FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Do you ever look at others and think

Jump to newest
 

By *ames-77 OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

Sometimes I do wish I could understand the simple pleasures of life but I've accepted the fact we all function differently.. it baffles me how people can look forward to the weekend to watch a movie or just to meet up and have a drink.. these things are so mundane to me,.I honestly wish I could understand it.. I need challenges i need stress I need something to sim towards and beat otherwise i just take on that attitude of depression and boredom .. I live off 2 hours sleep maximum and work 14 hour days and train 4 days a week if i didn't do this I'd be nothing and I'd have time to think about everything im not doing and spiral downwards..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I do wish I could understand the simple pleasures of life but I've accepted the fact we all function differently.. it baffles me how people can look forward to the weekend to watch a movie or just to meet up and have a drink.. these things are so mundane to me,.I honestly wish I could understand it.. I need challenges i need stress I need something to sim towards and beat otherwise i just take on that attitude of depression and boredom .. I live off 2 hours sleep maximum and work 14 hour days and train 4 days a week if i didn't do this I'd be nothing and I'd have time to think about everything im not doing and spiral downwards.. "

Well done you but people are different and all that that makes you happy makes others insane

Each to their own fella

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

That sounds awful. I hope things get better for you OP

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ames-77 OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"That sounds awful. I hope things get better for you OP "

Things are always good what sounds awful to you is what I learn to work with to my advantage ..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually


"That sounds awful. I hope things get better for you OP

Things are always good what sounds awful to you is what I learn to work with to my advantage .."

Thats good. What are you working so hard towards OP?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"That sounds awful. I hope things get better for you OP

Things are always good what sounds awful to you is what I learn to work with to my advantage .."
Their are no winners and losers in this life being happy for the short time you have is all that matters, as long as you feel you've achieved what you wanted and are happy with that achievement is all that matters

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I get what you are saying in a way mate. I have to pack my weekends with activity that I feel is constructive.

I used to drink with the boys most weekends but found I was actually bored and couldn’t wait to go back to work (I love my job) also used to stuff my body with rubbish food.

But two hours sleep bro!!!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you ever done the psychopath test op? Not in a murdery way obvs

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I do wish I could understand the simple pleasures of life but I've accepted the fact we all function differently.. it baffles me how people can look forward to the weekend to watch a movie or just to meet up and have a drink.. these things are so mundane to me,.I honestly wish I could understand it.. I need challenges i need stress I need something to sim towards and beat otherwise i just take on that attitude of depression and boredom .. I live off 2 hours sleep maximum and work 14 hour days and train 4 days a week if i didn't do this I'd be nothing and I'd have time to think about everything im not doing and spiral downwards.. "

Any chance you grew up in a house with lots of drama? People who had childhoods where there was always something going on (not in a good way always) sometimes struggle to have a calm life - it feels unnatural to them

Or maybe ADHD?

I mean if it doesn’t bother you then it’s fine, but if it does might want to look into it. Just be careful of burnout as you get to your 40s

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My weekends are my time to put my feet up. I work a physical job, do loads of overtime and train 5-6x a week. If I didn’t rest on the weekend I’d burn out very quickly.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Sometimes literally doing nothing is the best thing you can do.

People need to have the chance to rest, relax and unwind. And sometimes that means doing fuck all, sitting back and watching the world go by without a care in the world.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I do wish I could understand the simple pleasures of life but I've accepted the fact we all function differently.. it baffles me how people can look forward to the weekend to watch a movie or just to meet up and have a drink.. these things are so mundane to me,.I honestly wish I could understand it.. I need challenges i need stress I need something to sim towards and beat otherwise i just take on that attitude of depression and boredom .. I live off 2 hours sleep maximum and work 14 hour days and train 4 days a week if i didn't do this I'd be nothing and I'd have time to think about everything im not doing and spiral downwards.. "
Sleeping so little and working so much is not a flex. Some people are more time wealthy than others so they get to enjoy a film and a meal out. Just because someone’s not living to work or climbing munros every weekend doesn’t mean they are depressed or boring!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ames-77 OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

So much judgement on here

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"So much judgement on here "

Not really.

