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By *dmundwilson OP Man
over a year ago

Llandudno

I’d say easily acoided if ine employs common decency. Answer, say no thanks. Easy! Tje snarky element here … ??

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

"I’d say easily acoided if ine employs common decency. Answer, say no thanks. Easy! Tje snarky element here … ??"

I’d say easily avoided if one employs common decency. Answer, say no thanks. Easy! The snarky element here … ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d say easily acoided if ine employs common decency. Answer, say no thanks. Easy! Tje snarky element here … ??"

What is easily avoided?

Are you annoyed because people don't reply to say no thanks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d say easily acoided if ine employs common decency. Answer, say no thanks. Easy! Tje snarky element here … ??

I’d say easily avoided if one employs common decency. Answer, say no thanks. Easy! The snarky element here … ??

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Welcome for what? Did he ask you to correct his post?

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By *dmundwilson OP Man
over a year ago

Llandudno

No, i notice threads on ‘bombardmebt’ amid parallel tales of muktiple messages. As such a second, third missive seems worth apunt. A no thanks wiuld stymie inwelcome missives. Fuether for a ‘live’ site things get too snotty.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

What do you mean by a "live" site?

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

"I’d say easily acoided if ine employs common decency. Answer, say no thanks. Easy! Tje snarky element here … ??

I’d say easily avoided if one employs common decency. Answer, say no thanks. Easy! The snarky element here … ??

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Welcome for what? Did he ask you to correct his post?"

You are 100% correct

OP I'm sooper sorry no offence intended I overstepped

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"No, i notice threads on ‘bombardmebt’ amid parallel tales of muktiple messages. As such a second, third missive seems worth apunt. A no thanks wiuld stymie inwelcome missives. Fuether for a ‘live’ site things get too snotty."

You're wrong and naive. Very often a 'no thanks' simply receives more messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone doesn't get a reply, it's their own stupid fault if they send more messages.

Saying no thanks often gets abuse- hence why some people don't reply.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"I’d say easily acoided if ine employs common decency. Answer, say no thanks. Easy! Tje snarky element here … ??

I’d say easily avoided if one employs common decency. Answer, say no thanks. Easy! The snarky element here … ??

Welcome

Welcome for what? Did he ask you to correct his post?

You are 100% correct

OP I'm sooper sorry no offence intended I overstepped

It was helpful to me. I have a headache and it was hard to read.

However, I am still not sure I fully understand the OP.

I think it's the lack of context mostly, at this point though.

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

"I’d say easily acoided if ine employs common decency. Answer, say no thanks. Easy! Tje snarky element here … ??

I’d say easily avoided if one employs common decency. Answer, say no thanks. Easy! The snarky element here … ??

Welcome

Welcome for what? Did he ask you to correct his post?

You are 100% correct

OP I'm sooper sorry no offence intended I overstepped

It was helpful to me. I have a headache and it was hard to read.

However, I am still not sure I fully understand the OP.

I think it's the lack of context mostly, at this point though."

Thanks Hans but my slapped wrist is well deserved

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I find just blocking works much better.

One click and its all over.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"no thanks"

Just engages with the person who either wants to know why not, or replies with insults.

No answer is an answer, according to the site rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure what you're trying to say OP.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"Not sure what you're trying to say OP.

I think the point is that...

If people replied "no thanks" rather than just leaving messages unread/deleted, you'd get less messages from butthurts wondering why you're not responding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure what you're trying to say OP.

I think the point is that...

If people replied "no thanks" rather than just leaving messages unread/deleted, you'd get less messages from butthurts wondering why you're not responding."

Ah ok. What does this mean then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I replied yesterday to a few guys saying no, thank you, they're too far away for me. Polite, I thought.

Both of them then replied back to negotiate. They will drive to me. But I don't want that. And also, I don't want to negotiators. I've said no. Politely. Now fuck off.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Ahh so it's our fault. Sorry men on behalf of all women that we tempt you to bombard us with messages because we didn't reply. Our bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahh so it's our fault. Sorry men on behalf of all women that we tempt you to bombard us with messages because we didn't reply. Our bad."

Apology accepted.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"Ahh so it's our fault. Sorry men on behalf of all women that we tempt you to bombard us with messages because we didn't reply. Our bad."

I think you can have a pass on that one.

On behalf of all men I provide you with said pass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahh so it's our fault. Sorry men on behalf of all women that we tempt you to bombard us with messages because we didn't reply. Our bad.

