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Chastity Hot or Not

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By *enclarke OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

What your thoughts on female led chastity.

controlling your mans cock locked away to tease until your ready to fuck it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own and all that, and I can see how *some* denial can lead to a big release once you’re finally allowed to cum, but other than that I personally can’t see the attraction of being denied sexual pleasure for extended periods, sometimes weeks or months.

I can’t see why you’d do that to yourself.

But hey, no kink shaming here, if you like it and it works for you, go fill your boots

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

Hated it when I was married but it kept me submissive

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

I have no thoughts on the matter do what makes you happy

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I don't get it, it's not for me.

I like dicks and enjoy pleasuring them.

I can't do that when some cage is in my way.

They don't look sexy either.

They have zero appeal to me.

If it's what you want to do though, go and enjoy yourself.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

I like chastity play at times. I have a mistress friend that sometimes puts me in micro cages and keeps the key for a week or so

Quite rare though to engage in this though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hated it when I was married but it kept me submissive

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Isn't that the whole point when used in a relationship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for us, would be a turn off. But each to their own.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Not a fan. I like peni to roam wild and free.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I doubt it would actually be female led, as in the woman suggesting it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By *acDreamyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

I think it could be hot if it actually increased sex play, teasing etc prior to a big release but not in any way if locked and ignored.

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By *rystal DreamtimeTV/TS
over a year ago

horsham

I’ve done honour chastity for an ex (21 days ) that’s where you agree not to touch it till she says so , no device needed ... It’s quite good fun actually , first 5 days were tough and then up to about 16 days ok really .. Then it became a bit of a struggle . The ejaculation after 3 weeks wasent so good actually I didn’t blow a hole in the wall type thing ..it was a bit of an anti climax pun intended ... Something to do with the functions shutting down if you don’t use it apparently ... 1 week chastity ( again honour ) is ok though , like weekend to weekend .. It gives your cock a bit of a rest and that’s a good feeling .. did mentally feel calmer whilst we were practising it . Not sure if I felt more submissive just a sense of achievement and that she was happy I did it and made her feel good ...

Devices ??? ... not sure , if I was asked , yeah I would , why not

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I can imagine enjoying teasing someone whilst they're not with me and in chastity for limited amounts of time whilst in my company, but I also love the D so it wouldn't be prolonged. The willing submission and the control...

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

It wouldn’t work for me. I like a man to be authoritative and take charge so in my head they don’t go together.

Plus, I want to play - being locked up would spoil the fun.

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By *ove to exploreMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I love you FAB ladies!!! Genuinely put a smile on my face

(Fe)Male chastity, I wouldn’t like because I wouldn’t be getting the D

… but you’re not wrong lol

I guess it’s only going to work if lady enjoys oral or she’s having sex with another man, a cuckold situation for example.

I know it’s used by some couples to solely to stop masturbation. So when lady is ready she releases him and when finishes she cages him again.

I’ve never tried it myself and I must agree it’s visually unappealing to.

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By *andycandy88Woman
over a year ago

Northolt

Definately not for me

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Not seeing that work for me.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

In a d/s dynamic, yeah I'd claim and cage him, but that would be a personal thing, I wouldn't have just anyone as a sub. I don't find cages attractive though, they are only a tool for me to use on him, at my pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a d/s dynamic, yeah I'd claim and cage him, but that would be a personal thing, I wouldn't have just anyone as a sub. I don't find cages attractive though, they are only a tool for me to use on him, at my pleasure "

Yep, you get it.

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