People are just different.

There's been no more judgement in any comment posted than the opening post.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ames-77 OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"So much judgement on here

Not really.

People are just different.

There's been no more judgement in any comment posted than the opening post."

Pretty sure I just read people saying maybe I grew up in a bad household and someone trying to label me with ADHD.. simple fact is like you said we are all different some people live for what I said and others find that boring and actually love to deal with stress and hard times instead of moaning and taking pills

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *im RoyleCouple
over a year ago

chester

2 hours sleep max??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can understand where you're coming from.

I need to be busy and constantly on the go because if I have too much down time I overthink and dwell on things.

I also function on small amounts of sleep.

I do however look forward to things, though sometimes they don't live up to the hype and I wonder what's wrong with me!

The burnout is real though.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff


"So much judgement on here

Not really.

People are just different.

There's been no more judgement in any comment posted than the opening post.

Pretty sure I just read people saying maybe I grew up in a bad household and someone trying to label me with ADHD.. simple fact is like you said we are all different some people live for what I said and others find that boring and actually love to deal with stress and hard times instead of moaning and taking pills "

Now you are judging....'moaning and taking pills'. Just because some people prefer to relax, meet friends etc...like you said. Everyone is different.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ames-77 OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"I can understand where you're coming from.

I need to be busy and constantly on the go because if I have too much down time I overthink and dwell on things.

I also function on small amounts of sleep.

I do however look forward to things, though sometimes they don't live up to the hype and I wonder what's wrong with me!

The burnout is real though.

"

Keep the momentum going.. you'll find depressed people are lazy people they make time to be depressed and moan can't happen if your constantly busy and working

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I do wish I could understand the simple pleasures of life but I've accepted the fact we all function differently.. it baffles me how people can look forward to the weekend to watch a movie or just to meet up and have a drink.. these things are so mundane to me,.I honestly wish I could understand it.. I need challenges i need stress I need something to sim towards and beat otherwise i just take on that attitude of depression and boredom .. I live off 2 hours sleep maximum and work 14 hour days and train 4 days a week if i didn't do this I'd be nothing and I'd have time to think about everything im not doing and spiral downwards.. "

Bloody hell mate, I'd of suspected you'd spent all your time taking pictures of your cock. That is some album of dick shots. How'd you find time for All them lot in your busy schedule! That's an art that is mate

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I couldn't give a rats arse what other people do in all honesty. Going by what you've said OP, I didn't think you'd have the time to post a topic about it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *astandFeistyCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

At first I was reading feeling 'I can understand what you're saying' then you went on the attack

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I can understand where you're coming from.

I need to be busy and constantly on the go because if I have too much down time I overthink and dwell on things.

I also function on small amounts of sleep.

I do however look forward to things, though sometimes they don't live up to the hype and I wonder what's wrong with me!

The burnout is real though.

Keep the momentum going.. you'll find depressed people are lazy people they make time to be depressed and moan can't happen if your constantly busy and working "

You know depression can be brought on by stress, overwork and pressure?

Evidently not.

I'm out.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can understand where you're coming from.

I need to be busy and constantly on the go because if I have too much down time I overthink and dwell on things.

I also function on small amounts of sleep.

I do however look forward to things, though sometimes they don't live up to the hype and I wonder what's wrong with me!

The burnout is real though.

Keep the momentum going.. you'll find depressed people are lazy people they make time to be depressed and moan can't happen if your constantly busy and working "

What would happen if you broke your leg or something and absolutely HAD to stop and lay in bed for a week?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So much judgement on here

Not really.

People are just different.

There's been no more judgement in any comment posted than the opening post.

Pretty sure I just read people saying maybe I grew up in a bad household and someone trying to label me with ADHD.. simple fact is like you said we are all different some people live for what I said and others find that boring and actually love to deal with stress and hard times instead of moaning and taking pills "

She was just asking. Why so defensive? What are you angry about?

