what we got up to. By late 80s I was a teen. Still feral. But I had manners amd respect, cos I was raised right I guess I miss manners and respect" ![]() | |||
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"Talks with my gran in her little Terrace in Garston Nan, mum says I'm not supposed to have red top. How old are you? 6 Well I'm very old aren't I? Yes Thank you, and I have been here a very long time? Yes Do you think maybe I have learnt a few things? Yeaaaahhh Well trust me you will see every 10 years or so they change their mind. Sometimes it's silver, sometimes red, sometimes blue. They like to reinvent the wheel, even if the wheelbarrow is on fire. You just drink what you like... ok? Yes nan thanks nan. . Now go play out. Don't be a bully aaaand? Don't let anyone bully me Love you Nan ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Kids playing out in the street! " Policemen playing on the street | |||
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"Early 80s I was totally feral. Always out with my mates. No one knew where we were or what we got up to. By late 80s I was a teen. Still feral. But I had manners amd respect, cos I was raised right I guess I miss manners and respect ![]() Scrumping Being able to switch a light on without fear of an overdraf Tuborg gold Sit down space invaders Being able to see people's faces Being able to pay with cash The orchard nightclub | |||
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"I miss folk caring about each other The music and the food" Being innocent At school not work Know what I knew then was rubbish and lies Music Parties Clubs 80s.. Food and games 80s prices | |||
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"Nostalgia is a hell of a drug and rose tint is one hell of a colour. People didn't care about each other all that much more than they do now. Conflict and controversy was still strong back then. There was little care for those that are different, so much less care than there is no in that regard. Different sexuality, race, even those with different hobbies and interests were bullied and picked on by adults no less. All this too! For many people/communities the 80s were a complete shit show. Exactly this , my dad was Irish and I had every comedy twat at school asking me how many bombs he made for the ira every day And people wonder why I'm so proud of my Irish side " You're proud because he made bombs? | |||
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"Talks with my gran in her little Terrace in Garston Nan, mum says I'm not supposed to have red top. How old are you? 6 Well I'm very old aren't I? Yes Thank you, and I have been here a very long time? Yes Do you think maybe I have learnt a few things? Yeaaaahhh Well trust me you will see every 10 years or so they change their mind. Sometimes it's silver, sometimes red, sometimes blue. They like to reinvent the wheel, even if the wheelbarrow is on fire. You just drink what you like... ok? Yes nan thanks nan. . Now go play out. Don't be a bully aaaand? Don't let anyone bully me Love you Nan ![]() ![]() Indeed quite a loss and the value unappreciated at the time. ![]() | |||
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"A life with no mobile phones, such an evil necessity." Definitely glad camera phones didn't exist then ![]() | |||
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"I miss folk caring about each other The music and the food" I mis some people that are no longer alive. I miss the long summer nights and long summer holidays that seemed to last forever. I miss getting 10 sweets from the penny tray (or 8 and one from the 2p tray). But they are more to do with the passage of time and remembering being young than specific to the 80s. | |||
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"The A team. ![]() Think the A team means something different now | |||
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"Surely no one can miss the music of the 1980s... seeing as most of the sad bastard's have reformed now... ![]() Apart from the dead ones of course .., | |||
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"I miss folk caring about each other The music and the food" You must have lived through a very different 80's to me because caring for each other?? Can I just say one word. THATCHER | |||
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"I miss folk caring about each other The music and the food You must have lived through a very different 80's to me because caring for each other?? Can I just say one word. THATCHER " What a shit tip basket case this country would be without her.Michael Foot? Really? Kinnock?The socialist Republic of Utopia where everything is nationalised and nothing works. | |||
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"I miss folk caring about each other The music and the food You must have lived through a very different 80's to me because caring for each other?? Can I just say one word. THATCHER What a shit tip basket case this country would be without her.Michael Foot? Really? Kinnock?The socialist Republic of Utopia where everything is nationalised and nothing works. " What you mean like the amazing condition the country is in now ? | |||
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"I miss folk caring about each other The music and the food You must have lived through a very different 80's to me because caring for each other?? Can I just say one word. THATCHER What a shit tip basket case this country would be without her.Michael Foot? Really? Kinnock?The socialist Republic of Utopia where everything is nationalised and nothing works. What you mean like the amazing condition the country is in now ? " Courtesy of Blair and his fetish for destroying educational standards, devaluing degrees until they are worthless pieces of junk socpop trash and undermining British values in favour of his mates in France and Germany? | |||
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"I miss folk caring about each other The music and the food " The crazy thing is is that the 80's were when people 'officially' started to put themselves before others! The age of Thatcherism (the modern British Catholicism), that never-leaving guilt over non-conformity, "Greed is Good", Trump Towers, endless privatisation (selling off everything the parents of those people fought for, from council houses to care homes to our utilities and technological infrastructure), the age of 'product' for it's own sake and marketing pretty much anything for the sake of sales (music albums being knocked out with anything as filler for example), the age of green Armani suits and fashion label fascism in schools, money, money, money... the nuclear family before the extended family (nuclear family and nuclear power over anything alternative), terrible wages, higher purchase, boom-bust-boom-bust, competition obsession, the rat race, survival of the fittest, the arms race, de-funding of all the arts (and our world class cinema industry even) because creativity is seen as threatening, the idea society "doesn't exist" because we all have to move where the work is and then move again and again. Jobs that would cynically move us around. The elderly being seen as in the way.... Yet, yet... when it comes to genuinely caring (especially for the people who are clearly caring - 'snowflakes' and 'the woke' etc are so deeply hated) - how has it somehow got worse?? How is it even possible? pt | |||
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"Gigs without mobile phones and everyone just enjoying the moment rather than capturing their selfie. Oh and rewinding vids to return them to Blockbuster ![]() I absolutely detest the people that watch the entire gig through their mobile phone screen. You pay so much money for a lot of gigs these days. A lot of people really have lost the ability to just enjoy the experience without worrying about showing off the fact that they were at a gig on social media. | |||
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