I think you can have a pass on that one.

On behalf of all men I provide you with said pass."

Rather have a hamster. Just sayin.

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

"Ahh so it's our fault. Sorry men on behalf of all women that we tempt you to bombard us with messages because we didn't reply. Our bad.

I think you can have a pass on that one.

On behalf of all men I provide you with said pass.

Rather have a hamster. Just sayin. "

I never got the parrot

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Ahh so it's our fault. Sorry men on behalf of all women that we tempt you to bombard us with messages because we didn't reply. Our bad."

#allmen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahh so it's our fault. Sorry men on behalf of all women that we tempt you to bombard us with messages because we didn't reply. Our bad.

I think you can have a pass on that one.

On behalf of all men I provide you with said pass.

Rather have a hamster. Just sayin.

I never got the parrot

I KNEW it!! Fraud Squad!

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By *dmundwilson OP Man
over a year ago

Llandudno

Meant love site. Typo. Not so living on occassion.

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By *dmundwilson OP Man
over a year ago

Llandudno

Its not about fault. It’s about common decency. I know eirld has moved on but generally if addressed i was taught to reply. Dont have to agree, but ought reply. It used to be just manners.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

"Ahh so it's our fault. Sorry men on behalf of all women that we tempt you to bombard us with messages because we didn't reply. Our bad.

I think you can have a pass on that one.

On behalf of all men I provide you with said pass.

Rather have a hamster. Just sayin.

I never got the parrot

Hey Parrots aren't like cookies, you can't just grab them from the Amazon.

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By *oco_marsWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

Saying a polite no thanks doesn't always end it though, sometimes they want a reason or send something nasty and have to be blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahh so it's our fault. Sorry men on behalf of all women that we tempt you to bombard us with messages because we didn't reply. Our bad.

I think you can have a pass on that one.

On behalf of all men I provide you with said pass.

Rather have a hamster. Just sayin.

I never got the parrot

Hey Parrots aren't like cookies, you can't just grab them from the Amazon.

Either you had one to swap for a hamster or you didn't, mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Saying a polite no thanks doesn't always end it though, sometimes they want a reason or send something nasty and have to be blocked

Even if they're given a reason they argue.

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By *nitterWoman
over a year ago

the land of tall tales and yarn

"Ahh so it's our fault. Sorry men on behalf of all women that we tempt you to bombard us with messages because we didn't reply. Our bad.

I think you can have a pass on that one.

On behalf of all men I provide you with said pass.

Rather have a hamster. Just sayin.

I never got the parrot

Hey Parrots aren't like cookies, you can't just grab them from the Amazon.

Then why did you take the cookie

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"Its not about fault. It’s about common decency. I know eirld has moved on but generally if addressed i was taught to reply. Dont have to agree, but ought reply. It used to be just manners. "

Site rules clearly state no reply=no thanks.

Also as soon as I reply to someone to say no it stops my future filters from working on this person.

I'll continue to not reply thanks.

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By *oco_marsWoman
over a year ago

Stockport

"Saying a polite no thanks doesn't always end it though, sometimes they want a reason or send something nasty and have to be blocked

Even if they're given a reason they argue.

Yep, you're not wrong!

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By *dmundwilson OP Man
over a year ago

Llandudno

Thats awhole another ball game.

It’simportant to recognise how. libido can interfere with natural restraint. Isn’t this place ‘all about’ unhinged libdo. Lord have Metcy! ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thats awhole another ball game.

It’simportant to recognise how. libido can interfere with natural restraint. Isn’t this place ‘all about’ unhinged libdo. Lord have Metcy! ??"

No. I'm not going to recognise that libido interferes with natural restraint. We are all adults here and should behave like it.

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By *dmundwilson OP Man
over a year ago

Llandudno

Maybe conider te extent of neural diversity inpeople.hat is true for you(complete control) is not attainable to more instinctive types perhaps.

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By *erendipityMan
over a year ago

Northampton

It's about time people realised No Reply is a reply in itself, it means No thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe conider te extent of neural diversity inpeople.hat is true for you(complete control) is not attainable to more instinctive types perhaps. "

No, I won't thank you. I have neurodiverse people in my life and they understand rules.

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By *dmundwilson OP Man
over a year ago

Llandudno

Some people are very uptight for libertines.

If for instance you see a message is unsent, see it in context of message onslaught. See whatever missive remains unseen so send another. Lookibg for sense and maybe understandinrather than permission.

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