Were you told by someone/ teachers/ parents that you are lazy and will never be anything in life?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like depression cure and prevention is found

Constantly busy and working makes me feel well down. Slowing down and smelling the flowers is amazing sometimes, you should try it.

Doesn't seem to me you really accepted all people are different.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 18/09/23 08:33:35]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *risfunMan
over a year ago

brisbane

Op are you saying you get 2 hrs sleep every night? If so I'm calling bullpoo. I work extremely long hours and have experiences burnout .2hrs is doable for a period but not for very long .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I do wish I could understand the simple pleasures of life but I've accepted the fact we all function differently.. it baffles me how people can look forward to the weekend to watch a movie or just to meet up and have a drink.. these things are so mundane to me,.I honestly wish I could

understand it.. I need challenges i need stress I need something to sim towards and beat otherwise i just take on that attitude of depression and boredom .. I live off 2 hours sleep maximum and work 14 hour days and train 4 days a week if i didn't do this I'd be nothing and I'd have time to think about everything im not doing and spiral downwards..

Bloody hell mate, I'd of suspected you'd spent all your time taking pictures of your cock. That is some album of dick shots. How'd you find time for All them lot in your busy schedule! That's an art that is mate "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago

Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work)

OP, Being non-stop is working for you now. It may work for you forever. If it ever feels like you don’t want to be non-stop and you struggle then, if that time comes, I’d suggest seeking a general psychological assessment.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ames-77 OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Sometimes I do wish I could understand the simple pleasures of life but I've accepted the fact we all function differently.. it baffles me how people can look forward to the weekend to watch a movie or just to meet up and have a drink.. these things are so mundane to me,.I honestly wish I could understand it.. I need challenges i need stress I need something to sim towards and beat otherwise i just take on that attitude of depression and boredom .. I live off 2 hours sleep maximum and work 14 hour days and train 4 days a week if i didn't do this I'd be nothing and I'd have time to think about everything im not doing and spiral downwards..

Bloody hell mate, I'd of suspected you'd spent all your time taking pictures of your cock. That is some album of dick shots. How'd you find time for All them lot in your busy schedule! That's an art that is mate "

Hahaha cracked me up!!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

See to me your life seems horrendous.it sounds exhausting like a hamster on some crazy wheel. I love relaxing watching Netflix or reading.

But let's not judge each other? We will never understand one another. We would never chose one another as a partner. But why a thread?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I do wish I could understand the simple pleasures of life but I've accepted the fact we all function differently.. it baffles me how people can look forward to the weekend to watch a movie or just to meet up and have a drink.. these things are so mundane to me,.I honestly wish I could understand it.. I need challenges i need stress I need something to sim towards and beat otherwise i just take on that attitude of depression and boredom .. I live off 2 hours sleep maximum and work 14 hour days and train 4 days a week if i didn't do this I'd be nothing and I'd have time to think about everything im not doing and spiral downwards..

Bloody hell mate, I'd of suspected you'd spent all your time taking pictures of your cock. That is some album of dick shots. How'd you find time for All them lot in your busy schedule! That's an art that is mate "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ames-77 OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Sometimes I do wish I could understand the simple pleasures of life but I've accepted the fact we all function differently.. it baffles me how people can look forward to the weekend to watch a movie or just to meet up and have a drink.. these things are so mundane to me,.I honestly wish I could understand it.. I need challenges i need stress I need something to sim towards and beat otherwise i just take on that attitude of depression and boredom .. I live off 2 hours sleep maximum and work 14 hour days and train 4 days a week if i didn't do this I'd be nothing and I'd have time to think about everything im not doing and spiral downwards..

Bloody hell mate, I'd of suspected you'd spent all your time taking pictures of your cock. That is some album of dick shots. How'd you find time for All them lot in your busy schedule! That's an art that is mate "

Legend

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

2 hours sleep a night? I'm not surehow you are coping with that! It will catch up with you eventually I think.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

I look at most people and wonder how/why they do some things a certain way.

I know most do the same to me.

But that's just the way they are, and the way I am. I've never fit in with the normal path.

They can continue to be and do them, and I'll be and do me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ames-77 OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"2 hours sleep a night? I'm not surehow you are coping with that! It will catch up with you eventually I think."

And you might be right but to answer it simply is I sleep when I need to sleep..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Sometimes I do wish I could understand the simple pleasures of life but I've accepted the fact we all function differently.. it baffles me how people can look forward to the weekend to watch a movie or just to meet up and have a drink.. these things are so mundane to me,.I honestly wish I could understand it.. I need challenges i need stress I need something to sim towards and beat otherwise i just take on that attitude of depression and boredom .. I live off 2 hours sleep maximum and work 14 hour days and train 4 days a week if i didn't do this I'd be nothing and I'd have time to think about everything im not doing and spiral downwards.. "

Think your lifestyle will play havoc with your heart one day.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ames-77 OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Sometimes I do wish I could understand the simple pleasures of life but I've accepted the fact we all function differently.. it baffles me how people can look forward to the weekend to watch a movie or just to meet up and have a drink.. these things are so mundane to me,.I honestly wish I could understand it.. I need challenges i need stress I need something to sim towards and beat otherwise i just take on that attitude of depression and boredom .. I live off 2 hours sleep maximum and work 14 hour days and train 4 days a week if i didn't do this I'd be nothing and I'd have time to think about everything im not doing and spiral downwards..

Think your lifestyle will play havoc with your heart one day."

You may also be right .. i wouldn't dismiss that possibility

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

The OP is scared. I think most of us can relate to that on some level

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ames-77 OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"The OP is scared. I think most of us can relate to that on some level "

What is it you think Im scared of my friend

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the significance of nothingness to be quite bliss. Life is simple by nature, we just make it complicated I belive, we are simple beings, in a complex and misleading society. The beauty of life is the fact that quite simply all we need in life is to eat, sleep, piss, shit, reproduce and be kind to others. Nothing else really matters

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I do wish I could understand the simple pleasures of life but I've accepted the fact we all function differently.. it baffles me how people can look forward to the weekend to watch a movie or just to meet up and have a drink.. these things are so mundane to me,.I honestly wish I could understand it.. I need challenges i need stress I need something to sim towards and beat otherwise i just take on that attitude of depression and boredom .. I live off 2 hours sleep maximum and work 14 hour days and train 4 days a week if i didn't do this I'd be nothing and I'd have time to think about everything im not doing and spiral downwards..

Bloody hell mate, I'd of suspected you'd spent all your time taking pictures of your cock. That is some album of dick shots. How'd you find time for All them lot in your busy schedule! That's an art that is mate

Hahaha cracked me up!!! "

I'm glad I could make you smile

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"The OP is scared. I think most of us can relate to that on some level

What is it you think Im scared of my friend "

"....otherwise i just take on that attitude of depression and boredom.."

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ames-77 OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Sometimes I do wish I could understand the simple pleasures of life but I've accepted the fact we all function differently.. it baffles me how people can look forward to the weekend to watch a movie or just to meet up and have a drink.. these things are so mundane to me,.I honestly wish I could understand it.. I need challenges i need stress I need something to sim towards and beat otherwise i just take on that attitude of depression and boredom .. I live off 2 hours sleep maximum and work 14 hour days and train 4 days a week if i didn't do this I'd be nothing and I'd have time to think about everything im not doing and spiral downwards..

Bloody hell mate, I'd of suspected you'd spent all your time taking pictures of your cock. That is some album of dick shots. How'd you find time for All them lot in your busy schedule! That's an art that is mate

Hahaha cracked me up!!!

I'm glad I could make you smile "

You did mate no matter what your initial intention of the comment was.. it made me laugh regardless it was humorous

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I do wish I could understand the simple pleasures of life but I've accepted the fact we all function differently.. it baffles me how people can look forward to the weekend to watch a movie or just to meet up and have a drink.. these things are so mundane to me,.I honestly wish I could understand it.. I need challenges i need stress I need something to sim towards and beat otherwise i just take on that attitude of depression and boredom .. I live off 2 hours sleep maximum and work 14 hour days and train 4 days a week if i didn't do this I'd be nothing and I'd have time to think about everything im not doing and spiral downwards..

Bloody hell mate, I'd of suspected you'd spent all your time taking pictures of your cock. That is some album of dick shots. How'd you find time for All them lot in your busy schedule! That's an art that is mate

Hahaha cracked me up!!!

I'm glad I could make you smile

You did mate no matter what your initial intention of the comment was.. it made me laugh regardless it was humorous "

The intention was to be none other than humours, its all love always.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ames-77 OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"The OP is scared. I think most of us can relate to that on some level

What is it you think Im scared of my friend

"....otherwise i just take on that attitude of depression and boredom..""

So a poor choice of words and s miscalculation of judgement on your behalf.. I don't fear anything whatsoever.. I live my life in a way that's designed to keep me busy and occupied and successful in what I do ..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ames-77 OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"Sometimes I do wish I could understand the simple pleasures of life but I've accepted the fact we all function differently.. it baffles me how people can look forward to the weekend to watch a movie or just to meet up and have a drink.. these things are so mundane to me,.I honestly wish I could understand it.. I need challenges i need stress I need something to sim towards and beat otherwise i just take on that attitude of depression and boredom .. I live off 2 hours sleep maximum and work 14 hour days and train 4 days a week if i didn't do this I'd be nothing and I'd have time to think about everything im not doing and spiral downwards..

Bloody hell mate, I'd of suspected you'd spent all your time taking pictures of your cock. That is some album of dick shots. How'd you find time for All them lot in your busy schedule! That's an art that is mate

Hahaha cracked me up!!!

I'm glad I could make you smile

You did mate no matter what your initial intention of the comment was.. it made me laugh regardless it was humorous

The intention was to be none other than humours, its all love always. "

Big respect bro

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ipsforlipsMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"So much judgement on here "

Far from "judgement", what I read in this thread is a lot of care and concern being offered by posters worried about someone's well being.

Care for others (imho) is a mark of community and humanity. Reading so much in realatively few posts is humbling, well done to all those giants of spirit who offered a hand.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I wish I had some of your energy and get up and go.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish I had some of your energy and get up and go.

"

I can ask the people at the home to wake you up earlier if you want?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"I wish I had some of your energy and get up and go.

I can ask the people at the home to wake you up earlier if you want? "

Only if you want them to get a punch on the nose

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish I had some of your energy and get up and go.

I can ask the people at the home to wake you up earlier if you want?

Only if you want them to get a punch on the nose

"

I kinda would like to see it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Apologies if I came across as judgey. It does sound like an awful existence to me which is why I said I hope it gets better.

Don't get me wrong, I work long hours and fucking love being productive and helpful during that time. But I need that me time to actually enjoy myself around it. Existing purely to grind and not for those moments of your own sounds genuinely awful. I work hard so I can play hard. Working hard just to work hard I don't quite understand, hence asking what the goal was.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I like a peaceful and simple life with no complexitives. If I can do my food shop, washing and watch a movie at weekend...I am fine with that.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a peaceful and simple life with no complexitives. If I can do my food shop, washing and watch a movie at weekend...I am fine with that."

I am with you.. Not literally but your way of thinking how life is for you is partly like how I like mine.. Simple life, quiet and I don't want to fight. 0-53 years of fighting for my life to ne uncomplicated.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *cnugatugMan
over a year ago

Chatham

I look at others and think "hmmmm I wonder if there on fab" then I quickly snap out of it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look at others and think "hmmmm I wonder if there on fab" then I quickly snap out of it "

I found out my nabiour that matched me on tinder was on fab, she's also a stripper and does webcams. What a lady

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look at others and think "hmmmm I wonder if there on fab" then I quickly snap out of it

I found out my nabiour that matched me on tinder was on fab, she's also a stripper and does webcams. What a lady "

She did cry after we had sex though that I found to be quite odd, unsettling, and scary.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You said it yourself, we are all different.

If I didn't have a chance to rest looking forward to my Netflix evenings and my bed multiple times a day I would probably be dead. It's what keeps me sane, rebalances and makes a huge difference to my mental wellbeing.

If your routine works for you then great, but to other people it would not appeal at all.

Keep doing what you're doing and don't worry about others.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look at others and think "hmmmm I wonder if there on fab" then I quickly snap out of it

I found out my nabiour that matched me on tinder was on fab, she's also a stripper and does webcams. What a lady

She did cry after we had sex though that I found to be quite odd, unsettling, and scary."

Why did she cry

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

2 hours sleep doesn’t sound good for you OP but if you can cope on that then I take my hat off to you!

My weekends are my chill out time with my family, I catch up with the washing and then chill out with my kids, my dogs and my mum.

I tend not to make plans as I just like taking it slow.

Probably boring to anyone else but it does alright for me.

So long as you’re happy and healthy and it works for you then that’s the main thing.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ipsforlipsMan
over a year ago

Midlands


"I can understand where you're coming from.

I need to be busy and constantly on the go because if I have too much down time I overthink and dwell on things.

I also function on small amounts of sleep.

I do however look forward to things, though sometimes they don't live up to the hype and I wonder what's wrong with me!

The burnout is real though.

Keep the momentum going.. you'll find depressed people are lazy people they make time to be depressed and moan can't happen if your constantly busy and working "

Sadly a misconception about depressed people. The last peron I heard express views similar to the Opening Post was shortly before his world fell apart; he had been running like that for severial years. The OP worried me, as I think it worried severial others. A lot of depressed people I know work very hard, they work because of depression, because it stops them thinking about (facing) the other issues in their life; because of a hope that "hard work will make it better", often it's taking them closer the te edge of a cliff thats getting taller.

If you are happy, all is fine. If you have spotted you are different to others this too maybe fine, but could it be a danger sign - maybe a sign it's time to take stock? Many others here were concerned by the original post, maybe there is a reason for that...

However you built your life style I wish you happiness and balance. Peace out (here endth the hippy shit )

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Good for you OP, if that's what makes you happy.

Me, I've done the rat race thing but got tired of being a rat. It's taken me a long time but I've found a contentment and a peace in a joyously slower life, surrounded by those I love and who love me in return.

We all find happiness and fulfillment in different ways.

In answer to your original question I rarely look at other people's pace of life in judgement unless it's someone I care for and it becomes obvious that they're desperately unhappy and seeking constant distraction.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look at others and think "hmmmm I wonder if there on fab" then I quickly snap out of it

I found out my nabiour that matched me on tinder was on fab, she's also a stripper and does webcams. What a lady

She did cry after we had sex though that I found to be quite odd, unsettling, and scary.

Why did she cry "

I have no idea, she said it was not me and was fine with me the next day. I thought maybe cum clarity, boyfriend playing on the mind or something, I'm unaware she has a boyfriend by the way, I was completely bewilderd

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can understand where you're coming from.

I need to be busy and constantly on the go because if I have too much down time I overthink and dwell on things.

I also function on small amounts of sleep.

I do however look forward to things, though sometimes they don't live up to the hype and I wonder what's wrong with me!

The burnout is real though.

Keep the momentum going.. you'll find depressed people are lazy people they make time to be depressed and moan can't happen if your constantly busy and working

Sadly a misconception about depressed people. The last peron I heard express views similar to the Opening Post was shortly before his world fell apart; he had been running like that for severial years. The OP worried me, as I think it worried severial others.

**A lot of depressed people I know work very hard, they work because of depression, because it stops them thinking about (facing) the other issues in their life; because of a hope that "hard work will make it better", often it's taking them closer the te edge of a cliff thats getting taller.**

If you are happy, all is fine. If you have spotted you are different to others this too maybe fine, but could it be a danger sign - maybe a sign it's time to take stock? Many others here were concerned by the original post, maybe there is a reason for that...

However you built your life style I wish you happiness and balance. Peace out (here endth the hippy shit )"

**

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wouldn't have hated us yesterday, got up about 10, Doughnut went on the Xbox for a few hours while I lounged in bed and did some chores and then we binged in front of Netflix from about 3 to 11pm.

Everyone lives their own lives but as a daughter of a man that worked himself hard (between 4 to 6 hours sleep a day) worked extremely long hours, watched what he ate and now cares for my mum 24/7, he has a host of health issues, absolutely live your life the best way you can but eventually, it will catch up with you, even if you take an afternoon now and again just reading a book or something.

Danish x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You wouldn't have hated us yesterday, got up about 10, Doughnut went on the Xbox for a few hours while I lounged in bed and did some chores and then we binged in front of Netflix from about 3 to 11pm.

Everyone lives their own lives but as a daughter of a man that worked himself hard (between 4 to 6 hours sleep a day) worked extremely long hours, watched what he ate and now cares for my mum 24/7, he has a host of health issues, absolutely live your life the best way you can but eventually, it will catch up with you, even if you take an afternoon now and again just reading a book or something.

Danish x"

Sounds like the perfect Sunday

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I do wish I could understand the simple pleasures of life but I've accepted the fact we all function differently.. it baffles me how people can look forward to the weekend to watch a movie or just to meet up and have a drink.. these things are so mundane to me,.I honestly wish I could understand it.. I need challenges i need stress I need something to sim towards and beat otherwise i just take on that attitude of depression and boredom .. I live off 2 hours sleep maximum and work 14 hour days and train 4 days a week if i didn't do this I'd be nothing and I'd have time to think about everything im not doing and spiral downwards.. "

It sounds to me like you have no peace of mind. I think you need to face the debates going on in your mind and come to an agreement.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ldgeezermeMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Honestly, I think you need the services of the medical community

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *dventurous biMan
over a year ago

tesside

Train less, live more

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wouldn't be 'nothing' if you did that... You'd become 'more'...

I wish you all best. But don't say you can't do it because if you do then you can't lol.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"The OP is scared. I think most of us can relate to that on some level

What is it you think Im scared of my friend

"....otherwise i just take on that attitude of depression and boredom.."

So a poor choice of words and s miscalculation of judgement on your behalf.. I don't fear anything whatsoever.. I live my life in a way that's designed to keep me busy and occupied and successful in what I do .. "

So a humblebrag then

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"…it baffles me how people can look forward to the weekend to watch a movie or just to meet up and have a drink.. these things are so mundane to me,.I honestly wish I could understand it.. I need challenges i need stress I need something to sim towards and beat otherwise i just take on that attitude of depression and boredom .. I …."

You NEED stress ??

Hell no. I need a simple life. I had stress, I do t need any of that. I want that ‘mundane’ stuff to do. I call it doing stuff.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *ames-77 OP   Man
over a year ago

milton keynes


"…it baffles me how people can look forward to the weekend to watch a movie or just to meet up and have a drink.. these things are so mundane to me,.I honestly wish I could understand it.. I need challenges i need stress I need something to sim towards and beat otherwise i just take on that attitude of depression and boredom .. I ….

You NEED stress ??

Hell no. I need a simple life. I had stress, I do t need any of that. I want that ‘mundane’ stuff to do. I call it doing stuff. "

It's cool brother don't expect everyone to understand each others ways of thinking and working in this life we're all built differently and think differently.. I don't mean stress from a wife or arguing with muppets on here I mean after a days work I have to go training or on days off I train I have to train 4-5 days a week the stress of kick-boxing keeps me occupied otherwise I'll do something pointless like start drinking or I don't know .. don't worry about it anyway forget the post

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top